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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

We all have a secret crush right? But never told them.

What about in here even though it’s more open do you still have that one profile you have a crush for but never dared to wink or say hi?

Go on, who is it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FilthyboredMilf and Stag Slag

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"FilthyboredMilf and Stag Slag "

Not shy to shout it out then

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Have a few Fab crushes

XX

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Nope. I told him. And I'm really glad I did

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Nope. I told him. And I'm really glad I did "

How did you approach - owi, I fancy you kinda thing? Or more subtle lol

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Have a few Fab crushes

XX "

And keeping them secret

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Nope. I told him. And I'm really glad I did

How did you approach - owi, I fancy you kinda thing? Or more subtle lol "

I don't actually remember. But I usually am quite good at "fling the information out there and try to pretend I'm indifferent to their answer while dying a little inside"

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Told him ages ago.

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Nope. I told him. And I'm really glad I did

How did you approach - owi, I fancy you kinda thing? Or more subtle lol

I don't actually remember. But I usually am quite good at "fling the information out there and try to pretend I'm indifferent to their answer while dying a little inside""

Lol love it

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Told him ages ago. "

What was your approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

They know.

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Nope

They know. "

And…….success or scarpered away like you were not really bothered?

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

No I usually just blurt it out if I like someone on here and hope for the best but expect the worst!

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"No I usually just blurt it out if I like someone on here and hope for the best but expect the worst! "

The responders in here have more oomf than me when it’s comes to a crush lol

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"Told him ages ago.

What was your approach "

. Characteristically it was as elegant as that!!!! I probably fell over or something equally as attractive & subtle as well.

Catch of the century I am

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Have a few Fab crushes

XX

And keeping them secret "

For now.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked by my secret crush long story

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I've been blocked by my secret crush long story "

Lol oh ffs

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Told him ages ago.

What was your approach

. Characteristically it was as elegant as that!!!! I probably fell over or something equally as attractive & subtle as well.

Catch of the century I am "

Hahahha brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He knows. Infact probably everybody knows.

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"He knows. Infact probably everybody knows. "

Does a crush stop being a crush once you tell them? That’s a thought

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Couldn't think of anything worse then revealing a crush. They are secret crushes for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He knows. Infact probably everybody knows.

Does a crush stop being a crush once you tell them? That’s a thought "

Definitely not. I crush on him a little bit more every time I see him

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Couldn't think of anything worse then revealing a crush. They are secret crushes for a reason."

That’s what I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been blocked by my secret crush long story

Lol oh ffs "

It's ok we counter blocked each other. It was a mutual decision to save us from trouble haha looking for a new target now

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I've been blocked by my secret crush long story

Lol oh ffs

It's ok we counter blocked each other. It was a mutual decision to save us from trouble haha looking for a new target now"

Look out if you tell them though is a real crush? Isn’t that then you just fancy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope

They know.

And…….success or scarpered away like you were not really bothered?"

They didn’t run a mile so that’s always a good sign.

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Nope

They know.

And…….success or scarpered away like you were not really bothered?

They didn’t run a mile so that’s always a good sign. "

Lol yeah I guess you could say that

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’ve had crushes and some I’ve told others I prefer to watch from afar

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By * MailMan
over a year ago

Poole

I have a crush on a much older woman I work with. I’m nervous about doing anything but really deep down want to!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had crushes and some I’ve told others I prefer to watch from afar"

Waves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've told all mine. Either directly or via forum threads !

Maybe need round two to make sure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few but haven't told them. Don't think it would go anywhere so I haven't bothered. I have dropped hints with some people but alas no joy.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I like not saying, and I like others not saying, too. Living always in a delicious hinterland, a sensually ambiguous, endlessly delayed world of maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe one of my crushes is not so secret anymore

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't have any crushes, here or otherwise

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"I don't have any crushes, here or otherwise "
you surely have a crush on a celebrity

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't have any crushes, here or otherwise you surely have a crush on a celebrity "

Absolutely not.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"I don't have any crushes, here or otherwise you surely have a crush on a celebrity

Absolutely not."
even when you were younger. I had a massive crush on Britney spears

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Why wouldn't you tell them

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By *edRobyn95TV/TS
over a year ago

Port Glasgow

Gingercouple8997 red heads and freckles melt me like I just can’t.

Also mrmrscurious26 who I’ve been speaking to and playing games with for like 6 months. But we are besties so they know I think they hot af.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few that I'd like to wear me as a hat yes.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Some people I like know, some I haven't told as I don't meet their preferences and some I have blocked as they don't seem to like me and it saves the dispointment.

Thats a big block list I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few and we’ve made it known for the most part.. the few who spring to mind are on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I told her I thought she was awesome.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"There are a few and we’ve made it known for the most part.. the few who spring to mind are on this thread "

Aaahhh not me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one but will keep it to myself

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I've a few.

Not going to say it in an open forum as too shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The crushes I have I can’t tell or wink them cause not in their age range.

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By *nked rascalMan
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

Typically the fab curse strikes on most of my crushes, and they’re miles away most are on my hotlist

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I have a few but haven't told them. Don't think it would go anywhere so I haven't bothered. I have dropped hints with some people but alas no joy."

Keep hinting lol

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"The crushes I have I can’t tell or wink them cause not in their age range. "

Aww maybe have to resort to approaching them directly lol

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"There are a few and we’ve made it known for the most part.. the few who spring to mind are on this thread "

Great answer love that

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"There's a few that I'd like to wear me as a hat yes."

Me too! But haven’t said anything

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"The crushes I have I can’t tell or wink them cause not in their age range.

Aww maybe have to resort to approaching them directly lol "

Haha how can she do that if she can't message them

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I've a few.

Not going to say it in an open forum as too shy.

"

Me too

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Secret? Kind of. I'm happy with not telling them, I enjoy it for what it is and don't have an immediate desire to declare it to them. Bar one woman. She knows.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I think they probably know.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not 12.....too old for "crushes".

If I like someone I'll tell them, no point beating around the bush x

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By *uckMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe DN15

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"The crushes I have I can’t tell or wink them cause not in their age range. "

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By *uckMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe DN15

Sasha Wass

She is a woman who I would kill for....

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"I'm not 12.....too old for "crushes".

If I like someone I'll tell them, no point beating around the bush x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just enjoy the moments... I don't feel the need to tell anyone as then things get too heavy and serious

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Maybe.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I just enjoy the moments... I don't feel the need to tell anyone as then things get too heavy and serious "

Exactly. It changes things doesn't it? I wish it didn't, I'm rather fond of that stage. So, I'm happy to not say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just enjoy the moments... I don't feel the need to tell anyone as then things get too heavy and serious

Exactly. It changes things doesn't it? I wish it didn't, I'm rather fond of that stage. So, I'm happy to not say. "

Yeah, suddenly there are expectations and 'lets arrange to meet' .. The pace changes

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"I just enjoy the moments... I don't feel the need to tell anyone as then things get too heavy and serious "
But a silly crush doesn't mean you have to get serious with them, its just flirting at the end of the day.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I just enjoy the moments... I don't feel the need to tell anyone as then things get too heavy and serious

Exactly. It changes things doesn't it? I wish it didn't, I'm rather fond of that stage. So, I'm happy to not say.

Yeah, suddenly there are expectations and 'lets arrange to meet' .. The pace changes "

The pace changes sounds so ominous. Love it. Yeah; I'm a bit of a slut for being desired but I think right now, it's nice to have a silly crush and get all excited without that pressure/expectation for more.

I'm also a stonking hypocrite because I have a date very soon with someone who gives me butterflies every time he tells me he likes me.

It's a hard life dealing with such a dichotomy.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

There’s a few people I admire but I wouldn’t call it crush.

They will never find out as far out of my league anyway.

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"There’s a few people I admire but I wouldn’t call it crush.

They will never find out as far out of my league anyway. "

Aww your already in the premier league

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I just enjoy the moments... I don't feel the need to tell anyone as then things get too heavy and serious

Exactly. It changes things doesn't it? I wish it didn't, I'm rather fond of that stage. So, I'm happy to not say.

Yeah, suddenly there are expectations and 'lets arrange to meet' .. The pace changes

The pace changes sounds so ominous. Love it. Yeah; I'm a bit of a slut for being desired but I think right now, it's nice to have a silly crush and get all excited without that pressure/expectation for more.

I'm also a stonking hypocrite because I have a date very soon with someone who gives me butterflies every time he tells me he likes me.

It's a hard life dealing with such a dichotomy. "

Hahha live the butterflies bit that part makes it so much more exciting

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rex. I'd let him fuck my sphincter.

F

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Kinda I have yes...

And I've told her ..

That's all I'm saying

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"I'm not 12.....too old for "crushes".

If I like someone I'll tell them, no point beating around the bush x"

Haha exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and it will stay a secret because he doesn't no I exist

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve told mine in the past. Sometimes it works out, mostly it doesn’t. It’s the ones that do work out that make it worthwhile

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I have two crushes, one on Fab, one not.

The non-fab one is happily in a relationship with a kiddie, so I will carry my feelings to the grave.

In a moment of weakness, I told my fab crush of her lofty status and I wish I hadn’t. I believe it has affected our online relationship and I regret that. I also suspect she thinks I see her as perfect. She isn’t and that’s hugely appealing.

Sigh…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine on here ..well he disappeared and I learnt his whole portrayal of who he was ...was fake

my other lifetime crush ..it goes both ways but life ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines a lass in Leeds lol

Stoner_princess

Dunno why but really really like her , however on her profile she's clear what type she wants , so no point in messaging , getting blocked or owt

Best way , read the profile fully before messaging .

Can still perv lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been blocked by my secret crush long story "

Ah such dumb guy, btw i am open if you like little spicy coffee

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't have any crushes, here or otherwise you surely have a crush on a celebrity

Absolutely not.even when you were younger. I had a massive crush on Britney spears "

I don't "have" crushes. Present tense. Past and future unexamined.

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"mine on here ..well he disappeared and I learnt his whole portrayal of who he was ...was fake

my other lifetime crush ..it goes both ways but life ..."

Another reason to keep a crush private, perhaps it’s the mystery of just imagining that makes it special

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I have two crushes, one on Fab, one not.

The non-fab one is happily in a relationship with a kiddie, so I will carry my feelings to the grave.

In a moment of weakness, I told my fab crush of her lofty status and I wish I hadn’t. I believe it has affected our online relationship and I regret that. I also suspect she thinks I see her as perfect. She isn’t and that’s hugely appealing.

Sigh….."

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By *pple500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yes and it will stay a secret because he doesn't no I exist "

Well I’m sure I speak for the thread by saying we know you exist and are happier for it

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By *ourisfunCouple
over a year ago

Central

We have a couple of secret crushes on here...they've been hanging around our hotlist for a while, but I don't think we'll ever let them know!

Em

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"mine on here ..well he disappeared and I learnt his whole portrayal of who he was ...was fake

my other lifetime crush ..it goes both ways but life ..."
Intreging, I think you need a new crush

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

They know who they are

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Far too many to list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Far too many to list. "

I crush on you all the time Just need to get on your list....

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Far too many to list.

I crush on you all the time Just need to get on your list...."

Thank you hope you enjoy your social event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's just so many on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Far too many to list.

I crush on you all the time Just need to get on your list....

Thank you hope you enjoy your social event. "

Awww thank you. Really excited and it's apparently going to be big with loads of people!

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By *nickers pants guyMan
over a year ago

Cork killkenny laois Limerick Offaly kildare carlow Dublin Waterford and everywhere else

It's a swinger site if you don't tell your crush your wasting your time

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Far too many to list.

I crush on you all the time Just need to get on your list....

Thank you hope you enjoy your social event.

Awww thank you. Really excited and it's apparently going to be big with loads of people! "

Good luck, maybe we will get to one some day when life slows down a bit.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Has anyone said "They know who they are" yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have few

To cowardly custard to tell them

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Has anyone said "They know who they are" yet?"

Hahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone said "They know who they are" yet?"

Nearly lost a mouthful of coffee to that, caught me off guard completely haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a secret to her as she knows I’m looking forward to meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mine on here ..well he disappeared and I learnt his whole portrayal of who he was ...was fake

my other lifetime crush ..it goes both ways but life ... Intreging, I think you need a new crush "
any suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Far too many to list.

I crush on you all the time Just need to get on your list....

Thank you hope you enjoy your social event.

Awww thank you. Really excited and it's apparently going to be big with loads of people!

Good luck, maybe we will get to one some day when life slows down a bit."

A nice trip to a Leeds social would be good when you do get enough free life space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have two crushes, one on Fab, one not.

The non-fab one is happily in a relationship with a kiddie, so I will carry my feelings to the grave.

In a moment of weakness, I told my fab crush of her lofty status and I wish I hadn’t. I believe it has affected our online relationship and I regret that. I also suspect she thinks I see her as perfect. She isn’t and that’s hugely appealing.

Sigh….."

That's exactly what I mean about it changing things

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Maybe one of my crushes is not so secret anymore"

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Penny “The Sword” Mordant!

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Actually, any sexy, posh totty!

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

I let mine be known

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I just made a post on Shakespeare for the school magazine if anyone's interested lol

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By *illiam101000Man
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray


"Penny “The Sword” Mordant! "

I bet she's got a much bigger fan club now. Got a good firm grip holding that heavy sword eh. Lol.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

A lady at work. She knows, but has a boyfriend, so that's where it'll stay, an attraction

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We crush on a few on here..

they’re in our hotlist.

Occasionally we’ll reach out.

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

Ahh to be someone’s crush

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i kkep them a secret..

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By *JtheTomMan
over a year ago

London

Very shy when it comes too my crushes on here. Hot list them and just admire them from afar. Someday I have the courage to say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the idea of the site was to tell them, or have I got the concept wrong? ??

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

I'm in the "looks at profile, likes what he sees but never approaches because they're not looking for me" camp.

Thus my attraction remains a secret.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming


"Very shy when it comes too my crushes on here. Hot list them and just admire them from afar. Someday I have the courage to say hi "

*adds to hotlist….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought the idea of the site was to tell them, or have I got the concept wrong? ??"

With me it's a case of I think they wouldn't be interested so I don't bother. That would spoil the fantasy. At least this way I can fantasise about what might happen as in my mind there is still a possibility. Once they say no, that's gone.

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By *JtheTomMan
over a year ago

London


"I thought the idea of the site was to tell them, or have I got the concept wrong? ??

With me it's a case of I think they wouldn't be interested so I don't bother. That would spoil the fantasy. At least this way I can fantasise about what might happen as in my mind there is still a possibility. Once they say no, that's gone."

This

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"I thought the idea of the site was to tell them, or have I got the concept wrong? ??

With me it's a case of I think they wouldn't be interested so I don't bother. That would spoil the fantasy. At least this way I can fantasise about what might happen as in my mind there is still a possibility. Once they say no, that's gone."

"I think they wouldn't be interested so I don't bother" Very much this.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’m crushing currently. It’s such a weird feeling, I wonder what the point of it is.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I've got lots of crushes ... but the last time I said anything I made an absolute idiot of myself and my mind unravelled very quickly... so ... not doing that again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the one I’m currently chatting to off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m crushing currently. It’s such a weird feeling, I wonder what the point of it is. "
great sex, Estella. Great sex is the point.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

There's a couple of bodies I like looking at on here, if that's what a crush is.

I don't want to see their faces because it might spoil my pleasure, so I'm keeping it at just looking.

They wouldn't be interested in me anyway.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

According to the dictionary a crush doesn't last long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a couple of bodies I like looking at on here, if that's what a crush is.

I don't want to see their faces because it might spoil my pleasure, so I'm keeping it at just looking.

They wouldn't be interested in me anyway. "

ruin your pleasure! Rude

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I’m crushing currently. It’s such a weird feeling, I wonder what the point of it is. great sex, Estella. Great sex is the point. "

Is it just to make us have teh sex? And procreate? But why all the nervous energy/fear stuff within a crush?

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

I have one. He knows i fancy him a lot because I told him.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Whats the point of having a secret crush message them if you're not for them youre not for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m crushing currently. It’s such a weird feeling, I wonder what the point of it is. great sex, Estella. Great sex is the point.

Is it just to make us have teh sex? And procreate? But why all the nervous energy/fear stuff within a crush?"

Dunno. Funny init

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not a secret

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

Yep a few crushes.x

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Having a browse who’s in here see if there’s any of mine. See if I’m anyone’s too

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

One fairly local couple on here i admire and have spoken to before. Hopefully one day our paths will cross

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Had a crush on a sexy milf on here

Meet her & it was awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently any one who has a secret crush on me are excellent at keeping secrets.

An admirable trait all things considered.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I've got a crush on _rder66.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, they know

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Wish I did have a forum crush Would make it more exciting.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

I have a crush it's not so secret it's with myself

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By *estgalwayguyMan
over a year ago

Galway

Nora the explorer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they know

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Wish I did have a forum crush Would make it more exciting. "

It really does Nora!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Wish I did have a forum crush Would make it more exciting.

It really does Nora! "

I wonder who yours is my love . Great to see you on here again btw x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nora the explorer "

Awwwww you

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Wish I did have a forum crush Would make it more exciting.

It really does Nora!

I wonder who yours is my love . Great to see you on here again btw x"

When am I ever not bloody obvious with my crushes? I’m just too extra.

Thanks, it’s lovely to see you and others.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Wish I did have a forum crush Would make it more exciting.

It really does Nora!

I wonder who yours is my love . Great to see you on here again btw x

When am I ever not bloody obvious with my crushes? I’m just too extra.

Thanks, it’s lovely to see you and others. "

Haha. Was it you or Meli who had one on Lib. I’m sure that was you

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Wish I did have a forum crush Would make it more exciting.

It really does Nora!

I wonder who yours is my love . Great to see you on here again btw x

When am I ever not bloody obvious with my crushes? I’m just too extra.

Thanks, it’s lovely to see you and others.

Haha. Was it you or Meli who had one on Lib. I’m sure that was you "

Ha! Actually I just enjoyed winding him up, not a real crush crush. He was fun to flirt with. Wonder what he’s up to?!

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I think I've told them all. Mostly with negative responses and varying degrees of awkwardness.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I think I've told them all. Mostly with negative responses and varying degrees of awkwardness.

"

Well done on putting it out there. This just sounds like the process of Fab to me! As does fancying people (though 'crushes' happen when there are rational reasons why they probably shouldn't!) I've built half my contacts through my own 'trial and error' (if you can put it like that).

I think the less 'open' people are, the more awkward it's going to feel at times.

It's a shame you've had some awkward responses, you'd think people ought to be able to handle being approached on a sex site! It is surprising though how many do seem to fail that a little bit (or a lot sometimes if they're just plain rude). pt

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I don't have a secret crush, I tend to just tell them..

You know the saying.....a faint heart....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty to the point.

Generally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a crush on _rder66."

I've heard he's hot.

F

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"Wish I did have a forum crush Would make it more exciting. "

I'm right here, and not drowning in messages, but waving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few yes but it tends to be personality rather than looks that I find appealing.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i like a few but not crushes,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd soon let them know

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By *0heaven2020Man
over a year ago

York

I have had a secret crush on my aunt since i was a kid after the wake i took her home got her more d*unk then made her believe my uncle was coming through me n had her bent over the coffee table with my cock rammed in her xxxx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Wish I did have a forum crush Would make it more exciting.

It really does Nora!

I wonder who yours is my love . Great to see you on here again btw x

When am I ever not bloody obvious with my crushes? I’m just too extra.

Thanks, it’s lovely to see you and others.

Haha. Was it you or Meli who had one on Lib. I’m sure that was you "

Oh Lib.

He 100% had a crush on me. Still comes back from time to time to remind me I'm old, bit of a twunt. Classic pigtail pulling 'cause he wants me.

And yep, I'm WhatsApping him this so he knows I know.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Wish I did have a forum crush Would make it more exciting.

It really does Nora!

I wonder who yours is my love . Great to see you on here again btw x

When am I ever not bloody obvious with my crushes? I’m just too extra.

Thanks, it’s lovely to see you and others.

Haha. Was it you or Meli who had one on Lib. I’m sure that was you

Oh Lib.

He 100% had a crush on me. Still comes back from time to time to remind me I'm old, bit of a twunt. Classic pigtail pulling 'cause he wants me.

And yep, I'm WhatsApping him this so he knows I know. "

Haha he came back recently then went again! I’ve always had a crush on him

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I have had a secret crush on my aunt since i was a kid after the wake i took her home got her more d*unk then made her believe my uncle was coming through me n had her bent over the coffee table with my cock rammed in her xxxx"

Wtf. I don’t know whether to laugh or be totally shocked and disgusted!

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Im not good enough a secret keeper so i try stay out of all that

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Would love to have a crush but I think that all the crushing has been crushed out of me. But in the unlikely event anybody has a crush for me, it would be nice to know.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It would be a very deep and dark secret if anyone here had a crush on me lol. One of my biggest kinks is to literally be crushed. pt

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"Wish I did have a forum crush Would make it more exciting. "

No idea but I reckon plenty of us guys have a heck of a crush on you!

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

My hotlist is huge lol

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"I have had a secret crush on my aunt since i was a kid after the wake i took her home got her more d*unk then made her believe my uncle was coming through me n had her bent over the coffee table with my cock rammed in her xxxx

Wtf. I don’t know whether to laugh or be totally shocked and disgusted! "

Similar reaction to you Nora! Pity said aunt cannot post on here explaining whether or not she enjoyed it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one has a crush on me

The audacity of EVERYONE

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby


"No one has a crush on me

The audacity of EVERYONE "

This has to be satire

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"My hotlist is huge lol"

Mine too!

I have quite a work crush! But we’re both married with kids and her partner makes tons of money so I could never compete! But I’m pretty sure that under different circumstances we’d both love to be shagging each other like rabbits!

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"No one has a crush on me

The audacity of EVERYONE "
Perhaps you're suppose to know, seems a lot of that.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"No one has a crush on me

The audacity of EVERYONE "

Well if that’s the case I’ve just changed my name to ‘No one’!

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