FabSwingers.com forum: What would you tell your 18 yr old self.

By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’ve recently looked at a pic of myself as an 18 year old.

A gawky, goofy, spotty 18 yr old but you know what I look at that person who was bullied at school and think I should have had more confidence.

But in reality I wouldn’t tell myself to be more confident, but I would tell myself,

“You know what, you’re going to be pretty fine just the way you are.”

Oh, and actually I let myself know that actually my cock is really quite a fairly average one.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I would say have a few more holidays, fun night's outs etc before having children.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nothing, I wouldn't listen

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

Don't get married.

Trust yourself.

Go to uni.

Travel.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"you're bi, you're non binary, you will look Hella cute in a dress and you like sucking cock and bum sex. Go and enjoy yourself and let go of your internalised homophobia. You will be a more complete version of yourself when you do. Try to break less bones too, it's not ideal later on...."

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Run.

Get out. Be free.

Don't underestimate fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t fall in love with Army women (5 years of being but by bit taken apart and broken down).

Take more risks and stop playing it safe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd give myself a hug and tell myself it will all be ok. Do what makes you happy, not what others say. Work harder. You're worth it

Mrs C xx

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

You’re worthy of, and able to, achieve the things you feel are out of reach. You’ll meet people you can be yourself with.

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Stay the course young man. It'll be a difficult time but at the end you'll meet someone truly special and settle down

In fact, I'd leave well alone. I wouldn't wanna alter time

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I would tell myself to change my job, travel more, stop drinking as much and just tell her you like her

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Don’t be shy and reserved……but don’t change too much as your great as you are…

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

If any female comes on to you get in there don't be scared.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Put more money into Google and jungle.com

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

You are likeable and worthy of being loved you just have to let people in

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Life gets more interesting.

Keep fit, have fun.

Travel a lot.

Join Fab sooner.

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By *ousewifeonheatCouple
over a year ago

watford

Leave credit cards alone pay cash

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

Don’t go to Central America just cos it looks romantic, stick in, do the law degree and you will be able to go to Central America later !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop the nights out, the midweek pub visits and travel more. We live in a big wide world and i missed so much spending time in pubs and kitchens !

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

Take your Private Pension more seriously.

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

at 18 i would tell myself to mave more cock and pussy as if i didn't enough anyway

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Pictures of 18 year old me are much the same as pictures of 36 year old me, just with a couple of crowd feet creeping in.

I'd tell myself that trying to fit into societal norms is never going to work out well for me, and to just embrace who I am rather than who other people want me to be

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You’re a bellend. But don’t worry about it.

Oh and by the way don’t move to London.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go and live abroad

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Eat more.

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

That you are worthy and not to settle for the first guy that comes along. You have your pick of men choose wisely

Be more confident.

Don’t be afraid of what others think about you. Their opinion is irrelevant.

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Jobs aren't for life.

Partners aren't for life.

If you're not being treated correctly, walk away, no matter what others may think or expect of you.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Go have those adventures but trust your gut. And the people who care about you will have your back, no matter what.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't wank after cutting chilli

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

Have more fun and enjoy your youth while you have it. Don't be in such a rush to grow up.

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

"Don't wank after cutting chilli "

Sounds like a man of experience

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

"Don't get married.

Trust yourself.

Go to uni.

Travel. "

Exactly this to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm?

Look dumnbass. You know nothing. You might think you know what you want, but you dont. Dont listen to your mother, no one wants you to be yourself. That is just crazy talk. Look wat happens when you do that, your stood in the corner with no one to talk to. Yes they have tits and a vagina and those things are wonderful, but can it make a sammich? Yes i know you can make a sammich, but you can wank too! Make sure it can make a good sammich and you will be happy. Oh, and make sure you dont call it, "it" out loud or you will be back in that corner by yourself again. With no sammich. Now get out there and smash it big man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stand up for yourself more, don't let the bullies stop you doing what you enjoy. Exam and study pressure is not worth thinking of ending it. Explore more and find out what you enjoy and want and not just go by what others tell you what you want or should go.

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Be more confident

Having small boobs doesn't mean you'll never have sex

Save more and invest in your pension

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Take that prestige sales job

Buy your grandma’s house

Pursue an autism diagnosis

Look after yourself because no one else will

Buy more property during economic crashes

Always stretch properly before running

Don’t turn down Rachel Riley when she begs you

Always wash your brushes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

buy shares in a new startup called Apple.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Don't pluck your eyebrows!!!!!

Jo.Xx

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

That no matter how fat you think you look… it’ll be the skinniest you’ll ever be!

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

When I was 15 I wrote a letter to my 30 year old self. I think I might write a letter to my 60 year old self because it was so insightful (mostly).

I would tell 18 year old me that things get so much better. You already know your self better than you think you do. There is nothing wrong with you. You will be ok. In fact you will be so much better than you can even imagine right now.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Oh - and join Fab early but calm down!

Invest in Amazon.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

Oh and start therapy earlier.

"When I was 15 I wrote a letter to my 30 year old self. I think I might write a letter to my 60 year old self because it was so insightful (mostly).

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By *aleakalaMan
over a year ago

Perth Australia

I'd tell myself to buy some latex and travel to fetish events solo.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Buy a house asap...and several grands worth of Apple shares

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Give facial hair another couple years bud, you look like a dick

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Nothing I wouldn't have listened plus I wouldn't be who I am now. And I kinda like me the way I am

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Oi dickhead (only way to get 18 year old me's attention)

In 4 years time, you'll be shacked up with a woman in her apartment in Los Christianos. Everything will be sweet, she owns a bar on the seafront, you will be living the dream.

One day you are going to wake up have a pang and miss your ex. decide to give her a call. Don't fucking do it, there's a reason that coin slipped through your fingers twice. Pay attention to fate you Muppet.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It will NEVER fall off so enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't pluck your eyebrows!!!!!

Jo.Xx "

I was thinking about writing around having confidence, being enough etc but this should be top of the list along with "do you know how much microblading will cost?"

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

"I’ve recently looked at a pic of myself as an 18 year old.

A gawky, goofy, spotty 18 yr old but you know what I look at that person who was bullied at school and think I should have had more confidence.

But in reality I wouldn’t tell myself to be more confident, but I would tell myself,

“You know what, you’re going to be pretty fine just the way you are.”

Oh, and actually I let myself know that actually my cock is really quite a fairly average one.

Start meeting other men now!!

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

Buy bitcoin

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"you haven't done everything sexually yet*

There is so much more fun you're going to have"

* I honestly thought that I'd done it all

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *akingMemoriesMan
over a year ago

Toronto

Nothing. I’m too afraid of the butterfly effect, and I like my current life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing. I’m too afraid of the butterfly effect, and I like my current life. "

Sound advice.

I regret trying to play on with a bad football injury which, led inderectly to a change of career. Then I married a terrible person but my kids are just wonderful.

Those butterfly wings ripple in many ways, good and bad

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Don’t worry about women, and try not to get fat.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Don't use Heroin in a year, your going to lose 20 years in addiction, itll turn you into someone your really not. And your family are going to suffer more than you are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It gets worse before it gets better. Stay the course

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

You will survive, stick to your principles and always rely on yourself, remember to smile and keep the oxygen stealing cunts at arms length

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Don't piss your money up the wall, then you can buy a house!

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Not sure I would have listened but I would say to my 18 year old self.Stop gambling go out and meet people socialise more.Seems like 37 years later I still haven’t learnt a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next year DO NOT marry that older man!

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Wear sunscreen. Top tip Baz

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Get on benefits and the council housing ladder!

Fuck going to work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t go with her

Dump her ffs

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

First just accept and respect yourself for what you are. Second, you can get pissed and make an arse of yourself at any age, but you have the opportunity to be whatever you want to be, you might fail, but if you don't try you definitely will fail. Third, you might live to a ripe old age, so might be an idea to look after your body, and mind.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Keep on with cycling, as you gave up when you were getting good.

Enjoy the motorbikes, just don't crash them as much.

Stop worrying and hiding your crossdressing, you have the best body for it in your teens and twenties. Your legs will look anazing in heels, stockings and a mini skirt.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Kill yourself before you hit 40..

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

"Get on benefits and the council housing ladder!

Fuck going to work!"

Hahaha theres definitely some wisdom in advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to therapy, don't let it linger.

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

Tell R you love her

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Dont marry him....oh and you will find a man who makes you climax

Sweet

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Tell your dad to get his heart checked out.

There's a day in the future where you are going to go for a run DON'T it'll end very badly for you.

Don't eat that chicken on the holiday in Morocco.

Enjoy your hair while you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the army, you'll have some good times, some not so good times then meet the woman of your dreams

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