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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you do in preparation?

Meeting later today and she is staying over for the first time, so arguably I am beyond excitement.

Yesterday evening I went out and bought food, enough to feet a small army (overdid it on the food the last time she came too).

Last night I went to bed too excited, woke horny at 2.00, then again at 4.30 and finally got up at 8.00. I am now pfaffing with domestic shit, but shall have a lovely long soak nearer the time, and then I'll get the shivers as the witching hour approaches.

The shivers are weird cos they are uncontrollable.

What do others do in preparation? Do you get nervous? Do you have a routine? Or are you all calm and serene and balanced?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I get very nervous, shower, style my hair, dress and still feel nervous

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get very nervous, shower, style my hair, dress and still feel nervous

I have showered, but will have a soak later to relax. Hair is short so no styling. I should not be nervous as we have known each other five years, but...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually have to take a shot of one those canned vodka mixers . .

A nervous wreck is what I typically am ..lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I just get nervous.

Mrs

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Oh OP! I was going to comment on another thread where you said about waking up early due to excitement - I know that feeling. I hope you have a truly fantastic time and some wonderful memories are made.

This will come as little surprise to anyone who's read a bit of my waffling or knows me. I get excited. Very excited.

Just this morning I've been audio-ing a friend full of excited energy about meeting someone very soon. It's daft really but it's who I am.

I do get a little bit nervous, yes. It's adrenaline, some slight nerves and the sheer joy at the fact I'll be meeting someone who says my name so beautifully.

I don't have a routine as such, a day or two before I start thinking about what to wear, making sure I exfoliate and do all the grooming things that make me feel confident and as close to sexy as I get. I tend to eat better, a lot more fruit, drink more water and be more active.

I like listening to certain music as it gets closer, those little flutters when I see a message saying "I've been thinking about you Meli". That nervous excitement as I'm getting ready on the day.

All of that is a massive rush to me, an intoxicating one I can't help but lean into time and time again.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I get very nervous, shower, style my hair, dress and still feel nervous

I have showered, but will have a soak later to relax. Hair is short so no styling. I should not be nervous as we have known each other five years, but..."

Nerves are good, it means you're excited.

Hope you both have a good time

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

I can’t eat and Physically feel sick with nerves.

I then have a fight with myself over what to wear and normally have half my wardrobe flung on my bed trying to find something I don’t feel fat in!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I usually have to take a shot of one those canned vodka mixers . .

A nervous wreck is what I typically am ..lol

Never tried the vodka mixers, contemplating the G&T. No point having an IPA as that will just make the butterflies in my stomach worse!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

So excited have to hold my knees together

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh OP! I was going to comment on another thread where you said about waking up early due to excitement - I know that feeling. I hope you have a truly fantastic time and some wonderful memories are made.

This will come as little surprise to anyone who's read a bit of my waffling or knows me. I get excited. Very excited.

Just this morning I've been audio-ing a friend full of excited energy about meeting someone very soon. It's daft really but it's who I am.

I do get a little bit nervous, yes. It's adrenaline, some slight nerves and the sheer joy at the fact I'll be meeting someone who says my name so beautifully.

I like listening to certain music as it gets closer, those little flutters when I see a message saying "I've been thinking about you Meli". That nervous excitement as I'm getting ready on the day.

All of that is a massive rush to me, an intoxicating one I can't help but lean into time and time again. "

Smiling.

Music, I forgot about music, if I put on Spotify random it will play songs from all different periods of my life and my mind will follow them.

Still way too happy and excited

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

As I tend to repeat meet, It's more of a Insane happiness rather than a butterfly nervous feeling. You know when Yvaine just "Shines" in Stardust... I feel like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'd say I have lascivious thoughts and almost transform into those rather than get excited....

I solved the food thing a long time ago .. buy sod all.. buy what's needed when it's needed or order in or go out.

House is always visitor ready.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"As I tend to repeat meet, It's more of a Insane happiness rather than a butterfly nervous feeling. You know when Yvaine just "Shines" in Stardust... I feel like that

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Or a continuous orgasm maybe

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"As I tend to repeat meet, It's more of a Insane happiness rather than a butterfly nervous feeling. You know when Yvaine just "Shines" in Stardust... I feel like that

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I'd say I have lascivious thoughts and almost transform into those rather than get excited....

I solved the food thing a long time ago .. buy sod all.. buy what's needed when it's needed or order in or go out.

House is always visitor ready. "
really you have to wade through macky bags?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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"I can’t eat and Physically feel sick with nerves.

I then have a fight with myself over what to wear and normally have half my wardrobe flung on my bed trying to find something I don’t feel fat in! "

Keep pressing return without typing the comment. Sorry.

I seem to have no problem eating and we eat when she is here.

Clothes! I had not thought about clothes cos I am not going out, but tracking bottoms and a baggy sweater is probably not the look

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As I tend to repeat meet, It's more of a Insane happiness rather than a butterfly nervous feeling. You know when Yvaine just "Shines" in Stardust... I feel like that

I love Stardust (that, the Fifth Element and anything with Minions I can watch again and again).

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

"[Removed by poster at 13/05/23 10:35:39]

I can’t eat and Physically feel sick with nerves.

I then have a fight with myself over what to wear and normally have half my wardrobe flung on my bed trying to find something I don’t feel fat in!

Keep pressing return without typing the comment. Sorry.

I seem to have no problem eating and we eat when she is here.

Clothes! I had not thought about clothes cos I am not going out, but tracking bottoms and a baggy sweater is probably not the look

The tracky bottoms could work…. Grey ones especially from what I hear.

Maybe give the baggy sweater a miss and select a nice fitting white tshirt… big no to football shirts but that’s just my opinion…. Unless she’s a footie fan and you both support the same team… lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say I have lascivious thoughts and almost transform into those rather than get excited....

I solved the food thing a long time ago .. buy sod all.. buy what's needed when it's needed or order in or go out.

House is always visitor ready. "

just looked up the meaning to be sure: "feeling or revealing an overt sexual interest or desire."

Example "he gave her a lascivious wink"

The thoughts are there and they will not be confined to a wink!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't, by the time we're meeting we should have a pretty good handle on each other.

I find the drive to a new area I don't know more irritating, can I park easily? Is there a ULEZ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As I tend to repeat meet, It's more of a Insane happiness rather than a butterfly nervous feeling. You know when Yvaine just "Shines" in Stardust... I feel like that

Or a continuous orgasm maybe

I must have missed the bit where Yvaine has a continuous orgasm. There us a bed scene, but the 'shine' is just exquisite

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The tracky bottoms could work…. Grey ones especially from what I hear.

My auto correct cuts in on 'tracky'! I keep failing to spot it.

In grey ones and the big sweater at the mo. Shall doll myself up. Iron will have to be used for second time this week (since the pandemic, suits and work shirts see little wear, but yesterday I had to go to a client's for a meeting).

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'd say I have lascivious thoughts and almost transform into those rather than get excited....

I solved the food thing a long time ago .. buy sod all.. buy what's needed when it's needed or order in or go out.

House is always visitor ready. really you have to wade through macky bags?

You won't be there Macky! Your bags will be safe.

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Very excited and nervous. The overthinking of what to wear comes in, and on the odd occasion I get the shurken stomach feeling where I just can't eat, which is massively annoying because a lot of my meets involve food lol.

It takes a couple of meets for this to subside slightly, the good excitement stays, but the negative parts that can be attached to it fade, I would be very worried if that excited feeling just there. It would leave me thinking if I'm really that into them. x

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

I love having that mix of nerves and excitement before a meet.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I Don't get nervous! Excited yes especially first meet! But sounds wonderful op have a lovely evening x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Nervous myself. Several shits prior, followed by a shower each time. That's why i prefer clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I Don't get nervous! Excited yes especially first meet! But sounds wonderful op have a lovely evening x"

I shall do, thanks.

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
over a year ago

kendal

For me, it depends who it is and how much sexual tension has been built before hand!

But I love the nervous, excited, horny feeling!

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By *appy HoHolly DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I don’t have any meets so I can’t tell but your evening sounds lovely, have a great time!

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I do get incredibly excited. I also get massive anxiety though if I really like them and it’s a new sleepover. Almost to the point of cancelling!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very excited and nervous. The overthinking of what to wear comes in, and on the odd occasion I get the shurken stomach feeling where I just can't eat, which is massively annoying because a lot of my meets involve food lol.

This is the third time we have met in five years (few years halt with yhe pandemic and then our calendars never combined, though we did meet two weeks ago). So despite chatting for years, it definitely is nerves. The shivering is excitement.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

All the emotions. At double speed.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

"What do you do in preparation?

Meeting later today and she is staying over for the first time, so arguably I am beyond excitement.

Yesterday evening I went out and bought food, enough to feet a small army (overdid it on the food the last time she came too).

The shivers are weird cos they are uncontrollable.

What do others do in preparation? Do you get nervous? Do you have a routine? Or are you all calm and serene and balanced?"

Make sure my house is clean and prepped, shower dress and thats it.

I am usually very relaxed about a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just get nervous.

Mrs "

Which is why I usually give bad bitch as little notice as possible for new meets - we do organise between the four of us with friends

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I don't get excited until they're right there in front of me.

It they're coming to mine, I hoover, tidy up and put clean bedding on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get butterflies before a meet, even people I've seen before and know i still get them

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I love that you are so excited.

I hope someone would feel that way about me some day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get so insanely nervous, super anxious, which is ridiculous really.

I probably have about 10 nervous wees in the 30mins before they turn up or I have to go!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't get excited until they're right there in front of me.

It they're coming to mine, I hoover, tidy up and put clean bedding on. "

Clean bedding done, tidying up mostly done, I hate my Dyson with a vengeance so we shall see.

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

The build up and anticipation is a huge part of the excitement

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get so insanely nervous, super anxious, which is ridiculous really.

I probably have about 10 nervous wees in the 30mins before they turn up or I have to go! "

Noooooo. No nervous wees here, but then I probably don't drink enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The build up and anticipation is a huge part of the excitement"

It is. Two weeks ago I think the nerves/excitement were due to the fact that we'd not physically met for years (blame covid), whilst this time it's "I had such a good time last time, but I can't believe she's taken time out and is going to stay over".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get so insanely nervous, super anxious, which is ridiculous really.

I probably have about 10 nervous wees in the 30mins before they turn up or I have to go!

Noooooo. No nervous wees here, but then I probably don't drink enough."

I have a meet tomorrow, so will have to start dehydrating myself from now! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To excited lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spend a week excited, book a hotel, baby sitter, animal watcher, buy new underwear, book the day off, get hair done, sunbed or three and then wake up on the big day to an early period, game over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get so insanely nervous, super anxious, which is ridiculous really.

I probably have about 10 nervous wees in the 30mins before they turn up or I have to go!

Noooooo. No nervous wees here, but then I probably don't drink enough.

I have a meet tomorrow, so will have to start dehydrating myself from now! Lol. "

That made me chuckle.

I had a G&T half an hour ago. Still six hours til she arrives, I could be pickled.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Spend a week excited, book a hotel, baby sitter, animal watcher, buy new underwear, book the day off, get hair done, sunbed or three and then wake up on the big day to an early period, game over."

Bugger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends there’s always excitment no mater what

But if it’s someone new that I have never meet before then there’s nerves there as well

That I live up to expectations and stuff

If it’s someone I meet there’s a little but not much

I have learned not to get excited for meets as if I get let down I not be as bummed out

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I feel like I imagine a kid does knowing they're going to Disney land. I wouldn't say I get nervous until maybe the last hour but those nerves soon pass once I've kissed them.

Hope you have a lovely time OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone new I'll get nervous.

And stupidly nervous and get the shakes. This is usually at its worst just as I leave my house and then again just as I get close to my destination.

I'm pretty much the same as the posters above with preparing for a meet, making sure the house is in order if anyone actually comes to me which is quite rare. But usually I go to them so it's all about personal grooming, wondering what the hell I'm going to wear etc.

I tend to have repeat meets so nervousness isn't a thing but sexual excitement is along with the person making me smile because of who they are.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I'd say I have lascivious thoughts and almost transform into those rather than get excited....

I solved the food thing a long time ago .. buy sod all.. buy what's needed when it's needed or order in or go out.

House is always visitor ready. really you have to wade through macky bags?

You won't be there Macky! Your bags will be safe."
lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends there’s always excitment no mater what

But if it’s someone new that I have never meet before then there’s nerves there as well

That I live up to expectations and stuff

If it’s someone I meet there’s a little but not much

I have learned not to get excited for meets as if I get let down I not be as bummed out "

This is still nerves as there is the self doubt. One of my mates once said to me when I told him I might date again, that I'd never find two women who would sleep with me. He was always good at quick with replies that others laughed at, but it does lodge in the back of the mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel like I imagine a kid does knowing they're going to Disney land. I wouldn't say I get nervous until maybe the last hour but those nerves soon pass once I've kissed them.

Hope you have a lovely time OP

Yep, the kiss happens as soon as she walks in the door and I melt and everything is right in the world.

Thanks, I am sure we will.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And stupidly nervous and get the shakes. This is usually at its worst just as I leave my house and then again just as I get close to my destination.

Exactly this, and it is on repeat meets. It's the anticipation, the joy, excitement, expectation, worry - all sorts of emotions, resulting in uncontrollable shivering as though I had just walked out into temperatures of -20 without a hat, coat or gloves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did it go? Lazy sunny Sunday morning sex we hope

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How did it go? Lazy sunny Sunday morning sex we hope

She is still here, so can't be all bad. All be it that she is currently asleep in bed. Maybe I should not be on Fab at the mo while she snoozes next to me.

I am an idiot. But a very content one.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"How did it go? Lazy sunny Sunday morning sex we hope

She is still here, so can't be all bad. All be it that she is currently asleep in bed. Maybe I should not be on Fab at the mo while she snoozes next to me.

I am an idiot. But a very content one."

I'd be majorly pissed off if it were me and woke to see you on fab...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't get nervous or excited about fab meets or in fact about anything at all. I've explained the reasons why in other threads but a lot of people don't understand why I'm don't have nervous anticipation of any event but will always be present in the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How did it go? Lazy sunny Sunday morning sex we hope

She is still here, so can't be all bad. All be it that she is currently asleep in bed. Maybe I should not be on Fab at the mo while she snoozes next to me.

I am an idiot. But a very content one.

I'd be majorly pissed off if it were me and woke to see you on fab...

Lunch now, so I think it's OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How did it go? Lazy sunny Sunday morning sex we hope

She is still here, so can't be all bad. All be it that she is currently asleep in bed. Maybe I should not be on Fab at the mo while she snoozes next to me.

I am an idiot. But a very content one."

Well at least you’re being positive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How did it go? Lazy sunny Sunday morning sex we hope

She is still here, so can't be all bad. All be it that she is currently asleep in bed. Maybe I should not be on Fab at the mo while she snoozes next to me.

I am an idiot. But a very content one.

Well at least you’re being positive

We both had a pleasurable weekend (and she had been on Fab before she started dozing).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get nervous just excited that I’m finally meeting the guy I’ve been chatting to for ages

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By *ourisfunCouple
over a year ago

Central

"I can’t eat and Physically feel sick with nerves.

I then have a fight with myself over what to wear and normally have half my wardrobe flung on my bed trying to find something I don’t feel fat in! "

This is me too!!

Mr tends to be relatively unfazed though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excited and full of anticipation I shower put on a nice outfit do my make up and last but not least spritz on a chosen fragrance.

I never get netvous

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