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"I was watching this thinking...I've never seen any of the 'residents' in a club haha" The couple with the blonde lass on episode 1, the other couple it showed a picture of them with after used to post a lot of content on Reddit - think they preferred private parties. | |||
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"Watching it now, annoying there’s the same 2 girls as before, but good that someone actually got rejected, gives a much better real life impression!" Lol I thought exactly the same, did feel bad for the couple who got rejected twice... Ouch! | |||
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"Watching it now, annoying there’s the same 2 girls as before, but good that someone actually got rejected, gives a much better real life impression! Lol I thought exactly the same, did feel bad for the couple who got rejected twice... Ouch! " I know! But it happens in the reality of the lifestyle, so at least they actually showed it. I can only imagine the backlash they got after the last series, so maybe they’ve tried to make it a teeny bit more true to life! | |||
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"Rubbish rubbish rubbish…you don’t find real swingers in the forum,get on the chat or cam rooms too find the real swingers x" God no thanks | |||
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"Rubbish rubbish rubbish…you don’t find real swingers in the forum,get on the chat or cam rooms too find the real swingers x" fascinating | |||
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"Rubbish rubbish rubbish…you don’t find real swingers in the forum,get on the chat or cam rooms too find the real swingers x fascinating" Totally | |||
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"Rubbish not are thing" Ok thanks for your input | |||
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"Are Kirsty and Phil involved, it's all about location sometimes " Why location isn’t an issue | |||
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"Rubbish rubbish rubbish…you don’t find real swingers in the forum,get on the chat or cam rooms too find the real swingers x" Cam room people aren't real swingers. Just dreamers. | |||
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"Rubbish rubbish rubbish…you don’t find real swingers in the forum,get on the chat or cam rooms too find the real swingers x" Every time I’ve looked at the cams it’s all been men wanking  | |||
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"Rubbish rubbish rubbish…you don’t find real swingers in the forum,get on the chat or cam rooms too find the real swingers x Every time I’ve looked at the cams it’s all been men wanking "Aye we call them the wanking dead | |||
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"Rubbish rubbish rubbish…you don’t find real swingers in the forum,get on the chat or cam rooms too find the real swingers x" Not everyone’s swinging journey looks the same. What works well for you, might not for someone else. Focus on your own journey and let others do what they feel is best for them instead of waving your finger around telling people they aren’t real swingers  | |||
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"Also you should sort your profile as you don’t travel or accommodate which basically means you don’t meet so therefor how the heck can you be swinger x" Did that profile you've commented on ask for advice... nope, maybe you should learn some of the site rules and etiquette | |||
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"Totally get single men do We have lots of couple friends single ladies , it’s getting your cam on telling the dicks to bog off and enjoying the genuine people who enjoy swinging life x ??" Is this your first time on the forums? | |||
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"No it’s not actually, we use it a lot , without judgement, but when people think because we also use cam and chat that we aren’t a genuine couple it’s a it of a piss take , we have a great follow on cam not because with show naked flesh we chat with genuine people , and we show respect , me as the wife does not take the crap from single wanking males not my thing , I enjoy my life style as many of you do I don’t judge people for the choices they make , so I appreciate the same , " Further up you said forum users aren’t real swingers…..sounds a little judgmental to me. | |||
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"No it’s not actually, we use it a lot , without judgement, but when people think because we also use cam and chat that we aren’t a genuine couple it’s a it of a piss take , we have a great follow on cam not because with show naked flesh we chat with genuine people , and we show respect , me as the wife does not take the crap from single wanking males not my thing , I enjoy my life style as many of you do I don’t judge people for the choices they make , so I appreciate the same , " How can you say you don't judge but then say that forum users arent "proper swingers" there are so many ways to indulge, so how can You be the judge? | |||
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"Rubbish rubbish rubbish…you don’t find real swingers in the forum,get on the chat or cam rooms too find the real swingers x Not everyone’s swinging journey looks the same. What works well for you, might not for someone else. Focus on your own journey and let others do what they feel is best for them instead of waving your finger around telling people they aren’t real swingers "
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"Rubbish rubbish rubbish…you don’t find real swingers in the forum,get on the chat or cam rooms too find the real swingers x Not everyone’s swinging journey looks the same. What works well for you, might not for someone else. Focus on your own journey and let others do what they feel is best for them instead of waving your finger around telling people they aren’t real swingers
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"Rubbish rubbish rubbish…you don’t find real swingers in the forum,get on the chat or cam rooms too find the real swingers x Not everyone’s swinging journey looks the same. What works well for you, might not for someone else. Focus on your own journey and let others do what they feel is best for them instead of waving your finger around telling people they aren’t real swingers
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"Hi How can you say that if you are a cam use we aren’t genuine, at least we can see real people and not just people who like their pics fabbed . We do a lot of work on cam making friends and enjoying social aspect not afraid to show our faces , Firstly we are swingers and have met a lot of people at parties and socials . You can not say we aren’t genuine swingers you know nothing about us , I take it you have a profile ? So I shall check if you have a profile and see if you show your face and your verifications don’t judge cams especially when you don’t do it yourself , " Good grief. I think others have already said it - but in my humble opinion, going on cam or in the chat rooms makes you no more of a swinger than the next person. Do what makes you happy. People are all on Fab or join the crazy world of swinging for a multitude of reasons. I think the TV programme is trying to bring that out by the initial chats they have with each couple. I prefer to meet people at clubs and parties and play with them! Does that make me more of a swinger than you are with your camming?! | |||
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"Hi I agree but just because we choose cam parties and clubs we aren’t genuine, I think this is unfair we are avid swingers , but chan 4 is not using real people , they need to research people rather than set up a false profile for themselves for a typical cheap programme to make out this is how real swingers should be perceived , this is why us all as swingers get degraded but the public because they do not speak to people who truly enjoy this way of life , ??" Gage and Olivia are a couple who are on here, and promote the lifestyle publicly, have a podcast and the list goes on and have done for a long while not a 'fake' Hannah and James again do the same Nate and his partner run event nights at penthouse playrooms and podcast... They're all trying to normalise swinging and to get rid of the seedy stigma that people have about it. At the end of the day, you have your view on it, others have theirs and I have mine, noone is right and there's no gospel rule in how you go about swinging it's an individual thing | |||
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"Hi I agree but just because we choose cam parties and clubs we aren’t genuine, I think this is unfair we are avid swingers , but chan 4 is not using real people , they need to research people rather than set up a false profile for themselves for a typical cheap programme to make out this is how real swingers should be perceived , this is why us all as swingers get degraded but the public because they do not speak to people who truly enjoy this way of life , ??" Now what you’re saying makes a bit more sense. This is true - that said, I was approached ages ago by a TV researcher to be part of a TV programme about swinging. There is NO WAY I’d ever want to run the risk of my nearest and dearest finding out this is something I do. So, who does agree to go on programmes such as this one?! People who want their 5 minutes of fame, no matter what the subject. The only positive is that more and more vanilla people are becoming curious about the lifestyle, creating demand for programmes like this. | |||
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"Totally Just a shame that it show us true swingers in a bad light time for me to speak to c4 about there bullshit lol x ??" Are you on the programme? | |||
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"Totally Just a shame that it show us true swingers in a bad light time for me to speak to c4 about there bullshit lol x ??" Can you define what a "true swinger" is. What I see on the show is people having sex with others as well as their partner, what does a true swinger do that's different? | |||
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"We binged S1 the other night and we are working through S2 now. I knew Gage and Olivia would turn up at some point to hog the limelight. 90% of this show is actually marriages/relationships that aren't working and then clinging onto the left vestiges of hope" We caught an episode of this show the other night - both the couples who were trying swinging seemed to have real issues of trust with each other, and it was obvious the last thing they should be doing is getting into bed with other people. Are their any couples who go on it and it works out for them, as in they have a great experience? | |||
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"We binged S1 the other night and we are working through S2 now. I knew Gage and Olivia would turn up at some point to hog the limelight. 90% of this show is actually marriages/relationships that aren't working and then clinging onto the left vestiges of hope We caught an episode of this show the other night - both the couples who were trying swinging seemed to have real issues of trust with each other, and it was obvious the last thing they should be doing is getting into bed with other people. Are their any couples who go on it and it works out for them, as in they have a great experience?" There wouldn't be a show if it all went smoothly | |||
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"We binged S1 the other night and we are working through S2 now. I knew Gage and Olivia would turn up at some point to hog the limelight. 90% of this show is actually marriages/relationships that aren't working and then clinging onto the left vestiges of hope We caught an episode of this show the other night - both the couples who were trying swinging seemed to have real issues of trust with each other, and it was obvious the last thing they should be doing is getting into bed with other people. Are their any couples who go on it and it works out for them, as in they have a great experience? There wouldn't be a show if it all went smoothly " What a shame - although you’d think people enjoying themselves would also be entertaining. There was a couple on (the ‘professional swingers’, not the hapless experimenters) who were off here, it’s a small world! | |||
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"We binged S1 the other night and we are working through S2 now. I knew Gage and Olivia would turn up at some point to hog the limelight. 90% of this show is actually marriages/relationships that aren't working and then clinging onto the left vestiges of hope We caught an episode of this show the other night - both the couples who were trying swinging seemed to have real issues of trust with each other, and it was obvious the last thing they should be doing is getting into bed with other people. Are their any couples who go on it and it works out for them, as in they have a great experience? There wouldn't be a show if it all went smoothly What a shame - although you’d think people enjoying themselves would also be entertaining. There was a couple on (the ‘professional swingers’, not the hapless experimenters) who were off here, it’s a small world!" I think there are sections of the TV audience that like to witness conflict and drama. I'm thinking of Married at First Sight as well as this show. Conflict provokes more interest I think | |||
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"We binged S1 the other night and we are working through S2 now. I knew Gage and Olivia would turn up at some point to hog the limelight. 90% of this show is actually marriages/relationships that aren't working and then clinging onto the left vestiges of hope We caught an episode of this show the other night - both the couples who were trying swinging seemed to have real issues of trust with each other, and it was obvious the last thing they should be doing is getting into bed with other people. Are their any couples who go on it and it works out for them, as in they have a great experience? There wouldn't be a show if it all went smoothly What a shame - although you’d think people enjoying themselves would also be entertaining. There was a couple on (the ‘professional swingers’, not the hapless experimenters) who were off here, it’s a small world!" Not on here any more though! | |||
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"We binged S1 the other night and we are working through S2 now. I knew Gage and Olivia would turn up at some point to hog the limelight. 90% of this show is actually marriages/relationships that aren't working and then clinging onto the left vestiges of hope We caught an episode of this show the other night - both the couples who were trying swinging seemed to have real issues of trust with each other, and it was obvious the last thing they should be doing is getting into bed with other people. Are their any couples who go on it and it works out for them, as in they have a great experience? There wouldn't be a show if it all went smoothly What a shame - although you’d think people enjoying themselves would also be entertaining. There was a couple on (the ‘professional swingers’, not the hapless experimenters) who were off here, it’s a small world! Not on here any more though!" Oh, we didn’t realise. | |||
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"Owww I have this recorded looking forward to watching it. I personally love that all the other side comes to light the trust issues, the anxieties, the people who clearly shouldn't be doing it rather than everyone fucks a model & makes it look easy. Mrs " There is that, and there was some rejection in S2 which was good to see! Still completely ignoring their set boundaries though! I still tell everyone it’s not a 100% true representation but gives you the basic idea. | |||
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"It’s good to watch some episodes but the ones where they go in wanting to swing together and meet a third/other couple and they split them up to have fun, are the worst type of not respecting peoples boundaries. It would be our worst nightmare if they split us up and expected us to perform with others, behind each others backs
K"Exactly! And especially when they do it ones who have cheated in the past! That’s a brilliant idea  | |||
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