FabSwingers.com forum: Fulfilment

By *ensualPleasure96 OP Man
over a year ago

Dunstable

So …. Fulfilment …. What is it? How do I find it?

Now these questions have just dawned on me and curious to see ;

1. Who else is asking these questions

2. How do I answer them

3. How did you answer them

Back story - straight, single male - more attracted to energy other than looks etc.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"So …. Fulfilment …. What is it? How do I find it?

Now these questions have just dawned on me and curious to see ;

1. Who else is asking these questions

2. How do I answer them

3. How did you answer them

Back story - straight, single male - more attracted to energy other than looks etc. "

fulfillment means different things to different people.

Am I fulfilled in every aspect of my life? No.

Are my basic needs met i.e. fulfilled? yes.

Are all my desires fulfilled? No.

Am I basically content? yes

Do I have regrets? no.

Can't tell you how to get fulfillment for yourself. Any advice has to be adaptable to your personality, mental and physical ability, circumstances and core values/morals.

How I did find fulfillment? Age and psychotherapy.

At least you are asking these questions at your age I only asked them after a mental crisis and breakdown and the traumatic end of my marriage. I was 32.

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford

1 nobody

2 if you believe you deserve it the universe will serve it

3 same as 2

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By *ensualPleasure96 OP Man
over a year ago

Dunstable

Yeah it just dawned on me to be honest.

I’m glad I’ve noticed It now and not later down the line just wondering if others have experienced the same.

So thankyou for your opinion it is appreciated

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"So …. Fulfilment …. What is it? How do I find it?

Now these questions have just dawned on me and curious to see ;

1. Who else is asking these questions

2. How do I answer them

3. How did you answer them

Back story - straight, single male - more attracted to energy other than looks etc. "

For many people having a secure home and income to pay bills & buy food is enough.

Others need interesting hobbies, lifelong learning, adventures, relationships, spirituality, meaning, wide impact. Or is it just all fidgeting until we die ?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"So …. Fulfilment …. What is it? How do I find it?

Now these questions have just dawned on me and curious to see ;

1. Who else is asking these questions

2. How do I answer them

3. How did you answer them

Back story - straight, single male - more attracted to energy other than looks etc.

For many people having a secure home and income to pay bills & buy food is enough.

Others need interesting hobbies, lifelong learning, adventures, relationships, spirituality, meaning, wide impact. Or is it just all fidgeting until we die ? "

I'm know I'm fidgeting until I die.

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