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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Men of the lounge...

When a woman takes charge in the be_room, do you find it a turn on or a turn off?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Turn on. I'm happy to switch.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Men of the lounge...

When a woman takes charge in the be_room, do you find it a turn on or a turn off? "

Massive turn on a women who can lead sexy as hell, and gets what she wants

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By *olvesfunguyMan
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

Definitely a turn on. A confident women is so so sexy

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

It's usually a miracle if I have one in the be_room....

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By *erence IIMan
over a year ago

Irrelevant

What, like putting the duvet cover on and making the bed? Perfectly happy with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sexually confident woman is hugely arousing

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

It's not a turn off per se. I'm just indifferent.

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By *rooMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

It's a big turn on

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What, like putting the duvet cover on and making the bed? Perfectly happy with that. "

Glad to hear you are perfectly happy to put them on, nor many men do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a turn on

Feel less pressured if the lady takes me in hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this will be one of the biggest landslide surveys on fab for a while.

Just to buck the trend though, urgh, I hate it. It's the worst. Horrid.

Very believable, right?

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Definitely a turn on, a women I met quite some time ago was ruthless with me, very forceful with what she wanted and knew what to do to get it, we met quite regularly for almost a year till she moved away. Fun times indeed.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I think this will be one of the biggest landslide surveys on fab for a while.

Just to buck the trend though, urgh, I hate it. It's the worst. Horrid.

Very believable, right?"

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I'm all for equal opportunity, I don't mind a woman taking control, what's not to enjoy

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

Sparkle,

It depends how it is done. If it is positive and encouraging it is a huge turn on.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Sparkle,

It depends how it is done. If it is positive and encouraging it is a huge turn on. "

That's how I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definite turn on. I like a woman who isn't afraid to show what she wants..

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By *ustme1123Man
over a year ago

Irvine

Turn on , I love a woman who knows what she wants and takes it

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By *litpleaserMan
over a year ago

Oldham

Definitely a turn on for me

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / Birmingham

Sparkles, it’s absolutely a turn on. Confidence always is. A woman who knows what she wants? And is happy to take it, or at the very least suggest it? Yes please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to take from behind and reach over and grab her beard,sooooo horny

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I LOVE it!!! I tend to be the dominant partner - not as in a dom, just the leading influence - so it’s a refreshing change when a woman takes the initiative.

One of my biggest turn ons is being seduced. Probably because it’s never happened in real life haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this will be one of the biggest landslide surveys on fab for a while.

Just to buck the trend though, urgh, I hate it. It's the worst. Horrid.

Very believable, right?

I tried. I really really tried.

Taking charge, control, passion, all these things can be different things to different people.

One person's hyper direct approach might ruffle feathers, against the more subtle misdirection of gentle touch, encouragement and instruction.

Regardless though, to a degree, we're basically pathetic and quietly grateful to even be there. You could tell us to fold the towels after, before, during, we just might. Have. Will again.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Love it massive turn on wen a women tell me wot she wants x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello, I'm Boo

I love to take charge......

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've yet to find man that doesn't like it

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Love it massive turn on wen a women tell me wot she wants x"

Would you find it a turn on if she took charge...not just told you what she wanted?

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By *nternational VelvetMan
over a year ago

Pontypridd

The best

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

No i wouldn't i like to be on an even keel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care what they think... probably means I like to take charge

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"Love it massive turn on wen a women tell me wot she wants x

Would you find it a turn on if she took charge...not just told you what she wanted? "

Depends on wot u wanted 2 do I mean wot she wanted 2 do lol x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’m always happy to share responsibilities

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / Birmingham

"One of my biggest turn ons is being seduced. Probably because it’s never happened in real life haha"

There was a moment, just a couple of weeks ago. In a hotel room. With someone very special. And she stood behind me, while I was looking out of the floor-to-ceiling windows. Her fingernails tracing lines on my back. Shoulders. Arms. Spine. She kissed me. The back of my neck. I could feel her breath on my skin. And … I wasn’t doing anything. Not leading, for a change. It wasn’t much, but it was me giving up control. Letting her be in charge of the next move. Completely in her hands. I wasn’t touching her skin, or guiding her body, I just let her touch me, kiss me, hold me … exactly how she wanted to.

And even though it was just a brief few moments, it changed the dynamic between us for the rest of the night. And it was glorious.

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

"Hello, I'm Boo

I love to take charge......

Not always

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

"Hello, I'm Boo

I love to take charge......

You can come and take charge of me anytime Boo...

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Massive turn on, I am very much a switch and play with different people in different ways. I love confidence in women.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

That's the only kind of women I like. I don't know how to take charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a confident women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my biggest turn ons is being seduced. Probably because it’s never happened in real life haha

And even though it was just a brief few moments, it changed the dynamic between us for the rest of the night. And it was glorious."

Which hotel chains do you stay in?

The maids never been that friendly with me at Premier Inn.....

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Love it massive turn on wen a women tell me wot she wants x

Would you find it a turn on if she took charge...not just told you what she wanted?

Depends on wot u wanted 2 do I mean wot she wanted 2 do lol x "

It would involve restraints and blindfolds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello, I'm Boo

I love to take charge......

Not always

Your handcuff and baton skills are on another level.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men of the lounge...

When a woman takes charge in the be_room, do you find it a turn on or a turn off? "

It’s like throwing petrol on an already raging fire.

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By *ereforgigglesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Have to admit I love it.. especially if there are cuffs/toys involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it so much

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / Birmingham

"Which hotel chains do you stay in?"

Chains? Independent boo-tiques only darling.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I love not having to make the running all the time xxx its a turn on and a relief xx

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

"Hello, I'm Boo

I love to take charge......

Not always

Your handcuff and baton skills are on another level.....

Practice makes perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on, like a women who knows what she wants

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I can and have enjoyed both scenarios..

But this hasn't happened for a while so yes please

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Honest answer i get frustrated and competitive and have to wrestle it back to at least balanced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which hotel chains do you stay in?

Chains? Independent boo-tiques only darling.

I'll post you a key to the boo-tique

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

I reckon that the men who are turned on by a woman taking control are just reinforcing the macho stereotype: The concept of a confident woman takes them out of their comfort zone, which they find erotic.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Glad to see many men find it a turn on x

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / Birmingham

"I'll post you a key to the boo-tique"

I’ll get my coat. Sounds like I’ve pulled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men of the lounge...

When a woman takes charge in the be_room, do you find it a turn on or a turn off? "

Well I wouldn't stop you

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Ooo yes turn on

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Taking charge seems a bit serious so it'd be a no, it can come across forced, but taking the lead or being confident to do what they want to do - I'll slip into that pool any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind, I like to feel it switching so I’d be more than happy to bounce off each other as the evening progressed x

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I'll be the exception, then. But it's not that I'd be so ungracious as to make that dislike clear at the time. More that, no woman so constituted would be remotely interested in me. Like trying to push magnets together.

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

On.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I know I’m not a man OP but taking charge in the be_room is something I would love to do but wouldn’t ever happen. And I mean ever. Not with a man or woman. It’s just how I’m built and I go with that. Still fun though

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Hey, if she tells me she wants to wear blue underwear then I won't stop her.

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By *thleticrugby88Man
over a year ago

Near Hereford

Depends on the mood etc. but I don't mind a woman taking charge, getting what she wants first.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Like it a lot. Very hot

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Turn on.

Yeah it’s all well and good giving her a good fucking. But sometimes it’s just nice to lay back and take what’s coming to you.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely ON

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A massive turn on. I love a woman who's proactive and isn't just going to wait for me to take the lead.

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By *offee27Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I find it a turn on. I like a woman if she's being very forceful too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a huge turn on.

For me it is not just about ‘taking control’ but it is the woman knowing what she wants and going for it. That focus/motivation/determination is a huge turn on for me.

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By *offee27Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

For me if a woman climbs on, pins me down by my wrists and kisses me deeply, then sex is going to happen and it's going to be rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men of the lounge...

When a woman takes charge in the be_room, do you find it a turn on or a turn off? "

Pleasure,excitement and ecstasy and lash to the bed you go for it he he

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not really my thing, but if it’s sensual and not rushed it can be nice.

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By *it4uMan
over a year ago

Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France

"Men of the lounge...

When a woman takes charge in the be_room, do you find it a turn on or a turn off? "

It’s a turn on for me as I like the woman to have her pleasure her way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely hot when a woman takes control! It’s normally me in control so the switch up is a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please

more so if she's donning a strapon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men of the lounge...

When a woman takes charge in the be_room, do you find it a turn on or a turn off? "

I think there is a time and place and it certainly mixes it up, but if it was Every single time then I think that would be too much for me personally. Men like to lead, it's a status thing I suppose but sure, a woman that takes control from time to time would be great. Work life balance ??

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

its nice to mix it up..so yes im for it

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

On OP!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's normal behaviour to be doing it can't expect the guy to do everything

Adds to the lust

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Turn on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Most definitely I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to take charge, I’m all about getting the reactions and seeing him loving it.

I also 99% of the time initiate lol that’s just because I’m always horny lol

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