FabSwingers.com forum: When is the last time you did something just for YOU?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And if its been more than a month what are you going to do about it?

I've had a good month of being stuck in for uncontrollable reasons. And breaks in that month were spent keeping others happy as well as myself pretty equally.

So I fully intend on doing things just for me over the next month when time allows.

Like an art gallery. I have a list.

What's the last thing you did just for YOU?

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

It's only me

- so everything I do is for me

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i honestly cant remember..

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

Spent a wonderful day in local museums and even got to enjoy a live jazz concert.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

More than 11 months ago. That was to have a lie in. Would love one again.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I walked around the manicured lawn of the Saatchi Gallery, read a periodical and then sat by myself in their café drinking Rosé, with very little care in the world and no agenda.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Today

Went to the Starwars Museum in London

I try to do a weekly treat for me

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

Last night I went on a ghost hunt. Brilliant night do much fun can't wait to do another one ??

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"Last night I went on a ghost hunt. Brilliant night do much fun can't wait to do another one ??"
,, did you see any

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

As a single parent, nearly 12 years since I did something just for me.

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

"More than 11 months ago. That was to have a lie in. Would love one again. "
maybe you'd prefer a Tiger grrrrrr lol

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

"Last night I went on a ghost hunt. Brilliant night do much fun can't wait to do another one ??,, did you see any"
crazy night was had for sure...lots going on ....lots of new things for my little brain to process

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

"And if its been more than a month what are you going to do about it?

I've had a good month of being stuck in for uncontrollable reasons. And breaks in that month were spent keeping others happy as well as myself pretty equally.

So I fully intend on doing things just for me over the next month when time allows.

Like an art gallery. I have a list.

What's the last thing you did just for YOU?

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prepared and cooked my sunday tea at 6pm,,, if not i would stave to death,,,

i live on my own,,,

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Today, i stayed in bed all day. Its been great no pressure to do anything and just reflecting on a great weekend ive had

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Almost never. It's a slow destruction of hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a festival last year just to let loose. This started a chain of events that ended with me in the doghouse for months (I didn’t actually do anything wrong). Never again.

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Wow just for me, I actually can't remember. Now that you've said it at some point over the next week or so I'll make sure either do somethings that is just for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just now. I ate a cappuccino chocolate bar. Banging.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

An inveterate narcissist with a grossly-inflated opinion of my superior abilities, aptitudes and physique; my concomitant dismissiveness of the vaunted "Dunning-Kruger" theory (of expertise) inevitably means that any activity I engage in is of the highest standard and must be solely for my personal aggrandisement!

Seriously, much of what I do is for the betterment of society; until very recently, when I retired, I have always found it difficult to do things that benefit me alone!

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Last weekend when I booked a flight.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I made myself a cup of tea.

Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God. Soooo long ago, I can’t even remember!. I’m spending the day with my sister in law on Saturday in Glasgow. Then we’re off to see Post Malone at night. I’m really looking forward to having a full day to myself.

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By *emofaJamesMan
over a year ago

London

Said I'd be "working from home", woke up, ventured to the station and had a day out at the beach.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Went to Rhodes on my own. Do loads of things just for me all the time, no biggie

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Told a friend that I cared about her and held her so she could cry it all out.

She ruined my shirt but I had to make sure she was ok. So that was for me

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"I walked around the manicured lawn of the Saatchi Gallery, read a periodical and then sat by myself in their café drinking Rosé, with very little care in the world and no agenda."

Its not exactly tranquil there though, most of the time!

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By *carlett 44Woman
over a year ago

bootle

The last thing I prob did for myself was dye my hair lol. Finding it hard at the min all my kids grown up n no longer need me no partner to look after or do things with. Time for me n I dnt always like my own company

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By *uga40Man
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

Dont know last time

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Started wearing a bit of make up again, yesterday I did my face and hair, and took some new photos which I haven't done for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it every day. It doesn't matter to me if it's big treat or small. I take myself out for a meal, buy myself flowers every week, go for a walk in the park or go to the cinema. Currently planning holidays in Cornwall in the summer. Can't wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can not even remember. I've 4 little people at home who needs looking after. A lay in past 7am would be a treat in years to come.

I had a beer today, maybe that counts

Mrs C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get up early every morning and journal. That is for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do my nails I have a fetish for color street.

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By *agnar73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Last thing was getting first tattoo and was a bit of a gulp, let’s do this before I get the fear and back out. Otherwise it’s a now and again coffee in a coffee shop

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"It's only me

- so everything I do is for me "

You can adopt me if you want. I’m no bother. Honest

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Can't remember the last time I done something for just me

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By *agnar73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

"Can't remember the last time I done something for just me

You should even if it’s just picking a favourite chocolate bar or box of chocs when food shopping.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"Can't remember the last time I done something for just me

Don't buy a mcflurry maltesers. Looked like birds or rabbits had poo'd in wallpaper paste.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I hope nobody is on here when they don't want to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be such a little thing to many but I’m happy to have at least found time to have a lovely long bath soak to myself tonight. Locked the doors , told kids not to disturb me and just soaking it all in. Delish

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I managed to fit in and get a hair cut for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My adventures on fab are just for me

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Doing things for myself all the time and still a hell of a lot more needs doing, just to get on top of the backlog!

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Saw Lewis capaldi in concert. The show was awesome xT

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Right now. Sat in my hot tub.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Made myself an aubergine curry and a cup of tea last week

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Oh I'm very good at doing stuff for myself. Have had a holiday, a spa day & a weekend away in the last month. If I don't spoil myself, no one else will x

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MOROCCO Wherever I lay my hat

Jacked in work to see parts of the world I have always wanted to whilst I still can enjoy it with a backpack

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Jacked in work to see parts of the world I have always wanted to whilst I still can enjoy it with a backpack"

Oh, wow! Good for you. Hope you enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today. Instead of doing all the shitty things I 'should' be doing, I just did nothing and sat in the sun. Then walked the dogs in bluebell woods and went and sat with the horse. I achieved nothing, but some well earned peace for me. Was much needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just for me? It's all that I can do.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I walked around the manicured lawn of the Saatchi Gallery, read a periodical and then sat by myself in their café drinking Rosé, with very little care in the world and no agenda.

Its not exactly tranquil there though, most of the time!"

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Ummm, ok.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"I walked around the manicured lawn of the Saatchi Gallery, read a periodical and then sat by myself in their café drinking Rosé, with very little care in the world and no agenda.

Its not exactly tranquil there though, most of the time!

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Ummm, ok.

I like the gallery though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kicked Penny out of bed this morning and had a wank, does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty good to myself to be honest. Really though, a well rested, happy mum is better for everyone so it's really all about the kids when I pamper or shop

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By *NL Social SpurschickWoman
over a year ago

Social Zone

Over three years ago when I quit my job

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"My adventures on fab are just for me "

Not for the first time, you took the words right out of my mouth. Me too. *This* is what I do just for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A day break in a city. I landed a lovely day too and did a bit of retail therapy for stuff.

I’m going to start doing it more.

An art gallery sounds good too, I go to them often but I talk myself out of going alone too many times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always try and take some time out for ourselves but it can be tough with kids etc.

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By *ibi692022Man
over a year ago

Mere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New car last week

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I very rarely do something just for me. Sometimes I buy myself flowers from Aldi, or… M&S if I’m feeling adventurous.

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By *ibi692022Man
over a year ago

Mere

I love to go for a walk through a secret little bluebell woods near me, no one else there, just me sat listening to the amazing bird song.

Nature can be so calming.

Blissful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last year when I could go to the gym. I felt better for it too.

I'll start again soon when my other commitments ease.

I think it's so important to do things for yourself but it can be exceptionally difficult to fit in to a hectic life.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

That's a difficult question to answer ...let me think about it

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