FabSwingers.com forum: So, we all have a type

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But what would we sacrifice within our specific requirements to find/have the ideal partner?

Not everyone is Tall, good looking, polite, gym fit, dad bod, Dom/sub ....

Talking from experience and conversations with some fabbers what seems to be more important is that you're not a twat like the former partner.

Does any of this true to you?

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Being a nice human works for me

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Having a good personality and being a nice person is always a good start for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if we don't have a type?

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

I dont have a type.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if we don't have a type? "

We all have a type

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Someone who makes me laugh

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Call me superficial but I really just can't compromise over someone's mind!! Just really does it for me and this Lady is not for turning!!

Unless it's over a knee - that might work too

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By *kjay86Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Personality absolutely matters, funny is also a big plus! As others have said, just being a decent human being is an amazing start. Looks wise I don't have a "type" as such, there's either an attraction or there isn't I find.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone who makes me laugh "

Tickles good then

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I don't have a type judging by my ex's...apart from they all made me laugh they all looked completely different x

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Someone who makes me laugh

Tickles good then

Absolutely

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"What if we don't have a type?

We all have a type

If a decent person is a type then I have a type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what would we sacrifice within our specific requirements to find/have the ideal partner?

…."

Sacrifice?….. a baby lamb…

And still my gods don’t answer my prayers for her to call me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if we don't have a type?

We all have a type

I don't

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Quite often that type you refer to is a combination of things, from looks to attitude and personality to dare I say sexual chemistry too. They can look totally different but the package overall could conform to type if that makes sense. That's my opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if we don't have a type?

We all have a type

If a decent person is a type then I have a type."

Yes, it does qualify, some like bad boys/girls although I think that gets totally misinterpreted on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality and humour are more important to me than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if we don't have a type? "

Send a voice clip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kind of lady is a sweet n lovely . And passionate .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality and humour are more important to me than anything else. "

I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite often that type you refer to is a combination of things, from looks to attitude and personality to dare I say sexual chemistry too. They can look totally different but the package overall could conform to type if that makes sense. That's my opinion anyway

I understand that. I don't see any consistency in the men I've been with or am drawn to in their looks / attitude / personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My kind of lady is a sweet n lovely . And passionate .

That wasn't what I was asking!!

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Personality wise loyalty is probably most important after that Its humbleness, someone who doesent try and put you down and make you feel bad about self (ex did this a lot mainly as wasn’t happy with how she looked physically). Has own exercise routine and priorities es staying in shape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple inches here and there, I don't mind going from 11 inch of cock to 9.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yeah I've got a type, I was sure I didn't, but from comparison at the weekend, turns out I do

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

5 foot tall, short hair, wears specs, fucks like a wild animal. Arachnophobe

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

A physical type. Sure, I have preferences, but as others have said, personality goes a loooong way.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Someone who puts in an equal amount of effort.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"A couple inches here and there, I don't mind going from 11 inch of cock to 9."
,, thats me out then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decent person, puts effort in, can make me laugh

Well I tick all 3 boxes so the whole world is starting to look up

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I like the handsome ones who aren't twats, who don't run away at the idea of a wheelie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd not want vanilla. And I do like a nice face. So if I'm not attracted to a face but neck below they look like a model it's still a firm no.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

That didn't answer the question did it?

I'm not overly fussed on height, I'm only little.

Maybe the dark hair? That's my usual go to.

As long as they have pretty eyes and a nice smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps. No cold, hard to engage people either. Someone who makes you work so hard for themselves as if they were on imaginary self made pedestal.

So no too hard to get please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That didn't answer the question did it?

I'm not overly fussed on height, I'm only little.

Maybe the dark hair? That's my usual go to.

As long as they have pretty eyes and a nice smile."

I have a little bit of dark hair, the other bits I'm going to say I'm hopeful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My kind of lady is a sweet n lovely . And passionate .

That wasn't what I was asking!!

Is the answer to your question tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably do yes

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

All I need is an easy going kind person.

Looks don't matter to me.

Money doesn't matter to me.

I can compromise on height.

It is nice to be able to comfortably hug... For that a guy needs to be 5'5" to 5'8"(I'm short!)

But I've met some very charming 6ft+ chaps.

I won't compromise on smoking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality

Free thinker

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

She must have a good pussy

She must be open to sharing her pussy with me

Her pussy must not have fur and 4 legs

She must be able to run, jump and land on my cock from a minimum of 3.5ft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t sacrifice anything. There is no point “settling” or “sacrificing”.

Everyone has multiple types. At some point in life there will always be someone (or multiple people) of that “type” who likes you too.

Don’t settle for someone just to be in a relationship. it’s not fair on the other person or you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She must have a good pussy

She must be open to sharing her pussy with me

Her pussy must not have fur and 4 legs

She must be able to run, jump and land on my cock from a minimum of 3.5ft"

Mate, I'd kill you

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"What if we don't have a type? "
I was thinking that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if we don't have a type? I was thinking that.. "

I don't think it's allowed

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"She must have a good pussy

She must be open to sharing her pussy with me

Her pussy must not have fur and 4 legs

She must be able to run, jump and land on my cock from a minimum of 3.5ft

Mate, I'd kill you

I'd be open to missing the run up but the 3.5ft stays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She must have a good pussy

She must be open to sharing her pussy with me

Her pussy must not have fur and 4 legs

She must be able to run, jump and land on my cock from a minimum of 3.5ft

Mate, I'd kill you

I'd be open to missing the run up but the 3.5ft stays. "

Is it that big?!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"She must have a good pussy

She must be open to sharing her pussy with me

Her pussy must not have fur and 4 legs

She must be able to run, jump and land on my cock from a minimum of 3.5ft

Mate, I'd kill you

I'd be open to missing the run up but the 3.5ft stays.

Is it that big?!

Nooo, just I like having room around me... and it's less than 4ft right?

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By *umseekerMan
over a year ago

montrose

"Someone who puts in an equal amount of effort. "

Perfect response

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By *ittyDaggerWoman
over a year ago

Near Taunton

I wouldn’t say it’s exactly a type, but I tend to be attracted to a certain type of dickhead. It’s a confidence that borders arrogance because of covering up deep seated insecurities… it never lasts because I then find out that they’re dickheads!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

physically I don't have a type all my men have looked different but personalty wise I go for the quietly confident guy

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I wouldn’t sacrifice anything. There is no point “settling” or “sacrificing”.

Everyone has multiple types. At some point in life there will always be someone (or multiple people) of that “type” who likes you too.

Don’t settle for someone just to be in a relationship. it’s not fair on the other person or you."

People do though, don't they, because they don't want to be on their own.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t have a type physically. But I do like men who can handle my sass and are laidback but no nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She must have a good pussy

She must be open to sharing her pussy with me

Her pussy must not have fur and 4 legs

She must be able to run, jump and land on my cock from a minimum of 3.5ft

Mate, I'd kill you

I'd be open to missing the run up but the 3.5ft stays.

Is it that big?!

Nooo, just I like having room around me... and it's less than 4ft right?"

It's your dick, man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I need is an easy going kind person.

Looks don't matter to me.

Money doesn't matter to me.

I can compromise on height.

It is nice to be able to comfortably hug... For that a guy needs to be 5'5" to 5'8"(I'm short!)

But I've met some very charming 6ft+ chaps.

I won't compromise on smoking"

I’m in . I love petite ladies .

Looks count . But the first star comes from the heart .

No beauty can be relevant if inside is dark or empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older than me, taller than me, cleverer than me and able to talk the legs off a donkey, in an interesting way. The rest is by the by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'd be lying to yourself if you didn't have a type. It's being honest with oneself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have a type….. just have a great personality and don’t be a twat

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Adventurous not just in the bedroom

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

My ideal partner sadly passed away in march this year after 42 years of marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Adventurous not just in the bedroom "

This too. Can't be dying of boredom! That isn't worth sacrificing. Hungry for life with you in it in other words. That's definitely a desired quality.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I like the way polite is presented as an inherent characteristic rather than a choice

No type, or if there is there's too many factors to it to begin trying to make sense of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ideal partner sadly passed away in march this year after 42 years of marriage."

I'm so sorry for your loss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t have a type….. just have a great personality and don’t be a twat

Bugger, I'm lacking 50% of that requirement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ideal partner sadly passed away in march this year after 42 years of marriage."

Sounds very tough. Condolences in your time of sorrow

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

"My ideal partner sadly passed away in march this year after 42 years of marriage."

Sorry for your loss and hope you are somehow coping ok

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