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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

It’s a toy not a sexuality diviner.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Why would it be gay?

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

It would depend on if the guy wearing the butt plug had his cock in you OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anal play doesn't normally appeal to me in anyway, but I was intrigued enough to try a butt plug and must admit I do enjoy the feeling.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

No enjoying wearing a butt plug has no impact on your sexuality. As long as you enjoy it why does it matter?

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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Enjoying quaking a butt plug is simply enjoying the sensation. Much the same as gay women using dildos. Feels good.

That's all. Doesn't change a person's sexuality.

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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

* wearing a butt plug, tho I have been left quaking by one hahaha

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"* wearing a butt plug, tho I have been left quaking by one hahaha "

Made me giggle thank you

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By *oshnbex30Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Why would a sex you have anything to do with your sexuality. It’s a toy to enhance your sexual experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think it was just the idea of pushing something up seemed wrong, butt I'm glad I did.

Also just seems like it's more a thing that ladies use, but that's maybe because I don't look at guys pictures.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s only bi if you buy a bi butt plug, otherwise it’s gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?"

Thin end of the wedge!

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By *rKingsmanMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Wouldn’t make you gay at all!! I want to try one myself

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?

Thin end of the wedge!"

Or buttplug

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By *ondonFunTimesMan
over a year ago

west sussex


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?"

It’s your bum. If you like it do it. Sexuality doesn’t come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a butt plug not another man’s cock. It doesn’t make you gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you kiss it, that means you have got the ghey.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?"

Does the butt plug inspire you to take a cock?

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Depending on the butt plug and what it does.

Depends on if its not a toy used as a toy or used as a sexual device.

A jewel butt plug is not a toy or a sexual device.

A vibrating one is a toy/sexual device.

Whilst many ladies might think its funny to see a jeweled butt plug on a man.

Its alot better than seeing the crack of there arse.

Whilst if your videoing the sexual event you get to see the glinting of the jeweled butt plug as they plunge into you again and again

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By *ondonFunTimesMan
over a year ago

west sussex


"If you kiss it, that means you have got the ghey."

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Based on that logic, should you ever see another penis- either in the gym changing room or when you're watching a lovely lady getting a fine rooting in your favourite hetro porn....you've obviously a full of friend of Dorothy

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I like to be pegged. But I am not gay because I don't feel any kind of attraction towards men. It's simple.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Whaaaaaat?!?!?!

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?Does the butt plug inspire you to take a cock? "

Its a gate way, butt plug then the cock like vibrator, then from therr its an all out cockfest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?Does the butt plug inspire you to take a cock? Its a gate way, butt plug then the cock like vibrator, then from therr its an all out cockfest."

Really

Some men must have really small minds to even go there

There is no way using a butt plug makes anyone appear to be gay.

or would be considering the next stage up

Than a small minded groupset too busy pointing a finger for anyone using one.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?Does the butt plug inspire you to take a cock? Its a gate way, butt plug then the cock like vibrator, then from therr its an all out cockfest.

Really

Some men must have really small minds to even go there

There is no way using a butt plug makes anyone appear to be gay.

or would be considering the next stage up

Than a small minded groupset too busy pointing a finger for anyone using one."

Nobody pointing any fingers, overly sensative are we. Trust me, there is no shame in enjoying a real one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?"

Have you tried it? Sounds fun.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?"

No that would be having a cock replace the butt plug

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By *teph BitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?

Have you tried it? Sounds fun."

A master has instructed me to wear one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?

Have you tried it? Sounds fun.

A master has instructed me to wear one "

All day? How is it? Nice?

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"It’s a toy not a sexuality diviner. "

Or a moral barometer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would depend on if the guy wearing the butt plug had his cock in you OP."
wait what ...LOL

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

You get those plugs with a pink fluffy tail too. But straight women can wear those - so why no straight men? The only problem I suppose is looking like you're browning one in a tight pair of slacks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst there is clearly no manual or set of rules that defines straight/gay etc.

A sex toy is an inanimate object, it only comes to life when you use it.

It has no feelings and no emotions, therefore it just a toy.

Enjoy your experimentation, sexuality is defined by much more than a toy.

M and J

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Depending on the butt plug and what it does.

Depends on if its not a toy used as a toy or used as a sexual device.

A jewel butt plug is not a toy or a sexual device.

A vibrating one is a toy/sexual device.

Whilst many ladies might think its funny to see a jeweled butt plug on a man.

Its alot better than seeing the crack of there arse.

Whilst if your videoing the sexual event you get to see the glinting of the jeweled butt plug as they plunge into you again and again"

I can’t work out what you mean here.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Depending on the butt plug and what it does.

Depends on if its not a toy used as a toy or used as a sexual device.

A jewel butt plug is not a toy or a sexual device.

A vibrating one is a toy/sexual device.

Whilst many ladies might think its funny to see a jeweled butt plug on a man.

Its alot better than seeing the crack of there arse.

Whilst if your videoing the sexual event you get to see the glinting of the jeweled butt plug as they plunge into you again and again

I can’t work out what you mean here. "

The bejeweled button plug hides the hairy crack

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Depending on the butt plug and what it does.

Depends on if its not a toy used as a toy or used as a sexual device.

A jewel butt plug is not a toy or a sexual device.

A vibrating one is a toy/sexual device.

Whilst many ladies might think its funny to see a jeweled butt plug on a man.

Its alot better than seeing the crack of there arse.

Whilst if your videoing the sexual event you get to see the glinting of the jeweled butt plug as they plunge into you again and again

I can’t work out what you mean here.

The bejeweled button plug hides the hairy crack "

Must be a pretty massive and weird shape plug. Definitely wouldn’t cover my hairy arse crack that’s for certain!

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Depending on the butt plug and what it does.

Depends on if its not a toy used as a toy or used as a sexual device.

A jewel butt plug is not a toy or a sexual device.

A vibrating one is a toy/sexual device.

Whilst many ladies might think its funny to see a jeweled butt plug on a man.

Its alot better than seeing the crack of there arse.

Whilst if your videoing the sexual event you get to see the glinting of the jeweled butt plug as they plunge into you again and again

I can’t work out what you mean here.

The bejeweled button plug hides the hairy crack

Must be a pretty massive and weird shape plug. Definitely wouldn’t cover my hairy arse crack that’s for certain! "

I can sort that hairy arse for yiu with my roll of sellotape

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"The bejeweled button plug hides the hairy crack

Must be a pretty massive and weird shape plug. Definitely wouldn’t cover my hairy arse crack that’s for certain!

I can sort that hairy arse for yiu with my roll of sellotape "

Will stick to veet.

Also top tip; when veeting your arsehole insert a buttplug to prevent any ring sting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The bejeweled button plug hides the hairy crack

Must be a pretty massive and weird shape plug. Definitely wouldn’t cover my hairy arse crack that’s for certain!

I can sort that hairy arse for yiu with my roll of sellotape

Will stick to veet.

Also top tip; when veeting your arsehole insert a buttplug to prevent any ring sting."

But that might make you ghey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?"

Are women gay cos they like it up the arse?

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"The bejeweled button plug hides the hairy crack

Must be a pretty massive and weird shape plug. Definitely wouldn’t cover my hairy arse crack that’s for certain!

I can sort that hairy arse for yiu with my roll of sellotape

Will stick to veet.

Also top tip; when veeting your arsehole insert a buttplug to prevent any ring sting.

But that might make you ghey! "

At least I won’t have a burning bum hole, I’ll just burn in the depths of fiery hell….

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

The sex act does not define the sexuality

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By *astcoast2000Man
over a year ago

Newcastle County Down


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?"

About one of the most stupid posts I have read

Are you sure your real isn't Karen?

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?About one of the most stupid posts I have read

Are you sure your real isn't Karen? "

Unfortunately there's still a certain stigma around straight men and anal play.

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By *xstevenxxMan
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Think people just post stupid things to get a reaction off others

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"The sex act does not define the sexuality "

I dunno about that, a bloke taking a cock up the bum, multiple times would certainly mean something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's my thinking.

But I enjoy the feeling, I will continue to enjoy it

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"That's my thinking.

But I enjoy the feeling, I will continue to enjoy it"

Thats all you need to know then, go rock that jewelled little butt filler of pleasure

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?"

Oh yes, definitely gay!!!

Complete sinner, do a 1000 hell Marys....

Lucifer will meet you on the way down.....

(note huge sarcastic comment)

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

Love my butt plug I'm bi no interest in having a relationship with a man just Love a nice cock and ass

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Technically it’s irrelevant of a sexuality marker

In reality according to the morally extremist challenged people it’s totally gay / non straight .

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

If your plug was a guys cock then I'd say yes but considering it's a butt plug I don't think it counts as being gay and you don't need to hand in your straight card just yet

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

Of course it's not.

It's a body part you like being stimulated like any other.

But if it's big Tam the Trucker inserting the aforementioned butt plug into you then that's a whole other discussion about your hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you stop them falling out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you stop them falling out"

Clench!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question, if I wear a strap on does it make me a man?

Label yourself however you wish to , its your business and yours only.

Re keeping them in practice, the more you train the muscles the less likely you are of the plug falling out

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

close

Well im glad thats all cleared up then, I'll put one in this afternoon whilst i sunbath in the garden

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

*** GAY ALERT *** GAY ALERT ***

Dont do it! Six months ago I was 100% straight and only had eyes for statuesque woman with child-bearing hips. Then I tried a small bumplug as dare, and look at me now! Trading catty insults with JennieTV and throwing myself at every hot man that comes along!

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By *idnight_Express69Man
over a year ago

Rochdale


"It’s a toy not a sexuality diviner. "

This made me snort laugh! So true!

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Thank god for the warning, I was about to invest. Should have known, scratched my arse last week and ended up getting a subscription to Vogue magazine. Close call

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs


"It’s a toy not a sexuality diviner.

This made me snort laugh! So true! "

This made me laugh too, perfect.

This is the comment of the thread. Gentlemen please.. enjoy what you enjoy and have a blast, x

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"Thank god for the warning, I was about to invest. Should have known, scratched my arse last week and ended up getting a subscription to Vogue magazine. Close call"

Ooh, send them my way if you don't want them. I like to have something to page through while I'm enjoying sitting on my latest new plug.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Question, if I wear a strap on does it make me a man?

"

Totally...

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"Question, if I wear a strap on does it make me a man?

Totally...

"

Even better, if she wears a strapon it could potentially make me a woman.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Surely there are no straight guys who wear butt plugs ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a toy not a sexuality diviner. "

I now have an image of someone walking around with two butt plugs, hoping that they will twitch or cross, very much like water divining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely there are no straight guys who wear butt plugs ?"

Nope.

None at all.

They are all gheyers.

Stands to reason dont it?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I did post a warning.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"Surely there are no straight guys who wear butt plugs ?"

Why would wearing a butt plug make a difference to someones sexuality

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon


"Surely there are no straight guys who wear butt plugs ?

Why would wearing a butt plug make a difference to someones sexuality "

I just can’t think of many straight guys that would wear a butt plug . I mean obviously there are straight men that like ass play but surely it would mainly be bi and gay guys ?

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

It's completely gay, you best be careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?"

You have my blessing. Enjoy

Ps. Prostate massager next.

T

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By *ammy_xMan
over a year ago

Reading


"It's completely gay, you best be careful "

Hehe

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"It's completely gay, you best be careful "

In studies, top crossdressers* agree, bumplugs are completely gay.

(* bottom ones, too)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if it's been made by a man or a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?"

Is it blue or pink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?

Is it blue or pink? "

Pink

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?"

The fact you've asked the question may though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?

Is it blue or pink?

Pink"

Ghey

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


" A jewel butt plug is not a toy or a sexual device.

"

How is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it considered that a man who likes to wear a butt plug gay or bi?

Or is it OK for a straight guy to enjoy wearing one?"

It's okay not to overthink things like labels or what others enjoy.

T

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Thin end of the wedge!"

Definitely start off with the thin end.

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By *oveallMan
over a year ago

kells

I find them quite enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are quite enjoyable but like everything, not to be used everyday.

But as others have rightly said, they do not provide divinity regarding sexuality, much in the same way Tea leaves don't

M and M

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

I've a couple

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"

Will stick to veet.

Also top tip; when veeting your arsehole insert a buttplug to prevent any ring sting."

I'd prefer to insert it before I start, pushing veet up your chuff has got to sting!

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

Lol

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Oh the rant I could go on about homophobia and the fear of things 'making you gay'

Being gay or bi is about who you love and/or are sexually attracted to...

Do you think women worry 'oh I like him going down on me/fingering me does that make me bi'?!

Have you given penetrative anal play (toys or otherwise) to a woman? Did you worry that made you gay?!

And don't get me started about the small subsection of men who *literally* won't wipe or wash their own arse for fear of 'being gay'

As a man, having sex with a man doesn't even make you gay (or bi)... and while sexuality is fluid and isn't a constant, I know plenty of people who have wondered if it was for them, tried it, decided it wasn't...

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By *dinson1983Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

I once used a flashlight... I'm concerned I'm now an electrician

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By *dinson1983Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Oh the rant I could go on about homophobia and the fear of things 'making you gay'

Being gay or bi is about who you love and/or are sexually attracted to...

Do you think women worry 'oh I like him going down on me/fingering me does that make me bi'?!

Have you given penetrative anal play (toys or otherwise) to a woman? Did you worry that made you gay?!

And don't get me started about the small subsection of men who *literally* won't wipe or wash their own arse for fear of 'being gay'

As a man, having sex with a man doesn't even make you gay (or bi)... and while sexuality is fluid and isn't a constant, I know plenty of people who have wondered if it was for them, tried it, decided it wasn't...

"

In all serious tho.

This!

Enjoy your body as you wish. It is yours after all.

If you are sexually attracted to the opposite sex. Then you would asking a different question all together

X

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"Surely there are no straight guys who wear butt plugs ?

Why would wearing a butt plug make a difference to someones sexuality

I just can’t think of many straight guys that would wear a butt plug . I mean obviously there are straight men that like ass play but surely it would mainly be bi and gay guys ?"

Oh wow... guess as a woman I should get rid of my butt plugs given I'm not a gay man...

Why would a man wear one? Probably the same reasons a woman would wear a butt plug... cause it feels good?

Hell men have a prostate so it feels better for men than it does for women...

For a site that's supposedly for swingers and sexually liberated people there are some scarily repressed people.

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

Maybe OP exploring his feminine side ...

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