FabSwingers.com forum: Single men and profiles

By *adyandthesaint OP Couple
over a year ago

NUNEATON

As the male half of the couple I was previously on here solo. I always made sure I read the profile through and messaged accordingly. Yet we seem to be constantly inundated with unwarranted friends requests, just dick pics, one liners etc...

Why don't a majority of single men ( who we do like to meet) just read the profile...so frustrating x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read the profile and try and send a message in accordance with what’s on the profile to make it relatable. Some time a little cheeky comment but always something I hope would warrant a message back.

Unfortunately it’s not always the case. As for sending friends d request it rude if you’ve not spoken to them. I would ask before adding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother reading them as I already know that I'm not what they want and won't be messaging them

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Its not just men who are guilty of this ,couples who i'm not looking for do it too.I imagine some women are guilty too.

So i blocked couples.

Some just see the pics and get carried away

Its a good filter for me as i can tell & delete them straight away.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"As the male half of the couple I was previously on here solo. I always made sure I read the profile through and messaged accordingly. Yet we seem to be constantly inundated with unwarranted friends requests, just dick pics, one liners etc...

Why don't a majority of single men ( who we do like to meet) just read the profile...so frustrating x"
They just like annoying people, they don't get replies ever so it makes no difference whether they read profile or not so they chance their arm

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"I don't bother reading them as I already know that I'm not what they want and won't be messaging them "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Its not just men who are guilty of this ,couples who i'm not looking for do it too.I imagine some women are guilty too.

So i blocked couples.

Some just see the pics and get carried away

Its a good filter for me as i can tell & delete them straight away."

Yeah. It's everyone. Just if you get way more annoying messages from men (because you get more messages from men), it looks like men are the problem.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Some do, some don't. I'm not quite sure this is another complaint about single males or you just want to point out that you are no longer one of them and you have climbed the social ladder of fab.

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