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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone should be prepared but if a guy shows up without them, tells me everything I need to know.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Everyone should have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. I always have condoms on me going to a meet but I’d expect the guy to bring his own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone should be prepared but if a guy shows up without them, tells me everything I need to know."

Yep!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

How is this even a question?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Squirrels

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Just make sure you got some pampers wipes. Give it a wipe before and after. Be reet.

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

"Everyone should be prepared but if a guy shows up without them, tells me everything I need to know."

Agreed / I've had a few not have any. I always have my own with me so not a problem but I do question what they thought would happen if I hadn't and there was no shops close by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?"

The butler.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?

The butler."

Lol, it does sounds like so_eone wants to assign duties. Perhaps it's a group meet with delegated responsibilities for everyone

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Both parties should bring them.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?"

Deliveroo

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

private

I always ask if they have any or if I need to buy some. I don’t just expect the guy to have them.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ryde

We always keep a supply of them for visiting guests. This is helpful when some "forget" to bring them, and try to persuade/beg that it'll be OK without one. It also benefits through peace of mind that they haven't pre-pierced their own for an extra thrill.

We buy the best condoms on the market (no names, as this isn't some influencer social media crap) which are really strong and take a lot of action. One little charmer surreptitiously tore the end from not one, not even two - but three - of these condoms, claiming that they were "weak" and couldn't contain his "mighty" stiffy, so could we just forget the condom altogether. He was swiftly shown the tradesman's entrance.

No, not that one...

But when we have a hugely hung guy, then we tell them that they should bring their own, as there's no guarantee of fit!

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?"

My sexual health is my responsibility plan n simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of courtesy i always bring

Checking dates on best before

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Everyone. Obviously. If you intend to put it in, you must put one on!

Jo.Xx

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?"

Everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely both parties should have them. There perhaps should be a conversation had so as not to make assumptions. I have had a past ex that was allergic to them, so had to have special ones. I’m that case the individual may wish to use their own. But both should still have. Safe sex only for me

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By *ubbyandHisHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I always have but I do expect a guy to provide

if he doesn’t makes me question his motives

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I’ve only ever bought one but I give it a bloody good rinse each time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The person who's going to wear them, just like other forms of protection.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"I always have but I do expect a guy to provide

if he doesn’t makes me question his motives "

I wonder why anyone would ask this in the first place ? Are you that tight with money ?

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

"Just make sure you got some pampers wipes. Give it a wipe before and after. Be reet. "

Or use those lemon wipes from KFC tangy

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By *inger_the_NinjaMan
over a year ago

Frome

I am very fussy about brands and sizes, regular condoms cut the circulation to my cock so I always bring large ones even if my date says they have some. Also, it's a nice bragging point to whip one out and say, "actually, I need XL ones".

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’ve only ever bought one but I give it a bloody good rinse each time."

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By *xxpineapplexxXCouple
over a year ago

Dorking

Both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve only ever bought one but I give it a bloody good rinse each time."

Puts a new spin on pegging ,when it's out on the washing line

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Everyone.

However, I don't think you can expect people to be the condom shop. If you have special requirements as to the type of condom you need, you shouldn't expect a selection like Boots has from your partner.

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By *ubbyandHisHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I am very fussy about brands and sizes, regular condoms cut the circulation to my cock so I always bring large ones even if my date says they have some. Also, it's a nice bragging point to whip one out and say, "actually, I need XL ones". "

no need to brag lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone.

Makes sense!

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By *inger_the_NinjaMan
over a year ago

Frome

no need to brag lol "

Lol, not sure if that should be taken as a compliment or a diss.

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

A selection of sizes colours and flavours

I always take

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"A selection of sizes colours and flavours

I always take

Why do you need a selection of sizes ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A selection of sizes colours and flavours

I always take

Why do you need a selection of sizes ?"

In case he cannot perform, then the extra small might come in handy.

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By *inger_the_NinjaMan
over a year ago

Frome

"A selection of sizes colours and flavours

I always take

Why do you need a selection of sizes ?"

I guess as a bi man in an orgy, you can become chief protector.

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"A selection of sizes colours and flavours

I always take

Why do you need a selection of sizes ?

I guess as a bi man in an orgy, you can become chief protector. "

Oh yeah

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"A selection of sizes colours and flavours

I always take

Why do you need a selection of sizes ?

In case he cannot perform, then the extra small might come in handy."

No just in case you arrive and I've a small peanut flavour for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm responsible as I know what fits and feels good for me. Nothing worse that a tight condom, am I right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone, including the barista and the waiting staff..

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

All parties should be responsible for their own sexual health.

I am allergic to latex so always have my own

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

If you want to wear one, bring them.

If you want them worn to penetrate you, bring them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm bringing them I'm getting the ribbed ones and wearing inside out....why shouldn't I have the fun

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Me, because the standard ones that women have in their secret drawer are small enough to cut off the blood supply.

(Just sayin’)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am of a mind that I dont wear them so it's not my job

I wouldnt expect him to bring me a contraceptive pill that matches my need. Can man be responsible for one (tiny little) thing all by himself without prompting

(Which to be fair when Ive used them, they always do)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone - no one should expect so_eone else to bring them

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bring a teabag box full of condoms in a variety of brands, sizes, colours and flavours. I even have sections for the used condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bring a teabag box full of condoms in a variety of brands, sizes, colours and flavours. I even have sections for the used condoms

Not to brag, but it's a double stacked box

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?"

As the guy going to meet you should go with all your shit ready (condoms, lube etc) that’s why we have pockets on clothings.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Men shd have them as they know what they like to wear! But some don't! I allways take them no condom no play x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always take my own

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By *hunkyBuggaMan
over a year ago

Devon

I take my own as I know what fits and feels comfortable.

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

I take my own and bring them home to wash them ready for next time

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I take a selection pack to meets but if he doesn't have any of his own, I do make it very clear I only play safe before we get to crunch time.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"I’ve only ever bought one but I give it a bloody good rinse each time."

Who do you think you are? Casanova?!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A selection of sizes colours and flavours

I always take

Why do you need a selection of sizes ?

In case he cannot perform, then the extra small might come in handy.

No just in case you arrive and I've a small peanut flavour for you

Very good, but I wouldn't necessarily make comments like that when it is you that has all the cock pics on your profile page ("May I direct my learned friend to the Photo of 20 March 2023, the prosecution rests it's case my Lord")

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Always have a couple in my jacket top pocket.

The one I keep my darts in...

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?"
the person wearing the condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?"

The cuckolding watcher .

Bring them , install them with mouth after a good faf to get it ready , pulls them as finished , sucks n licks it shining clean , Chucks then in the bin ( or collect them- as preferred / no pressure ) and get the next one ready waiting to open .

The end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My condoms runned out of date . Now is NSA n FWB only ^^.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"A selection of sizes colours and flavours

I always take

Why do you need a selection of sizes ?

In case he cannot perform, then the extra small might come in handy.

No just in case you arrive and I've a small peanut flavour for you

Now now boys get a room, don't forget the condoms though

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I always provided condoms but I said if you have a preference bring your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve only ever bought one but I give it a bloody good rinse each time.

Who do you think you are? Casanova?!!!"

I had one of them for 20 years . So_eone nicked it .

So now I got new ones . But is not the same

Has no names signs … no memories . Very lame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate them things . Hate them with a passion

Errrrgh x they do a good job tho x I give them that …

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By *oJo pornstarMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

My chauffeur is well aware of the repercussions if my condom stores run low, I swear I'll end up wearing down my leather gloves on his face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer to provide condoms, then we know that they've not been tampered with, if they refuse, funs over

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We prefer to provide condoms, then we know that they've not been tampered with, if they refuse, funs over "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always bring my own as I prefer a particular kind and I like the peace of mind. But I'd expect the man I'm meeting to have some, because that tells me he cares about my boundaries and safety, as well as his own.

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Being a cub scout in my younger years learned me some lessons ....be prepared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The condom fairy

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I once had a lady friend who was allergic to latex and oint blank refused to let me wear a condom.

That's all we ever had... a damn good friendship and lots of foreplay and bawdy chat.

We respected each other.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

The lady of course

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?"

Oh crumbs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoevers mane would come first alphabetically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally always carry condoms on me as I’m not messing around with my health

Have come across guys that turn up without that just says it all for me.

Better to be safe than sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazon Prime.

Timed to deliver them just as I pop my cock out of my pants.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Everyone.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

I think everyone should have them.Im allergic so can only us one brand.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"How is this even a question?"

It is believe me I've been places & seen guys try to use used ones.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"A selection of sizes colours and flavours

I always take

Why do you need a selection of sizes ?

In case he cannot perform, then the extra small might come in handy.

No just in case you arrive and I've a small peanut flavour for you

Small can be beautiful too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?"

Everyone. It's not one person's responsibility. I also take along some different sizes as well x

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Mine are carried by my Concierge on a velvet pillow wherever I go

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

Mcr

They a 7 rubber selection box, with ribbed, flavoured, tingle, I always pick one of them up and always have them.

Due to the piercings, I always extra extra safe too.

However everyone should have some availability, no glove no love

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"How is this even a question?

It is believe me I've been places & seen guys try to use used ones."

What kind of places do you visit that guys are trying to recycle them

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?"

Everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?"

That's easy! It's the person with a pulse. If unsure check with your doctor before proceeding.

btw... when a guy happens to get that far and they have not got enough in the correct size they might find the ones we have for guests to be a tight fit and not at all pleasurable... well pleasurable for them, we find quite a bit of pleasure in watching - you know, for science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both everyone's adults here

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

The one who wears them, not much to ask.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?"

Both parties should be prepared. In my opinion.

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Everyone should carry them, by now it should be as expected as having a shower before meeting, as expected as wearing shoes

If they don’t have any at all, that tells me all I need to know

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By *S1407Couple
over a year ago

dartford

I agree. I chaperone a few ladies to swinging clubs and will set up some fun for them. The amount of guys at clubs without condoms astounds me. It’s an instant no if they don’t carry any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A selection of sizes colours and flavours

I always take

Why do you need a selection of sizes ?"

For meets with more than one guy x

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I’d say both parties

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Him. I don't want to give him the wrong size or he may be potentially allergic to latex or flavoured condoms

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Both parties should x

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Everyone for sure

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I always have them but he knows his dick size and what brand works for his anatomy. So really it's his to bring the correct ones for his body.

But if he hasn't brought any I just know I'm in for the "oh cmon I'm clean let's just not use them"

like no thanks stranger, please exit stage left.

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Belfast

I never bring them to a social as I wouldn't be presumptious enough to assume I need them. Any other meet though, my responsibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously OP?

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

"Seriously OP?

Yes, it’s a genuine issue, a lot don’t carry at all

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

I’ll always have some but if they turn up to a planned meet without one it rings a few alarm bells for me!

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"I never bring them to a social as I wouldn't be presumptious enough to assume I need them. Any other meet though, my responsibility."

You could bring some "just in case" without presuming something will happen.

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"I never bring them to a social as I wouldn't be presumptious enough to assume I need them. Any other meet though, my responsibility.

You could bring some "just in case" without presuming something will happen."

In that situation I always say there is no rush and we can always meet up another time.

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By *eonMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I always take them regardless

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Who is responsible for bringing them to a meet?"

I always take my own

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"I always take them regardless "

..likewise Viagra!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does everyone not take their own supplies just in case?

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