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By *eardedtat OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilt/Oxford/Berks/Glos

So this is aimed at M/F couples.

Single females and Groups who look for single men.

As this as what you see is what I look for myself.

Been on fab for a while now with a bit of success for a single bloke lol

So it's kinda dawned on me what do people look for on a persons profile when searching or replying.

To many veris to many pics. To long or short intro.

Wrong kind of pics.

Any constructive thoughts on mine would be handy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last line annoys me, I’m super hot on consent.

You can have consent to post a photo, that consent can be with drawn at any time, so saying I had consent to take the photos at the time …. Implies you no longer have their explicit consent to publicly post them. As a general rule of thumb if you are no longer in a relationship with a person and/or in contact with them you shouldn’t be publicly posting photos of them.

If you have not explicitly asked them if you can post photos on them on this (and any other place you may have them) you may find you fall foul of revenge porn laws.

Probably not the feedback you were looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion, way too many pictures of other women with enough details and features that they could be identified. The lady in the blow job photo with the eyes pixelated for example - if that was me, and I saw, I wouldn’t be happy.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"In my opinion, way too many pictures of other women with enough details and features that they could be identified. The lady in the blow job photo with the eyes pixelated for example - if that was me, and I saw, I wouldn’t be happy."

Agree. This is why I always wear aviator sunglasses when giving head…

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

There are things in some profiles that put me off. I tend not to say what they are though as it is a useful filter.

As it is unclear whether you were asking for advice personally I won't comment further about yours.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree there's too many photos and duplicates. All that says is you've met with a human it doesnt say anything about you (other than you like to take pics)

I personally don't like profiles with words like unicorn or the use of fatty, other descriptors could be used

That's just my opinion

But you do seem to be doing OK anyway so what's the saying if it ain't broke..

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"

So it's kinda dawned on me what do people look for on a persons profile when searching or replying.

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Everyone has their own "different" answer to this question. I personally find it best to set your own standards and find people who fit with that... you can't please everyone and it can be tiring to try.

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By *eardedtat OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilt/Oxford/Berks/Glos

Thankyou all it just good to get feedback.

I do need to clean up my pics. That's prob due to laziness.

And agree with the consent comment.

Again thanks for you inputs. X

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I look for if I think they would match what I'm looking for essentially. Veri's can help with that but aren't the everything.

Photos wise - I like to see the person I'd be meeting, not other people of have to guess the body type photo.

Everything is personal preference though. You have to build your profile how you want and then you will attract what will work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like action photos on a single profile, it's like your bragging hey look at me I've had sex! Also, I know of certain guys on here who would be more interested in uploading a video rather than the actual meet. Huge turn off.

You don't need loads of photos, just a couple of nice body ones.

I go for funny sarcastic profiles, but everyone has different taste!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me as soon as there's ejaculate I come off the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally your profile would put me off. You have more pictures of other women than you do of yourself.

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By *eardedtat OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilt/Oxford/Berks/Glos

Absolutely loving the feedback.

I don't mind taking the rough with the smooth. It all a learning curve. Will change thing around.

Again I absolutely appreciate the honesty xx

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Here's some advice. Keep things on the forums unless invited to message.

J

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Here's some advice. Keep things on the forums unless invited to message.

J"

Seconded!

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

I think (I could be wrong) but the op has used this to get profile views and possibly more interest.

I see this often and that person hardly changes anything and if they do it all goes back on I'm a few days.

Well played sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many veris and pics with other people mean I won't bother reading the text.

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By *eardedtat OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilt/Oxford/Berks/Glos

I've actually addressed what was said

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By *eardedtat OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilt/Oxford/Berks/Glos

[Removed by poster at 08/05/23 20:09:14]

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I think (I could be wrong) but the op has used this to get profile views and possibly more interest.

I see this often and that person hardly changes anything and if they do it all goes back on I'm a few days.

Well played sir"

Well played sir?

I think not!

Using past partners in such a way (thread AND pics) is not gentlemanly in any way, instead it is deeply classless

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