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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would you tell yourself to stop trying to do? usually we are better at giving good advice to others but if you could give yourself one - what would it be ?

Inspired by a little quote I came across today :

'Stop trying to calm the storm. Calm yourself first. The storm will pass'

T.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Stop trying to get work done and spend time on fab at the same time... You know it doesn't work, boobs and penises will always win

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Stop trying to fix everything.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Stop putting other peoples needs above my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

'Stop trying to calm the storm. Calm yourself first. The storm will pass'

"

Love this

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By *emofaJamesMan
over a year ago

London


"Stop trying to fix everything. "

Quite Right

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Stop putting people on unobtainable pedestals, they will fall off

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Find the eye of the storm and sit with your feelings.

Best advice I've ever been given.

Also

Don't throw the baby out with the bath water.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Stop trying to rationalise the irrational. Some things just are what they are. The choice between enjoying what it is and ruining it for what it isn't was made a long time ago for good reason. Stop overthinking yourself into silly states over something that will never be resolved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop trying manage every one’s problems and finding solutions. Sometime people just want a hug

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

Stop procrastinating about all those things you say you want to do but never get around to doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To stop overthrowing situations and people...is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Steve, stop trying to be enough and just be you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop worrying and wasting energy on things you have absolutely no control over.

Start focusing your energy into parts of your life you can improve, develop and grow yourself through hard work and dedication.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate you all sharing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

'Stop trying to calm the storm. Calm yourself first. The storm will pass'

Love this "

Me too. Paused my scrolling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop trying to meet others expectation

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Stop expecting you from others and even thinking what they showed you first time meeting them is the real them

Time shows sincerity and trust

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

[Removed by poster at 07/05/23 15:09:16]

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Stop trying to rationalise the irrational. Some things just are what they are. The choice between enjoying what it is and ruining it for what it isn't was made a long time ago for good reason. Stop overthinking yourself into silly states over something that will never be resolved."

I like that.

I have these moments in conversations where my heart sinks. Oh shit we are going down the over-analysis rabbit hole.

How about wonderland rabbit hole? Nooo ok (sigh)...

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Stop trying to fake confidence and actually get some instead

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Your allowed to make mistakes, first time it's a mistake, 2nd 3rd 4th's are choices

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Stop trying to fake confidence and actually get some instead "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stop trying to rationalise the irrational. Some things just are what they are. The choice between enjoying what it is and ruining it for what it isn't was made a long time ago for good reason. Stop overthinking yourself into silly states over something that will never be resolved.

I like that.

I have these moments in conversations where my heart sinks. Oh shit we are going down the over-analysis rabbit hole.

How about wonderland rabbit hole? Nooo ok (sigh)..."

Quick. Change the subject !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop trying to do things physically you did in your 20s in the army…..

Then Drink 10 pint get up at 6 and run 8 mile.

Now drink 10 pints take 2 days to recover

Then - Barrel roll over the top of the cargo net on an assault course and look great.

Now - barrel roll over, realise I’m not as good as I was then, nearly fall off the other side and look like I need rescuing

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

I love the saying "life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain". XT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop trying so hard to make her cum .

Hey , Super-Hero … that’s the belly button !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop procrastinating about all those things you say you want to do but never get around to doing."

Uh???? No way!!!!! I love having tonnes of shit to do - some twat would only go and put more on the to do list if I did all the shit that's on it already

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stop procrastinating about all those things you say you want to do but never get around to doing.

Uh???? No way!!!!! I love having tonnes of shit to do - some twat would only go and put more on the to do list if I did all the shit that's on it already "

Stop letting twats near your lists?

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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Stop worrying, it’s the stealer of time and happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woody. Stop being a dick!

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Stop overthinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop being a shopaholic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like masood boomgaard .. "when you have a bad day " ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop trying to make others feel good when they don’t respacte back

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