FabSwingers.com forum: what's more important...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looks or money?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks or money?"

Neither

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Looks or money?

Neither"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes more than just looks and wealth to entice me to meet a gent.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Money I want a LV bag

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By *adyH and GrissomCouple
over a year ago

Llantarnum

Think Peter Stringfellow would say money lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money! Now if you asked health or money then health wins hands down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have neither so that's me fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant answer that

theres soooooo many....ah yeah but and what ifs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So Debbie, what first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels?

(Mrs Merton) x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So Debbie, what first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels?

(Mrs Merton) x"

one of the all time great questions asked on TV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to rely on the wealth of others to make me happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't need to rely on the wealth of others to make me happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Health

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Health

Of course it is the most important...., but if you had to answer the question??

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

money.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd rather have sex with a woman who was poor but good looking, than a rich one who wasn't. I'm not interested in other peoples wealth or lack thereof...I'm more interested in intelligence and personality, combine that with good looks, then see how quick my clothes come off....but who is to say what I find attractive? It's totally subjective.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

money, as long as it isnt accompanied by class distinction.

Money can be spent, but good looks just make some people lovers of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd rather have sex with a woman who was poor but good looking, than a rich one who wasn't. I'm not interested in other peoples wealth or lack thereof...I'm more interested in intelligence and personality, combine that with good looks, then see how quick my clothes come off....but who is to say what I find attractive? It's totally subjective."

also depends a little on what someone is looking for, long term relationship, short term fun etc. Interesting to see the varied replies, just shows how we all have different tastes and desires etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks or money?"

Personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who are rich are usualy inteligent and have a good personality though.

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

In the swing scene money does not come into it, as you are not looking to spend the rest of your life with said person.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

In what context are you asking the question ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks or money?"

Personality ... sorry...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wealth does not necessarily equate to intelligence, IMHO.

Wealth certainly does not buy sophistication and style, just look at the likes of Elton John!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

will abstain thanks..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Health

Of course it is the most important...., but if you had to answer the question??"

My honest answer would have to be,,,,

I wouldn’t field the question, because I don’t feel my life experience lends itself to giving an objective answer….!.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Wealth does not necessarily equate to intelligence, IMHO.

Wealth certainly does not buy sophistication and style, just look at the likes of Elton John!

David Beckham....durrrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i had to choose between the two I'd choose money as I could pay for looks or pay people to be my fluffers and give me loads of compliments

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In what context are you asking the question ?"

Deliberately left it a bit vague to see the responses - could be, would you personally rather have looks or money, or in someone else what do you find more attractive, or as many people have pointed out are either important? We have a society where both have become a major focus just wondered what people thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People who are rich are usualy inteligent and have a good personality though."

I've met some pretty stupid and unpleasant rich people, also met some very bright and personable ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike arrogance, regardless of wealth or looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Money I want a LV bag

Don't they do insurance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't care how much money he has, or how good looking he is, if he's a twat I aint going there

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I dislike arrogance, regardless of wealth or looks.

I agree, it's an unpleasant character flaw and a personality defect as far as I'm concerned.

....oh! unless you meant me!

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Speaking in terms of 'vanilla' online dating; most girls, I'm afraid to say, these days, are more interested in what the guy can 'provide', than actually getting to know the individual as a person. In my experience, anyway.

It's all about what job you have, what car you drive and the size of your bank balance.

Partly why I'm on this site.

The conventional dating world is awash with the MIC and TOWIE brigade, it seems..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speaking in terms of 'vanilla' online dating; most girls, I'm afraid to say, these days, are more interested in what the guy can 'provide', than actually getting to know the individual as a person. In my experience, anyway.

It's all about what job you have, what car you drive and the size of your bank balance.

Partly why I'm on this site.

The conventional dating world is awash with the MIC and TOWIE brigade, it seems.."

Have to agree with that I am very very cautious of women who I meet in my private life

But luckily the gold diggers are pretty easy to sus out quite quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

money

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I need to know what for.

Just asking what's most important LOOKS or MONEY isn't enough ....

Do you mean... To get a partner, To choose a partner, to get a job , To enter a beauty comp, to be financially secure ...... what ?

If you are making me choose it's MONEY.

What good are looks if im fugging starving and homeless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks or money?"

Neither ! A gsoh comes top for me, who wants someone who spends all there time looking in the mirror an counting the pennies

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Reading back ..... it seems most took it to mean do you want looks or money in a partner.....

Intersting..... I thought it meant what is more important for me to have - looks or money?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men can be gold diggers too, and if I hear myself being described as a good catch ever again I would run away as fast as I can.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

For me I'd rather have the money so I can provide security for my family.

If looking for a partner then its neither personality wins hands down!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a meet situation or away from Fab?

Looks for the former.

For the latter, i would have to take into account his financial situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks. Then the money will come IF you know how to work it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cash = gash baby

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"In a meet situation or away from Fab?

Looks for the former.

For the latter, i would have to take into account his financial situation."

Would you be asking him to provide copies of his bank statements?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a meet situation or away from Fab?

Looks for the former.

For the latter, i would have to take into account his financial situation.

Would you be asking him to provide copies of his bank statements?

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Maybe....but i would be prepared to do the same, say in a house buying situation, having been caught out by someone who wanted me and thought i should keep him, i am now extremely wary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you gotta have money in the bank frank.

your love is such a thrill, but your love doesnt pay the bills.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'll go with money. Looks are subjective and transitory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is money it's always gone before I can spend it lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

what if someone had dreadful looks but were rich and then spent all their money on looking good, so became poor but good looking?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'll go with money. Looks are subjective and transitory.

My money is more transitory than my looks...well, this months was anyway.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"what if someone had dreadful looks but were rich and then spent all their money on looking good, so became poor but good looking? "

They'd be a bit daft.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"what if someone had dreadful looks but were rich and then spent all their money on looking good, so became poor but good looking? "

Like Jodie Marsh .... ( please i can't stop laughing )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But a persons looks are primarily an accident of birth….!.

So surely anyone attaching real importance to a situation that is predominately down to random chance subsequently devalues all those people who happen to be negatively self-conscious about their own appearance.....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"But a persons looks are primarily an accident of birth….!.

That's deep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. The ability to laugh and hold a good conversation far outweigh looks or money. What value friendship?

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