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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was wondering (not an offer) if anyone would go to meet for the purpose of masturbation (mutual), foreplay, kissing etc but no sex or oral?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Some soft swing people would although no oral will reduce the number who will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this not just a gateway to actual sex…

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes but I’m not kissing you cause that’s ghay

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

I've had meets that I thought were gonna be sex but turned into mutual masturbation. Wasn't my ideal and I'd much prefer sex but it wasn't bad. Just more likely to do it in a club.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London


"I was wondering (not an offer) if anyone would go to meet for the purpose of masturbation (mutual), foreplay, kissing etc but no sex or oral? "

Nope! Oral or no meet

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"I was wondering (not an offer) if anyone would go to meet for the purpose of masturbation (mutual), foreplay, kissing etc but no sex or oral? "

Maybe when Aunty Flo comes to stay.

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By *empted23Couple
over a year ago

countryside

No

It’s why we don’t understand soft swap

Why would we go anywhere to have sex with each other

We can do that at home and then we don’t need a dog sitter

And to your direct point , for us to travel . No

And for us to accommodate

No , wank in your own house

Maybe it’s for some people but the whole thing makes little sense to us

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I have had meets with only foreplay and kissing and really enjoyed them with no complaints from the guy either

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

to be sexual with someone can take many firms and penetration doesn't need to be one of them .

It's understandable that lots of people will want penetrative sex but providing everyone is clear on expectations I don't see a problem with soft swing...but then I wouldn't because that's how we play.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I have done. I'm not calling them meets but yes, I've had dates/dalliances with people where I've just kissed and dryhumped them for hours and really enjoyed it. Loved it actually.

I guess it depends on my mood and theirs. It can be really hot.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Sounds like a vanilla site date.

I don't have sex on the first date.

K...

I don't usually have sex on the first date.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could go for that, a bit of a snog and a fiddle with each other would be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a vanilla site date.

I don't have sex on the first date.

K...

I don't usually have sex on the first date.

K"

…me - But fancy a wank?

Them - …. ….

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No my soft play includes oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I immediately thought no... but then started thinking about rubbing up against a tall, hairy bearded man whist I masturbated and it turned to a yes! (very dependent on the man!)

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"I immediately thought no... but then started thinking about rubbing up against a tall, hairy bearded man whist I masturbated and it turned to a yes! (very dependent on the man!)"

Now you put it that way

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Love the idea and have in the past just met to play but nothing too heavy. I don’t meet that many Tgirls for play but when i do it’s often just a dress up session with some heavy petting.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Yep. Have done in the past and would do again.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'd just meet for kissing. I really love kissing.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Sounds like a vanilla site date.

I don't have sex on the first date.

K...

I don't usually have sex on the first date.

K"
whats vanilla other than an ice cream flavour sex, is sex if you're good at it you're good at it if not, disappointing meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd just meet for kissing. I really love kissing.

"

Well hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing dates are a thing and I love them

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I adore kissing

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I probably could for a kiss and a cuddle, but no touching/masturbation. Once you get me started, it's all or nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i would. Kissing and mutual masterbation is it’s a fun way to keep the excitement going for future meets where you could then take things further.

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