FabSwingers.com forum: Spa day!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fellas would you let your partner go to a free spa day with a guy on here? If the guy paid for it!

And women would you go for a free Spa day with a guy on here if they offered and paid for it?

With the expectations of some fun after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never want anyone to have an "expectation". It feels very transactional.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No I think of spa days as girls day out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t do sex for payment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another strange thread today.

Sounds almost like you want a husband to pimp his wife out.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. And my guess is it'd be against site rules - sex in exchange for money or payment in kind.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

What everyone else has said, plus surely it's up to the woman to choose. Not a partner 'letting her go' as if she's his property?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"What everyone else has said, plus surely it's up to the woman to choose. Not a partner 'letting her go' as if she's his property?

Yeah

I'm glad I'm single and get to choose for myself. Being an indentured servant must be rough

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

If it's from someone I've met before and feel comfortable with, absolutely! Offers welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it's from someone I've met before and feel comfortable with, absolutely! Offers welcome

I’m so glad there are some normal thinking people still out there! Not just jumping to oppressed women BS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's from someone I've met before and feel comfortable with, absolutely! Offers welcome

I’m so glad there are some normal thinking people still out there! Not just jumping to oppressed women BS! "

Hmmmm

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Fellas would you let your partner go to a free spa day with a guy on here? If the guy paid for it!

And women would you go for a free Spa day with a guy on here if they offered and paid for it?

With the expectations of some fun after?

I can't just magically have sexual contact with someone without having met them first and at least a bit of a chat. It doesn't always go well. It's slightly different in swinging clubs as you can always ask if someone catches your eye but there is never a guaranteed expectation. Sometimes a man will chat my eye but I'm not in the mood to jump right in the deep end and I need warming up a bit.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

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By *ust JuicyWoman
over a year ago

east london

Why would I want anyone to pay for me ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If it's from someone I've met before and feel comfortable with, absolutely! Offers welcome

I’m so glad there are some normal thinking people still out there! Not just jumping to oppressed women BS! "

I mean, my first thought was that you're asking for sex in return for payment in kind, not oppression.

(My second thought is that transactional sex is gross, and the third thought is that you could not pay me to spend a day in a salon)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it's from someone I've met before and feel comfortable with, absolutely! Offers welcome

I’m so glad there are some normal thinking people still out there! Not just jumping to oppressed women BS!

Wouldn't say its BS, women are not property to be exchanged For your enjoyment "

And here come the simps lmao!

Clearly there a few who have completely taken it out of context!! Obviously the women would would have to agree no one is saying we are going to chain them up and take them against their will ffs!!

Seriously some people!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If it's from someone I've met before and feel comfortable with, absolutely! Offers welcome

I’m so glad there are some normal thinking people still out there! Not just jumping to oppressed women BS!

Wouldn't say its BS, women are not property to be exchanged For your enjoyment

And here come the simps lmao!

Clearly there a few who have completely taken it out of context!! Obviously the women would would have to agree no one is saying we are going to chain them up and take them against their will ffs!!

Seriously some people!!

Is "simp" just an insult you're throwing out because this isn't going well for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's from someone I've met before and feel comfortable with, absolutely! Offers welcome

I’m so glad there are some normal thinking people still out there! Not just jumping to oppressed women BS!

Wouldn't say its BS, women are not property to be exchanged For your enjoyment

And here come the simps lmao!

Clearly there a few who have completely taken it out of context!! Obviously the women would would have to agree no one is saying we are going to chain them up and take them against their will ffs!!

Seriously some people!!

How kind of you

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"If it's from someone I've met before and feel comfortable with, absolutely! Offers welcome

I’m so glad there are some normal thinking people still out there! Not just jumping to oppressed women BS!

Wouldn't say its BS, women are not property to be exchanged For your enjoyment

And here come the simps lmao!

Clearly there a few who have completely taken it out of context!! Obviously the women would would have to agree no one is saying we are going to chain them up and take them against their will ffs!!

Seriously some people!!

Either way your still asking for sex in return for providing a service which is just wrong. Also goes against site rules too

Call me simp all you like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it's from someone I've met before and feel comfortable with, absolutely! Offers welcome

I’m so glad there are some normal thinking people still out there! Not just jumping to oppressed women BS!

Wouldn't say its BS, women are not property to be exchanged For your enjoyment

And here come the simps lmao!

Clearly there a few who have completely taken it out of context!! Obviously the women would would have to agree no one is saying we are going to chain them up and take them against their will ffs!!

Seriously some people!!

Is "simp" just an insult you're throwing out because this isn't going well for you?"

No I just forgot the kind of world we live in atm before I posted this!! Kinda my fault for not thinking tbh!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If it's from someone I've met before and feel comfortable with, absolutely! Offers welcome

I’m so glad there are some normal thinking people still out there! Not just jumping to oppressed women BS!

Wouldn't say its BS, women are not property to be exchanged For your enjoyment

And here come the simps lmao!

Clearly there a few who have completely taken it out of context!! Obviously the women would would have to agree no one is saying we are going to chain them up and take them against their will ffs!!

Seriously some people!!

Is "simp" just an insult you're throwing out because this isn't going well for you?

No I just forgot the kind of world we live in atm before I posted this!! Kinda my fault for not thinking tbh!

The world where women are people and offering payment in kind isn't a good look?

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Fellas would you let your partner go to a free spa day with a guy on here? If the guy paid for it!

And women would you go for a free Spa day with a guy on here if they offered and paid for it?

With the expectations of some fun after?

"Let your partner" implies they don't have free will.

And 'with the expectations..." creates a transactional quality to the post which would be a big fat no!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Also I wouldn't want to be looking at some guys narly feet all day

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Fellas would you let your partner go to a free spa day with a guy on here? If the guy paid for it!

And women would you go for a free Spa day with a guy on here if they offered and paid for it?

With the expectations of some fun after?

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No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill go to a spa day when I feel like it, with any company I choose.

I think this post may have been worded badly....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I absolutely don't need a man to pay.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

No, because that classes as being a Sugar Daddy by the site and is against the rules.

Will close this before anyone gets a time out.

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