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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

What makes a person sexy ?

Repeatedly I read in here ( by men usually ) a confident woman is a sexy woman ? Really ?

I tend to think that males( particularly males on sites such as this ) equate sexiness with 'Is easily available and will perform most if not all sex acts' or in brief , ' Is a dirty bitch.' ( male terminology again )

Women I think tend to judge men externally at the off and then on his character later.

Tosh or not ?

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

not far off the mark i would say oh wise one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say the terms meaning varies with each individual :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. In some ladies I find their grace sexy, the way they move sexy, in others their intellect, and in some the way their facial features are arranged.

Confidence whilst attractive can be a turn off too, it can lead to arrogance, but when a lady has it and uses it correctly well I'm sorry I'm like a dog with two doo-dars!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that's a bit of a generalisation.

The more males I get to chat to from here at socials, are very particular in what they like. You will always get the men that want to use the site to just get a shag, or do things that they wouldn't feel comfortable in suggesting in a vanilla relationship.

Talking for myself, I like to know someone or have a connection before meeting. I have never been able to just jump in the sack with someone.

So I have to see something in the forums, such as style of humour or confidence that attracts me to them. So far I've not been disappointed.

I think the same does go for women, but those that just want a shag don't show up on the forums as moften as their male counterparts.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only met you the once, briefly, Granny.... And I think you are sexy because of the overall character I saw.... Does that make me part of the sweeping generalisation....???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a person sexy ?

Repeatedly I read in here ( by men usually ) a confident woman is a sexy woman ? Really ?

I tend to think that males( particularly males on sites such as this ) equate sexiness with 'Is easily available and will perform most if not all sex acts' or in brief , ' Is a dirty bitch.' ( male terminology again )

Women I think tend to judge men externally at the off and then on his character later.

Tosh or not ?

"

No, not tosh. Think it certainly describes a percentage of both men and women on here, but not the majority....... I hope...

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Absolutely. In some ladies I find their grace sexy, the way they move sexy, in others their intellect, and in some the way their facial features are arranged.

Confidence whilst attractive can be a turn off too, it can lead to arrogance, but when a lady has it and uses it correctly well I'm sorry I'm like a dog with two doo-dars! "

Sounds a bit like, If it's female I'll find a reason to fuck it ' ....

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Only met you the once, briefly, Granny.... And I think you are sexy because of the overall character I saw.... Does that make me part of the sweeping generalisation....???"

I wasn't asking if I was sexy. I know I am.

ooooer.... confidence or arrogance there :P ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds a bit like, If it's female I'll find a reason to fuck it ' .... "

I could do a list of turn offs, but then I could get lampooned for that. All said and done, I don't hop into bed with anyone, I'm beyond that. Its individual taste, and how I feel at the time. Its being human I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sexiness", is surely, in the eyes of the beholder...

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The Q was......

What makes a PERSON sexy?

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


""sexiness", is surely, in the eyes of the beholder..."

So ......If it's in the eye , it's how they look ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Q was......

What makes a PERSON sexy?

"

To be at the right place, at the right time with the right company x

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The Q was......

What makes a PERSON sexy?

To be at the right place, at the right time with the right company x"

Ha! Know what,I'd go with that. I've been horny too sometimes and if there's music, alcohol and dancing ...well......the whole bloody atmosphere is sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""sexiness", is surely, in the eyes of the beholder...

So ......If it's in the eye , it's how they look ?"

How they look, comport themselves, and their eyes.... I have met so-called super models with shark eyes.... And the girl next door with sparkly eyes.....

The former is not sexy, in my opinion....

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

So an ugly bird with warmth in her eyes does it for you ?

How much are spaniels ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So an ugly bird with warmth in her eyes does it for you ?

How much are spaniels ?"

Didn't say ugly....

If I wanted a dog, I'd ask my ex mother-in-law round....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Q was......

What makes a PERSON sexy?

"

For me it's the woman's personality that makes her sexy x

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"So an ugly bird with warmth in her eyes does it for you ?

How much are spaniels ?

Didn't say ugly....

If I wanted a dog, I'd ask my ex mother-in-law round.... "

Ouch ..... I'm sure she has nice eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too every person there is a different distinction to what they find sexy, there is no 1 single factor as to who or why some one is sexy. But as a point as its a sex site lol, every one is sexy as everyone's wanting to shag,

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I think your teat group might be throwing your results out somewhat granny.

I'd agree that a lot of the meet today type posts from men do seem to come across as 'me horny, you fuck' type guys. I think that because the majority of guys who like to get to know people and are a bit more selective elect not to post when they want a meet etc you rarely see that side of 'man' on here.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I like the fact I have a 'teat' group Evesham... makes em sexeh ....

I know, I know, someone swapped your s 'n' a around again !

Think you are right about the flawed sample group tho ....... all very sensitive

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Bloody fat fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Q was......

What makes a PERSON sexy?

"

Honest answer... For me... I don't know. I call it the 'x factor'. And not the tv show...

It's just something about them. Sometimes it's their looks, sometimes it's their sense of humour, sometimes it's the way they look at me. (real life, not profile pics!)

I don't have a 'type'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So an ugly bird with warmth in her eyes does it for you ?

How much are spaniels ?

Didn't say ugly....

If I wanted a dog, I'd ask my ex mother-in-law round....

Ouch ..... I'm sure she has nice eyes. "

Only in the throes of passion..... And many years ago

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You dirty bugger Euro........

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The Q was......

What makes a PERSON sexy?

Honest answer... For me... I don't know. I call it the 'x factor'. And not the tv show...

It's just something about them. Sometimes it's their looks, sometimes it's their sense of humour, sometimes it's the way they look at me. (real life, not profile pics!)

I don't have a 'type'."

I don't know either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a person sexy ?

Repeatedly I read in here ( by men usually ) a confident woman is a sexy woman ? Really ?

I tend to think that males( particularly males on sites such as this ) equate sexiness with 'Is easily available and will perform most if not all sex acts' or in brief , ' Is a dirty bitch.' ( male terminology again )

Women I think tend to judge men externally at the off and then on his character later.

Tosh or not ?

"

Put it this way, a woman who doesn't come across with the goodies is definately NOT sexy.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What makes a person sexy ?

Repeatedly I read in here ( by men usually ) a confident woman is a sexy woman ? Really ?

I tend to think that males( particularly males on sites such as this ) equate sexiness with 'Is easily available and will perform most if not all sex acts' or in brief , ' Is a dirty bitch.' ( male terminology again )

Women I think tend to judge men externally at the off and then on his character later.

Tosh or not ?

Put it this way, a woman who doesn't come across with the goodies is definately NOT sexy. "

See ! hhahahahaaaaaaaaa xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a person sexy ?

Repeatedly I read in here ( by men usually ) a confident woman is a sexy woman ? Really ?

I tend to think that males( particularly males on sites such as this ) equate sexiness with 'Is easily available and will perform most if not all sex acts' or in brief , ' Is a dirty bitch.' ( male terminology again )

Women I think tend to judge men externally at the off and then on his character later.

Tosh or not ?

Put it this way, a woman who doesn't come across with the goodies is definately NOT sexy.

See ! hhahahahaaaaaaaaa xx "

Well it's true, I got plenty of mates who don't come across with the goodies, sure don't need any more. As a man, women were designed for shagging. Being mates comes a distant second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ur either sexy or you arent - to me

i think true sexyness is more than a look and more than an act. its a few ingredients which go together perfectly and appeal to most palates

ur either sexy or you arent

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

when I pull their boxers down, look at it and say 'well hello there'

and not just pull them back up and say 'shut the door behind you'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, in no particular order:

A bright and sunny disposition, which makes moaners and whingers not sexy;

A nice smile (good teeth is important);

A twinkle in their eyes

A deep voice

Intelligence

Confidence

Humble

A sharp wit

Good sense of humour

A good dress sense

Nice hands

Old fashion gentlemanly behaviours

Optional: Easy on the eye and has a well-defined Apollo's Belt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, in no particular order:

A bright and sunny disposition, which makes moaners and whingers not sexy;

A nice smile (good teeth is important);

A twinkle in their eyes

A deep voice

Intelligence

Confidence

Humble

A sharp wit

Good sense of humour

A good dress sense

Nice hands

Old fashion gentlemanly behaviours

Optional: Easy on the eye and has a well-defined Apollo's Belt

"

I agree couldn't have said better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexiness is in the eye of the beholder!

What one person finds sexy another finds a turn off!

But with many men its all visual at first

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"The Q was......

What makes a PERSON sexy?

Honest answer... For me... I don't know. I call it the 'x factor'. And not the tv show...

It's just something about them. Sometimes it's their looks, sometimes it's their sense of humour, sometimes it's the way they look at me. (real life, not profile pics!)

I don't have a 'type'."

I'd agree with this.

I've seen the Adonis types that have left me cold whilst the "geezer" in the beenie hat, Tesco hi viz jacket delivering my shopping has made me come over all unnecessary!

For me, what makes a person sexy is difficult to define.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexiness is in the eye of the beholder!

What one person finds sexy another finds a turn off!

But with many men its all visual at first "

Nature's programming. We're designed to dump our seed in as many as women as possible to keep the species going, but it takes aesthetics to keep the old boy performing.

I'm not fighting four billion years of evolution so I'll stick to fancying the fuck out of someone regardless of whether she's a dopey bint or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a person sexy ?

Repeatedly I read in here ( by men usually ) a confident woman is a sexy woman ? Really ?

I tend to think that males( particularly males on sites such as this ) equate sexiness with 'Is easily available and will perform most if not all sex acts' or in brief , ' Is a dirty bitch.' ( male terminology again )

Women I think tend to judge men externally at the off and then on his character later.

Tosh or not ?

"

Being available and willing doesn't automatically make someone sexy.

Being confident doesn't automatically make someone sexy.

Just because someone might have something sexy about them in any given moment doesn't mean you'd necessarily want to have sex with them.

One of the wonderful things about sexiness is that it lives in the camp of impulse and instinct as opposed to deep defined thought and reasoning.

So although I can give broad brush strokes on what I may find sexy, it's not until I'm faced with the package that I can state whether someone is sexy to me or not.

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

I live almost entirely in a man's world, as all my friends, clients and contacts are all men.

I wouldn't say I'm confident, I just can't show my fear or afford to be a wall flower, and I play a little on being somewhat intimidating in my work role. I just wouldn't survive or be taken seriously if I match them.

Sexually confident, dunno, there's plenty of stuff I've not tried and generally would brick myself, but at the same time, my age gives me the confidence to say what I do and what I don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone feels they are sexy then they are, and it shows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Q was......

What makes a PERSON sexy?

Honest answer... For me... I don't know. I call it the 'x factor'. And not the tv show...

It's just something about them.

Sometimes it's their looks, sometimes

it's their sense of humour, sometimes it's the way they look at me. (real life, not profile pics!)

I don't have a 'type'.

I'd agree with this

I've seen the Adonis types that have left me cold whilst the "geezer" in the

beenie hat, Tesco hi viz jacket

delivering my shopping has made me

come over all unnecessary!

And I agree with the two of you there's a Tesco delivery lady that makes me go all a quiver. And yes Granny your so godamn sexy I melt in your presence

For me, what makes a person sexy is difficult to define."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me what makes a woman sexy is her mind, what she does in bed, her body and her clothes. So the whole package really. Partly but not wholly what the op suggests. But then im a girl so....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You dirty bugger Euro........ "

Guilty.....

In my twenties / thirties I was an "anything with a pulse" type....

Now I have a gentleman's discerning tastes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More personality for me.. If i attacted to the persobality there is a 10/10 chance iwill be attracted to the person.. I normally have a good judge of character and can ween out the arsewholes rather quickly lol..

But personally i think some women over judge men at times..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think your right op

And i will state that most of the men that have posted are talking crap,

Most men ive met at clubs, parties, meets etc et will shag anything and say anything to get a shag,

lets be honest if she half decent, willing and not a bunny boiler, she is sexy and worth a shag.

All this cobwhaollop about got to get along and a attraction its about the mind etc etc

bull!!!

sex sex sex 90%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me what makes a woman sexy is her mind, what she does in bed, her body and her clothes. So the whole package really. Partly but not wholly what the op suggests. But then im a girl so...."

You wouldn't have said any of that if you had a cock.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I think your teat group might be throwing your results out somewhat granny.

i want to join a teat group. what is a teat group. where is my nearest teat group. anyone with a teat group near me please let me know

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"You dirty bugger Euro........

Guilty.....

In my twenties / thirties I was an "anything with a pulse" type....

Now I have a gentleman's discerning tastes.... "

Did you nick it from someone?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

There is sexy on paper/image/screen and sexy in the flesh.

There are some men and women that on paper etc. I just don't find sexy but when I meet them I am attracted. I put it down to pheremones. The right mix and that person is irrisistible. The pheremone mix is also very individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ryan Gosling, allegedly the sexist male alive, does nothing for me, zilch.

However, I find Jean Reno very sexy in Leon.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What makes a person sexy ?

Repeatedly I read in here ( by men usually ) a confident woman is a sexy woman ? Really ?

I tend to think that males( particularly males on sites such as this ) equate sexiness with 'Is easily available and will perform most if not all sex acts' or in brief , ' Is a dirty bitch.' ( male terminology again )

Women I think tend to judge men externally at the off and then on his character later.

Tosh or not ?

Being available and willing doesn't automatically make someone sexy.

Being confident doesn't automatically make someone sexy.

Just because someone might have something sexy about them in any given moment doesn't mean you'd necessarily want to have sex with them.

One of the wonderful things about sexiness is that it lives in the camp of impulse and instinct as opposed to deep defined thought and reasoning.

So although I can give broad brush strokes on what I may find sexy, it's not until I'm faced with the package that I can state whether someone is sexy to me or not. "

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think your teat group might be throwing your results out somewhat granny.

i want to join a teat group. what is a teat group. where is my nearest teat group. anyone with a teat group near me please let me know "

Chortle ....... Someone find this man a teat group ......

Evesham.... where's the teats ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You dirty bugger Euro........

Guilty.....

In my twenties / thirties I was an "anything with a pulse" type....

Now I have a gentleman's discerning tastes....

Did you nick it from someone? "

No-one you know....

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"What makes a person sexy ?

Repeatedly I read in here ( by men usually ) a confident woman is a sexy woman ? Really ?

I tend to think that males( particularly males on sites such as this ) equate sexiness with 'Is easily available and will perform most if not all sex acts' or in brief , ' Is a dirty bitch.' ( male terminology again )

Women I think tend to judge men externally at the off and then on his character later.

Tosh or not ?

"

To me sexiness is indefinable. Some women you will see (to coin a phrase) who are a plain Jane who are sexy as hell. Sometimes you will see a model and think "meh" you are beautiful but not sexy. Of course some models are both beautiful and sexy lol. Naturally what is sexy is different for each person based on what turns them on. For me I find petite women sexy. For another person it might be they find tall woman sexy or women with nice legs sexy etc.

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