FabSwingers.com forum: Do blokes lie to get meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most blokes on here seem to be married but most couples/women don’t like meeting married guys in my experience so how do men get meets!?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Are you asking how men in relationships get sex on here?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Same way the women do

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

One of life’s greatest mysteries….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For those that needed to be aware it was sarcasm

Just surely the risk for married guys not saying it up front is too much? Maybe not. I always tell people before but it tends to put them off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I tell them I don’t like them,…I play hard to get.

Women love men that show zero interest in them.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

No matter the gender, it’s a common courtesy to inform others upfront so they can make an informed choice based on their judgement.

No lies needed.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Most blokes on here seem to be married but most couples/women don’t like meeting married guys in my experience so how do men get meets!? "

By not lieing, going to socials and clubs, not behaving like the vast majority of men on here.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Lots of people lie to get meets, that's casual sex for you

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"Lots of people lie to get meets, that's casual sex for you"
indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I tell them I don’t like them,…I play hard to get.

Women love men that show zero interest in them.

Really

Ha that’s where I have been going wrong then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you married OP and you’re after tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all do or say something that is fictional to our characters to get what we want....anyone who says otherwise is a liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know of any lies i could tell that would get me laid on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For those that needed to be aware it was sarcasm

Just surely the risk for married guys not saying it up front is too much? Maybe not. I always tell people before but it tends to put them off!"

You tell people that you're married and it puts them off?

Why do you think that might be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all do or say something that is fictional to our characters to get what we want....anyone who says otherwise is a liar"

Oh no we don't!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"We all do or say something that is fictional to our characters to get what we want....anyone who says otherwise is a liar"
I don't. There was no need for me to lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you asking how men in relationships get sex on here?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No men don’t lie to meet . I don’t lie .

And the one who does , is not a man , is a coward and a prick .

“ oh I have to much to lose , the house n the kids “

Bullshit - sort it out .

Not that being genuine honest brings me any favours .

But I can’t fake . Or play games . I rather lose .

Don’t want me for the real me ? Good for you .

Better don’t waste more time then .

At list I’m not using or messing ladies around for my benefits . That is just unbearable in my personality .

See no need of it .

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I just don't see the piont in lying.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Most blokes on here seem to be married but most couples/women don’t like meeting married guys in my experience so how do men get meets!? "

Most single guys don't get meets...

But, yes! People do lie to increase their chances of getting what they want.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

First line of business

'whats in it for me'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do we know most guys on here are married... Unless they tell us... In which case they're being honest.

Or are we calling out everyone who can't accommodate as married?

Anyway, I only lie about telling the truth. And that's the truth.

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By *olbornsubguyMan
over a year ago

london

Yeah they lie. I get “straight guys” on here wanting to fuck me daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all do or say something that is fictional to our characters to get what we want....anyone who says otherwise is a liar"

We don't do or say anything that is fictional, I'm afraid. We are open and honest, and 'what you see is want you get' No need for lies

Mrs

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I don’t lie. Ever.

I let my 14” cock and private jet do the talking.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Most blokes on here seem to be married but most couples/women don’t like meeting married guys in my experience so how do men get meets!? "
They ask and women agree of course the guys have to be pleasant and normal first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t lie. Ever.

I let my 14” cock and private jet do the talking."
a talking cock ? That's impressive.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Are you serious?

People have and will always lie to get laid..

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Yeah they lie. I get “straight guys” on here wanting to fuck me daily"

---Sexuality is the area men lie about the most imo.

Bisexuality is a huge taboo (the last taboo?), esp with really masculine men. They won't even use 'bi curious'.

I always say 'no' because I find the proposition demeaning. I don't want to be a dirty secret in the sense of someone not being able to really stomach what I am.

--pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some Women lie and charme to have 1 or a few goes with single men . No need for it .

As on fabs as on dating apps . There is no difference .

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

I don’t lie in any circumstances.

If I did I would think of something better part way through the deception and ruin it all.

Hence, no meets.

However, another thread revealed that some ladies preferred married men because of the reduced likelihood of attachment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When here as a couple, every man we intereacted with lied about being single

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"When here as a couple, every man we intereacted with lied about being single"
every single man really

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Is this another of these look how more appealing I am than those other pesky men threads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When here as a couple, every man we intereacted with lied about being singleevery single man really

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no. Every married man ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you serious?

People have and will always lie to get laid..

I never did . And I never will . And I refuse .

I need to be real . Or u take me for who I am or don’t bother end off .

If I Lie or charme to fuck or love a woman

Is not me who gonna have her but my mask .

And I achieve nothing .

I had chances to take advantages to ladies

Who were grabbing the car keys to visit me n fuck me

Then I felt a missunderstanding .

I told her

Before u came here , u know is NSA / FWB

I’m not ready for anything further

She was gutted . She thought she founded a boyfriend .

Bless her . She was lovely . But sadly I wasn’t ready to settle . Not that way dating .

I could take advantage . I could had fuck her for as long as I wanted them one day so my thing n leave her behind

Like many do .

I consider that abuse . Lie , fake , pretend ,

Give someone an illusion , false promises just to use sexually for a bit ?

I consider that mental manipulations . Is sex abuse . Is reip .

I know people don’t see it that way

And courts by law don’t see it that way

But I do . is how I see it .

And I could never ever , charme to get a bit of pussy

Or the lady will come on her own toes . On her freedom for real , cause likes me and wants me

Or don’t bother x x Rather don’t have any of it

Then having a fake , I could never ever

Touch a lady based on a lie . I could never ever hide or cheat .

I find that abuse . End off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think lie and charme / cheat should be punished or acceptable to complain

Cause you give consent to a image that was offered to you x

If that image is fake , then is something else taking the sex form you .

And you didn’t gave consent to that something else .

U have consent to an image / idea . But now is to late , u only find out the image is fake after u been used and abused .

For me is sex abuse to fake n lie . Sorry but it is

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think the honest on Fab will look for honestly, but the others will most of the time not care.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I don’t lie. Ever.

I let my 14” cock and private jet do the talking.a talking cock ? That's impressive. "

His name’s Percy but he talks bollocks….

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Of course they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t lie. Ever.

I let my 14” cock and private jet do the talking.a talking cock ? That's impressive.

His name’s Percy but he talks bollocks…."
sounds like a dick. Bet he's mates with an asshole too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this another of these look how more appealing I am than those other pesky men threads?"

Noooo, surely not?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Is this another of these look how more appealing I am than those other pesky men threads?"

. Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all do or say something that is fictional to our characters to get what we want....anyone who says otherwise is a liar"

Do you have any examples?

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I don’t lie. Ever.

I let my 14” cock and private jet do the talking.a talking cock ? That's impressive.

His name’s Percy but he talks bollocks….sounds like a dick. Bet he's mates with an asshole too. "

More neighbours than friends. Sometimes take their rubbish out at the same time but otherwise don’t meet up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for most sex doesn't come with an obligation of honesty. Anonymity helps too. If they are married and pursuing a relationship- that's usually a 'no happy end' story.. and a pile of lies to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most blokes on here seem to be married but most couples/women don’t like meeting married guys in my experience so how do men get meets!? "

Point A: women cheat too.

Point B: men can be married and not be cheating - plenty of examples of couples here who meet separately

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