FabSwingers.com forum: Can you meet now?

By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

is a message we get almost daily, have you ever been able to do this and just met up on impulse or do your meets take a lot more planning like ours such as work, family etc.

Have a lovely evening all.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Im more of a planning type person after a awful experience with a guy off here

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By *ousewifeonheatCouple
over a year ago

watford

Planning for sure

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"is a message we get almost daily, have you ever been able to do this and just met up on impulse or do your meets take a lot more planning like ours such as work, family etc.

Have a lovely evening all.

I've met on impulse and had some amazing meets through it over the years

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Can, yes.

Will, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only been asked it once...and I declined...yes, even us guys can say "no"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering my profile is pretty darn clear on the issue ( well I think it is anyway ), messages like this are an obvious sign that someone hasn’t read my profile and probably isn’t aware of anything else about me either so it’s an instant no and block from me.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Impulse meets are often the ones which actually happen, rather than fizzling out two days before the planned rendezvous.

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

Can’t meet now…. The cat is asleep on my lap. Got to get her off first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not right now .

Going Aldi then need a shower

would love to meet someone 100%

For a regular FWB , good chemistry

Lovely ladies don’t be shy x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only happened to me once on a bank holiday weekend, but yes, I was so I did

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I mean, technically I could. But I won't.

My profile is pretty clear that I'm unlikely to read a message, less likely to reply and I don't meet people. So...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once.

but it came from me. A lovely spontaneous social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am interested chat and build a connection , then we both want to meet .

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Only once, and it was someone I had chatted to for yonks previously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately not at the moment with medical issues still impacting my daily life it’s not possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Tbh this happens all the time on here. I am sure most people can't just drop everything and off they go. Though a few might of course.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

I put up an event just the once saying meet now and I did within the hour. Got let down going to a club, so was all dressed upready and didn't want that effort to go to waste

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

You’ve still not answered the question OP

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I agreed to a " can you meet now" message only to be stood up by the silly fucker who then decided to block me lmfo

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"You’ve still not answered the question OP

Sorry Rex not a clue what you mean.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"You’ve still not answered the question OP

Sorry Rex not a clue what you mean."

Can you meet now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ve still not answered the question OP

Sorry Rex not a clue what you mean.

Can you meet now?

Yes, let do it behind the bike shed instead

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"You’ve still not answered the question OP

Sorry Rex not a clue what you mean.

Can you meet now?

Yes, let do it behind the bike shed instead

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"You’ve still not answered the question OP

Sorry Rex not a clue what you mean.

Can you meet now?

Lol, it takes weeks of planning and a specialist team for us to meet.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I mean, technically I could. But I won't.

My profile is pretty clear that I'm unlikely to read a message, less likely to reply and I don't meet people. So..."

Please note.

Rex is the exception. I'll do anything at any time to have him do me with his spunk nozzle.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"is a message we get almost daily, have you ever been able to do this and just met up on impulse or do your meets take a lot more planning like ours such as work, family etc.

Have a lovely evening all.

I’ve only once sent this message. I met someone for a social who, within about 3.5 seconds proved themselves to be a waste of time.

I dispensed with her company and popped on fab, messaged someone - fully expecting to be shot down - and she said yes!

For what happened next, put your phone down. Now make a ‘zero’ with the thumb and index finger of your left hand. Make a fist with your right hand but extend your index finger. Insert the right index finger into the zero of your left hand. Poke your tongue out. Now rapidly move your right finger back and forth.

Hahaha!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you're 230+ miles away driving so that's going to be a solid 5-6 hours allowing for traffic... I'd need to shave and strim down below. And probably need snacks and cake to energise before leaping into action. So maybe ready by about 5am tomorrow....

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Well you're 230+ miles away driving so that's going to be a solid 5-6 hours allowing for traffic... I'd need to shave and strim down below. And probably need snacks and cake to energise before leaping into action. So maybe ready by about 5am tomorrow....

Well pop the milk in the fridge and let the dog out before you come upstairs then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could definitely be tempted if the right person messaged me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well pop the milk in the fridge and let the dog out before you come upstairs then.

I'll take the dog for a walk too. Can't say fairer than that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could definitely be tempted if the right person messaged me.

Are you free? I have two glasses in my hand, one with water and one with wine. Your pick

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Well pop the milk in the fridge and let the dog out before you come upstairs then.

I'll take the dog for a walk too. Can't say fairer than that...

The poo bags are in my coat pocket hanging up in the hallway.

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Strangely it’s rare we get these - but had one only 30 minutes or so ago.

No we can’t we have kids and commitments and all the mundane stuff going on that means we have to plan for.

Anyone who actually reads our profile would get that - so simply by asking they’ve filtered themselves out for us anyway

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Best is to swing when the iron is hot, obviously.

There are so many ways it can ultimately fail if you plan ahead!

Prob is of course the opportunity.

The 'Meets' calendar tool here is worth looking at for sure, esp if you live near hotels. -pt

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I've always said no to 'meet now's. Even though I'm now switching to one off meets, I'll still be saying no. I'm not sitting around in lingerie and heels waiting for a call!

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

If local then at this moment yes...im wearing a condom right now just in case

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've never done a meet now and never would... I have done a meet in a couple of hours though x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Only with someone i already knew well,in the past .

I wouldnt with a randomer.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I have once with a couple hours notice and it turned out to be amazing but haven't since

Em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is a message we get almost daily, have you ever been able to do this and just met up on impulse or do your meets take a lot more planning like ours such as work, family etc.

Have a lovely evening all.

We get that alot too!! Also asking if we're out now.

In fairness our dogging meets do tend to be spur of the moment but only happening when we have a meet up on the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well pop the milk in the fridge and let the dog out before you come upstairs then.

I'll take the dog for a walk too. Can't say fairer than that...

The poo bags are in my coat pocket hanging up in the hallway.

Can't really create a better build up to an early morning bangathon..!

. I'll do the veri now if you like

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not done that years but with my ex we would often go to a city for a weekend break , go to a bar have a few drinks and get on fab and then either get an Uber to a couples house or meet a couple out and go to our hotel, It was really good fun.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Women been asked 3x and was an unexpected lovely time with 2 other was a club invitation as much as I wanted to my body was shattered... Prefer pre planning

Guys several whom chose to ignore my preference

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Well pop the milk in the fridge and let the dog out before you come upstairs then.

I'll take the dog for a walk too. Can't say fairer than that...

The poo bags are in my coat pocket hanging up in the hallway.

Can't really create a better build up to an early morning bangathon..!

. I'll do the veri now if you like

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well pop the milk in the fridge and let the dog out before you come upstairs then.

I'll take the dog for a walk too. Can't say fairer than that...

The poo bags are in my coat pocket hanging up in the hallway.

Can't really create a better build up to an early morning bangathon..!

. I'll do the veri now if you like

Cheers

Chatted....Dyson....banged...respect.... Till next time

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"is a message we get almost daily, have you ever been able to do this and just met up on impulse or do your meets take a lot more planning like ours such as work, family etc.

Have a lovely evening all.

I’ve only once sent this message. I met someone for a social who, within about 3.5 seconds proved themselves to be a waste of time.

I dispensed with her company and popped on fab, messaged someone - fully expecting to be shot down - and she said yes!

Hahaha!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could, but I won't. Doesn't appeal to have sex with someone I barely know.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Never meet if we get a message like that..we find that rude as if that persons needs is more important than everything else.

Our meets takes planning and some time to know the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our meets definitely take some planning with chins are etc. can’t say we’d be dead set against it if we’re free and no kids etc.

But I still don’t think we’d be up for “last minute” meets.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could definitely be tempted if the right person messaged me.

Are you free? I have two glasses in my hand, one with water and one with wine. Your pick

Water please, on my way

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Noooo. I need to chat to someone for at least 8 months first

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Depends, you don't know the person even if youve been talking previously so its an option i've used, so yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Noooo. I need to chat to someone for at least 8 months first

FAF?

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Nobody has ever asked me to ‘meet now’. Even people I’m already seeing don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago, when we were new to fab. It wasn’t a great experience and not something I’d do again.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I could but whether i would? If we exchanged a few messages and chatted beforehand on the phone I’d probably set myself up for the abject disappointment of going to Costa to eat a muffin on my own when they ghost me

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By *targazer65Man
over a year ago

Rorks drift

As someone else said. You have more chance of actually someone turning up if it's a spontaneous meet and I've only had one but it was pretty amazing that I recall

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I had two this morning one at 6.15 it seems and one 10 min ago.

Both saying I am 5 min from Chichester can I

Come round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closest that's happened was when we started chatting for about a week and then that morning on an impulse we decided to meet up that evening in a hotel and it was a really good experience. But I'd never agree to meet now because I'm never meet ready that quickly

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've only ever had one spontaneous meet.

Normally I chat for a few weeks or longer before meeting for a social.

On one occasion someone I had only chatted to the night before invited me to her hotel room the next morning.

She was extremely well verified so there was little or no risk and even though it was 50 miles away I was going passed anyway for a non fab related event.

I remained fully dressed throughout while she was naked and it was all about her. 20 mins later and she took a call from friends in the next room arranging breakfast so I left.

No regrets as I can say I'd tried it but I much prefer a longer build-up and getting to know the other person.

That was confirmed by her message later that day thanking me for an amazing morning and she then blocked me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to do spontaneous meets, but not so much any more. I’ve started to get put off if someone is too eager.

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

cumallover

I have other apps for "meet me now" that are a lot more reliable than Fab. For me, it's more something I'll do if I'm already out on the town and feeling like a hookup. At least then you can meet somewhere public before you decide if you want to go through with the hookup or not.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I would as I often have unexpected time off but then there’s suddenly nobody available!

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Get these all of the time, usually a profile with dick pics or none at all. Firstly I don't do spontaneous meets like that, and secondly why would I want to meet you if I don't know what you look like. Usually gets them added to my block list

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Only if it was someone I already knew.

I've done on the day socials, but never a meet with someone I hadn't met previously.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Only if it was someone I already knew.

I've done on the day socials, but never a meet with someone I hadn't met previously."

My very first social was arranged pretty quickly. But it was a Wetherspoons local to me - very low risk.

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By *ovetoedgeMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I met on the spur of the moment very recently and had a not so good experience. Have done it in the past and had some great meets though.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"is a message we get almost daily, have you ever been able to do this and just met up on impulse or do your meets take a lot more planning like ours such as work, family etc.

Have a lovely evening all.

We get thos frequently, despite making it abundantly clear in our profile that it's not something we can do. Don't get us wrong, we'd love to.

But work/child/animals/life etc gets in the way and swinging is a tiny part of our lives and will never cause us to ditch existing commitments just for a quick bunk up.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Let me run a flannel over me fanny and I'm good.

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Same day meets have happened and been so much fun. Strike whilst the iron is hot

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By * kiss like morphineMan
over a year ago

The gravelly bit next to the shed

Is the meet now, fuelled by the f**k n go couples or vise versa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally takes planning

But I have done meet nows but with planning on my part

Ie I have gotten ready and flying the meet now flag

My rule is always if they not flying the meet now flag assume they not looking to meet now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's such an in the moment thing isnt it, my initial response was no, I'd not but truthfully? If the right person asks and circumstances allow....who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I probably could tonight as I'm in a hotel. However, I'm so full from my dinner and pretty tired that I reckon I'd even say no to Chris Hemsworth

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm slow. But I've done an occasional meet within an hour or so and they worked

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