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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath

So what's people's experience does it happen? More than urban myth

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

What do you mean by spontaneous?

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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath


"What do you mean by spontaneous? "

Shall we say 24 hours ..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like walking down the street and suddenly I start throwing confetti and blowing a whistle like Rip Taylor?

Because that's littering, as well as noise pollution.

Not fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you mean by spontaneous?

Shall we say 24 hours ..?"

In clubs absolutely.

Met people and started playing within the hour.

Outside of clubs, only with a couple I had met before. Apart from that it's always been a bit more planned

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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath


"Like walking down the street and suddenly I start throwing confetti and blowing a whistle like Rip Taylor?

Because that's littering, as well as noise pollution.

Not fun."

Lol thinking you've gone down a hole other thread yeah but like your thinking

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Stopped off in a layby last weekend...totally spontaneous and sent the pictures to Paul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very spontaneous yet 7 years later he’s one of my closest friends, an absolute gem.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Spontaneous is upping sticks and heading for the station surely. You can't beat two parties in heat. pt

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've had plenty of offers, but never taken any up. Just don't feel safe meeting anyone like that.

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

It happens, and can be amazing. The start of me seeing someone from here was very spontaneous, we had spoke previously, but didn't go anywhere and the conversation died out. Then she randomly texted me out of thEblue while I was at work, because she saw I was online and within a mile. Our 1st meet was about 2 hours later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it easier to be spontaneous (48 hours) than to commit weeks in advance

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Much less can go wrong for sure. So much can happen when you plan days or weeks ahead it should be considered a bonus it it actually comes off imo. pt

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

I don't really do meets from here now but when I did I always had spontaneous ones just a few messages then meet. Haven't the time or inclination for lots of chat beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can’t really do spontaneous due to family and work commitments.

When we met though it was pretty spontaneous, think we had only been chatting for a couple of days.

Mrs

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Spontaneous meets of the social variety are good. You still get that little thrill and buzz of an unplanned meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ever meet from here was first message at about midday and then he arrived at about 7pm, I had only been on the site about a day!

Haven't done anything that spontaneous since sadly.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I often have meets on a spur of the moment.

A busy home life & randomly horny, means I have to get it when I can

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"So what's people's experience does it happen? More than urban myth "

It definitely happens.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It happens. I haven't. I wouldn't.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Is that something a bit like spontaneous combustion?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm super spontaneous!! Once I've spoken to you for several weeks, met you socially and have had the opportunity to shave and prep myself physically to the point where I'm happy meeting you within the next couple of hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Birthday parties and club meets. Some within hours of messaging. There was no cake though

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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath


"Birthday parties and club meets. Some within hours of messaging. There was no cake though "

Can't have everything bud

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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath


"I'm super spontaneous!! Once I've spoken to you for several weeks, met you socially and have had the opportunity to shave and prep myself physically to the point where I'm happy meeting you within the next couple of hours "

Lol wow you truly are indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me time to shave my balls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would do it if the right person asked.

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

When married we would do spontaneous meets fairly regularly. But that was on different sites in a different country. Could be any time weekends, weekdays just depended on our moods and who was chatting online. Here in the uk on most warm weekends we would suddenly get the urge and go Dogging or if a warm day go to a secluded nudist beach. Not actually met anyone on this site at all but could be due to where I live lol. Although I have had spontaneous sex with some ladies from the pubs.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham


"So what's people's experience does it happen? More than urban myth "

When I am out pretty much everything is spontaneous fun.

I tell people where I am going and a few guys usually say they will get out and come and see me. They very rarely bother themselves, but generally there will be lots of guys out anyway, a lot of whom I have never met before, but I like being friendly and generally I end up having spontaneous fun with guys, quite often more than one!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Like the weather forecast

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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath


"I would do it if the right person asked."

Lol so there hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem with spontaneous is that most men expect us women to be sat around, fully hairless, make up and hair done and dressed sexy all of the time.

Maybe I am just lazy, but this kind of readiness almost never happens! If you want that, then I need time to prepare, like most of a day, not just an hour.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The problem with spontaneous is that most men expect us women to be sat around, fully hairless, make up and hair done and dressed sexy all of the time.

Maybe I am just lazy, but this kind of readiness almost never happens! If you want that, then I need time to prepare, like most of a day, not just an hour. "

Or even not... Just because we're online, doesn't mean we don't have other commitments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem with spontaneous is that most men expect us women to be sat around, fully hairless, make up and hair done and dressed sexy all of the time.

Maybe I am just lazy, but this kind of readiness almost never happens! If you want that, then I need time to prepare, like most of a day, not just an hour.

Or even not... Just because we're online, doesn't mean we don't have other commitments "

Very true. Online means we must be gagging for it right this second. And also available.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Spontaneous is kind of night out on the town and getting off with someone. Of course it happens. Swing meets are more planned and organised.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I’m spontaneous

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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath


"I’m spontaneous "

Ok then I'll pick u up from Heathrow in 8 hours lol

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel


"I’m spontaneous

Ok then I'll pick u up from Heathrow in 8 hours lol "
I’m on my way

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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath


"I’m spontaneous

Ok then I'll pick u up from Heathrow in 8 hours lol I’m on my way "

Okey dokey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem with spontaneous is that most men expect us women to be sat around, fully hairless, make up and hair done and dressed sexy all of the time.

Maybe I am just lazy, but this kind of readiness almost never happens! If you want that, then I need time to prepare, like most of a day, not just an hour.

Or even not... Just because we're online, doesn't mean we don't have other commitments

Very true. Online means we must be gagging for it right this second. And also available. "

A gimp mask would shave a hour or two off dressing time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were at a club recently and went into the cinema.

We hadn’t discussed this possibility but Dora attracted the interest of around a dozen guys.

Very soon many hands and mouths were all over her and she was carried to the bed in the corner and a great time was had.

She was as surprised and as pleased as I was by this unplanned but very erotic adventure.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Spontaneity and good sex have always gone together.

Parts of the world actually have population problems because everything is so planned these days. pt

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Only ever experienced it once but it wasn't very fulfilling so much prefer getting to know people first.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

When I know I have a rare weekend on my own for sure, generally it's mainly spontaneously meeting men at socials

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By *layful Harlequin OP   Man
over a year ago

iver heath

Airport was a washout lol

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"The problem with spontaneous is that most men expect us women to be sat around, fully hairless, make up and hair done and dressed sexy all of the time.

Maybe I am just lazy, but this kind of readiness almost never happens! If you want that, then I need time to prepare, like most of a day, not just an hour. "

I tbink getting ready in a hurry is my superpower.. I can go from being in my pj's, to shaved, washed.. make up on and lingerie all sorted in less than an hour x lol

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