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"Not for me. A problem with the implant meant we had to do this for months and it’s a complete mood killer. Blood isn’t sexy." I agree, have had a little experience of this when the lady has just started on the day when very faint but just not for me. That said I,m well aware it can be a time that some women are very aroused but can have plenty of fun without penetration. | |||
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"Not for me. A problem with the implant meant we had to do this for months and it’s a complete mood killer. Blood isn’t sexy. I agree, have had a little experience of this when the lady has just started on the day when very faint but just not for me. That said I,m well aware it can be a time that some women are very aroused but can have plenty of fun without penetration. " Instinctively I don’t think we’re wired to feel aroused when we see blood. Obviously it’s a bit shit if that’s when certain women are more horny but at least they know how men feel when we’re not allowed to touch big old pregnancy boobs | |||
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"Not for me. A problem with the implant meant we had to do this for months and it’s a complete mood killer. Blood isn’t sexy." I agree that it feels like a mood killer. Someone I have been with really wants it and I feel so bad for having a problem with it. But I can’t find it as sexy I don’t know | |||
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"Hell no. I don't care if it's considered problematic. " I’m not surprised by this | |||
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"I do but only with my husband and only in the shower. My horn can be off the scale when I'm on my period so needs must." That’s also a thing isn’t it. If your partner is really horny it can be a lot to keep turning them down. | |||
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"I do enjoy it, probably because it eases my cramps massively and I'm horny as hell. There is obviously a iron smell with the blood but that doesn't bother me or the other half. And it's not as messy as I had thought it would be. " But I would add, if my other half didn't want that would be fine also. Appreciate it's not for everyone | |||
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"It's a no from me. I know plenty that do but I just wouldn't be comfortable or relaxed!" I hear this. | |||
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"Not for me. A problem with the implant meant we had to do this for months and it’s a complete mood killer. Blood isn’t sexy. I agree that it feels like a mood killer. Someone I have been with really wants it and I feel so bad for having a problem with it. But I can’t find it as sexy I don’t know " In that situation I probably still would. I’m sure your sexual partner (not sure on the terminology with you being poly)would do the same if the shoe was on the other foot. | |||
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"Ok- do we think that it should be, in an ideal world, viewed as no big deal because it’s natural and normal? I really don’t like period sex. I don’t like that it’s messy. I don’t like the idea of the foreplay or other things. I also don’t think the smell and other things are particularly sexy and can be a bit of a turn off. I think I’m like, is that stuff I should be unpacking and unlearning? Idk v hard. " Taking a shit is natural, but it stinks and it's pretty usual not to want to be involved with shit unless you really have to. Natural doesn't equal tolerable or pleasant. So long as there's no shaming or negative descriptions of the period to your partner (which I couldn't imagine you doing), then politely declining for the reasons you've explained is absolutely fine. | |||
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"Ok- do we think that it should be, in an ideal world, viewed as no big deal because it’s natural and normal? I really don’t like period sex. I don’t like that it’s messy. I don’t like the idea of the foreplay or other things. I also don’t think the smell and other things are particularly sexy and can be a bit of a turn off. I think I’m like, is that stuff I should be unpacking and unlearning? Idk v hard. " I mean, it’s blood at the end of the day. The last thing I’d want to be covered in while having sex is someone else’s blood. While it’s obviously natural and we can’t help it, I wouldn’t blame anyone for saying they weren’t comfortable with it. | |||
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"Ok- do we think that it should be, in an ideal world, viewed as no big deal because it’s natural and normal? I really don’t like period sex. I don’t like that it’s messy. I don’t like the idea of the foreplay or other things. I also don’t think the smell and other things are particularly sexy and can be a bit of a turn off. I think I’m like, is that stuff I should be unpacking and unlearning? Idk v hard. " No. I think if that’s the way you feel about it you shouldn’t change just because others say so. If that’s one of your boundaries then it should be respected. I realise this contradicts my last post but I’ve put a bit more thought into it. | |||
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"With someone I trust, because I feel more vulnerable and at risk of being judged when I’m on, then I would and do - I’d say it’s because I’m really horny then but truth is I’m really horny pretty much all the time I’m awake! I wouldn’t be upset if a guy didn’t want to though, but I would be upset at how he expressed the no, because it is just a natural process and shaming me for it is not on. What I also love from a partner when on is a fist nuzzled in my lower back placing pressure whilst cuddling. That helps the pain, and I’m so appreciative of the care. " | |||
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"It good personal tho I wrap up no hands or mouth either " See, to me, there's no point even starting sexual activity if no hands or mouth involved. So aside my heavy bleeding and giant clot situation, another reason for not wanting period sex. | |||
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"Ok- do we think that it should be, in an ideal world, viewed as no big deal because it’s natural and normal? I really don’t like period sex. I don’t like that it’s messy. I don’t like the idea of the foreplay or other things. I also don’t think the smell and other things are particularly sexy and can be a bit of a turn off. I think I’m like, is that stuff I should be unpacking and unlearning? Idk v hard. " I don't see it as being different to anal, some like it some don't. Having a poo is a natural thing, doesn't mean you want to insert your ding a ling up a bum. I don't absolutely love kissing and snogging but some say it's not proper sex without it. As with everything it's all about how the individual feels. I don't think anyone should push themselves out of what they feel comfortable with. | |||
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"Ok- do we think that it should be, in an ideal world, viewed as no big deal because it’s natural and normal? I really don’t like period sex. I don’t like that it’s messy. I don’t like the idea of the foreplay or other things. I also don’t think the smell and other things are particularly sexy and can be a bit of a turn off. I think I’m like, is that stuff I should be unpacking and unlearning? Idk v hard. No. I think if that’s the way you feel about it you shouldn’t change just because others say so. If that’s one of your boundaries then it should be respected. I realise this contradicts my last post but I’ve put a bit more thought into it. " Haha owe need to normalise changing opinions on things when allowed more time to think!! But yeah where I’m getting to is, it’s a boundary I’ve set, why can’t we just respect that? | |||
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"With someone I trust, because I feel more vulnerable and at risk of being judged when I’m on, then I would and do - I’d say it’s because I’m really horny then but truth is I’m really horny pretty much all the time I’m awake! I wouldn’t be upset if a guy didn’t want to though, but I would be upset at how he expressed the no, because it is just a natural process and shaming me for it is not on. What I also love from a partner when on is a fist nuzzled in my lower back placing pressure whilst cuddling. That helps the pain, and I’m so appreciative of the care. " *takes notes * | |||
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"Ok- do we think that it should be, in an ideal world, viewed as no big deal because it’s natural and normal? I really don’t like period sex. I don’t like that it’s messy. I don’t like the idea of the foreplay or other things. I also don’t think the smell and other things are particularly sexy and can be a bit of a turn off. I think I’m like, is that stuff I should be unpacking and unlearning? Idk v hard. " It's hard to know what's natural dislike and what's taught. | |||
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"I wonder how many guys would be so horny for it if they were doing the cleaning up after it " You should conduct a survey!! | |||
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"Ok- do we think that it should be, in an ideal world, viewed as no big deal because it’s natural and normal? I really don’t like period sex. I don’t like that it’s messy. I don’t like the idea of the foreplay or other things. I also don’t think the smell and other things are particularly sexy and can be a bit of a turn off. I think I’m like, is that stuff I should be unpacking and unlearning? Idk v hard. I mean, it’s blood at the end of the day. The last thing I’d want to be covered in while having sex is someone else’s blood. While it’s obviously natural and we can’t help it, I wouldn’t blame anyone for saying they weren’t comfortable with it. " Yeah that’s real | |||
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"Ok- do we think that it should be, in an ideal world, viewed as no big deal because it’s natural and normal? I really don’t like period sex. I don’t like that it’s messy. I don’t like the idea of the foreplay or other things. I also don’t think the smell and other things are particularly sexy and can be a bit of a turn off. I think I’m like, is that stuff I should be unpacking and unlearning? Idk v hard. Taking a shit is natural, but it stinks and it's pretty usual not to want to be involved with shit unless you really have to. Natural doesn't equal tolerable or pleasant. So long as there's no shaming or negative descriptions of the period to your partner (which I couldn't imagine you doing), then politely declining for the reasons you've explained is absolutely fine. " You know me, I’m literally always trying as hard as possibly to not offend | |||
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"I wouldn’t. I did with my husband a few times over the years but I’m not a fan " I did with my wife, but it made her sore, so, gave it a miss. One week out of four wasn't going to kill me.....available for offers though now | |||
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"I wouldn’t. I did with my husband a few times over the years but I’m not a fan I did with my wife, but it made her sore, so, gave it a miss. One week out of four wasn't going to kill me.....available for offers though now " One week out of 4! It was one year out of 4 eventually haha. If that! | |||
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"I wouldn’t. I did with my husband a few times over the years but I’m not a fan I did with my wife, but it made her sore, so, gave it a miss. One week out of four wasn't going to kill me.....available for offers though now One week out of 4! It was one year out of 4 eventually haha. If that!" He was doing it wrong | |||
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"So I wanted to do a serious thread today because I wanted to hear some perspectives. Please, all opinions welcome! So how do we feel about period sex? Yes? No? Why do we feel the way we feel? If we’re not into it, is that an outdated potentially problematic view of a natural thing? What’s the vibe? Happy Saturday! " Women seem to be very horny during their period. I have done this type of sex plenty of times. I do not find anything wrong. | |||
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"So I wanted to do a serious thread today because I wanted to hear some perspectives. Please, all opinions welcome! So how do we feel about period sex? Yes? No? Why do we feel the way we feel? If we’re not into it, is that an outdated potentially problematic view of a natural thing? What’s the vibe? Happy Saturday! " It helps my gf, so happy to deliver. How does it help? Well, easies pain and ups her mood | |||
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"So I wanted to do a serious thread today because I wanted to hear some perspectives. Please, all opinions welcome! So how do we feel about period sex? Yes? No? Why do we feel the way we feel? If we’re not into it, is that an outdated potentially problematic view of a natural thing? What’s the vibe? Happy Saturday! " Ehm, it's a no for me. I feel dirty doing it then. However I happened to have sex couple of times when I thought I finished my period and it came out of blue. The guys loved it. | |||
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"Yes. Just pop a towel down on the bed and crack on " Exactly | |||
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"It's not about how others view it for me. I'm moody, bleeding like a tap and it stinks.. probably the most unsexy time for me so sex is the last thing on my mind. " Agree 100% | |||
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"Why would you want to have sex with a punctuation mark? " Why would you question( mark ) it.... | |||
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"So I wanted to do a serious thread today because I wanted to hear some perspectives. Please, all opinions welcome! So how do we feel about period sex? Yes? No? Why do we feel the way we feel? If we’re not into it, is that an outdated potentially problematic view of a natural thing? What’s the vibe? Happy Saturday! " I have period sex. It doesn't bother me. It's up to the man. he's entitled to say no. There are sex tampons that sex workers use. There was a thread about this before. funnily enough I'm on my period now. the worse thing about it is the physical illness and mood swings but I'm getting better at managing both with some professional help. | |||
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"Not for me. A problem with the implant meant we had to do this for months and it’s a complete mood killer. Blood isn’t sexy. I agree that it feels like a mood killer. Someone I have been with really wants it and I feel so bad for having a problem with it. But I can’t find it as sexy I don’t know " You are entitled to say no for any reason. | |||
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"Ok- do we think that it should be, in an ideal world, viewed as no big deal because it’s natural and normal? I really don’t like period sex. I don’t like that it’s messy. I don’t like the idea of the foreplay or other things. I also don’t think the smell and other things are particularly sexy and can be a bit of a turn off. I think I’m like, is that stuff I should be unpacking and unlearning? Idk v hard. " It's literally the same for people who don't like anal sex. No judgment. No one should be forced into a shit hole or a blood hole. | |||
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"I wonder how many guys would be so horny for it if they were doing the cleaning up after it " I had it with two play partners and they had to do the cleanup afterwards because I went to their place....Some men won't refuse sex when the horn is really bad. When I was married, shower towels and sex tampons. It eased the pain for me but I see that it makes it worst for others. | |||
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"I don't have a physical problem with it and did it with partners quite happily prior to the incident but I was sexually assaulted while on my period so it can be a bit emotionally complex. Fortunately I don't have periods anymore so I don't have to think about it. " Sorry to hear about the sexual assault. | |||
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"I don't have an issue with period sex. But my partner refuses to do it unless I'm light. I don't mind but I'm always desperate for dick when it's that time of the month so I always feel a bit frustrated. " My toys work well for me... Lol! | |||
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"My two most memorable period sex experiences are thus; The woman I was seeing who asked me to do it because her hubby never would…. And; The woman I was seeing who really wanted me to fuck her while on her period, and I was fine with it, but she wasn’t, until she said the (to me) famous line……”just put it in a little….” " I had a guy who was trying to put it in a little. ( was not on the period then) Eventually I got on top and shoved it in balls deep. Lol! a little....what are we 18-year-old virgins? | |||
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"Isn't that what dark towels are for? " All my towels and sheets are dark blue...Lol! | |||
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"My two most memorable period sex experiences are thus; The woman I was seeing who asked me to do it because her hubby never would…. And; The woman I was seeing who really wanted me to fuck her while on her period, and I was fine with it, but she wasn’t, until she said the (to me) famous line……”just put it in a little….” I had a guy who was trying to put it in a little. ( was not on the period then) Eventually I got on top and shoved it in balls deep. Lol! a little....what are we 18-year-old virgins?" For me, I can still see the anguish in her eyes, her craving my cock inside her, but not wanting to see “the aftermath”, yet she needed me in her…… that was so horny for me, seeing her raw, natural desire… | |||
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