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"Yes, all the time! And that may surprise people who know me on here and those who know what job I do. As a child I was painfully shy and far too polite for my own good. I’ve overcome a lot of that but some is ingrained and always will be. In situations with which I am comfortable ie work/friends, I am fine. Anything where I feel out of place like not knowing people or anything to do with where I am, I’ll be reserved and quiet until someone draws me in. Makes me feel so childish, sometimes." No matter how old you are, if it's not you are not naturally extrovert it's not going to change much I think. Everyone is different. Just be you. I am on the shy side when I first meet someone but not at all with family and friends. | |||
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"It depends on the situation. I get a weird kind of impostor syndrome where I convince myself I'm not interesting/attractive/whatever enough. And that makes me clam up in a vicious shyness circle May I refer to my previous thread offer shyness cures courses and of course also my don't give fuck what others think course . J" | |||
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"I'm very shy right up until until I take my clothes off! " Funny you should say that .its part of my course to overcome shyness . | |||
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"I'm very shy right up until until I take my clothes off! " Intriguing, in wonder of that is because you clothes represent what is expected by 'vanilla' society? | |||
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"I'm very shy right up until until I take my clothes off! " By that point, there's nothing to hide, so the fuck it attitude prevails. Go girl | |||
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"I’m only ever shy with the people I love. I seem to lose my words and turn into some little version of myself. I’m not sure why. Probably because every second means so much it makes me not want to fuck it up? " Grrr....get em off x | |||
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"I’m only ever shy with the people I love. I seem to lose my words and turn into some little version of myself. I’m not sure why. Probably because every second means so much it makes me not want to fuck it up? Grrr....get em off x" I’m never shy getting naked | |||
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"I’m only ever shy with the people I love. I seem to lose my words and turn into some little version of myself. I’m not sure why. Probably because every second means so much it makes me not want to fuck it up? Grrr....get em off x I’m never shy getting naked " No wonder you gloriously sexy minx | |||
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"I’m only ever shy with the people I love. I seem to lose my words and turn into some little version of myself. I’m not sure why. Probably because every second means so much it makes me not want to fuck it up? Grrr....get em off x I’m never shy getting naked No wonder you gloriously sexy minx " Shush you! You’ll make me blush Ps. I very rarely if ever blush | |||
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"I’m only ever shy with the people I love. I seem to lose my words and turn into some little version of myself. I’m not sure why. Probably because every second means so much it makes me not want to fuck it up? " How little is a little version of Littlebird? Microbird? | |||
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"I … can sometimes go the complete opposite walk and just talk so much nonsense really fast to try and cover for by obvious shyness! " This is exactly how I imagine you. (I’m not shy. Unless you try to take my photo. Then I am.) | |||
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"I’m only ever shy with the people I love. I seem to lose my words and turn into some little version of myself. I’m not sure why. Probably because every second means so much it makes me not want to fuck it up? How little is a little version of Littlebird? Microbird?" Hummingbird size | |||
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"I’m only ever shy with the people I love. I seem to lose my words and turn into some little version of myself. I’m not sure why. Probably because every second means so much it makes me not want to fuck it up? How little is a little version of Littlebird? Microbird? Hummingbird size " Cute!! | |||
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"I'm shy when it comes to photo's of me.. I suppose that's also a lack of confidence in that area " Im surprised at this after reading your profile name? | |||
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"I can walk into a room full of strangers. I can turn up to a social. I can do presentations & meetings & speeches. 2 things I struggle with Karaoke And being 1-1 with someone I like. I have 2 modes on that one. A) hope that they make the first move B) overcompensate and go for it - usually head butting them or falling over (or both) in the process. " God you just described me lol. Nat from Jatnay. | |||
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"My shyness is very much situation/person dependent. At a 1:1 social, I'm normally pretty relaxed, but would definitely be shy to walk into a big group of people I didn't know...I can do it when I have to though, and usually relax quite quickly. I've not been to club, but I can imagine I'd be shy there. Maybe that's why I've never been!" Weirdly I'm the opposite, at a group social I relax quite quickly, no-one is there for me, and it's just a group of people meeting up for a drink and a laugh. 1:1 1st meets I feel more pressure to be impressive, and catch the eye because of the expectation that comes with it. They're there to meet you, a you that they'd like to be interested in and maybe attracted to. Typing that has made me realise, I need to get out of my own head. | |||
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"It is possible to get me into a shy state. A kiss can do it if I have the major feelies it can turn me into mush There ain't many who have pulled it off though! " Can I pull you off? | |||
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"It is possible to get me into a shy state. A kiss can do it if I have the major feelies it can turn me into mush There ain't many who have pulled it off though! Can I pull you off? " Seems perfectly reasonable | |||
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"It is possible to get me into a shy state. A kiss can do it if I have the major feelies it can turn me into mush There ain't many who have pulled it off though! Can I pull you off? Seems perfectly reasonable " I'll meet you in the alley | |||
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"It is possible to get me into a shy state. A kiss can do it if I have the major feelies it can turn me into mush There ain't many who have pulled it off though! Can I pull you off? Seems perfectly reasonable I'll meet you in the alley " Behind the bins? | |||
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"It is possible to get me into a shy state. A kiss can do it if I have the major feelies it can turn me into mush There ain't many who have pulled it off though! Can I pull you off? Seems perfectly reasonable I'll meet you in the alley Behind the bins? " Obviously... have to hide as I'm shy | |||
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"Yes I'm shy I have to really try to take it all in at my own pace. " Childish I know but ‘that’s what she said’ lol | |||
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