FabSwingers.com forum: Why

By *.R.M OP Man
over a year ago

Norfolk

Do people put on their status “Thank you for last night/today - you know who you are”

Why not just tell that person directly ?

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Attention seeking....they want people to know they may have had sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause they're shy.

Be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s attention seeking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Attention seeking....they want people to know they may have had sex! "

The cynicism. Honestly.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

It’s so folk think they been shagging instead of watching Bergerac on the telly.

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Why does it affect you? Unless you're that person then it shouldn't bother you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag was shit so they've blocked em already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because in most cases the other person doesn’t even exist

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"It’s so folk think they been shagging instead of watching Bergerac on the telly."

Hetty Wainthropp for me

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Because this person exists only in their imagination.

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By *he Vital SparkMan
over a year ago

Preston

"It’s so folk think they been shagging instead of watching Bergerac on the telly."

, much prefer Howard's Way

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"It’s so folk think they been shagging instead of watching Bergerac on the telly.

, much prefer Howard's Way

I prefer howards end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would like to thank all the people we did not have sex with last night.. you know who you are.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

And I suspect it’s a conversation starter

“So tell me about this shag you had” as they sit there in their undies, getting all aroused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because this person exists only in their imagination. "

Don't be throwing shade at the corporeally challenged. Especially as they can't cast their own.

That's just, mean.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I would say it could be attention seeking, here is another thing, maybe it didnt happen at all.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Because they're buzzing with joy and acting out one of the greatest songs of all time.

https://youtu.be/lQlIhraqL7o

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Loads of people put ‘you know who you are’ on forum posts and no one knows you it is…

When me and C had single profiles but were FWB’s I’d put a cryptic status up that only she’d know, without saying ‘you know who you are’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the more pertinent question should be ‘why do people start threads questioning people’s behaviour on here’ ?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"It’s so folk think they been shagging instead of watching Bergerac on the telly."

I'm quite fond of a bit of Bergerac

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Do people put on their status “Thank you for last night/today - you know who you are”

Why not just tell that person directly ? "

Because they have something missing in their life and they don't receive enough attention or any whatsoever so they believe by doing this people will think their life is better than it is .. sad really but common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are just letting the fab world know they’ve had sex…… good on em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Attention seeking....they want people to know they may have had sex! "

This.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Yes it's attention seeking, but meh everyone does it to an extent on here and on other platforms. From I've had a rubbish day to I'm so tired after last night's fun. It's the way of the modern world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know but they aren’t doing anyone any harm

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Yes everything is attention seeking

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Do people put on their status “Thank you for last night/today - you know who you are”

Why not just tell that person directly ? "

They probably didn't even meet anyone and were watching Eurovision! There's a hell of a lot of fantasy on here

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

And everybody is offended by everything - 2023

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I think the more pertinent question should be ‘why do people start threads questioning people’s behaviour on here’ ?

Same reason that most threads are started. Is this thread anymore irrelevant than 'what's for tea' type threads ?

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By *.R.M OP Man
over a year ago

Norfolk

"And everybody is offended by everything - 2023"

I didn’t say I was offended. I was just curious as to why they didn’t tell the person directly

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"I think the more pertinent question should be ‘why do people start threads questioning people’s behaviour on here’ ?

Same reason that most threads are started. Is this thread anymore irrelevant than 'what's for tea' type threads ?"

We know how threads work.. it's bitchy

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

"Because this person exists only in their imagination. "

A figment of their masturbation!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Because they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they aren’t in direct contact with the other person/s eg club but didn’t get any contact details or fab username.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

This whole thread.

Meowww

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Because he likes it

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"It’s so folk think they been shagging instead of watching Bergerac on the telly."

If you're watching Bergerac, I'm coming round

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Do people put on their status “Thank you for last night/today - you know who you are”

Why not just tell that person directly ? "
because they are telling everyone they had sex last night, make others envious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes them more alluring! Or they are genuinely still buzzing and will get blocked if they send another' last night blew my brains' message

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Discretion, an air of mystery, they've forgotten the person's name or never knew it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Attention seeking....they want people to know they may have had sex! "

Nobody on this site has sex apparently it doesn’t add up

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Jesus! You lot are a bit bitter and nasty this morning!

I see it as the joy and pleasure that can’t be confined and isn’t satisfied by just telling one person, so they tell everyone.

I’d much rather see a happy person than the slew of negative and desperate updates that tend to prevail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because this person exists only in their imagination.

A figment of their masturbation!"

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Because the person is ignoring them

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Because the person is ignoring them

I knew that status wouldn't work with you

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Its the same on some Hotlist confession, Secret Crush threads, if they know who they are then why post 'they know who they are'. find it a bit strange as to tell other people, they know who they ae.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Because if they all put my name the mrs would clock on.

The mr

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Because why not

Also naming isn’t allowed

It’s only a status, people run their profile their way

My question would be why does it bother you if they’re having sex or not, if they’re lying or having a blast makes no difference to anyone else, let others have enjoyment in their own way without feeling judged

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