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By *uriousBristolCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Just wondering where people stood on the following.

Please don't get us wrong we are far from sensitive and are big enough to accept a knock back and take it on the chin, wish people good luck and happy swinging and move on.

BUT

If we request face pics from anyone and we receive them and they are not our type we always take the (very brief) trouble to reply saying ' Thanks very much for the pics, unfortunately you're not quite what we are looking for but take care and happy swinging'

Is it really asking too much to expect the same when we have sent face pics that have been requested? Or are we being oversensitive

I appreciate people will say that they get hundreds of messages per day etc etc but surely it's just cut-and-paste a few lines is courteous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just assume if they don't respond then they are not interested and are probably scared to send a no thanks reply incase they get a abusive email back.Just have thick skin and move on to the next target

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are right, it would be courteous and good manners.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Oversensitive

sorry but the second you think all the people will match your manners on here, you are on a hiding to nothing.

some may

some won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've been exchanging mail and have sent pics yes they should at least respond x x

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By *uriousBristolCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"If you've been exchanging mail and have sent pics yes they should at least respond x x "

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By *uriousBristolCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Courtesy costs nothing, but from experience abusive messages follow, so we tend to play it by ear. If we are the ones that dont meet the op expectations and they send a polite message we reply in kind and move on.

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