FabSwingers.com forum: Consensual phone sex?

By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I have possibly had a beverage of the alcoholic variety... and the brain goblins are bringing up all sorts of random questions...

If I were actually with a person I'd never met before, I'd be in no state to give consent for actual physical sex (because cider).

However.

If I were on the phone with a person I'd not met before, and the conversation turned saucy, should he deny me phone sex on the grounds I couldn't give sober consent?

Or...

Do I have too many thoughts in my brain?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I think as the receiver of said saucy talk, the ball is in your court so to speak.

It matters if you want it or not.

If the latter be true and if he refuses to desist at your request then there is of course the thankful

Option to hang up on them.

Well…that’s my take at least

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I think as the receiver of said saucy talk, the ball is in your court so to speak.

It matters if you want it or not.

If the latter be true and if he refuses to desist at your request then there is of course the thankful

Option to hang up on them.

Well…that’s my take at least

So... the theoretical refuser should capitulate?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Does talking about sex require consent?

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Daft mare, if you like it do it, if not hang up!

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Does talking about sex require consent? "

With you?

Always

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Daft mare, if you like it do it, if not hang up!"

It's not theoretical me that's the issue... it's theoretical other person.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Tell him to shit or get off the potty.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Neither sober me or tipsy me is any good at phone sex so the question is moot for me

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Tell him to shit or get off the potty."

I would never use such language

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Neither sober me or tipsy me is any good at phone sex so the question is moot for me

Tipsy you and tipsy me should get together

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Consent to listen? Or consent to talk filth?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Neither sober me or tipsy me is any good at phone sex so the question is moot for me

Tipsy you and tipsy me should get together

This is how you know I'm actually tipsy. I put an 'or' instead of a 'nor'. Are you sure we should still get together?

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By *cottishVikingBearMan
over a year ago

N. London

I read this thread title and immediately started thinking it was about those old-school pervs from years ago who'd ring up housewives and do the old heavy breathing routine etc.

Does that still happen? I imagine it's all migrated to chat apps.

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Consent to listen? Or consent to talk filth?"

I think both

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Neither sober me or tipsy me is any good at phone sex so the question is moot for me

Tipsy you and tipsy me should get together

This is how you know I'm actually tipsy. I put an 'or' instead of a 'nor'. Are you sure we should still get together?

Hmm.

I'm not sure now... that's quite a grievous error

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I read this thread title and immediately started thinking it was about those old-school pervs from years ago who'd ring up housewives and do the old heavy breathing routine etc.

Does that still happen? I imagine it's all migrated to chat apps."

How does one heavy breathe over a chat app?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Many years ago I used to do phone sex. Apparently I was quite good at it but I got bored so stopped doing it

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"I think as the receiver of said saucy talk, the ball is in your court so to speak.

It matters if you want it or not.

If the latter be true and if he refuses to desist at your request then there is of course the thankful

Option to hang up on them.

Well…that’s my take at least

So... the theoretical refuser should capitulate?"

I would rather consider putting down the phone as an empowerment and certainly one which is sadly not afforded in a physical encounter.

There is also the added bonus option of letting fly with some insults before slamming the receiver down to

‘Flawless victory!’

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I used to do phonesex to pay the bills, many years ago, as a student. I enjoyed it.

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I read this thread title and immediately started thinking it was about those old-school pervs from years ago who'd ring up housewives and do the old heavy breathing routine etc.

Does that still happen? I imagine it's all migrated to chat apps.

How does one heavy breathe over a chat app?

Never mind...

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Many years ago I used to do phone sex. Apparently I was quite good at it but I got bored so stopped doing it"

I don't know how. I'm too innocent

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Consent to listen? Or consent to talk filth?

I think both

Well its kind of a non starter really since neither of you is under any obligation to the other.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"I read this thread title and immediately started thinking it was about those old-school pervs from years ago who'd ring up housewives and do the old heavy breathing routine etc.

Does that still happen? I imagine it's all migrated to chat apps.

How does one heavy breathe over a chat app?

Never mind...

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I think as the receiver of said saucy talk, the ball is in your court so to speak.

It matters if you want it or not.

If the latter be true and if he refuses to desist at your request then there is of course the thankful

Option to hang up on them.

Well…that’s my take at least

So... the theoretical refuser should capitulate?

I would rather consider putting down the phone as an empowerment and certainly one which is sadly not afforded in a physical encounter.

There is also the added bonus option of letting fly with some insults before slamming the receiver down to

‘Flawless victory!’

And doing the victory booty dance of course.

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I used to do phonesex to pay the bills, many years ago, as a student. I enjoyed it."

We should talk

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"I used to do phonesex to pay the bills, many years ago, as a student. I enjoyed it.

We should talk

Oh, that was a long time ago. I might sound like Joe Pasquale now.

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Consent to listen? Or consent to talk filth?

I think both

Well its kind of a non starter really since neither of you is under any obligation to the other."

It's hypothetical... there's no obligation at all

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I read this thread title and immediately started thinking it was about those old-school pervs from years ago who'd ring up housewives and do the old heavy breathing routine etc.

Does that still happen? I imagine it's all migrated to chat apps.

How does one heavy breathe over a chat app?

Never mind...

That's hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to do phonesex to pay the bills, many years ago, as a student. I enjoyed it.

We should talk

"It's good to talk"

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"I read this thread title and immediately started thinking it was about those old-school pervs from years ago who'd ring up housewives and do the old heavy breathing routine etc.

Does that still happen? I imagine it's all migrated to chat apps.

How does one heavy breathe over a chat app?

Never mind...

That's hot

Especially the giggles

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I used to do phonesex to pay the bills, many years ago, as a student. I enjoyed it.

We should talk

Oh, that was a long time ago. I might sound like Joe Pasquale now."

I might like Joe Pasquale

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I used to do phonesex to pay the bills, many years ago, as a student. I enjoyed it.

We should talk

"It's good to talk""

Bob? Is that you?

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I read this thread title and immediately started thinking it was about those old-school pervs from years ago who'd ring up housewives and do the old heavy breathing routine etc.

Does that still happen? I imagine it's all migrated to chat apps.

How does one heavy breathe over a chat app?

Never mind...

That's hot

Especially the giggles

You should have heard the sexy snortles coming from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to do phonesex to pay the bills, many years ago, as a student. I enjoyed it.

We should talk

"It's good to talk"

Bob? Is that you?"

Ah the mid 90s - and no, I have more hair than him!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I used to do phonesex to pay the bills, many years ago, as a student. I enjoyed it.

We should talk

"It's good to talk"

Bob? Is that you?

Ah the mid 90s - and no, I have more hair than him!"

I miss those days

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

There's only so many times you can say to a guy suckno your finger then trave it.over your body imagining it was my to gue. Yes I was crap bit they came.backmfot more

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

If you're god, don't change career

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"There's only so many times you can say to a guy suckno your finger then trave it.over your body imagining it was my to gue. Yes I was crap bit they came.backmfot more"

This is why you shouldn't sext when d*unk.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

Are we all sending voice notes to Posh?

Just me

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

If you're god, don't change career

Fuck sake

I definitely not god - I'd have more sex if I was

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"There's only so many times you can say to a guy suckno your finger then trave it.over your body imagining it was my to gue. Yes I was crap bit they came.backmfot more"

That's hot

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

Are we all sending voice notes to Posh?

Just me

Oooh. We should

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

If you're god, don't change career

Fuck sake

I definitely not god - I'd have more sex if I was

Is there more sex to have?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

If you're god, don't change career

Fuck sake

I definitely not god - I'd have more sex if I was

Is there more sex to have?

Always!! Until my body fails me and I'm a dehydrated shell

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

If you're god, don't change career

Fuck sake

I definitely not god - I'd have more sex if I was

Is there more sex to have?

Always!! Until my body fails me and I'm a dehydrated shell

Oh to be young and full of vigour

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

If you're god, don't change career

Fuck sake

I definitely not god - I'd have more sex if I was

Is there more sex to have?

Always!! Until my body fails me and I'm a dehydrated shell

That's why God invited ice cream

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

If you're god, don't change career

Fuck sake

I definitely not god - I'd have more sex if I was

Is there more sex to have?

Always!! Until my body fails me and I'm a dehydrated shell

That's why God invited ice cream"

One also needs salt when dehydrated

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

If you're god, don't change career

Fuck sake

I definitely not god - I'd have more sex if I was

Is there more sex to have?

Always!! Until my body fails me and I'm a dehydrated shell

Oh to be young and full of vigour

Nah I don't do much of the work

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

If you're god, don't change career

Fuck sake

I definitely not god - I'd have more sex if I was

Is there more sex to have?

Always!! Until my body fails me and I'm a dehydrated shell

That's why God invited ice cream

One also needs salt when dehydrated

Special sauce??

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

If you're god, don't change career

Fuck sake

I definitely not god - I'd have more sex if I was

Is there more sex to have?

Always!! Until my body fails me and I'm a dehydrated shell

That's why God invited ice cream

One also needs salt when dehydrated

Salted caramel?

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

If you're god, don't change career

Fuck sake

I definitely not god - I'd have more sex if I was

Is there more sex to have?

Always!! Until my body fails me and I'm a dehydrated shell

Oh to be young and full of vigour

Nah I don't do much of the work

Good call...

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

If you're god, don't change career

Fuck sake

I definitely not god - I'd have more sex if I was

Is there more sex to have?

Always!! Until my body fails me and I'm a dehydrated shell

That's why God invited ice cream

One also needs salt when dehydrated

Special sauce??

Yes please

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"There's only so many times you can say to a guy suckno your finger then trave it.over your body imagining it was my to gue. Yes I was crap bit they came.backmfot more

This is why you shouldn't sext when d*unk."
lol I have had a drink and I've never sex text I'd be crap

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Maybe phone sex is a god career change for me

If you're god, don't change career

Fuck sake

I definitely not god - I'd have more sex if I was

Is there more sex to have?

Always!! Until my body fails me and I'm a dehydrated shell

That's why God invited ice cream

One also needs salt when dehydrated

Salted caramel?"

You have the best ideas

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Way way way too much thinking*.

Some of the best phone sex I've had has been when I'm a bit tipsy and my tongue moves more freely. I think if you want to do it, do it. I don't think any person would enjoy slurred words phone sex. It's not something I've done and I'm pretty free with my words.

*I'm teasing you.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"I read this thread title and immediately started thinking it was about those old-school pervs from years ago who'd ring up housewives and do the old heavy breathing routine etc.

Does that still happen? I imagine it's all migrated to chat apps."

Bt call minder sorts them out!

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Way way way too much thinking*.

*I'm teasing you."

Meli... the cider may be talking here... I am a little fixated on the fact that I'm now the envy of the forum because you're teasing me

(I'm not at slurred words... but my tongue is pretty flexible right now)

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I read this thread title and immediately started thinking it was about those old-school pervs from years ago who'd ring up housewives and do the old heavy breathing routine etc.

Does that still happen? I imagine it's all migrated to chat apps.

Bt call minder sorts them out!"

I don't have a landline...

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Way way way too much thinking*.

*I'm teasing you."

I'm no expert but I am pretty sure you aren't supposed to lick the phone, that's not quite how it works.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

i set up a 3 way call with my mum.

drop out and leave them with her.

shes happy to have someone to talk too and im happy to have got rid of them.

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"i set up a 3 way call with my mum.

drop out and leave them with her.

shes happy to have someone to talk too and im happy to have got rid of them."

Your mum gives good phone

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"i set up a 3 way call with my mum.

drop out and leave them with her.

shes happy to have someone to talk too and im happy to have got rid of them.

Your mum gives good phone"

shes very deaf and i tell her its the national lottery

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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"i set up a 3 way call with my mum.

drop out and leave them with her.

shes happy to have someone to talk too and im happy to have got rid of them.

Your mum gives good phone

shes very deaf and i tell her its the national lottery"

Explains all those happy noises

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By *thelenstopMan
over a year ago

St Helens

Anyone for phone fun

Open minded

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By *edonisttMan
over a year ago

London

anyone looking for now?

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Let the boy spunk in his budgie smugglers and go for it a ya filthy buggerlugs

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By *empusMan
over a year ago

Poole

Made me laugh x

Too many thoughts is not a bad thing but I think in this situation you not hanging up would count as consent

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Does the phone need to enter your hole to be classed as phone sex??

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"Does the phone need to enter your hole to be classed as phone sex??

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is that hands free

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Does the phone need to enter your hole to be classed as phone sex??

is that hands free"

You’ve gotta use your thumb if you wanna make them cum

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