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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many of you check out the meets section of the forum or brows the local meet requests?

Have you ever replied to them?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Most days for social events or when it's my one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nosey if a friend puts one up but otherwise no

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Not really as like to have socials first. I imagine as well that they get inundated with messages.

Saying that if I’m going to a club / group social, I might take a look to see who else might be going on the night.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I do! Look, that is.

I've never actually replied to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually check if I’m going outside of London and fancy a social. Otherwise no I don’t see that it’s worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never... Close proximity or some random favourable availability has absolutely no bearing who I find attractive or who I'd like to spend time with

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

I didn't know it existed

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Not really ever checked it

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Never - I do need to get better at that! But realistically I won't because it's me

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’d also be interested to know if any single males have ever done this and had a response, I imagine very few actually do and it’s pretty fruitless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't.

Maybe one day I will, but it's unlikely.

I've never posted one either, yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm nosey if a friend puts one up but otherwise no "

This is the only time I look because I’m also nosey

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Nope. Wait, if it's a friend I'll have a nosy. Otherwise, no, not really.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

People meet?!!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I didn’t even know there was a meets section . I just had a look now and saw it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d also be interested to know if any single males have ever done this and had a response, I imagine very few actually do and it’s pretty fruitless. "

I did it once.

A week later, someone asked (a woman) if I’d had many messages. … go figure.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"People meet?!! "

Don't be silly

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"How many of you check out the meets section of the forum or brows the local meet requests?

Have you ever replied to them?

"
eye brows really mine are ok Woody

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Rarely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

Nope

Waste of time

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Never... Close proximity or some random favourable availability has absolutely no bearing who I find attractive or who I'd like to spend time with "

Very this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes Px

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We have added to the meet section before asking for a social. And it just so happens that the Lovely Posh was passing that day so she hit us up. We had a fabulous afternoon in the pub drinking coffee and chatting away.

I don't think we have replied to someone else's though.

I think if you have the spare time then do it. Take a chance.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm climbing the walls and absolutely gagging for it of course I look. And then go sort myself out and think god that was close.

I've posted one or two before. Also did it from a couples profile just for comparison but nothing.

I rarely ever look at them.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"We have added to the meet section before asking for a social. And it just so happens that the Lovely Posh was passing that day so she hit us up. We had a fabulous afternoon in the pub drinking coffee and chatting away.

I don't think we have replied to someone else's though.

I think if you have the spare time then do it. Take a chance.

Jo.Xx "

Ooooh I forgot I did that! Yay! It was beautiful timing xx

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"I’d also be interested to know if any single males have ever done this and had a response, I imagine very few actually do and it’s pretty fruitless. "

I never look at them. I have posted a meet a couple of times when I have been looking for another M to join me and a FB. Got loads of responses each time so yes - single males do reply!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How many of you check out the meets section of the forum or brows the local meet requests?

Have you ever replied to them?

eye brows really mine are ok Woody "

Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do. Like to stay informed

"

..about socials

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Never.

The mr

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Never ever. Don't think i've even looked at it before, wherever it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put one up once. Never again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some areas of Fab I never use.

This is one of them alongside “Hot pics”

I always find it interesting to know how others use the site.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've browsed the meet requests section and had some pretty amazing adventures by reaching out to some posted for a few weeks away

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Not for a long time, job changes have made meeting difficult.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Occasionally.

Never have stumbled upon that fancy dress jazz evening for people with beards that enjoy cooking chocolate brownies and walking barefoot through laaandan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever go to the larger social events, wouldn't ever answer a local "meet now" request.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Occasionally.

Never have stumbled upon that fancy dress jazz evening for people with beards that enjoy cooking chocolate brownies and walking barefoot through laaandan "

My beard is coming along nicely.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Oh hang on - I thought you meant the events forums! It was a long night

No I never go on meets section - never knew about it. I need someone to show me how to use this site

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Oh hang on - I thought you meant the events forums! It was a long night

No I never go on meets section - never knew about it. I need someone to show me how to use this site "

I'll show you how to use it... if you show me what you're doing

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

We've sometimes used it to see who else is going to a club on the same night.

J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only ever go to the larger social events, wouldn't ever answer a local "meet now" request. "

Even if you thought they were a bag full of sexiness?

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By *edRobyn95TV/TS
over a year ago

Port Glasgow

Me and my partner are going to our first event in a couple of weeks in Glasgow and very excited about it! Will be back with further updates and let you know it went

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not for a long time, job changes have made meeting difficult. "

I feel ya! (I need to stop busing this phrase in here)

Circumstances just made it a lot easier for me to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. But I do always check your profile for if you put a meet up.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever go to the larger social events, wouldn't ever answer a local "meet now" request.

Even if you thought they were a bag full of sexiness? "

I'd have to know them or previously met them to even consider it!

I'm stubborn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. But I do always check your profile for if you put a meet up.

F"

Haha.

Check on Friday … 8pm.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Never.

I don't meet on a whim.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Oh hang on - I thought you meant the events forums! It was a long night

No I never go on meets section - never knew about it. I need someone to show me how to use this site

I'll show you how to use it... if you show me what you're doing "

Anytime - but if you're showing me then I expect to be doing you

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Oh hang on - I thought you meant the events forums! It was a long night

No I never go on meets section - never knew about it. I need someone to show me how to use this site

I'll show you how to use it... if you show me what you're doing

Anytime - but if you're showing me then I expect to be doing you "

Deal

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

On all ky time on the site, I've never.looked at that section x

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By *oshnbex30Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

If we know we have a free date we do check the events and meet page

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never looked at that section or posted a meet mainly because it's irrelevant to me as I don't meet just for the sake of it and prefer to get to know people before agreeing to a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm away somewhere, in an hotel for a few days, at a loose end, I'll check them out... I did once reply to one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I'm away somewhere, in an hotel for a few days, at a loose end, I'll check them out... I did once reply to one "

No you didn’t!!!

Oh wait. Sorry

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