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I was thinking more cruel like mild exposure or humiliation and a little less certain death | |||
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"had a guy choose my lingerie last night, getting him all pent up, knowing it would be another guy ripping it off me. he called me worse than mean for that, if that counts? Px "I mean your lingerie may fit! Just gotta try and then you decide where I go  | |||
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"had a guy choose my lingerie last night, getting him all pent up, knowing it would be another guy ripping it off me. he called me worse than mean for that, if that counts? Px "Very nice and inventive | |||
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"See my latest video for proof of what I’ll do! X" That, however, is irresponsible and anti social. Imposing that on others who have not consented is just not ok. To do so alongside a duxl carriageway is just redciulous. | |||
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"See my latest video for proof of what I’ll do! X That, however, is irresponsible and anti social. Imposing that on others who have not consented is just not ok. To do so alongside a dual carriageway is just ridiculous." Corrected my stupid angry typing | |||
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"See my latest video for proof of what I’ll do! X That, however, is irresponsible and anti social. Imposing that on others who have not consented is just not ok. To do so alongside a duxl carriageway is just redciulous." I can’t view the video but if it’s in a public place I agree. What if I kid sees?  not really worth being put on the offenders list 
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"I don't think you should impose your kinks on random people. Wear normal clothes. Leave them on." this ... when it comes to the public and you over step that mark then your breaking the law and same goes for the forums any discussions' that about flashing and public get rightfully shut down quick .... consent is everything with this subject | |||
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"Feel free to shut the thread down. At the end of the day, swinging is a kink, some could say cd / tv etc is a kink, many people on here display kinks and chat about them openly. I’ve had lots of people love the video. I don’t go round knocking anyone else’s kinks even the very obscure ones. Everyone is welcome to an opinion however not everyone needs to hear it. Nudity by the law is only illegal IF it causes offence to the witness, I’ve seen many a thing in here that will cause people offences but again I don’t comment because I grew up! " Do you know you didn't offend anyone? Is exercising your kink worth the risk of offending someone? | |||
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"Feel free to shut the thread down. At the end of the day, swinging is a kink, some could say cd / tv etc is a kink, many people on here display kinks and chat about them openly. I’ve had lots of people love the video. I don’t go round knocking anyone else’s kinks even the very obscure ones. Everyone is welcome to an opinion however not everyone needs to hear it. Nudity by the law is only illegal IF it causes offence to the witness, I’ve seen many a thing in here that will cause people offences but again I don’t comment because I grew up! Do you know you didn't offend anyone? Is exercising your kink worth the risk of offending someone?" Fair question for many people on here. I’d love to know what the response would have been if I was a woman doing exactly the same thing? | |||
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"Feel free to shut the thread down. At the end of the day, swinging is a kink, some could say cd / tv etc is a kink, many people on here display kinks and chat about them openly. I’ve had lots of people love the video. I don’t go round knocking anyone else’s kinks even the very obscure ones. Everyone is welcome to an opinion however not everyone needs to hear it. Nudity by the law is only illegal IF it causes offence to the witness, I’ve seen many a thing in here that will cause people offences but again I don’t comment because I grew up! Do you know you didn't offend anyone? Is exercising your kink worth the risk of offending someone? Fair question for many people on here. I’d love to know what the response would have been if I was a woman doing exactly the same thing?" From me? Exactly the same. People in public do not consent to engaging in your kink. You're foisting it on them. I don't care if you have a penis, tits, both, or neither. Kink is for people who consent. | |||
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"Feel free to shut the thread down. At the end of the day, swinging is a kink, some could say cd / tv etc is a kink, many people on here display kinks and chat about them openly. I’ve had lots of people love the video. I don’t go round knocking anyone else’s kinks even the very obscure ones. Everyone is welcome to an opinion however not everyone needs to hear it. Nudity by the law is only illegal IF it causes offence to the witness, I’ve seen many a thing in here that will cause people offences but again I don’t comment because I grew up! Do you know you didn't offend anyone? Is exercising your kink worth the risk of offending someone? Fair question for many people on here. I’d love to know what the response would have been if I was a woman doing exactly the same thing? From me? Exactly the same. People in public do not consent to engaging in your kink. You're foisting it on them. I don't care if you have a penis, tits, both, or neither. Kink is for people who consent." Do you say that to everyone that’s on here? Isn’t swinging a kink? Sleeping with another man while married / sleeping with another woman whilst married? Dressing or displaying as other than your birth gender? Dominant / sub? Is that not a kink? There is hundreds of kinks on here, because you don’t like it doesn’t mean you have to comment as I pointed out earlier! | |||
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"Feel free to shut the thread down. At the end of the day, swinging is a kink, some could say cd / tv etc is a kink, many people on here display kinks and chat about them openly. I’ve had lots of people love the video. I don’t go round knocking anyone else’s kinks even the very obscure ones. Everyone is welcome to an opinion however not everyone needs to hear it. Nudity by the law is only illegal IF it causes offence to the witness, I’ve seen many a thing in here that will cause people offences but again I don’t comment because I grew up! Do you know you didn't offend anyone? Is exercising your kink worth the risk of offending someone? Fair question for many people on here. I’d love to know what the response would have been if I was a woman doing exactly the same thing? From me? Exactly the same. People in public do not consent to engaging in your kink. You're foisting it on them. I don't care if you have a penis, tits, both, or neither. Kink is for people who consent. Do you say that to everyone that’s on here? Isn’t swinging a kink? Sleeping with another man while married / sleeping with another woman whilst married? Dressing or displaying as other than your birth gender? Dominant / sub? Is that not a kink? There is hundreds of kinks on here, because you don’t like it doesn’t mean you have to comment as I pointed out earlier! " If people are fucking in public you might have a point. Generally that isn't happening. No, not all gender non conforming attire is a kink and clothes are generally not seen as sexual in the same way. To the extent it is a kink, I think it should be at least toned down in public. I think people who foist their kinks on people who happen to be in the same area do swingers and other kinksters a disservice, by making us all look like we have no boundaries or respect. When that isn't at all true. It's also a forum, and people can comment including disagreeing with you. | |||
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"Feel free to shut the thread down. At the end of the day, swinging is a kink, some could say cd / tv etc is a kink, many people on here display kinks and chat about them openly. I’ve had lots of people love the video. I don’t go round knocking anyone else’s kinks even the very obscure ones. Everyone is welcome to an opinion however not everyone needs to hear it. Nudity by the law is only illegal IF it causes offence to the witness, I’ve seen many a thing in here that will cause people offences but again I don’t comment because I grew up! Do you know you didn't offend anyone? Is exercising your kink worth the risk of offending someone? Fair question for many people on here. I’d love to know what the response would have been if I was a woman doing exactly the same thing? From me? Exactly the same. People in public do not consent to engaging in your kink. You're foisting it on them. I don't care if you have a penis, tits, both, or neither. Kink is for people who consent. Do you say that to everyone that’s on here? Isn’t swinging a kink? Sleeping with another man while married / sleeping with another woman whilst married? Dressing or displaying as other than your birth gender? Dominant / sub? Is that not a kink? There is hundreds of kinks on here, because you don’t like it doesn’t mean you have to comment as I pointed out earlier! If people are fucking in public you might have a point. Generally that isn't happening. No, not all gender non conforming attire is a kink and clothes are generally not seen as sexual in the same way. To the extent it is a kink, I think it should be at least toned down in public. I think people who foist their kinks on people who happen to be in the same area do swingers and other kinksters a disservice, by making us all look like we have no boundaries or respect. When that isn't at all true. It's also a forum, and people can comment including disagreeing with you. " Agreed it is a forum everyone has their chance for input, I personally feel that opinions are great however they are a personal opinion, I don’t and I haven’t ever gone all out kicking off at anyone else’s kinks on here, that’s all! Happy fabbing! | |||
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"Feel free to shut the thread down. At the end of the day, swinging is a kink, some could say cd / tv etc is a kink, many people on here display kinks and chat about them openly. I’ve had lots of people love the video. I don’t go round knocking anyone else’s kinks even the very obscure ones. Everyone is welcome to an opinion however not everyone needs to hear it. Nudity by the law is only illegal IF it causes offence to the witness, I’ve seen many a thing in here that will cause people offences but again I don’t comment because I grew up! Do you know you didn't offend anyone? Is exercising your kink worth the risk of offending someone? Fair question for many people on here. I’d love to know what the response would have been if I was a woman doing exactly the same thing? From me? Exactly the same. People in public do not consent to engaging in your kink. You're foisting it on them. I don't care if you have a penis, tits, both, or neither. Kink is for people who consent. Do you say that to everyone that’s on here? Isn’t swinging a kink? Sleeping with another man while married / sleeping with another woman whilst married? Dressing or displaying as other than your birth gender? Dominant / sub? Is that not a kink? There is hundreds of kinks on here, because you don’t like it doesn’t mean you have to comment as I pointed out earlier! If people are fucking in public you might have a point. Generally that isn't happening. No, not all gender non conforming attire is a kink and clothes are generally not seen as sexual in the same way. To the extent it is a kink, I think it should be at least toned down in public. I think people who foist their kinks on people who happen to be in the same area do swingers and other kinksters a disservice, by making us all look like we have no boundaries or respect. When that isn't at all true. It's also a forum, and people can comment including disagreeing with you. Agreed it is a forum everyone has their chance for input, I personally feel that opinions are great however they are a personal opinion, I don’t and I haven’t ever gone all out kicking off at anyone else’s kinks on here, that’s all! Happy fabbing! " The only ones I ever go after are the ones that could involve people who haven't consented. Hope this helps. | |||
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"You’ve chosen to walk along side a dual carriageway stark naked where there are other people going about their day, who haven’t consented to be a part of your kink. God forbid there were any kids in those cars!. If you want to walk around naked, do it somewhere the general public doesn’t have to be subjected to it. It’s not ok. " Agreed. On one hand, his kink wouldn't work if it's among a consenting audience. There's no satisfaction there. On the other hand, it's about safeguarding children first and not trespassing on other people's liberties. The public good trumps excesses of personal freedoms. Not kink shaming, but also practice sense and sensibility. | |||
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but oh I'm to nice don't know if I could do it hahaha | |||
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"had a guy choose my lingerie last night, getting him all pent up, knowing it would be another guy ripping it off me. he called me worse than mean for that, if that counts? Px "Bet he wishes he went with big baggy Y fronts for a first time ever. I always try to keep Y fronts in mind on the rare occasion I snag one, find it helps with stamina  | |||
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"OP if you decide to come back to this, what would you have done if you had caused a car accident? People slowing down coz your on the fucking road and someone goes into the back of them??" Very very unlikely given late time and amount of traffic on the type of road | |||
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"OP. This has nothing to do with kink shaming. This has everything to do with forcing unsuspecting members of the public to see you naked." I’m simply pointing out that by me not wearing an outfit it is the same as anyone wearing an outfit of other than what society would expect them to wear yes it’s not normal yet not illegal unless intended to cause offence. At the end of the day 50% of population have the same! | |||
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" not illegal unless intended to cause offence. ! " Under the Sexual Offences Act yes. However theTown Police Clauses Act makes it illegal if it causes "annoyance to residents or passers by" Further there are also the offences of Public Nuisance, and Outraging Public Decency. But. Regardless of legalities there are also the issues of morality, consent, and safety. | |||
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" not illegal unless intended to cause offence. ! Under the Sexual Offences Act yes. However theTown Police Clauses Act makes it illegal if it causes "annoyance to residents or passers by" Further there are also the offences of Public Nuisance, and Outraging Public Decency. But. Regardless of legalities there are also the issues of morality, consent, and safety." I wonder if indifference as to causing offence is also actionable. "My kink overrides the wishes of anyone who might see it" seems super shitty to me. (I'm not suggesting anyone be arrested. I'm saying it's well below basic behavioural standards and I wonder what the law makes of such things) | |||
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" . I wonder if indifference as to causing offence is also actionable. "My kink overrides the wishes of anyone who might see it" seems super shitty to me. (I'm not suggesting anyone be arrested. I'm saying it's well below basic behavioural standards and I wonder what the law makes of such things)" Not generally where specific intend is required. Unless the act can be shown as being so reckless that the intent can be reasonably assumed. Naked on the hard shoulder of a motorway? Borderline. | |||
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"OP if you decide to come back to this, what would you have done if you had caused a car accident? People slowing down coz your on the fucking road and someone goes into the back of them?? Very very unlikely given late time and amount of traffic on the type of road " But you can't say that it would never happen, you also didn't answer my question | |||
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"I wonder if indifference as to causing offence is also actionable. "My kink overrides the wishes of anyone who might see it" seems super shitty to me. (I'm not suggesting anyone be arrested. I'm saying it's well below basic behavioural standards and I wonder what the law makes of such things) Not generally where specific intend is required. Unless the act can be shown as being so reckless that the intent can be reasonably assumed. Naked on the hard shoulder of a motorway? Borderline." Yeah, it's a high level of indifference. Does the reasonable person come into play? Would the average passenger of the Clapham omnibus think this is ok? (That's one way of formulating the reasonable person test, for those who don't know) | |||
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