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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So as the title suggests and our bio, me and H have discussed a full time cuckold relationship. As she has a higher sex drive than me and I struggle to fulfill her needs. I’ve always been subssmive also so we both feel this is the right way our relationship should go. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for us on how it will change our relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a specific advice but here is a bump for more answers hopefully. Try posting in Swingers Chat same question too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding isn't our cuppa tea but here's a bump all the same

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By *hareWithMeUKMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

No advice for you other than send her to me!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Have you tried Stag and Vixen yet OP?

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


"So as the title suggests and our bio, me and H have discussed a full time cuckold relationship. As she has a higher sex drive than me and I struggle to fulfill her needs. I’ve always been subssmive also so we both feel this is the right way our relationship should go. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for us on how it will change our relationship "

I'd say be obsessed with open and honest communication from both sides.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"So as the title suggests and our bio, me and H have discussed a full time cuckold relationship. As she has a higher sex drive than me and I struggle to fulfill her needs. I’ve always been subssmive also so we both feel this is the right way our relationship should go. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for us on how it will change our relationship

I'd say be obsessed with open and honest communication from both sides."

Not a lifestyle we'd choose, but as the man said! Are you going straight to a Cuckold scenario? Only asking as we feel that's a big jump if just started and there's plenty of step's that could be taken on the way..

That said if that's what both of you want, no shaming here and there will plenty, more than willing to assist going by your pics!!

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Wouldn’t even consider it unless you are 100% comfortable in yourselves and relationship.

If there’s even the slightest bit of self doubt, insecurity etc it’s a baaaaaaaad idea!

If you do decide to go ahead then baby steps, LOTS of communication, reassurance, solid boundaries etc. I would personally advise writing down boundaries so they’re clear, can go back to them if needed, can add to them and so there’s no confusion.

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border


"Have you tried Stag and Vixen yet OP?"

This was our thoughts too. Cuckolding tends to be a defined practice which involves the male being humiliated. You seem to be desiring being submissive to others, but that doesn't default to also wanting to be humiliated.

The first stage we'd suggest is simply to meet an experienced single guy socially. Explain what you 'think' you are looking for, and ask them whether they can help.

If so, meet again with he single guy being responsible for taking it step by step.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"B is a submissive male and would like to be owned and made to serve a couple or any single people also, any people excited by this please dm us"

Your status screams single male.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Yes, regards the last 2 posts!!

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"B is a submissive male and would like to be owned and made to serve a couple or any single people also, any people excited by this please dm us

Your status screams single male."

Does a touch..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So as the title suggests and our bio, me and H have discussed a full time cuckold relationship. As she has a higher sex drive than me and I struggle to fulfill her needs. I’ve always been subssmive also so we both feel this is the right way our relationship should go. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for us on how it will change our relationship

I'd say be obsessed with open and honest communication from both sides.

Not a lifestyle we'd choose, but as the man said! Are you going straight to a Cuckold scenario? Only asking as we feel that's a big jump if just started and there's plenty of step's that could be taken on the way..

That said if that's what both of you want, no shaming here and there will plenty, more than willing to assist going by your pics!! "

B is very submissive and I think this lifestyle would suit us

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Utterly your choice.

Submissive aside, there's been some good constructive comments and no one as we can see has told you not to, however you haven't seemed to engage with them.

If you're genuinely a couple going from, a 'vanilla' relationship, straight to a cuckold scenario (as has understood by most we feel) you'll miss out on a lot of fun smaller steps and if it doesn't work that's when issues arise.. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Utterly your choice.

Submissive aside, there's been some good constructive comments and no one as we can see has told you not to, however you haven't seemed to engage with them.

If you're genuinely a couple going from, a 'vanilla' relationship, straight to a cuckold scenario (as has understood by most we feel) you'll miss out on a lot of fun smaller steps and if it doesn't work that's when issues arise.. Good luck."

Yeah that’s understandable, we’ve been experimenting with more femdom ideas, I have to worship H etc and do what we she ask’s. We’ve tried chastity etc. just my sex drive doesn’t compete with hers. And with me being very submissive anyway. We thought this would be a smart solution. But it’s still very nerve wracking

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

If you have discussed it properly and you are both committed to trying it I say go for it.

We started our journey at your age and we are still going strong 20 years or so later. We started slowly and grew with every meet. (See our veris)

We are now on the more extreme side of the cuckold spectrum and love it as much today as we did 20 back then. If you get it right it will be an amazing experience.

Good luck with it and take it slow. Gauge each others reactions and try and figure out what style works for you both. X

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By *achel_paulCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

listen to the Venus cuckolddress podcast.

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By *aster YorkshireproMan
over a year ago

various! moves around

My advice, quite simple, don't rush, don't force it. Don't think you have to follow rules, it is about pleasure and that is it, make sure you talk but take your time. Just in case I wasn't clear, don't rush these things!

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"Wouldn’t even consider it unless you are 100% comfortable in yourselves and relationship.

If there’s even the slightest bit of self doubt, insecurity etc it’s a baaaaaaaad idea!

If you do decide to go ahead then baby steps, LOTS of communication, reassurance, solid boundaries etc. I would personally advise writing down boundaries so they’re clear, can go back to them if needed, can add to them and so there’s no confusion."

brill advice ...

as a lifestyle cuckold couple ie not fantasy its important that you are both 100% on the same page.. both communicate very openly and honestly you have to be a rock solid couple to do this ...

we've been on this scene just over 30years most of that has been hotwife couple aka mild cuckolding and as a bi couple with hubs being submissive and the last 7 years full on cuckold livng it 24/7 .... its not a race ... theres no real rules to cuckolding only your own (basic cuckolding is to seed another mans wife) decide if you want to play as in fantasy to see how far you want to go you'll soon know weather you want it full on or just play/fantasy..

its your life its your rules its your time to see what suits you and what don't ...but what i can tell you is its a great lifestyle where both can be 100% happy with life

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

this is also just my opinion others wont like this but ive always found books / podcast / some web sites very erm how can i say erm fake plastic not real bills n blooms type stories than real life ...real life is you doing what you want not how other tells you

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"this is also just my opinion others wont like this but ive always found books / podcast / some web sites very erm how can i say erm fake plastic not real bills n blooms type stories than real life ...real life is you doing what you want not how other tells you "

However they can be good sources of info, such as common problems that arise, red flags to look out for, dealing with jealousy or feelings of abandonment etc.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"this is also just my opinion others wont like this but ive always found books / podcast / some web sites very erm how can i say erm fake plastic not real bills n blooms type stories than real life ...real life is you doing what you want not how other tells you

However they can be good sources of info, such as common problems that arise, red flags to look out for, dealing with jealousy or feelings of abandonment etc.

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if it done right in the first place then none of what you said should arise ? all that will show is you did not think it thru properly ... its not a thing to ''try'' theres no going back so it needs to be thought out before you go down this road .... its the same with basic swinging alot of vouples do it for the wrong reasons and end up splitting because the thought it would ''fix'' the marriage and it doesn't same with cuckolding except theres alot more that can go wrong ..

if you need a book or a podcast to tell you this then its too late already in my view you dont go into these lifestyles unless you are both 100% comitted ...we've seen many get it wrong over the years ...

but also this is only my opinion others can take it or leve it just like anyone else's opinions

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"So as the title suggests and our bio, me and H have discussed a full time cuckold relationship. As she has a higher sex drive than me and I struggle to fulfill her needs. I’ve always been subssmive also so we both feel this is the right way our relationship should go. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for us on how it will change our relationship "

Think about what you want very carefully, then within reason stick to it. Don't be completely rigid with a million rules, nobody wants that, but also don't allow yourselves to settle.

Finding the right man will not be easy, as we have found, and allowing the wrong man into your bedroom can definitely make for a dispiriting situation.

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