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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm feeling very proud this morning. My son (he's 16, autistic and this time last year was crippled with anxiety)

Requested a meeting with his boss to plead his case to be paid the same as other staff his age, doing the same job.

He's been there for around 8 months, works so hard, goes above and beyond and they've been using him as cheap labour.

What have you fought for lately?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs to you so good to here you got it sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm feeling very proud this morning. My son (he's 16, autistic and this time last year was crippled with anxiety)

Requested a meeting with his boss to plead his case to be paid the same as other staff his age, doing the same job.

He's been there for around 8 months, works so hard, goes above and beyond and they've been using him as cheap labour.

What have you fought for lately?

"

Good on him! *Sends high five*

I fight every day to set the best standards and example for our two, and to provide them with a much better childhood than I had (not that mine was bad)

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I'm a single parent, full time job and fight everyday to keep my child healthy, educated, loved, clothed, make sure she knows how honoured I am to be her father and protect her no matter what.

And well done you, everyday a new battle won.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s amazing! Glad you’re fighting it and I hope he does get what he’s owed

Our youngest is disabled and we’ve been fighting for 2 years to get some help. We finally won in March and she’s coming on so much now! Such a sense of relief for us but at the same time the amount of pride we have in our little girl taking everything in her stride, with enthusiasm and a massive smile on her face, is priceless

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hugs to you so good to here you got it sorted "

Thanks. Still a little further to go but a huge step forward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm feeling very proud this morning. My son (he's 16, autistic and this time last year was crippled with anxiety)

Requested a meeting with his boss to plead his case to be paid the same as other staff his age, doing the same job.

He's been there for around 8 months, works so hard, goes above and beyond and they've been using him as cheap labour.

What have you fought for lately?

Good on him! *Sends high five*

I fight every day to set the best standards and example for our two, and to provide them with a much better childhood than I had (not that mine was bad) "

High five to you too

Its all any of us can do and I'm sure you guys are smashing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s awful! I hope they listen and he gets the correct wage that he is entitled to. Good on him for standing up his self

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a single parent, full time job and fight everyday to keep my child healthy, educated, loved, clothed, make sure she knows how honoured I am to be her father and protect her no matter what.

And well done you, everyday a new battle won."

I'm a single parent too and there's always challenges especially with 3 boys but it's so worth it to see them shine.

I'm sure she is in no doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done him takes a lot of courage to do what he has done especially at such young age

Have been banging on at work about people with Medical issues at work for the past year

Some medical issues cannot be seen outwardly the person looks to all intentions purposes

Work have now listened after a year of me banging on about it

They have actually put a scheme in place to help people

Only a small thing but very proud that eventually they listened

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Why is he being paid differently from others his same age?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s amazing! Glad you’re fighting it and I hope he does get what he’s owed

Our youngest is disabled and we’ve been fighting for 2 years to get some help. We finally won in March and she’s coming on so much now! Such a sense of relief for us but at the same time the amount of pride we have in our little girl taking everything in her stride, with enthusiasm and a massive smile on her face, is priceless "

That's amazing and I'm so glad you've all finally got some help. Having worked within social care for years and fought our own battles for support for my sons and family members I understand the frustration. I'm sure she gets all her courage from you guys x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is he being paid differently from others his same age?"

Because they are assholes who thought they could take advantage of him.

He wasn't supposed to find out apparently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well done him takes a lot of courage to do what he has done especially at such young age

Have been banging on at work about people with Medical issues at work for the past year

Some medical issues cannot be seen outwardly the person looks to all intentions purposes

Work have now listened after a year of me banging on about it

They have actually put a scheme in place to help people

Only a small thing but very proud that eventually they listened "

That's so important though so well done you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s awful! I hope they listen and he gets the correct wage that he is entitled to. Good on him for standing up his self "

Thank you. He's now on a mission to ensure it. Not just for him but all of his under 18 colleagues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well done him takes a lot of courage to do what he has done especially at such young age

Have been banging on at work about people with Medical issues at work for the past year

Some medical issues cannot be seen outwardly the person looks to all intentions purposes

Work have now listened after a year of me banging on about it

They have actually put a scheme in place to help people

Only a small thing but very proud that eventually they listened

That's so important though so well done you "

And a very big fist bump for your son

To fight for equal rights and to all be treated fairly in this day and age should be given

We all should take a long look at ourselves and think

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I have fought for the right to an assessment for an educational health care plan for my son which has since been done

Now the fight to appeal the decision of a plan not being granted by the local authority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gosh, I've spent the past 4 years researching and fighting for my right to be seen as a British citizen. I'm stuck in a sexist loophole that was in place before I was even born. So, unfortunately I'm being penalised because of the law when my grandparents were alive.

I could pay £1.5k plus for the privilege but I'm going down the "what's rightfully mine" route.

F

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I have fought for the right to an assessment for an educational health care plan for my son which has since been done

Now the fight to appeal the decision of a plan not being granted by the local authority "

So many are granted on appeal. It seems as though the default is to reject just to save money. It makes me so cross!

J

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Also a huge well done to your son OP! That is so underhand of them.

Jx

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By *atssleepanywhereTV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Please report the employer. Generally employers that pay one member of staff unfairly will have a history of abuse. In the UK the HMRC will investigate. There is a form that can be completed online.

https://www.tax.service.gov.uk/digital-forms/open/form/pay-and-work-rights-complaint/draft/start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have fought for the right to an assessment for an educational health care plan for my son which has since been done

Now the fight to appeal the decision of a plan not being granted by the local authority "

I'm sorry you're having this battle

Its far too common and seems to be based on who can fight hardest for support hence the rejection and the appeal.

Education system is so under funded and underresourced.

I hope he gets the support in place he needs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh gosh, I've spent the past 4 years researching and fighting for my right to be seen as a British citizen. I'm stuck in a sexist loophole that was in place before I was even born. So, unfortunately I'm being penalised because of the law when my grandparents were alive.

I could pay £1.5k plus for the privilege but I'm going down the "what's rightfully mine" route.

F"

This is awful. I'm so sorry

Keep on fighting. Sending strength

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also a huge well done to your son OP! That is so underhand of them.

Jx"

Thank you. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please report the employer. Generally employers that pay one member of staff unfairly will have a history of abuse. In the UK the HMRC will investigate. There is a form that can be completed online.

https://www.tax.service.gov.uk/digital-forms/open/form/pay-and-work-rights-complaint/draft/start"

Thank you. I'll get him to look at that. They are quite a big company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done to you, your family and your son OP!!!! Everyday I fight to get out of bed, I’m utterly worn down by my lasting effects from brain cancer and the chaos of the world in general. I got a pay rise at work recently too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well done to you, your family and your son OP!!!! Everyday I fight to get out of bed, I’m utterly worn down by my lasting effects from brain cancer and the chaos of the world in general. I got a pay rise at work recently too "

Well done you. What a huge amount of strength you have.

Just remember when the days are hard - you've got a 100% success rate in getting through all your difficult times. You should be proud of you.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"I'm feeling very proud this morning. My son (he's 16, autistic and this time last year was crippled with anxiety)

Requested a meeting with his boss to plead his case to be paid the same as other staff his age, doing the same job.

He's been there for around 8 months, works so hard, goes above and beyond and they've been using him as cheap labour.

What have you fought for lately?

"

I love this!!! Good on your son, overcoming his anxiety to fight for his own equal rights. Brilliant!! And good on you for being the kind of parent who nurtured him so he has the confidence to do that. I hope he gets equal pay.

And shame on his employer. Shame. Do the right thing! (And not before time) In fact - the right thing would be an apology and back pay.

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By *oubletroubleCouple
over a year ago

South West


"I'm feeling very proud this morning. My son (he's 16, autistic and this time last year was crippled with anxiety)

Requested a meeting with his boss to plead his case to be paid the same as other staff his age, doing the same job.

He's been there for around 8 months, works so hard, goes above and beyond and they've been using him as cheap labour.

What have you fought for lately?

"

High five to you

And to your son but surely paying people a different rate is not allowed legally?

This must be clased as discrimination?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s amazing! Glad you’re fighting it and I hope he does get what he’s owed

Our youngest is disabled and we’ve been fighting for 2 years to get some help. We finally won in March and she’s coming on so much now! Such a sense of relief for us but at the same time the amount of pride we have in our little girl taking everything in her stride, with enthusiasm and a massive smile on her face, is priceless

That's amazing and I'm so glad you've all finally got some help. Having worked within social care for years and fought our own battles for support for my sons and family members I understand the frustration. I'm sure she gets all her courage from you guys x"

Thank you, I’ve always worked in social care and the lack of any support is disgusting. I suppose it helps us that we know social care and the things that can be available. It’s the ones who have no idea about it that I feel sorry for at the moment, it’s heartbreaking.

Mrs

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

A policy at a college of disclosing students medical information to parents and carers (e.g. attending appointments. As a part of enforcing attendance. Even with adult students 18+

It potentially places young people at risk and the ICO confirmed it is not appropriate handling of personal information.

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