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The over forties.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, depending on who you ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ladies I've been with recently have all been over 40, lets say I enjoyed myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, sometimes we oldies can end up in high regard - age and a little wicked life knowledge will always overcome youth and inexperience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm over 50 and don't consider myself too old or past it, infact I'm having the best time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often think it and think of settling down to a vanilla relationship...but I like my freedom too much as well as the chance of securing a meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am here beating the over 50 drum too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here, me and missus are having a ball. we might creak a bit more in mornings and the late nights might do us in , but by god we are enjoying ourselves,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will tell you in 3 months time when I join the 40s club. I am dreading it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Carry on lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'll be joining the forties club next year, hopefully the responses are all in favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im getting worse as I get older, many a good tune blah blah, and im antique

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Carry on.xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx"

To those in their teens, probably. As for best meets: I find sweeping generalisations silly.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I might just have had a hip replacement, but I didn't half enjoy completely knackering the old one! So I'll say high five to the over forties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well being over 40 hasn't stopped me having the time of my life, and couldn't even consider a vanilla lifestyle now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your sex drive gets higher with age, mine has anyway, when i was in my 20s, tho i liked sex i could take it or leaved it i want sex all the time now days lol so why stop? i hope im still going in my 50

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Forty is the new twenty lol.xx

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

It depends on the person doesn't it, some over forties seem way over forty and some seem younger. I think it's about your mental attitude to sex and life in general. I suppose it also helps if you haven't let yourself go too much (mental note to self: get more exercise).

I would generally prefer to meet people around my own age (mid forties) as it's more likely to have things in common..... plus I would feel old if I was with some young thing!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx"

To those in their teens, probably. As for best meets: I find sweeping generalisations silly.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

why would you think being forty may impact your swinging...

why ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm 42, it's the answer to life, the universe and everything. My profile gives an age range of 35-60 because I like meeting people with similar interests to my own and I hope they have experience in swinging and are emotionally secure. I'm not 'past it'.....

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

over 50 and beating the anti ageist drum. i love ladies of all ages but respect and understand if i dont rock your boat

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Over 60 isn't so popular lol

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

We only started swinging last year,in our fortys and having a great time.We in total sync with our sexuality

Sure we all have met or seen swingers @ partys or clubs who look a lot older or younger than their age!!

Well we got 2/3 years left before the next swingers age bracket of 45...seems to be a cut of date for some younger fabsters.....not to worried mind we both look after ourselfes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought life begins at 40? well i'll let you know when i get there but seriously you have absolutly nothing to worry about i was talking to a customer on tuesday and she said as we get older we lose our inhibitions.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx"

I am over 70 and doing quite well thank you very much. I'll probably stop swinging when they put me in a box. Until then I intend to have as mich fun as I can/

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

Am over 40 and am certainly having more fun now that ever before!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

57 in a couple of weeks, if people don't like that number they must pass me by

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx

I am over 70 and doing quite well thank you very much. I'll probably stop swinging when they put me in a box. Until then I intend to have as mich fun as I can/ "

Love this.....Blows a kiss...... enjoy x

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx

I am over 70 and doing quite well thank you very much. I'll probably stop swinging when they put me in a box. Until then I intend to have as mich fun as I can/

Great to hear it

Love this.....Blows a kiss...... enjoy x "

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx

I am over 70 and doing quite well thank you very much. I'll probably stop swinging when they put me in a box. Until then I intend to have as mich fun as I can/ "
great and encouraging news

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx

I am over 70 and doing quite well thank you very much. I'll probably stop swinging when they put me in a box. Until then I intend to have as mich fun as I can/ great and encouraging news"
remember old age and experience will overcome youth and skill !

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx

To those in their teens, probably. As for best meets: I find sweeping generalisations silly."

Does dementia set in so you need to post things twice

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

all we can say is life begins at 40..certainly did for mrs d and long may we continue to have fun with over fiends be they 40 and over or slightly younger...

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx

To those in their teens, probably. As for best meets: I find sweeping generalisations silly.

Does dementia set in so you need to post things twice "
unkind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in my prime

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By *haynebabeCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

no over 40 aint to old for swinging my other half is over 40 if people dont like that then they aint got to meet us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought life begins at 40? well i'll let you know when i get there but seriously you have absolutly nothing to worry about i was talking to a customer on tuesday and she said as we get older we lose our inhibitions."

Absolutley ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The older we get the more we know what we like

Don't forget the story of the two bulls. The young bull said lets run dond the hill and have sex with one of those cows and the old bull said lets wailk down and have sex with all of them

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Forty ... I remember that.

So so so sooooooo much sex ago ......

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"

Does dementia set in so you need to post things twice unkind"

Sorry, it was only a joke.

I know dementia is a very debilitating condition and causes much stress for it's sufferers and carers

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"

Does dementia set in so you need to post things twice unkind

Sorry, it was only a joke.

I know dementia is a very debilitating condition and causes much stress for it's sufferers and carers "
I was aware it was a joke. Not a problem

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't feel any older than I felt 10 years ago. I will admit to getting hip cramp an awful lot more often these days though.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"I don't feel any older than I felt 10 years ago. I will admit to getting hip cramp an awful lot more often these days though. "
ha ha it won't get any better but during sex one could care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me I'm 53 and have to say certainly don't think over 40 is too old for being a swinger. I just wish I realised there were so many swingers about and wish I'd found this site many years ago. At the moment, I'm having the time of my life.

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

Having too good a time to worry about age!

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"The older we get the more we know what we like

Don't forget the story of the two bulls. The young bull said lets run down the hill and have sex with one of those cows and the old bull said lets walk down and have sex with all of them "

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over a year ago

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

Age is what you feel you are and to some extent how well you have weathered is immaterial as you look at the inner person....

but I have been with mature youngsters in their twenties or young in mind and body in late fifties. Age is just a number which can be defeated by a mindset and a young outlook....forget about nips and tucks, botox and wrinkle creams

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"Age is what you feel you are and to some extent how well you have weathered is immaterial as you look at the inner person....

but I have been with mature youngsters in their twenties or young in mind and body in late fifties. Age is just a number which can be defeated by a mindset and a young outlook....forget about nips and tucks, botox and wrinkle creams "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 52 yrs old and I don't feel too old to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 52 yrs old and I don't feel too old to swing"

yes same here all in working order

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York

we have enjoyed our meets whether with older or younger people. I think age is more inmportant to the 20 somethings. Like a lot of people on here have said, I think it's more about mindset than age. However, they don't have a mindset filter on our profiles

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By *ichelle n big alCouple
over a year ago

Derbys


"Forty is the new twenty lol.xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us forties can show the twenties and thirties a thing or too!!

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)


"Forty is the new twenty lol.xxi "

& fifties is the new 21

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I would love to say age makes no difference, but in reality it does! No matter how we _iew age, others have their criteria and if we don't fit that in the age department, it's a no go!

We have age preferences purely to narrow our searches and ensure we meet people older than our kids. Thing is, since we passed the 50 mark, offers and requests for even a chat have dried up! We even chatted with a couple our age about the lack of contacts or response and we both had similar wants. No matter how much we indicated that we liked them and would be up for it, they never showed an interest.

Although we have a range from about ten years younger to 30 years older, everyone seems to be looking for someone younger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx"

whatever ever you do if you are over 40 DO NOT MAIL...the Op of a different post....

think I may be pushing my luck here

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Try us....

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx

whatever ever you do if you are over 40 DO NOT MAIL...the Op of a different post....

think I may be pushing my luck here "

LOL so many cat lovers on that threat

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I like people in their 40's perfect for me

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By *awty nannaWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

I`m way over 50, still get lots of messages, offers of meets, etc.....and enjoy sex as much as I ever did, if not more !!!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

your life,your way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we have enjoyed our meets whether with older or younger people. I think age is more inmportant to the 20 somethings. Like a lot of people on here have said, I think it's more about mindset than age. However, they don't have a mindset filter on our profiles "

When you say age is more important to the 20's age group, do you mean in the sense that they don't care or are more strict on who they will meet as I thought age was more important to the older age group?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forty is the new twenty lol.xxi

& fifties is the new 21 "

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Well my age flipped over to 50 last month but it hasn't affected the volume of offers I get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 60 now and still enjoying life

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you


"Well my age flipped over to 50 last month but it hasn't affected the volume of offers I get."
mine flipped over to 57 yesterday and it hasnt affected mine either

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I notice that the vast majority of those who attest to age not being a problem are single women! I don't really think you can look at that in the same way you would _iew couples or single guys!

I would say that single women mostly meet single guys and so have a vast pool to choose from and factor in the usual single guy attributes and you would have a reason for older single women getting loads of meets!

As a couple, we have not had any really interested couples for a while and those we do get just haven't read the profile! We are not even looking exclusively for those younger than us. Still no luck. On another (pay) site we are on, we do get mail, so all is not barren..

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

age does have a bearing to us as we do have age filters on our profile however as we are both in our forties and content with how we look and interact socially, we are completely content with moving into our 'middle age,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole reason I joined the site was to meet (i'll watch how I word this) more mature ladies! I'm sure this is every guys fantasy!!

You make this site worth putting up with all the scary weirdos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx

To those in their teens, probably. As for best meets: I find sweeping generalisations silly."

Seems to me young lady, you are getting far too much or forgetful in your old age that you posted this twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we the over forties to old for swinging or make the best meets.spell it out people.xx

whatever ever you do if you are over 40 DO NOT MAIL...the Op of a different post....

think I may be pushing my luck here

LOL so many cat lovers on that threat "

Purrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't start swinging until I was 41 and in the last 11 years I've had more sex, and tried a vast variety of sexual antics...far more than I ever did in the preceding years, so for me life in my forties and now my fifties has been a fantastic time so far, long may it continue

Fusion

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