FabSwingers.com forum: Shit swinger society

By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Welcome to the shit swinger society this is for those that find it hard to see signs or signals that people want to go upstairs with them at clubs. All are welcome.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

What about those that don’t like clubs?

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Thank god!

We've found our spiritual home....

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Hmmm we get too caught up in the social aspect and haven't played in ages! We feel like virgin swingers and that needs to be remedied!

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"What about those that don’t like clubs?

Maybe that's who he means, almost no one uses clubs percentage-wise.

I read shit flinger, mountain gorilla stylee!

I think signals are hard for everyone to read, especially when so many people love to flirt just for the fun of flirting. I suppose in a club you could much easier say, do you fancy meeting up then (or getting a room or whatever). Sometimes when you make friends though things can become a bit less clear, and people start worrying about rocking the boat. I doubt anyone finds it super easy. pt

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

It’s both for clubs and not at clubs

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"It’s both for clubs and not at clubs"

Clubs are great again we have found as we are older meeting us in person does the trick! Messages on here have dried up & our age seems to be getting in the way.We go to Chams in Birmingham it a good club and very sociable.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"What about those that don’t like clubs?

Why don't you like clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are terrible at taking hints or picking up on cues and “looks of interest”

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"Thank god!

We've found our spiritual home....

Where is your spiritual home?

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"We are terrible at taking hints or picking up on cues and “looks of interest”

I think sometimes you just have to ask & see.x

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"We are terrible at taking hints or picking up on cues and “looks of interest”

That’s what this is for as a trial for like cards at club events that have like a tick box thing

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Oh I belong here

I have had so many missed opportunities because I’ve not picked up on the signs, not been direct enough myself, or overthought it until it’s too late.

Or I am too busy chatting and having fun with friends that I forget that I’m in a sex club

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Oh I belong here

I have had so many missed opportunities because I’ve not picked up on the signs, not been direct enough myself, or overthought it until it’s too late.

Or I am too busy chatting and having fun with friends that I forget that I’m in a sex club

Kx"

Welcome

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"Oh I belong here

I have had so many missed opportunities because I’ve not picked up on the signs, not been direct enough myself, or overthought it until it’s too late.

Or I am too busy chatting and having fun with friends that I forget that I’m in a sex club

Kx"

I am that friend

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Oh I belong here

I have had so many missed opportunities because I’ve not picked up on the signs, not been direct enough myself, or overthought it until it’s too late.

Or I am too busy chatting and having fun with friends that I forget that I’m in a sex club

I am that friend

Hey long time

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

That'll be me then. I keep getting told by people at the end of the evening that they wanted to play but couldn't find me as I was too busy chatting.

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Welcome all let’s build a community that helps each other

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Yep, I am shit at signs, need it spelled out

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Yep, I am shit at signs, need it spelled out "

Same here honestly I’ve missed out on some because I didn’t see the signs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face to face I can normally read or pick up a vibe. By Text? Not so sure.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Maybe we should all wear badges that have yes please on one side and no thanks on the other, turn them over as the mood takes you lol

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Oh I belong here

I have had so many missed opportunities because I’ve not picked up on the signs, not been direct enough myself, or overthought it until it’s too late.

Or I am too busy chatting and having fun with friends that I forget that I’m in a sex club

Kx"

Yeah I’ve done the same as well

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Maybe we should all wear badges that have yes please on one side and no thanks on the other, turn them over as the mood takes you lol"

Was thinking of having cards like the highschool notes

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m ok at spotting the signs I just talk too much!

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Maybe we should all wear badges that have yes please on one side and no thanks on the other, turn them over as the mood takes you lol

Was thinking of having cards like the highschool notes "

Might work lol

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Literally just having this conversation with someone 5 mins ago. Was teasing me a bit and I had to explain I take everything she says literally. I said if you told me to get up and go I would. She thought that was hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about those that don’t like clubs?

Why don't you like clubs?"

They are too peopley

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Literally just having this conversation with someone 5 mins ago. Was teasing me a bit and I had to explain I take everything she says literally. I said if you told me to get up and go I would. She thought that was hilarious

Damn man

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Thank god!

We've found our spiritual home....

Welcome

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Does anyone have any tips

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By *lxsMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

Hello everyone!

A somewhat lucky swinger here, but with extremely bad skill at picking signs/flirting/dating!

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I (Mr) was busy chatting to a guy in a club about the US military.

Mrs WW and another couple had gone off. The other Mr can back after 10 minutes because I was still chatting

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I reckon strike early and try to meet while the iron is hot! If that can't happen and the conversation keeps moving away from sex (or perhaps was never even on it), no harm in saying "do you think we'll ever get it on?". After too much coyness, the chances are nothing will happen perhaps, so maybe also focus elsewhere too. pt

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm the worst swinger ever!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to the universal swinger sign..two hops on the left leg, a flick of the hair and off you go

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I'm the worst swinger ever!!"

But you do win the ‘status of day’ prize

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm the worst swinger ever!!

But you do win the ‘status of day’ prize

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm the worst swinger ever!!

But you do win the ‘status of day’ prize

thanks "

FFS that status is funny

And I'm going to pinch it! The line that is and not your pants

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm the worst swinger ever!!

But you do win the ‘status of day’ prize

thanks

FFS that status is funny

And I'm going to pinch it! The line that is and not your pants

You're welcome

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

"Thank god!

We've found our spiritual home....

Where is your spiritual home?"

One where people don't pick up on signals lol

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Thank god!

We've found our spiritual home....

Where is your spiritual home?

One where people don't pick up on signals lol"

Yep

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If unsure, just ask them if they fancy going to the sex areas.

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"If unsure, just ask them if they fancy going to the sex areas."

But what if someone doesn’t have the confidence to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably the opposite. I'm very happy to strike up a conversation on here that looks promising. The last time I was at a club someone made it pretty clear they were interested in the changing room (I did find them attractive/polite), and I just kinda mumbled 'thanks', and then legged it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I belong here

I have had so many missed opportunities because I’ve not picked up on the signs, not been direct enough myself, or overthought it until it’s too late.

Or I am too busy chatting and having fun with friends that I forget that I’m in a sex club

Kx"

You and me both

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Reading between the lines/ picking up on signals is definitely not my fortay.

And I struggle to flirt

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By *r. IrishMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Last time I was at a club night I was chatting with someone at the bar and I mentioned I hadn't had any luck yet. She responded "did you not see me making signals at you earlier?"

I'm still trying to figure out what the signal was...

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

If anybody wants me, please just say! In clubs and otherwise. Looking back at my life I am certain that there are multiple occasions where someone did fancy me, and I fancied them, but nothing happened because they were expecting me to make a move and I was incapable of reading the situation. I think that I'm a little better at it now, but still not that person who would always know.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

What’s a club?

Is that a biscuit

I like a lot of chocolate on my biscuit

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

signal with words guys, it's just picking the right ones and then committing to them.

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"signal with words guys, it's just picking the right ones and then committing to them."

So true

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"Does anyone have any tips"

Just ask them!

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Welcome to the shit swinger society this is for those that find it hard to see signs or signals that people want to go upstairs with them at clubs. All are welcome."
what about those that can't climb stairs?

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I want to go to more swingers clubs but I don’t want to go on my own . To intense and people stare a lot and have little groups

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"I want to go to more swingers clubs but I don’t want to go on my own . To intense and people stare a lot and have little groups "

That’s the same with any place really even the local pub

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I want to go to more swingers clubs but I don’t want to go on my own . To intense and people stare a lot and have little groups

That’s the same with any place really even the local pub"

No not really, I’m speaking from my experience, the other places I had no problems with

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"I want to go to more swingers clubs but I don’t want to go on my own . To intense and people stare a lot and have little groups

That’s the same with any place really even the local pub

No not really, I’m speaking from my experience, the other places I had no problems with "

Fair enough

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm just joining because I'm a shit swinger

Finally a club I belong in.

Mrs

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Sat at the bar, lady rubbing my inner thigh getting higher & higher…. Just thought it was flirting, got a message the next day saying sorry if they made me feel uncomfortable & they really wanted to go and get naked.

Damn it cock blocked myself - mr

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I was never really impressed by her.

Not even the best looking pussy cat doll.

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I rarely pick up on signals, and when I do I usually misinterpret them.

A woman has to virtually guide me in with glow sticks like an air traffic controller or something.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

I was told to just say to people that I've really enjoyed chatting with them and would love the opportunity to play if they're interested. Sometimes I have forgotten and just pop back and mention it. I'm amazed at the number of times it's had a positive response.

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By *utty_JiggleCouple
over a year ago

Black Country

This is definitely myself and Jiggle. We are awful with non verbal cues and/ or subtle hints.

Nutty

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"This is definitely myself and Jiggle. We are awful with non verbal cues and/ or subtle hints.

Nutty

Same

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