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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a friend who loves domination and loves to sub, she loves the cnc fetish,

My question what advice can you give me?

We talk loads and it’s what she wants but I need some confidence boosting

I have always been the care giver Dom, but she is basicaly after Dom with no care

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Get her to write out her wants and boundaries and then discuss.

For CNC I STRONGLY advise having some form of contract written up and signed by you both.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Ah apologies you need advice for yourself.

If you’re not into it then do t do it, simple as that. Just because she wants something doesn’t mean you should do it.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Biggest advice would be to look at the big BDSM site that starts with F and ends in E. Theres some great advice on there and forums to ask questions on too. Also Red it has forums to ask the questions and see what other people have asked as your questions may be similar

Its always helpful to write down boundaries (hard and soft limits) and agree before any scenario and have honest conversations with each other about how you both feel about it

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

Do not enter into CNC lightly. It is something I do after talking it through in great depth and only with someone I trusted implicitly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly why would you want to do something just to scratch someone's else's kink /itch? Why not let them get that from someone else and enjoy what you actually want with that person

You don't have to be all things just because you are having sex with someone?

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