FabSwingers.com forum: Breaking fab

By *ehindHerEyes OP Couple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

…Stereotypes

Fab stereotypes - what stereotype do you break?

Personally,

I don’t perv photos. Visually I’m not turned on unless I know the photo was taken specially for me and no one will see it

I don’t send cock photos

I don’t have kinks or fantasies

I don’t watch porn

Maybe not what you would expect from a guy on fab

In a side note Tinder does all of these things

What stereotype(s) do you break?

Marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not seen Melis foof

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I don't send cock photos.

I have no cock photos on my profile.

When asked for a cock photo I've refused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t copy and paste.

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By *ickylouCouple
over a year ago

We do not have cock picks.

We don’t Care what Sydney university thinks.

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
over a year ago

kendal

I dont send nudes, ever.

E.V.E.R

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Thal

I don’t feel the need for endless pictures and feel engaging in conversation is more attractive than a faceless body.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

I don’t perv pics, pretty much same caveats as op on this point

I don’t sends cock pics .. I mean yuck, who wants to see that?

I suppose it goes without saying, I have kinks… I mean I am nowhere near what you would call “straight”

I do watch porn

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't want to be told by random people who don't know me how sexy and gorgeous I am.Because it's fake flattery.

I don't get a load of messages daily ( thank you filters ).

I don't and haven't gotten a load of abuse since I joined here.And when I do get it I just roll my eyes and move on with my life.

I don't think women and couples on here are any better than men on here or should automatically deserve respect. That is a two way thing and if you don't give it you shouldn't expect it.

I don't think about sex every day or need to portray a sex kitten image on here.

I don't care about fab popularity, I do my own thing and it has worked for me well so far.

And lastly I have never had a no show or been ghosted after a meet.

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By *oJo pornstarMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I read profiles in full before i look at pics.

I don't send copy and paste messages.

I very rarely make 1st contact.

Sexting/cybersex with strangers does nothing for me.

The rest of the single male stereotype, yer probably me

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I don't make first contact anymore. I'll let the couple or woman wink/message me and I'll respond accordingly. Life's too short to put effort into a message that won't get replied to.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don’t copy and paste.

Neither do I.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't have hundreds of unread mail I'm going to mass delete.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I probably fit one stereotype or another.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I like feelings and stuff. Not just feeling someone up. Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t usually make first contact.

I’m not into guys who define themselves as straight (again, not messaging them)

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By *ehindHerEyes OP Couple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

You left off masturbation.... I'm the raging wanker not you

Tinder

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm straight,when many assume all women are at least a bit bi.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm not inundated with messages.

I don't take/send nudes.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Sony

JBL

Bowers & Wilkins

Alpine Electronics

Pioneer

Kenwood

JVC

JL Audio

Polk Audio

Focal-JMLab

Clarion

NAD Electronics

Dynaudio

Infinity

Blaupunkt

McIntosh Laboratory

Altec Lansing

Boston Acoustics

Naim Audio

BOSS Audio Systems

Are all Stereo types that I’m aware of.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"I don't want to be told by random people who don't know me how sexy and gorgeous I am.Because it's fake flattery.

I don't get a load of messages daily ( thank you filters ).

I don't and haven't gotten a load of abuse since I joined here.And when I do get it I just roll my eyes and move on with my life.

I don't think women and couples on here are any better than men on here or should automatically deserve respect. That is a two way thing and if you don't give it you shouldn't expect it.

I don't think about sex every day or need to portray a sex kitten image on here.

I don't care about fab popularity, I do my own thing and it has worked for me well so far.

And lastly I have never had a no show or been ghosted after a meet. "

Thread winner

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't search profiles.

I don't send first contact messages and haven't in more than 3 years.

I don't blow smoke up anyone's arse no matter how "popular" they are.

I don't fuck for the sake of it and am very fussy.

I've turned down more offers than I've accepted.

I've passed on "hot" women in kiss fuck pass threads.

I much prefer to be respected for having my own opinions than being popular.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I've not seen Melis foof

Yeah, fair.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I don't send cock photos.

I have no cock photos on my profile.

When asked for a cock photo I've refused.

Never sent cock pics.

Had a couple on profile but only on friends only gallery

Have provided on request to people that were clearly interested in meeting.

I think I bucked the notion that a new profile couldn't be successful from the outset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that fab is not a publicly traded entity…

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

"We do not have cock picks.

We don’t Care what Sydney university thinks. "

Your profile pic is a cock pic

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"…Stereotypes

Fab stereotypes - what stereotype do you break?

Personally,

I don’t perv photos. Visually I’m not turned on unless I know the photo was taken specially for me and no one will see it

I don’t send cock photos

I don’t have kinks or fantasies

I don’t watch porn

Maybe not what you would expect from a guy on fab

In a side note Tinder does all of these things

What stereotype(s) do you break?

Marc"
you are a couple are you not?

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

I'm a single man who doesn't message first, especially with a generic "hey", "hows you" or derivatives thereof and doesn't send unsolicited dick pics.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"I don't send cock photos.

I have no cock photos on my profile.

When asked for a cock photo I've refused.

Same.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"I read profiles in full before i look at pics.

I don't send copy and paste messages.

I very rarely make 1st contact.

Sexting/cybersex with strangers does nothing for me.

The rest of the single male stereotype, yer probably me

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Well my God you are the only one that does read em in full most don't at all.Well done x

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"I don't send cock photos.

I have no cock photos on my profile.

When asked for a cock photo I've refused.

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I don't need your cock it your shoes they orgasm me out

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"I like feelings and stuff. Not just feeling someone up. Does that count?"

Your the one for me x

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"I don't search profiles.

I don't send first contact messages and haven't in more than 3 years.

I don't blow smoke up anyone's arse no matter how "popular" they are.

I don't fuck for the sake of it and am very fussy.

I've turned down more offers than I've accepted.

I've passed on "hot" women in kiss fuck pass threads.

I much prefer to be respected for having my own opinions than being popular. "

Good for you

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Loads!

I pretty much only use Fab as my social media, browsing the forums and talking bollocks, sometimes via DM with people I like.

I never check the new/hot pics.

I rarely send an opening message unless it’s connected to forum posts.

I never send dick pics.

If I do open a dialogue, it’s just that. Nice comments and considered questions based on their profile.

I rarely fab pictures.

I have removed the ability to fab my pictures because I couldn’t give a shit whether I’m popular or not.

In the forum, I don’t engage in simping/fawning/selective responses. Nor will I engage in an argument.

I rarely watch porn and rarely have a wank.

I don’t sext.

I don’t drink.

I think that’s it, but I will invariably spot something on another post and think “Oh, fuck IT!!!!”

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"I don’t copy and paste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t copy and paste.

Neither do I."

Hahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to all first messages

I fuck everyone who Fabs my pics

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"I reply to all first messages

I fuck everyone who Fabs my pics"
I can't fab your pics

no fuck then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I might be a typical fabber to be honest

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Stereotypes only exist because people perpetuate them. The easiest way to avoid them is to just do you and not worry about others.

If you don't worry about how anyone views you, consider each and every profile as a unique individual creation, whether single or couple and just do your own thing rather than try to mimic others or fit in to what you feel may be a popular mould, in the hope it increases your chances of meeting........then you're a true individual.

It's the best way to be. Not giving a fuck reduces stress levels considerably.

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I don't take/send nude photos

Phone sex/cybersex does absolutely nothing for me

It's about how I feel not what I see

I've never had a no show

I'd much prefer to date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t consider myself a swinger

Don’t have explicit pics

On the fence about whether squirt is pee.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I rarely meet. Shrugs.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I don’t show my nob.

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

I break the stereotype by not going along with self-aggrandising and mutual admiration threads

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"I don’t show my nob."

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I don’t believe in stereotypes at all because I’m entirely formed by ChatGPT

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I break the stereotype by not going along with self-aggrandising and mutual admiration threads "

I really like you

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I don’t believe in stereotypes at all because I’m entirely formed by ChatGPT

There’s an easy joke about artificial intelligence in there…!!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

There are a load of reasons I don't conform to stereotype, and a load of reasons I do.

I'm not special, I'm not exceptional, I'm just a normal person using fab as I want to. Same as everyone else.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I don’t believe in stereotypes at all because I’m entirely formed by ChatGPT

There’s an easy joke about artificial intelligence in there…!!

xx"

Intelligent. Yes. Artificial? Also yes

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"I break the stereotype by not going along with self-aggrandising and mutual admiration threads

I really like you "

I like him more.

I also like you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get meets.

Oof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I break the stereotype by not going along with self-aggrandising and mutual admiration threads

I really like you

I like him more.

I also like you too.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I do not wear socks while having sex,I write all my own messages and try to be stupidly funny

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I break the stereotype by not going along with self-aggrandising and mutual admiration threads

I really like you

I like him more.

I also like you too.

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

"I break the stereotype by not going along with self-aggrandising and mutual admiration threads

I really like you

I like him more.

I also like you too.

And I like you all.

(How typical)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't flirt

I don't message people unless they introduce themselves first

I don't do cam room stuff

I rarely Fab anything

I never wink

I don't moan about how others users utilise the site

I am not very social at all

In fact, I'm a bit of a miserable old fart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't comform full stop. And really could not give a flying shite

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