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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone have stories about their first meet on fab? You don't have to say their name

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

We met socially and planned to meet again a few days later. The day before, I injured myself and ended up in hospital. He postponed the meet while I was sitting in A&E, and kept me company virtually when I was basically alone.

I knew we'd stay friends when we argued about the spelling of a particular word. (I was right)

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I remember mine perfectly. It was a 24hr long date. We’ve been best mates ever since, going on 8yrs now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still in contact with my first meet from over 10 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gym fit bloke years older than he said he was. Felt like there was a list of kinky things he was working through. Robotic, emotionless and never again.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I wrote a short story on fab about my first meet, it loosely based on the truth lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Our first meet was at a club. It was our first club visit and we chatted with a couple before going off to a private room. This was also Anita's first experience of another lady.

The other couple were divorced a year later, and the club is now shut.. I hope it wasn't our fault

Cal

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

She sent pictures of her looking like Angelina Jolie. Turned up she looked like kat slater.

The mr

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

Went to a club to "test it" ended up being the last ones to leave after having lots of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went for a coffee in a nearby cafe. There was a camera crew from X-Ray (a consumer rights based programme shown in Wales). The presenter kept pestering us to give an interview, I had to repeatedly decline and ask them not to share my face in the show, followed by an email to BBC Wales. Annoying...yes, but also quite memorable.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Was in a club about 10 years ago , Tease2 on the A14 my very first time in a club and only ever had sex in club once since then!

She was the hottest woman in the club and we’d been chatting at the bar then I asked if we could get a room and she said sure as long as my husband can join. It was exceptionally good!

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

Had a lovely young lad over to our place.. had never done anything before, any of us. First time ever seeing K with another man..

Had a couple of drinks and a laugh round the dining table until K got up, took off her dress and straddled him..

Twas a fantastic experience for us - unfortunately we never heard from him again. Still wonder sometimes what happened to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He came over, we had a little drink and social after months of chatting as I was too nervous to meet..

Within seconds of getting my clothes off he was making me sqirt everywhere - his Welsh accent drove me wild and we had amazing sex. We still are friends.

Very successful and got me hooked on this site

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork


"He came over, we had a little drink and social after months of chatting as I was too nervous to meet..

Within seconds of getting my clothes off he was making me sqirt everywhere - his Welsh accent drove me wild and we had amazing sex. We still are friends.

Very successful and got me hooked on this site "

Nnng the Welsh Great story x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it was very exciting... Around 2 months from first chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He came over, we had a little drink and social after months of chatting as I was too nervous to meet..

Within seconds of getting my clothes off he was making me sqirt everywhere - his Welsh accent drove me wild and we had amazing sex. We still are friends.

Very successful and got me hooked on this site

Nnng the Welsh Great story x"

That Welsh accent still gets me now haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He came over, we had a little drink and social after months of chatting as I was too nervous to meet..

Within seconds of getting my clothes off he was making me sqirt everywhere - his Welsh accent drove me wild and we had amazing sex. We still are friends.

Very successful and got me hooked on this site

Nnng the Welsh Great story x

That Welsh accent still gets me now haha x "

Anen to the Welsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turned out to be someone I've known for years.

(This was established BEFORE meeting)

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By *he_turtle_movesMan
over a year ago

york

Left me running down a road naked fearing the police would be round every corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes infact I actually found the stories we both wrote about our encounter.

Was a long time ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first swing meet was an older couple in their mid 40s when i was 23 and very nervous, the were great at eating my nerves with chat before we played, one of my most memorable meets

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

She was a 5ft 10 long blonde hair ex ballerina non smoker.. Who turned out to be 5ft 2, brittle bleached blonde smoker... As id travelled a long way we got over it, had a lovely social and stayed friends. Nothing intimate but thats ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had one.

The clique has banned me from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had one.

The clique has banned me from them "

You'll never get in with that attitude.....1st rule of clique club.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had one.

The clique has banned me from them

You'll never get in with that attitude.....1st rule of clique club..... "

I wouldn't join a clique that would have me as a member

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Our first meet as a couple was with a single guy and it was fantastic.Mandy even borrowed some books from him!

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I got chatting to from the chatrooms. 20/21 year old me was so eager to please. Probably would have the confidence now to not go through with any more than a social. Tbh I’m not sure she was that into it either; She said she didn’t meet Black guys or bearded guys etc. She was always lovely and kind to me and I appreciate her for that but I think who I was then and who I am now are so totally different and my self worth is higher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically wasn't on fab at the time but I'm still counting it.

A good looking man that I thought would not go for me at all. However I was wrong.

The first meet after a social before, was at mine.

I answered the door in a dressing gown having dressed up for him and hiding it all underneath, matching set, suspenders, stockings, heels etc. We were kissing in the hallway, once it was revealed I was pinned up against the back of my front door. He was more than happy with me and what I was wearing, we only made it two feet further to my stairs and had an amazing time. Very sexy, and he certainly gave me some confidence where I had lost it in a previous relationship.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My first meet was tall and young. I drove to his house and when he let me in I freaked a bit as it was so bare. Hardly any furniture and a projector on the wall instead of a television. He was very poor but he treated me well and the sex was good. I returned another 2 times but it became apparent he had some mental health issues so I never returned after that third visit.

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

Met for a massage, ended up having sex.

Nice but unexpected

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

A tall dark younger than myself guy was waiting for me in my room as I came out from the shower..didnt have time for nerves really,met several more times and stayed in contact for a good few years..

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

A guy I still chat to now. We went for a walk in my local forestry. I thought it would be a gentle amble, enjoying nature, unbeknownst to me, he has quite the walking pace on him. The walk was also quite hilly. He stopped walking for a kiss. I couldn’t kiss for long as I was that breathless and was aware I had a sweaty upper lip. And when I got back in the car my face was beetroot red from the exertion (of the walk!).

I had coffee meets after that, they’re much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my first meet are still in contact 8 years on and class her as a friend and still find her sexy as hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was one of those ‘we are in a hotel, any guys want to pop over’ types. He gets to reclaim her after every one. Quick but I was horny. Not sure I’d do it again though

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By *kjay86Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

My first was with a hotwife couple on an old profile maybe 7 ish years ago now. Was also my first jump into anything like this after becoming single again. Proper lovely couple and ideal for someone totally inexperienced with swinging as they just put me at ease. Was a very long night and a lot of fun!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Yeah, it was the greatest ever. I had to get a train as it was in the days before map reading and gps. The ticket seller said 'you want to go to [shine town]', with his eyes popping out. A return confidently. I realise it's 5 minutes down the road and not the best place in the world. We meet in a pub car park, head back to hers and after a frantic 2 mins I'm whitewashing walls. She says her husband will be home in an hour or so if I wanted to hang around, which was news as I thought she was single. So nervous bollocks me runs for the door after barely doing a thing.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

Mine messaged quite recently to say she has separated from her husband, and I don't know what to do with that information if I'm honest as we stopped seeing each other due to getting those bloody feeling things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was a local couple

I was petrified I'll be honest I could hardly stay hard ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first ever meets off here each other quite a few years ago now. Since coming back on as a couple, it was a couple we got chatting to and met for a few socials. Had a great time with them but I don’t think we were for them, interest seemed to not be there but we still had a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a bit of chat on here, we were invited to a couples house about 20 miles away.

They were lovely but very very experienced.

She was dressed in a latex dress with a collar that spelt "fuck me" on it.

He was undressing quickly with a few rubber rings around his shaft to make him last longer.

They had some budgies in a few cages who would talk loudly to themselves until everyone got down to what we were there for. Then mysteriously the budgies would go deathly quiet.

Still it was a great experience, went back two more times. But the last time the lady reached around to see if I still had a condom on (I did of course).

That killed the trust / fun, so we didn't go back.

Nice people, who gave us other first experiences in swinging.

M & J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We met socially and planned to meet again a few days later. The day before, I injured myself and ended up in hospital. He postponed the meet while I was sitting in A&E, and kept me company virtually when I was basically alone.

I knew we'd stay friends when we argued about the spelling of a particular word. (I was right)"
Intresting type of meet

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Ours was way before fab existed, never looked back

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We met socially and planned to meet again a few days later. The day before, I injured myself and ended up in hospital. He postponed the meet while I was sitting in A&E, and kept me company virtually when I was basically alone.

I knew we'd stay friends when we argued about the spelling of a particular word. (I was right) Intresting type of meet"

Other things happened after that, but things got complicated and I made an incredible friend

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Mine was so long ago I can't remember but I've an idea it was a threesome

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

My first meet was a meet that i kept seeing for 2 years until i moved, we had car sex, we performed on a dogging site unbeknowingly, we had sex in london parks in the long grass, we went to hotels it was a lovely relationship

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


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After a bit of chat on here, we were invited to a couples house about 20 miles away.

They were lovely but very very experienced.

She was dressed in a latex dress with a collar that spelt "fuck me" on it.

He was undressing quickly with a few rubber rings around his shaft to make him last longer.

They had some budgies in a few cages who would talk loudly to themselves until everyone got down to what we were there for. Then mysteriously the budgies would go deathly quiet.

Still it was a great experience, went back two more times. But the last time the lady reached around to see if I still had a condom on (I did of course).

That killed the trust / fun, so we didn't go back.

Nice people, who gave us other first experiences in swinging.

M & J"

Mine was similar in the fact that the first person I met on here didn’t have budgies, but they did like a cock or two….

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Mine wasn't the best

He came and went rather quick

Blocked me afterwards and years later messaged me to apologise on a new profile.

He wantws me to meet again ,but i said no thanks.I don't hold a grudge ,but it was pretty crap behaviour that put me off meets for a bit.

I always chat till I'm comfortable and meet socially only now first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was with couple about 15 years ago. We chatted for a few weeks and suddenly one Sunday afternoon they messaged to say they were nearby and was I free to meet.

I invited them here and we chatted in an incredibly relaxed way before she asked if she could undress me.

I'll always be grateful that they made 'my debut' seem so relaxed, so natural and also so exciting.

We had another meet a few months later where he told me he was bi. We'd all got on so well,it seemed rude not to give it a go, so I became a convert to two pairs of lips on one cock

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Mine was a disaster. He didn't even put it in. Then ordered me a taxi

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