FabSwingers.com forum: How To Pick Best Male For MMF Fantasy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good morning all,

Unsurprisingly this is on my fantasy list (wife here).

Fellow fabbers who have done this via Fab rather than a club do you go by their profile and verifications?

Did you have a social meet first?

We are at that stage in our journey of making the step from our minds to reality and its daunting

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Our first 3some was arranged on another site, it took a while to find the right guy who eventually did turn up, on here, it can be hit and miss, we had a lot of success at the beginning but after a few years we found it more difficult to find a guy who was available when we both were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid wonko

He's useless

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Avoid wonko

He's useless "

Writes this down for future reference

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We chat to people and get a feel for them - their personalities, as the better the connection (for us) the better the sex.

Chatting about anything and everything shows you aren’t just going to be a number but you’ll are all working towards a shared experience.

So it’s the whole package for us…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Avoid wonko

He's useless

Writes this down for future reference

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We have a social first with guys from here and decide from there. There are no guarantees whichever way you do it but a coffee in a neutral location helps us all decide if we're going to get along.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have a social first with guys from here and decide from there. There are no guarantees whichever way you do it but a coffee in a neutral location helps us all decide if we're going to get along.

Absolutely think that's our plan to thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like this:

Bored. Shall we put up a meet today?

Yeah why not.

Ten minutes later and thirty replies...

So who you going for?

He looks nice and he's only twenty minutes away...

Two hours later: Well that was fun. Didn't look like his pics though. Definitely older than 38.

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By *ersuasion22Couple
over a year ago

Herts

"Good morning all,

Unsurprisingly this is on my fantasy list (wife here).

Fellow fabbers who have done this via Fab rather than a club do you go by their profile and verifications?

Did you have a social meet first?

We are at that stage in our journey of making the step from our minds to reality and its daunting

We chatted to quite a few guys before finding the right one. I (Mrs) definitely found the veris reassuring. The guy also had pics and videos which helped. He was also willing to talk with us for quite a while before we met for the first time for a social. It was so nerve wracking, but obviously we all had a good time

. I'm much more relaxed now, but I'd say take your time and definitely have a social before arranging anything more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Like this:

Bored. Shall we put up a meet today?

Yeah why not.

Ten minutes later and thirty replies...

So who you going for?

He looks nice and he's only twenty minutes away...

Two hours later: Well that was fun. Didn't look like his pics though. Definitely older than 38."

I couldn't lol lol lol noooooo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like this:

Bored. Shall we put up a meet today?

Yeah why not.

Ten minutes later and thirty replies...

So who you going for?

He looks nice and he's only twenty minutes away...

Two hours later: Well that was fun. Didn't look like his pics though. Definitely older than 38.

I couldn't lol lol lol noooooo."

Don't think we'd do it like that nowadays either. It was fun at the time but Fab's a different sort of place to how it was then.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

In clubs its easy. Find someone you find attractive, approach and ask if you can join them, chat, establish a connection and that you're on the same page in terms of boundaries etc - and off you go.

Via messages on Fab? Much the same but virtually, rather than face to face. The key difference being its worth taking your time. Swap several messages about general stuff to start but make sure you've seen eachothers faces to get the awkward potential lack of attraction out the way. Once you've established interest then chat, but in an unhurried way with no conversations about when/where you'd meet or what may happen. We'd always recommend an in person social, unless you're looking to meet someone already verified by mutual acquaintances, as online personas can be fudged but face to face it's harder to fake a personality. Just a coffee or drink somewhere public. Nothing expensive and somewhere easy for both parties to get to.

If all goes well, set a date and venue and let the fun begin.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Good morning all,

Unsurprisingly this is on my fantasy list (wife here).

Fellow fabbers who have done this via Fab rather than a club do you go by their profile and verifications?

Did you have a social meet first?

We are at that stage in our journey of making the step from our minds to reality and its daunting

"
Just from either a chat at a social or some people /couples just go for it

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By *lan4FFUUNNMan
over a year ago

Genoa Italy and Liverpool

I have had a few MMF 3somes, both as a single guy and part of a couple. I always like to chat to the others first, get a feel for them. Then suggest a social meet with no promises, once chatting over a beer, glass of wine or cup of coffee you can tell if there is the chemistry and spark that you want. One you decide to play it is just a case of when, either go straight into it or arrange another time in the near future, have fun x

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By *ex4u4Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We love 3somes...hubby enjoys watching his wife being pleasured

We would say meet for a social so that you are both comfortable about your adventure, talk to the male about what you would like and set your rules.

Its also good to have a buzz word that you both know in case one of you suddenly feels awkward about it. With the right guy the experience is awesome

On a downer trying to get guys to meet for a social on here is like trying to wade through treacle. Most just want to turn up your door, not talk to you now and cum and go...shame really

Stick to your rules that you have talked about and be patient to find the right guy

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"Avoid wonko

He's useless "

You are a carrot which could cum in handy.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"Like this:

Bored. Shall we put up a meet today?

Yeah why not.

Ten minutes later and thirty replies...

So who you going for?

He looks nice and he's only twenty minutes away...

Two hours later: Well that was fun. Didn't look like his pics though. Definitely older than 38.

I couldn't lol lol lol noooooo.

Don't think we'd do it like that nowadays either. It was fun at the time but Fab's a different sort of place to how it was then."

Oh god so I'm still doing it wrong ;-(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like this:

Bored. Shall we put up a meet today?

Yeah why not.

Ten minutes later and thirty replies...

So who you going for?

He looks nice and he's only twenty minutes away...

Two hours later: Well that was fun. Didn't look like his pics though. Definitely older than 38.

I couldn't lol lol lol noooooo.

Don't think we'd do it like that nowadays either. It was fun at the time but Fab's a different sort of place to how it was then.

Oh god so I'm still doing it wrong ;-("

We just got fussier.

Well she did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Like this:

Bored. Shall we put up a meet today?

Yeah why not.

Ten minutes later and thirty replies...

So who you going for?

He looks nice and he's only twenty minutes away...

Two hours later: Well that was fun. Didn't look like his pics though. Definitely older than 38.

I couldn't lol lol lol noooooo.

Don't think we'd do it like that nowadays either. It was fun at the time but Fab's a different sort of place to how it was then.

Oh god so I'm still doing it wrong ;-("

Snap I'm a rubbish swinger. We can't find the time to. All good to go and life's in the way. Grrrrrrrrr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid wonko

He's useless

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Avoid wonko

He's useless

Are you a goldfish?

Or have you been wanking your brains out today?

I've got this written on my notepad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Avoid wonko

He's useless

Are you a goldfish?

Or have you been wanking your brains out today?

I've got this written on my notepad x"

That would be telling

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Good morning all,

Unsurprisingly this is on my fantasy list (wife here).

Fellow fabbers who have done this via Fab rather than a club do you go by their profile and verifications?

Did you have a social meet first?

We are at that stage in our journey of making the step from our minds to reality and its daunting

Names in a hat first two out there's your MMF, even better if they have a silhouette avatar

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good morning all,

Unsurprisingly this is on my fantasy list (wife here).

Fellow fabbers who have done this via Fab rather than a club do you go by their profile and verifications?

Did you have a social meet first?

We are at that stage in our journey of making the step from our minds to reality and its daunting

Names in a hat first two out there's your MMF, even better if they have a silhouette avatar "

Cutting up bits of paper who wants to do the draw?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Good morning all,

Unsurprisingly this is on my fantasy list (wife here).

Fellow fabbers who have done this via Fab rather than a club do you go by their profile and verifications?

Did you have a social meet first?

We are at that stage in our journey of making the step from our minds to reality and its daunting

Names in a hat first two out there's your MMF, even better if they have a silhouette avatar

Cutting up bits of paper who wants to do the draw?"

I'm washing my hair so I bow out of that pleasure

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good morning all,

Unsurprisingly this is on my fantasy list (wife here).

Fellow fabbers who have done this via Fab rather than a club do you go by their profile and verifications?

Did you have a social meet first?

We are at that stage in our journey of making the step from our minds to reality and its daunting

Names in a hat first two out there's your MMF, even better if they have a silhouette avatar

Cutting up bits of paper who wants to do the draw?

I'm washing my hair so I bow out of that pleasure "

You've a lot of fur to wash ok you're excused from this life changing decision

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Avoid wonko

He's useless

Are you a goldfish?

Or have you been wanking your brains out today?

I've got this written on my notepad x

That would be telling

Gotta tell the truth in a thread it's the law!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We go for the ones that we feel will fit our dynamic and just as importantly we feel that we fit theirs.

Failing that… the one with the best looking penis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We go for the ones that we feel will fit our dynamic and just as importantly we feel that we fit theirs.

Failing that… the one with the best looking penis."

Love this

pretty penis picking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Avoid wonko

He's useless

Are you a goldfish?

Or have you been wanking your brains out today?

I've got this written on my notepad x

That would be telling

Gotta tell the truth in a thread it's the law!"

Would you believe it if I said I was a professional goldfish wanker?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Avoid wonko

He's useless

Are you a goldfish?

Or have you been wanking your brains out today?

I've got this written on my notepad x

That would be telling

Gotta tell the truth in a thread it's the law!

Would you believe it if I said I was a professional goldfish wanker? "

lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We just went to a club and chatted to a few guys, then when Anita found someone we both liked.. he was invited to join us in a room.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid wonko

He's useless

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