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"It's not risky as such but I work for NHS and don't want work colleagues knowing. BTW I have a police uniform fetishism lol" | |||
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"Mine is very risky as a female traffic cop why is URS risky" This begs the question why are you telling us your job? | |||
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"I'll share my face with anyone I'm chatting to. It just doesn't need to be out there. Its not an actual risk to anyones job. " I'd advise against anyone in a 'sensitive' profession from being too obvious on fab | |||
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"Mine is very risky as a female traffic cop why is URS risky" I drive fast everywhere ! I’m joking | |||
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"Mine is very risky as a female traffic cop why is URS risky" So if yours is so risky why broadcast to the forums what you do | |||
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"Mine is very risky as a female traffic cop why is URS risky" You’re not though are you …… | |||
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"I'll share my face with anyone I'm chatting to. It just doesn't need to be out there. Its not an actual risk to anyones job. " Yes, it is. | |||
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"I can't see what a person sex life has to do with their work. It would be interesting if anyone from management made a complaint to me as I would be happy to inform tham , that unless I'm bringing the work place into distribute i.e swinging on works time or property then it's no business what I get up to in my private life. " I actually does have a friend who was a good vicar on another site they got found out it was terrible | |||
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"I can't see what a person sex life has to do with their work. It would be interesting if anyone from management made a complaint to me as I would be happy to inform tham , that unless I'm bringing the work place into distribute i.e swinging on works time or property then it's no business what I get up to in my private life. I actually does have a friend who was a good vicar on another site they got found out it was terrible " They were wonderful too in help in our community with mental health etc it was really upsetting. | |||
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"Mine is very risky as a female traffic cop why is URS risky You’re not though are you ……" | |||
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"I've no doubt it could impact on some people depending on the role. i do however see quite a few posing in their uniforms which i'm guessing would cause a problem,as the company could potentially be identified I don't think my job would be at risk ,but i wouldn't want the people i work with to know i'm here.I don't really tell people on here where i work" Losing in uniform or with your company lanyard visible isn't wise, I agree | |||
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"Mine is very risky as a female traffic cop why is URS risky You’re not though are you ……" | |||
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"Mine is very risky as a female traffic cop why is URS risky" No comment call my lawyer | |||
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"I'll share my face with anyone I'm chatting to. It just doesn't need to be out there. Its not an actual risk to anyones job. I'd advise against anyone in a 'sensitive' profession from being too obvious on fab" Exactly. I've know people face disciplinary action for being too obvious on here, in relation to uniforms and using their job to influence people. | |||
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"Mine is very risky as a female traffic cop why is URS risky" Because I'm a lion tamer. A | |||
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"I decided to put my face picture on my profile. 1. Stops people asking for it. 2. I couldn't careless what others think. Life goes on. " Agree ?? | |||
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"I don't see how it ever can be.. if someone sees you on here, means they are too?! Also... you're allowed a personal life.. " In my case, I’ve seen what my work colleagues are like if they find out someone is on here… Basically, they continually talk behind the guy’s back and laugh and joke that “my MATE found out they’re swingers… he must be really weird watching his missus shagging other blokes”… It’s got to the point that it’s been noticed by the guy in question and he’s not taking it well. He’s tried reporting them for harassment in work, but HR aren’t very forthcoming | |||
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"Mine is very risky as a female traffic cop why is URS risky" Think op is into doggying | |||
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"I don't see how it ever can be.. if someone sees you on here, means they are too?! Also... you're allowed a personal life.. In my case, I’ve seen what my work colleagues are like if they find out someone is on here… Basically, they continually talk behind the guy’s back and laugh and joke that “my MATE found out they’re swingers… he must be really weird watching his missus shagging other blokes”… It’s got to the point that it’s been noticed by the guy in question and he’s not taking it well. He’s tried reporting them for harassment in work, but HR aren’t very forthcoming " Ah see if you care what others think about you, you have it all wrong. It's not your business | |||
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"I don't see how it ever can be.. if someone sees you on here, means they are too?! Also... you're allowed a personal life.. In my case, I’ve seen what my work colleagues are like if they find out someone is on here… Basically, they continually talk behind the guy’s back and laugh and joke that “my MATE found out they’re swingers… he must be really weird watching his missus shagging other blokes”… It’s got to the point that it’s been noticed by the guy in question and he’s not taking it well. He’s tried reporting them for harassment in work, but HR aren’t very forthcoming Ah see if you care what others think about you, you have it all wrong. It's not your business" Sometimes it’s hard to put up with constant belittling though, some people don’t want their private life to be publicly mocked | |||
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"I don't see how it ever can be.. if someone sees you on here, means they are too?! Also... you're allowed a personal life.. In my case, I’ve seen what my work colleagues are like if they find out someone is on here… Basically, they continually talk behind the guy’s back and laugh and joke that “my MATE found out they’re swingers… he must be really weird watching his missus shagging other blokes”… It’s got to the point that it’s been noticed by the guy in question and he’s not taking it well. He’s tried reporting them for harassment in work, but HR aren’t very forthcoming Ah see if you care what others think about you, you have it all wrong. It's not your business Sometimes it’s hard to put up with constant belittling though, some people don’t want their private life to be publicly mocked" Well boo hoo | |||
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"I don't see how it ever can be.. if someone sees you on here, means they are too?! Also... you're allowed a personal life.. " It can go against an organisations code of ethics. | |||
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"I don't see how it ever can be.. if someone sees you on here, means they are too?! Also... you're allowed a personal life.. It can go against an organisations code of ethics." I don't understand how a personal life is ever under scrutiny. You work to live, not live to work | |||
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"I don't see how it ever can be.. if someone sees you on here, means they are too?! Also... you're allowed a personal life.. It can go against an organisations code of ethics. I don't understand how a personal life is ever under scrutiny. You work to live, not live to work" Bringing the profession into disrepute, using your position to influence people etc. For example, teachers, doctors, police officers... I mean you've seen the cases in the news recently about the met officers. | |||
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"I don't see how it ever can be.. if someone sees you on here, means they are too?! Also... you're allowed a personal life.. It can go against an organisations code of ethics. I don't understand how a personal life is ever under scrutiny. You work to live, not live to work Bringing the profession into disrepute, using your position to influence people etc. For example, teachers, doctors, police officers... I mean you've seen the cases in the news recently about the met officers. " Ding ding ding. It's not always cut and dry but HR can use it like an axe if they want. | |||
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"I've never understood this mindset. Anyone who sees you on fab is themselves on here. If they were to expose you, they'd also be exposing themselves. And surely, what you get up to in your private life is none of your employers business" You seriously underestimate human nature. Some people, normally those rejected, will take it upon themselves to cause whatever damage they can, particularly to anyone whose profession has a strict code of conduct. If they have nothing to lose reputationally, some won't think twice about turning someone's life upside down. They won't be in the spotlight, you will. If someone was a postie or a builder and outed as being on fab, you could probably brush it off. A police officer, Judge, Magistrate, GP or a host of other professions would be in trouble if there is a perception that being on a swimgers site would make them vulnerable to corruption. | |||
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