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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m a single male. And I’ve been a member for some time!

I’ve had reasonable success & enjoyed meeting new and fun people!

Seems that single males are ten to a dozen and I’ve got stiff competition.

Please be nice haha looking for honest pointers to boost my profile on here before trying elsewhere.

Happy Fanbing all suggestions welcome

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

No point, everyone will tell you differently, just do you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I personally find the emoji over face off-putting, almost immature? Better to crop the picture. Your public pictures otherwise aren't terrible, although I'd add more. (Ratio of cock shot to not is good - they can be polarising, but I think "a minority of the pictures" is a good balance)

Is your profile text giving the best impression of why someone would want to meet you, rather than what you want?

Whiny statuses probably won't get you positive attention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No point, everyone will tell you differently, just do you."

Appreciate that.

But doing me has seemingly not been the success I could have wished for.

Thanks though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally find the emoji over face off-putting, almost immature? Better to crop the picture. Your public pictures otherwise aren't terrible, although I'd add more. (Ratio of cock shot to not is good - they can be polarising, but I think "a minority of the pictures" is a good balance)

Is your profile text giving the best impression of why someone would want to meet you, rather than what you want?

Whiny statuses probably won't get you positive attention."

Acknowledged.

Think that’s a matter of opinion. I personally find a PP that has no indication of the person isn’t helpful either.

Thinking behind my PP is that the whole picture is readily available for anyone. As I have quite a professional life outside of here I’d rather keep the emoji.

But will definitely consider changing to maybe a blurred pic or cropped as you say!

Thanks a lot

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By *rwolf666Man
over a year ago

London


"No point, everyone will tell you differently, just do you."

This

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Put a pic up as profile pic they delete without reading just for that

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"No point, everyone will tell you differently, just do you."

This.

Eleventybillion percent.

There's no point basing your profile content on what half a dozen people tell you is right. It won't be you.

Just be yourself. If that's not what people want you'll have to suck it up and accept it. Surely you know you better than anyone?

What would you do if 100 women and couples are on and told you to post photos of you dressed as a chicken with a daffodil up your arse and to have a one line 'fun guy looking for fun people for fun' profile? Would you do it?

A

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I personally find the emoji over face off-putting, almost immature? Better to crop the picture. Your public pictures otherwise aren't terrible, although I'd add more. (Ratio of cock shot to not is good - they can be polarising, but I think "a minority of the pictures" is a good balance)

Is your profile text giving the best impression of why someone would want to meet you, rather than what you want?

Whiny statuses probably won't get you positive attention.

Acknowledged.

Think that’s a matter of opinion. I personally find a PP that has no indication of the person isn’t helpful either.

Thinking behind my PP is that the whole picture is readily available for anyone. As I have quite a professional life outside of here I’d rather keep the emoji.

But will definitely consider changing to maybe a blurred pic or cropped as you say!

Thanks a lot "

In my array of pictures - I know you can't see them - I never show any higher than my upper lip, from the front. Profile pictures of mine have included full torso, tits, legs, legs and bum. (Hair isn't a recommendation for wanting to meet. My profile, if you were to look, is explaining that I'm not meeting, and my profile picture is very much meant to be "my back is turned from you")

Strategic cropping is a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No point, everyone will tell you differently, just do you.

This.

Eleventybillion percent.

There's no point basing your profile content on what half a dozen people tell you is right. It won't be you.

Just be yourself. If that's not what people want you'll have to suck it up and accept it. Surely you know you better than anyone?

What would you do if 100 women and couples are on and told you to post photos of you dressed as a chicken with a daffodil up your arse and to have a one line 'fun guy looking for fun people for fun' profile? Would you do it?

In all honesty. I’d probably be searching Amazon for a chicken suit and looking for a nice daffodil?

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your profile now it looks pretty good.

Although personally I hate it when a man puts curvy it makes me cringe as I don't think men are curvy they are average or large etc but that's just my personal opinion.

Maybe take out the bit about married woman and no type as that can read a bit any holes a goal. Your a good looking guy I suspect you would do well in a club environment more so than fab which is hard to meet from.

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Where it says, "shits both parties", do you mean, "suits both parties?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking at your profile now it looks pretty good.

Although personally I hate it when a man puts curvy it makes me cringe as I don't think men are curvy they are average or large etc but that's just my personal opinion.

Maybe take out the bit about married woman and no type as that can read a bit any holes a goal. Your a good looking guy I suspect you would do well in a club environment more so than fab which is hard to meet from."

I’m not sure if you’ve mis read. Maybe? I wasn’t sure if described myself as curvy! Will definitely change if that’s the case though! Thanks

probably will leave the part about attached fabbers! As there’s quite a few now and would appreciate knowing that before chatting or anything else. I’m not looking to sleep with everyone’s wives though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Where it says, "shits both parties", do you mean, "suits both parties?""

Correct thanks very much!

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By *omesticated NomadMan
over a year ago

bedford

I was on FAB around 8 years ago (1st time) and managed 3 meets (some fun with the first) including a couple, with with less effort from me in around 3 months - and that was with NO verifications.

I’m aware of the ratio of M / F is huge and is increasing. It’s largely a females paradise with plenty of cock to pick and choose from (or pussy if that’s what takes their fancy).

I’m a little cautious of a club meet (the cost - even though I’ve currently surplus money, I don’t wish to throw it away). I think the best strategy to take is head to a social to get ‘veried’, then continue on here.

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