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By *_diablo OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton

What reservations would you have about me based on my profile? I’m curious…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be keen based on the fact you've got pics of a few different women on your profile, with faces un-blurred. Can't say your bio would make me think woot!... But that's just my opinion, everyone has their own

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Female pornstars often get treated like total shit mate, as do whores. But I guess that's what you are going for (with the boyfriend thing too) so not sure what you want people to say? pt

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By *_diablo OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton

I hear that. They do all know though but I get it!

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Wouldn't be keen based on the fact you've got pics of a few different women on your profile, with faces un-blurred.'

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Good point, including for said women if they didn't okay it. But even then it doesn't look promising re other women too. Unless the OP is actually looking for budding pornstars I suppose. pt

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I hear that. They do all know though but I get it!"

There's probably of plenty of software or apps that smudge faces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have some good verifications and lots of friends, might be a good idea to ask them about input/feed back to add to your profile.

maybe a some info about what your mainly after singles/couples/parties/groups?

one thing I would change "fu*king whore" to perhaps "whore", it just seems a bit much! Though I get the vibe of what your about.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"whore"???

who could refuse such sweet talk?

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

Action shots put me off every time when I see them in public pics, but oooh who could resist being treated like a porn star and a whore as part of the bf experience Hard pass thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haters, OP. smh

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By *_diablo OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton

Think it might be time to edit the profile text from 2015

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"Think it might be time to edit the profile text from 2015 "

You think?

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Multiple women, with faces unblurred, along with the text would put me off.

Want me to act like a pornstar, you'd better be paying me for my work.

Think you could do much better on the wording. It's not making you sound very appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pictures of people that aren't linked to your profile, being a single man.

Looking at responses here, it seems you've changed your bio, though even then porn star sex to me suggests derogatory sex, to me at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear that. They do all know though but I get it!"

It's against site rules. I'd assume that you don't care about people's privacy.

Didn't bother reading any text.

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1


"I hear that. They do all know though but I get it!

It's against site rules. I'd assume that you don't care about people's privacy.

Didn't bother reading any text. "

This. I wouldn’t read your profile. I don’t need to see pics of you with loads of other women

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

There's no profile to speak of!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather not help someone disguise red flags

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"What reservations would you have about me based on my profile? I’m curious…"

Discretion. I mean the girl in the pic maybe given permission to being fisted on the internet but only certain types of people would upload it to their profile like a trophy, and that would be an instant no to many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile content other than pornstar, which makes me think of paid action that is solely to get the guy off, & has pics of people other than the profile holder. Both aspects are red flags IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather not help someone disguise red flags "

This.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I get the impression that your ONLY interest in life is degrading women - calling that a reservation is an understatement. K

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"What reservations would you have about me based on my profile? I’m curious…

Discretion. I mean the girl in the pic maybe given permission to being fisted on the internet but only certain types of people would upload it to their profile like a trophy, and that would be an instant no to many "

I also thought that was illegal to show

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

You asked O.P. and I will take the opportunity to tell......

1. Your name means the Devil ..... a good indication of how you see yourself and wish others to see you.

2. All of your pictures are you 'DOING' things to women for your own pleasure or of THEM pleasuring you.

3. You mention 'pornstar sex' which means that the women will be little else than cum buckets so maybe you are trying to attract males.

My greatest reservation is that there doesn't appear to be anything attractive on your profile either physically or psychologically.

I'm sure it's working for you O.P.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile says nothing about you but your pics say everything.... you seem to have no respect for your sexual conquests in regards to their privacy. We only have your word for it that they have consented to those pics being shown. Any single man/women who have these shots on their profile, always shows a red flag to me....it like "oh look I've had sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the pictures I can see of you, you’re attractive OP and you have a great body. The multiple women in your gallery and action shots would put me off. Adding some new pictures that are of yourself would be a good idea, also writing a decent bio helps.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Last veri in 2015 with no explanation of why no meets in the last 8 years is a red flag for me. Tho the feedback from my fellow Forumites above may offer some explanation

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Last veri in 2015 with no explanation of why no meets in the last 8 years is a red flag for me. Tho the feedback from my fellow Forumites above may offer some explanation"

He's probably had meets. No verification doesn't mean no meets took place. I think that just indicates that the O.P.meets in a different way to some.

To me this thread has a purpose other than the title and that's fine

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i


"I'd rather not help someone disguise red flags

This.

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Same, sorrynotsorry

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Pornstar sex?

More Aldi level with some of those pictures and all the background mess in them!

Need a good tidy room in future.

Get all your pictures round the right way as well.

Less women, more you in your pictures as its not a couples profile it's yours.

More bio write up.

And what others have said above.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The pornstar sex....I mean it's just fake stuff as far as I'm concerned also the women in your photos as others have said.

There's nothing about what you have to offer, what your looking for or anything really.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What reservations would you have about me based on my profile? I’m curious…"

There are 10 points on your profile that I have reservations about. But someone else might see those 10 as appealling.

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By *carlettVanillaWoman
over a year ago

Gloucesterish

No Veris, lack of a bio and photos of women are 3 major deal breaking red flags for me.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I'd rather not help someone disguise red flags

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I doubt that's what he meant, but it's not a bad point pt

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Wouldn't be keen based on the fact you've got pics of a few different women on your profile, with faces un-blurred. Can't say your bio would make me think woot!... But that's just my opinion, everyone has their own "

Exactly this

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