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"What do you mean by “the locals”. " People who are not on the forums but from your local updates. | |||
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"I have and while the meet was fine, it was the mixed signals, lies and being messed about that wasn't. Does not fit in with their forum persona at all. I did ask for answers and tried to open a mature discussion but was ignored. So yes, very wary about meeting forum people now" Darn it. I said I’m sorry | |||
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"I have and while the meet was fine, it was the mixed signals, lies and being messed about that wasn't. Does not fit in with their forum persona at all. I did ask for answers and tried to open a mature discussion but was ignored. So yes, very wary about meeting forum people now Darn it. I said I’m sorry " Oh shush Pickle, I'd meet you in a heartbeat xx | |||
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"Yes it has worked for me. Over the years most of the people I've met have been via the forums and it's been great. Some just as a social encounter and one or two I've even gotten naked with. Don't get me wrong I've seen some real nastiness in the past from some individuals but for the most part it's been really positive " I think we would all like to meet you Ms Wyld. | |||
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"I always said I never would, but I've broken that rule a few times now and haven't regretted it. General rule of thumb is still no meeting forum people though. " Boo. That’s a rubbish rule. | |||
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"Have you or would you meet people from the forums or do you prefer to meet the locals? If you have has it always been a positive experience? Please don't name names. Have a great day all. " I've only met someone through the forum once in the 11 years that I've been on Fab, it was an amazing meet. Seems to me that most women and MF Couples on here are only here to chat. | |||
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"When I was on here previously I met some lovely friends and had a couple of amazing meets with forum members. Oh happy memories " How about meeting new forum members...? | |||
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"I’m with Mr Knights on this. I know we started the thread with ‘let’s not name names’ but … for example, I’d be 100% up for meeting Mr and Mrs Knights based on thinking they’re Good People™ around the forums. I’ve got a better feeling for who they are, what their sense of humour is, etc than I ever could just from reading their profile. So there’d be a road trip involved. So what? I like road trips." That's really kind, we're always up for a good coffee Mrs | |||
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"That's really kind, we're always up for a good coffee Mrs " Next time I’m passing through Leeds you can show me where to find the good stuff … | |||
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"That's really kind, we're always up for a good coffee Mrs Next time I’m passing through Leeds you can show me where to find the good stuff …" Shall I just take you with me when I go? | |||
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"I have and while the meet was fine, it was the mixed signals, lies and being messed about that wasn't. Does not fit in with their forum persona at all. I did ask for answers and tried to open a mature discussion but was ignored. So yes, very wary about meeting forum people now Darn it. I said I’m sorry Oh shush Pickle, I'd meet you in a heartbeat xx" Soon I hope | |||
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"Shall I just take you with me when I go? " It’s not really fair asking that in public, don’t want to be applying peer pressure! (But that sounds fun.) | |||
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"Shall I just take you with me when I go? It’s not really fair asking that in public, don’t want to be applying peer pressure! (But that sounds fun.) " Do it | |||
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"Yes it generally has except that one time. That went a bit wrong quite publicly " Did it? When was that? I bet I missed it | |||
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"Yes it generally has except that one time. That went a bit wrong quite publicly " It’s the drama mick, I just love it!! | |||
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"Yes it generally has except that one time. That went a bit wrong quite publicly " Tell aunty Bettie allllllllll about it #allears | |||
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"Yes it generally has except that one time. That went a bit wrong quite publicly Did it? When was that? I bet I missed it " It was a few years ago but you'd have been around for it | |||
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"Yes it generally has except that one time. That went a bit wrong quite publicly Did it? When was that? I bet I missed it It was a few years ago but you'd have been around for it " Now I'm trying to work out if I was around for it. | |||
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"None of them want to meet me " Liar. | |||
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"I've met some forum people. Had a lovely time " Wanna bang? | |||
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"None of them want to meet me Liar." Ok | |||
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"None of them want to meet me " Wonko my good man, you are welcome at our table anytime. The mr | |||
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"I have and while the meet was fine, it was the mixed signals, lies and being messed about that wasn't. Does not fit in with their forum persona at all. I did ask for answers and tried to open a mature discussion but was ignored. So yes, very wary about meeting forum people now" This, just goes to show how real are the persona's that are being displayed on the forums......gotta yell to sell after all | |||
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"None of them want to meet me Wonko my good man, you are welcome at our table anytime. The mr " I wouldn't want to spill my coffee on your nice table though | |||
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"I've met some forum people. Had a lovely time Wanna bang? " How can any woman resist an offer like this | |||
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"I've met some forum people. Had a lovely time Wanna bang? How can any woman resist an offer like this " THAT’S WHAT I THOUGHT!!! | |||
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"Yes it has worked for me. Over the years most of the people I've met have been via the forums and it's been great. Some just as a social encounter and one or two I've even gotten naked with. Don't get me wrong I've seen some real nastiness in the past from some individuals but for the most part it's been really positive " | |||
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"The majority of people I’ve met from here have been via the forums. It’s a good way to gauge someone’s personality & although I’ve had varying degrees of success overall it’s been a good supply chain…." When are you next stocking up your larder? | |||
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"Have you or would you meet people from the forums or do you prefer to meet the locals? If you have has it always been a positive experience? Please don't name names. Have a great day all. " We have met loads of forum people socially and have enjoyed them all positively. We wouldn’t talk about the bedroom experiences as they almost all still hang around here and some of them might think we’re referencing them. Plus Meli gets really jealous as she’s in love with my beautiful penis. We don’t meet locals from fab. | |||
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"Have you or would you meet people from the forums or do you prefer to meet the locals? If you have has it always been a positive experience? Please don't name names. Have a great day all. We have met loads of forum people socially and have enjoyed them all positively. We wouldn’t talk about the bedroom experiences as they almost all still hang around here and some of them might think we’re referencing them. Plus Meli gets really jealous as she’s in love with my beautiful penis. " Yeah, true. | |||
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" Yeah, true. " Fuck me associate, you’re looking rather ravishing today. Makes me wonder. How do we maintain such a long lasting platonic friendship when we’re both so fucking desirable? | |||
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" Yeah, true. Fuck me associate, you’re looking rather ravishing today. Makes me wonder. How do we maintain such a long lasting platonic friendship when we’re both so fucking desirable?" You. Charmer. Never say that to me in public, I'll be leaving a snail trail. No idea how we have, it's weird huh? | |||
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"Yes it generally has except that one time. That went a bit wrong quite publicly Did it? When was that? I bet I missed it It was a few years ago but you'd have been around for it Now I'm trying to work out if I was around for it. " You were and you'll get no more info Miss Marple | |||
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" Yeah, true. Fuck me associate, you’re looking rather ravishing today. Makes me wonder. How do we maintain such a long lasting platonic friendship when we’re both so fucking desirable? You. Charmer. Never say that to me in public, I'll be leaving a snail trail. No idea how we have, it's weird huh?" Will there be boobie hug next time you meet? Asking for the lurkers | |||
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"The majority of people I’ve met from here have been via the forums. It’s a good way to gauge someone’s personality & although I’ve had varying degrees of success overall it’s been a good supply chain…. When are you next stocking up your larder? " | |||
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"There's been a couple of times where I was supposed to, or it was talked about, but I was obviously quite far down their list and they paired off with someone else before they got to me! The majority are too far away, so I can't see it happening. " Having done a quick search on Google Maps, I'm only just over 3 hours away. No time at all for a quick coffee! | |||
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"There's been a couple of times where I was supposed to, or it was talked about, but I was obviously quite far down their list and they paired off with someone else before they got to me! The majority are too far away, so I can't see it happening. Having done a quick search on Google Maps, I'm only just over 3 hours away. No time at all for a quick coffee! " Pack your bucket and spade, I'll buy you an ice cream. | |||
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"There's been a couple of times where I was supposed to, or it was talked about, but I was obviously quite far down their list and they paired off with someone else before they got to me! The majority are too far away, so I can't see it happening. Having done a quick search on Google Maps, I'm only just over 3 hours away. No time at all for a quick coffee! Pack your bucket and spade, I'll buy you an ice cream." Woohoo! 99 with strawberry sauce? | |||
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"Yes " Pervert | |||
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"Yes, I've met some truly lovely people " ...and you've met me! | |||
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"Yes Pervert" Yep. 100% pervert and proud | |||
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"Yes Pervert Yep. 100% pervert and proud " Littleperv | |||
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"I've met absolutely loads now whether that be at socials or riding them silly " Never met many . Only a little few . Lost count after 346 or 349 ? Joking ^^ not true x x But when it happen was very good x And I’m happy with that xx | |||
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"I have and maybe not worked out as I'd hoped" Meet me, you'll soon change your mind..... | |||
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"Yes Pervert Yep. 100% pervert and proud Littleperv " I best change my username | |||
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"Yes some of the best people iv met in my life have been first seen on forum" Me too, had some fantastic times and made very good friends | |||
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"I have and maybe not worked out as I'd hoped Meet me, you'll soon change your mind..... " You already know that's happening | |||
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"Yes Pervert Yep. 100% pervert and proud Littleperv I best change my username " Another vote for this ^ | |||
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"I have and maybe not worked out as I'd hoped Meet me, you'll soon change your mind..... You already know that's happening " Remember the kit.... | |||
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"I have and maybe not worked out as I'd hoped Meet me, you'll soon change your mind..... You already know that's happening Remember the kit.... " All packed | |||
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"I've only met wonderful people from the Forum. I don't believe there could be bad Forumites." You’ve met the baddest forumite | |||
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"I've only met wonderful people from the Forum. I don't believe there could be bad Forumites." Not sure if this is naivety or sarcasm | |||
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"I've only met wonderful people from the Forum. I don't believe there could be bad Forumites. Not sure if this is naivety or sarcasm " Neither! It's sheer willpower. And genuine experience. | |||
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"There are people I'd like to meet....but...what puts me off is the thought of being someone else's gossip. So, whoever I meet has to sign an NDA " Same. It's too small a pool for privacy. Plus I have visions of the negotiations if things turned sour - 'So I'll take kiss, fuck avoid threads, you can have word games, we do alternate Face Pic Fridays and I get custody of *insert favourite poster here*' | |||
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"Have you or would you meet people from the forums or do you prefer to meet the locals? If you have has it always been a positive experience? Please don't name names. Have a great day all. " Yes and yes. Positive. So far. | |||
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"None of them want to meet me Wonko my good man, you are welcome at our table anytime. The mr I wouldn't want to spill my coffee on your nice table though " Shhhh I’ll let you into a little secret. We don’t actually own a coffee table. Small kids, sharp corners and all that The mr | |||
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"There are people I'd like to meet....but...what puts me off is the thought of being someone else's gossip. So, whoever I meet has to sign an NDA " This always makes us wary. There are some forum users that love to make it obvious who they're making the best with two backs with and that's definitely not for us. Nothing to hide, just don't want to be a lamppost covered in piss. | |||
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"There are people I'd like to meet....but...what puts me off is the thought of being someone else's gossip. So, whoever I meet has to sign an NDA " Sage advice! | |||
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"Have you or would you meet people from the forums or do you prefer to meet the locals? If you have has it always been a positive experience? Please don't name names. Have a great day all. " Never met anyone from the forums can’t get a meet full stop if I’m truly honest | |||
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"When active I met a lot of forum users both socially and sexually. On the whole it was a very satisfying and rewarding experience. I met her here. The advice I would give (especially for men) is not advertise or make public who you've met. Keep it discreet. Playful flirting on the forums is fine, but anything beyond keep it private and out of public view. It helps if the person you're pursuing has a similar outlook / mindset." I wholeheartedly agree with that last paragraph. Playful flirting is fine bit when you do it on every thread, it's blatant attention seeking to the fact you've had sex with each other and it's crosses the line from playful and cute to cringey AF | |||
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"Have you or would you meet people from the forums or do you prefer to meet the locals? If you have has it always been a positive experience? Please don't name names. Have a great day all. " Not yet, but like the rest of Fab, if you click then why not, I wouldn't rule it out... | |||
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"When active I met a lot of forum users both socially and sexually. On the whole it was a very satisfying and rewarding experience. I met her here. The advice I would give (especially for men) is not advertise or make public who you've met. Keep it discreet. Playful flirting on the forums is fine, but anything beyond keep it private and out of public view. It helps if the person you're pursuing has a similar outlook / mindset." Yep. I'd extend that to the women as well - it's a far easier and happier life if you're getting cocked from outside the forum users. If you do - don't tell everyone. Honestly. It's not worth it at all. | |||
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"When active I met a lot of forum users both socially and sexually. On the whole it was a very satisfying and rewarding experience. I met her here. The advice I would give (especially for men) is not advertise or make public who you've met. Keep it discreet. Playful flirting on the forums is fine, but anything beyond keep it private and out of public view. It helps if the person you're pursuing has a similar outlook / mindset. Yep. I'd extend that to the women as well - it's a far easier and happier life if you're getting cocked from outside the forum users. If you do - don't tell everyone. Honestly. It's not worth it at all." I'll go out on a limb here and say that in most cases (men and women) the grief, hassle and green eyed monster are mostly brought on by women. | |||
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"When active I met a lot of forum users both socially and sexually. On the whole it was a very satisfying and rewarding experience. I met her here. The advice I would give (especially for men) is not advertise or make public who you've met. Keep it discreet. Playful flirting on the forums is fine, but anything beyond keep it private and out of public view. It helps if the person you're pursuing has a similar outlook / mindset. Yep. I'd extend that to the women as well - it's a far easier and happier life if you're getting cocked from outside the forum users. If you do - don't tell everyone. Honestly. It's not worth it at all. I'll go out on a limb here and say that in most cases (men and women) the grief, hassle and green eyed monster are mostly brought on by women." Hmm. See, before I'd agree with that and think ah bitches be trippin'. But now? I think quite often what happens is caused by crap communication, both parties not being clear with each other and mismatched expectations. False promises being made etc. Which then leads to people being unhappy, acting up etc. It's far too easy to say grief, hassle and jealousy are oft the domain of women - it's not as clear cut as that. | |||
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"When active I met a lot of forum users both socially and sexually. On the whole it was a very satisfying and rewarding experience. I met her here. The advice I would give (especially for men) is not advertise or make public who you've met. Keep it discreet. Playful flirting on the forums is fine, but anything beyond keep it private and out of public view. It helps if the person you're pursuing has a similar outlook / mindset. Yep. I'd extend that to the women as well - it's a far easier and happier life if you're getting cocked from outside the forum users. If you do - don't tell everyone. Honestly. It's not worth it at all. I'll go out on a limb here and say that in most cases (men and women) the grief, hassle and green eyed monster are mostly brought on by women. Hmm. See, before I'd agree with that and think ah bitches be trippin'. But now? I think quite often what happens is caused by crap communication, both parties not being clear with each other and mismatched expectations. False promises being made etc. Which then leads to people being unhappy, acting up etc. It's far too easy to say grief, hassle and jealousy are oft the domain of women - it's not as clear cut as that. " I'd agree it can be more nuanced, and there are outliers. Though from my experience and observation, most of the associated drama is woman driven. | |||
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