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Are swingers better lovers?

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By *rispyDuck OP   Man
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Do you think being a swinger has made you a better lover? Though your experience in this lifestyle have u learnt anything u think have made you a better lover? Compared to vanilla encounters would u say the sex is better or the same with fab meets you’ve had I mean?

I used to think I was good till my 1st ever meet. Damn I remember that milf rocked my world haha she made me the stallion I am today!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No it depends on the person and chemistry between you both. I've had amazing sex from people I met on here and in real life and I've also had the polar opposite in both as well.So no I don't think being on here and being classed as a swinger will mean the sex will be amazing.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I don’t think I’m any different today than I was, it’s just people from fab are more open minded so that means I can express myself more

Marc

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

It depends on the person you are having sex with at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I don’t think this lifestyle has made me a ‘better’ lover, but I have certainly experienced many more fantastic scenarios than I possibly would have in vanillaland

Something I have learned through the meets I have had through here, and has surprised me, is how many men don’t lick pussy, and don’t lick until the woman cums. Also, how selfish lovers most men are. Pillowtalk can be very enlightening, and possibly this has made me a better lover, because I listen……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as an ex partner reminded me recently, sex is something you do with other people. So I’m good with some people, I’m amazing with others and I’m probably underwhelming with some too. But everyone’s body is different and responds differently to different things I do. Gotta learn someone’s body but sex is always better with people that communicate well from the outset.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No is the short answer

Why would it? Is my question

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
over a year ago

villiage

Some here think they are

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

In my experience on here, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes a better experience is a better initial connection.

I don’t particularly think that ‘experience’ as you describe it has any bearing on the experience one can have with another whom they share a deep mental, emotional and sexual connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In some ways, yes.

In the physical sense, no. But in terms of memories and conversations and all that other stuff it's definitely added something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since joining Fab I suck like a Dyson and fuck like a Swinger.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Since joining Fab I suck like a Dyson and fuck like a Swinger. "

Oh god! Is that what we're supposed to do? I've been having sex like a Dyson and sucking at swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since joining Fab I suck like a Dyson and fuck like a Swinger.

Oh god! Is that what we're supposed to do? I've been having sex like a Dyson and sucking at swinging "

You should cut up your Swinging membership card immediately!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I think it can have the opposite effect if I'm honest. I've seen more than one man that obviously has a set list of moves that they've found successful on previous meets, so that's what they stick to. Only that, no deviating from that step by step guide, no reading my body and reactions...so many women have enjoyed it in the past, why wouldn't I enjoy it? It's like multiple casual sexual encounters turned has them into an autonomous sex robot.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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By *rispyDuck OP   Man
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Some good perspectives raised cheers guys

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I think it can have the opposite effect if I'm honest. I've seen more than one man that obviously has a set list of moves that they've found successful on previous meets, so that's what they stick to. Only that, no deviating from that step by step guide, no reading my body and reactions...so many women have enjoyed it in the past, why wouldn't I enjoy it? It's like multiple casual sexual encounters turned has them into an autonomous sex robot. "

Yes! This is very true.

I don't think being a swinger makes you better at fucking. That chemistry, connection and desire to listen to another's body and respond accordingly to that doesn't come about because you've fucked a few people.

I do think you can learn about yourself more through more sex but it doesn't mean swinging = a better fuck.

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By *rispyDuck OP   Man
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"I think it can have the opposite effect if I'm honest. I've seen more than one man that obviously has a set list of moves that they've found successful on previous meets, so that's what they stick to. Only that, no deviating from that step by step guide, no reading my body and reactions...so many women have enjoyed it in the past, why wouldn't I enjoy it? It's like multiple casual sexual encounters turned has them into an autonomous sex robot. "

That’s a good point you mentioned there about reading someone’s body reactions. Something I picked up quick since I started this lifestyle. Looking back maybe yeah I was a selfish lover, now I’m very giving . If my partner climax’s then I’m satisfied with or without me climaxing too

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope, for me it's due to the chemistry imagination and creativity and if it's enjoyed by both it's a win win

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By *rispyDuck OP   Man
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"I think it can have the opposite effect if I'm honest. I've seen more than one man that obviously has a set list of moves that they've found successful on previous meets, so that's what they stick to. Only that, no deviating from that step by step guide, no reading my body and reactions...so many women have enjoyed it in the past, why wouldn't I enjoy it? It's like multiple casual sexual encounters turned has them into an autonomous sex robot.

Yes! This is very true.

I don't think being a swinger makes you better at fucking. That chemistry, connection and desire to listen to another's body and respond accordingly to that doesn't come about because you've fucked a few people.

I do think you can learn about yourself more through more sex but it doesn't mean swinging = a better fuck."

Very well put

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Do you think being a swinger has made you a better lover? Though your experience in this lifestyle have u learnt anything u think have made you a better lover? Compared to vanilla encounters would u say the sex is better or the same with fab meets you’ve had I mean?

I used to think I was good till my 1st ever meet. Damn I remember that milf rocked my world haha she made me the stallion I am today! "
sex is sex you're either good at it or not no flavours are involved

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm not a swinger so that has nothing to do with anything.

I became a better lover by discovering I am very instinctive.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London


"I don’t think this lifestyle has made me a ‘better’ lover, but I have certainly experienced many more fantastic scenarios than I possibly would have in vanillaland

Something I have learned through the meets I have had through here, and has surprised me, is how many men don’t lick pussy, and don’t lick until the woman cums. Also, how selfish lovers most men are. Pillowtalk can be very enlightening, and possibly this has made me a better lover, because I listen…… "

Good advice

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I think being part of this community has opened up my mind to alternative ways of having sex, and being with people who are more honest and open about what they want has influenced me as a lover in that I now have a greater experience base to call upon. So in that sense, yes.

However has it made me any better at fucking? Juries out on that one....

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

mixed results here, some great meets, some not so great meets, difficult to generalize.

Depends on the people involved, the moods we are in, the energy levels we have at the time, the communication flowing (or not) if we are hurried or have plenty of time, and so on...

I have, of course, learnt a thing or three over the years, and collected a few toys to spice things up, so there is that.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Since joining Fab I suck like a Dyson and fuck like a Swinger.

Oh god! Is that what we're supposed to do? I've been having sex like a Dyson and sucking at swinging "

this made me snort!

Mrs TMN x

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By *onythebigbullMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I would love the chance to be rated

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"I would love the chance to be rated "

Welcome to the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since joining Fab I suck like a Dyson and fuck like a Swinger.

Oh god! Is that what we're supposed to do? I've been having sex like a Dyson and sucking at swinging

this made me squirt!

Mrs TMN x"

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

You can get shit sex even on here, everything else is compatible till its very not compatible. Just because they are on fab doesn't mean they have skills, however sometimes you can find your diamond, that blows your mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am more open about what I enjoy when I meet a like minded person I click with. But even clicking on here is rare.

Definitely doesn't make everyone better

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

No im not a swinger but im the universes greatest fuck so that makes no sense

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

I don't think being a swinger causes you to be better at sex. But I guess swingers are typically the sort of people who are more open to experiment. That sort of person is probably more fun in bed. So correlation not causation.

Needs extensive further hands-on practical research though...

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No necessarily. Three of my top shaggers were not swingers.

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By *oubleDistractionCouple
over a year ago

S glos

I would think so, yes. Go try a muggle and see the difference. Go on - it won't take long!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My unscientific observation purely from forum contributions is that swingers in general are fairly unimaginative and formulaic in their approach to sex.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"My unscientific observation purely from forum contributions is that swingers in general are fairly unimaginative and formulaic in their approach to sex. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Naturally there are many exceptions to that

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"No"

Hey Bussy! Good to see you

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

Hey Bussy! Good to see you "

You too Stelly

Hope you're keeping well

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