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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was just wondering, to be swinger and to be actually swinging does one not have to be a couple?

If it is, what are the singles on here :-/ and what would that be called when they play? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single and I swing....ergo....i am a single swinger.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"I'm single and I swing....ergo....i am a single swinger. "

What he said, or at least I would be, if I could get time to bloody meet occasionally!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And who do these couples play with when they seek a 'single' male or female to join them ? A swinging single perchance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm single and I swing....ergo....i am a single swinger.

But does it not mean to "swap" partners? If so then you should have a partner to swap and swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...maybe the proper name should be 'A Swingle'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm single and I swing....ergo....i am a single swinger.

But does it not mean to "swap" partners? If so then you should have a partner to swap and swing"

...are you confusing wife swapping with swinging??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really consider myself a swinger, just a person looking for NSA fun with like-minded people via a swingers site and clubs.

Alternatively, I am a swingle, as in a swinging single, and I swing back to my normal life after using FAB and clubs to look for like-minded peeps for NSA fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

probably was confusing the terms - swinging between normal and fab life makes sense swingle sounds cool!

Cheers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm single and I swing....ergo....i am a single swinger.

But does it not mean to "swap" partners? If so then you should have a partner to swap and swing"

Taken from wiki...

Swinging or (rarely) partner swapping is a non-monogamous behavior, in which singles or partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is swinging from partner to partner, and swapping is swapping. You don't have to be in a couple to swing but you do to swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was just wondering, to be swinger and to be actually swinging does one not have to be a couple?

If it is, what are the singles on here :-/ and what would that be called when they play? X"

I am neither a swinger or a swapper...

Just a regular single guy who loves his sex and is open to singles as well as couples! No tag just

HORNY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can be what ever you want to be single or couple as its only a label.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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singles or partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others"

Well in that case - a committed relationship is required so singles are players (Looking for NSA) but not swingers :-/

Thou like the explination given above, swinging between this lifestyle and the more socially acceptable family work etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

explanation :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

singles or partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others

Well in that case - a committed relationship is required so singles are players (Looking for NSA) but not swingers :-/

Thou like the explination given above, swinging between this lifestyle and the more socially acceptable family work etc"

Read it properly. Singles OR people in a relationship. It does not imply the singles have to be in a relationship. Single is solitary in it's definition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....i wouldn't look too deeply into it....just dive in and enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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singles or partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others

Well in that case - a committed relationship is required so singles are players (Looking for NSA) but not swingers :-/

Thou like the explination given above, swinging between this lifestyle and the more socially acceptable family work etc

Read it properly. Singles OR people in a relationship. It does not imply the singles have to be in a relationship. Single is solitary in it's definition "

Right I did jump to a meaning that I wanted to read instead of actually reading...

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"Was just wondering, to be swinger and to be actually swinging does one not have to be a couple?

If it is, what are the singles on here :-/ and what would that be called when they play? X"

For men it would be lucky and for women just other night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 20/01/13 10:47:19]

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

big fan of the term "swingle" kinda sums it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

singles or partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others

Well in that case - a committed relationship is required so singles are players (Looking for NSA) but not swingers :-/

Thou like the explination given above, swinging between this lifestyle and the more socially acceptable family work etc

Read it properly. Singles OR people in a relationship. It does not imply the singles have to be in a relationship. Single is solitary in it's definition

Right I did jump to a meaning that I wanted to read instead of actually reading... "

But it finally answered your question, yes ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I came on fab I'd always thought to be a swinger one had to be in a relationship where both played with other couples , with complete knowledge and acceptance of what each person was doing.

I don't class myself as a swinger but since being on fab I've noticed a lot of singles do class themselves as swingers.

I suppose they do swing from one couple to another or other singles so I guess they are swingers to.

If everyones happy does it matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just a label

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its just a label "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twas an answer to a question

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

The only dictionary definition pertinent to this site that I could find was from the Dictionary of American Slang so as Brits can anyone be a swinger?

The definition given there is 'to be involved in sexual fads, group sex, or the swapping of sexual partners' which could certainly include singles.

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Just to play devils advocate

So a single guy/woman joins fabs or any other site, and is only looking for single guys/women and meets them, so they are called swingers/swingles lol.

A guy/woman goes down the town on a Friday/Saturday night and picks up a man/woman and takes them back to his/her place for fun and leaves after the fun, to go back out the following weekend to pick up another man/woman what are they called.

Surely its the same thing whether you are on a site or not, so does that make all the people having fun on a weekend swingers???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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singles or partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others

Well in that case - a committed relationship is required so singles are players (Looking for NSA) but not swingers :-/

Thou like the explination given above, swinging between this lifestyle and the more socially acceptable family work etc

Read it properly. Singles OR people in a relationship. It does not imply the singles have to be in a relationship. Single is solitary in it's definition

Right I did jump to a meaning that I wanted to read instead of actually reading...

But it finally answered your question, yes ? "

I think it does... But good point raised by above post :-/ what actually makes/classifies/ labels someone a swinger/swingle ? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just to play devils advocate

So a single guy/woman joins fabs or any other site, and is only looking for single guys/women and meets them, so they are called swingers/swingles lol.

A guy/woman goes down the town on a Friday/Saturday night and picks up a man/woman and takes them back to his/her place for fun and leaves after the fun, to go back out the following weekend to pick up another man/woman what are they called.

Surely its the same thing whether you are on a site or not, so does that make all the people having fun on a weekend swingers???

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