FabSwingers.com forum: I want it just so

By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Do you have any non negotiables when it comes to sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on then I’ll chime in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing. Lots of kissing. If there’s no kissing it’s SO boring and rubbish for me

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Kissing. Lots of kissing. If there’s no kissing it’s SO boring and rubbish for me "

Yasssssss!

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By *bc.lc87Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

There has to be foreplay

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Was thinking I don’t really think I have any. I want to chat and laugh and explore mostly.

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"There has to be foreplay "

For me this starts when I’m not even anywhere near the person.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Yes oral is a big must

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Yes oral is a big must "

You giving or receiving?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Yes oral is a big must

You giving or receiving?"

Both

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Yes oral is a big must

You giving or receiving?

Both "

Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was thinking I don’t really think I have any. I want to chat and laugh and explore mostly.

Wanna chat during the act? I enjoy talking

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Yes oral is a big must

You giving or receiving?

Both

Nice

What about you

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By *bc.lc87Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Both tbf I love a 69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of eye and skin contact, we love the connection between us and with others.

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By *bc.lc87Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yh definitely explore each others bodies

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Was thinking I don’t really think I have any. I want to chat and laugh and explore mostly.

Wanna chat during the act? I enjoy talking "

Are you going to talk filth to me?

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By *bc.lc87Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Dirty talking is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirty talking is a must "
use reply + quote! It’ll mean you can reply to specific messages bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was thinking I don’t really think I have any. I want to chat and laugh and explore mostly.

Wanna chat during the act? I enjoy talking

Are you going to talk filth to me?

Si!

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Was thinking I don’t really think I have any. I want to chat and laugh and explore mostly.

Wanna chat during the act? I enjoy talking

Are you going to talk filth to me?

Si!

Pervert. I like it.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

"Do you have any non negotiables when it comes to sex?

Condoms!

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By *bc.lc87Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Dirty talking is a must use reply + quote! It’ll mean you can reply to specific messages bro

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thanks lol

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Do you have any non negotiables when it comes to sex?

Condoms!

Fair point!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never indulge in bondage on a first date.

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

Anyone who calls themself a dom or a sub or even a switch has shut down any possibility of discovery, exploration and mystery so I avoid those types as I hate prescriptive, reductive sex.

Same goes for dick pics, dick monikers, dick measurements... and 'oral for hours' enthusiasts

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"Do you have any non negotiables when it comes to sex?

I insist on no sex for 8 weeks but they must let me caress their ankles in this time …..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penis, it just has to be there.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Has to be a connection there or its boring for me

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Penis, it just has to be there."

Not much to ask for is it haha

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Refereing to me as daddy is a massive turn off and I'll leave that moment I also find it a bit creepy.

Poo, piss, blood and pain is a no fom me.

Giggly shyness is also a turn off, I like women who are sexualy confident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I despise derogatory words or phrases.

I once was having a lovely time with someone and then in the throws of passion he called me a whore. Never saw him ever again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing. Lots of kissing. If there’s no kissing it’s SO boring and rubbish for me "

110%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She has to be satisfied. No half a job.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

They have to be interested in me as a person, not just a beautiful hole or two to fill.

And kissing.

Aside from that, I'm not too sure.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"They have to be interested in me as a person, not just a beautiful hole or two to fill.

And kissing.

Aside from that, I'm not too sure. "

Exactly this

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"They have to be interested in me as a person, not just a beautiful hole or two to fill.

And kissing.

Aside from that, I'm not too sure.

Exactly this

And obviously not the hole to fill bit

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"They have to be interested in me as a person, not just a beautiful hole or two to fill.

And kissing.

Aside from that, I'm not too sure.

Exactly this

And obviously not the hole to fill bit

I mean... there's no judgement here. You do you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay otherwise its no sex at all

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

Being present and in the moment. Not checking social media, texting etc

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"They have to be interested in me as a person, not just a beautiful hole or two to fill.

And kissing.

Aside from that, I'm not too sure.

Exactly this

And obviously not the hole to fill bit

I mean... there's no judgement here. You do you.

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must, so is liking me as a person rather than just a body, condoms are also a must, the attention seeking whores on my chest however are quite demanding too so nipple play is a must.

Besides that I have limits, some are hard limits, and they aren't negotiable. There's a small list and valid reasons for them.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Kissing is a must, so is liking me as a person rather than just a body, condoms are also a must, the attention seeking whores on my chest however are quite demanding too so nipple play is a must.

Besides that I have limits, some are hard limits, and they aren't negotiable. There's a small list and valid reasons for them. "

Haha they would get their attention alright !

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

"Lots of eye and skin contact, we love the connection between us and with others."

So much..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing, eye contact

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can't just be a quickie meet and must involve kissing.

And don't call me babe. Babe is a pig in my world.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!"

Thank god - I thought it was just me.

It’s “nails on the blackboard” time for me. Weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

I like the term playing. It conjures up in my mind and image of a fun time, light hearted and lots of laughter alongside the sex, and well generally just being playful and carefree. Now if someone said let's meet and make love...I'd run a mile.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"Anyone who calls themself a dom or a sub or even a switch has shut down any possibility of discovery, exploration and mystery so I avoid those types as I hate prescriptive, reductive sex.

At my age, I have experimented with the sub/switch side, I have been tied , cuffed, flogged and such, physically and mentally it did nothing for me, reverse the role and and it's a different story.

Being a Dom is still about discovery, exploration and mystery, it's about evolving

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Don’t worry - I know it’s just a personal taste thing. I’m not trying to convince others not to use it (my first post wasn’t exactly serious).

I just can’t get away from memories of calling at friends’ houses to see if they want to “come out and play’ when I was little. I associate it with childhood; maybe I don’t want my pristine early years tarnished. Or something!

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Make love just makes me cringe so hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's sex?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!"

I'm adding meet to that. Meet. Meet meet. Meet. Bleurgh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely kissing and eye contact is a must

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!

I'm adding meet to that. Meet. Meet meet. Meet. Bleurgh."

I nearly said that. That’s the worst! “A meet”

Horrendous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread tells me why it’s impossible to get a meet, err I mean a social, no a rendezvous, wait….an assignation……ah, fuck it…..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"This thread tells me why it’s impossible to get a meet, err I mean a social, no a rendezvous, wait….an assignation……ah, fuck it…..

Haha. It tells me why I never meet anyone too

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!"

Me three! Playing, play date, and even 'meet'. Hate all those terms.Eeeeew.

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By *kjay86Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Lots of kissing throughout and never skip foreplay, even with a quickie you can squeeze a bit in.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Lots of kissing and foreplay is a must. Adds to the spice of the meet. Could spend hours just kissing and touching

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"This thread tells me why it’s impossible to get a meet, err I mean a social, no a rendezvous, wait….an assignation……ah, fuck it…..

Haha. It tells me why I never meet anyone too

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add me to that list

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!

I'm adding meet to that. Meet. Meet meet. Meet. Bleurgh.

I nearly said that. That’s the worst! “A meet”

Horrendous!"

I remember how cringe you found that term

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!

I'm adding meet to that. Meet. Meet meet. Meet. Bleurgh.

I nearly said that. That’s the worst! “A meet”

Horrendous!

I remember how cringe you found that term

. I haven’t changed

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

No removing of paper bags till I leave the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need a sticky for acceptable fab terminology.

Oh, how about a 'sticky'?..

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!

I'm adding meet to that. Meet. Meet meet. Meet. Bleurgh.

I nearly said that. That’s the worst! “A meet”

Horrendous!

I remember how cringe you found that term

. I haven’t changed "

The term rendezvous is so much more chic anyways

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"My main one that’s not been mentione is don’t call it “playing”

(I know that’s the standard swinging term, but I hate it for some reason

Me too. Playing/playmate. Ugh!

I'm adding meet to that. Meet. Meet meet. Meet. Bleurgh.

I nearly said that. That’s the worst! “A meet”

Horrendous!

I remember how cringe you found that term

. I haven’t changed

The term rendezvous is so much more chic anyways

Oh absolutely darling

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Do you have any non negotiables when it comes to sex?

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Yes, I will always push for a social (or two) as a precursor.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Kissing... Most important activity.

Oral... Recieving, not just a quick lick.

Condom, safe sex obs.

Cuddles after, I like to feel that closeness.

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