FabSwingers.com forum: Advise on how to be more fem?

By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

To all the ladies out there, what would the one bit of advice you would give to someone like me looking to be as feminine as possible?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

More feminine or more female ?

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"More feminine or more female ?"

More feminine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all the ladies out there, what would the one bit of advice you would give to someone like me looking to be as feminine as possible?"

What do you feel you're struggling with? Your pics are great, by the way

Mrs

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"To all the ladies out there, what would the one bit of advice you would give to someone like me looking to be as feminine as possible?

What do you feel you're struggling with? Your pics are great, by the way

Mrs"

Aww thank you! Maybe mannerisms? I'm working on the makeup side of things? I'm always looking to improve myself

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

That's a really difficult question to answer because it depends on what you think femininity looks like.

Can you think of anyone famous who looks feminine to you?

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"That's a really difficult question to answer because it depends on what you think femininity looks like.

Can you think of anyone famous who looks feminine to you?"

That's a good point! I suppose like Rachel Reilly from countdown lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all the ladies out there, what would the one bit of advice you would give to someone like me looking to be as feminine as possible?

What do you feel you're struggling with? Your pics are great, by the way

Mrs

Aww thank you! Maybe mannerisms? I'm working on the makeup side of things? I'm always looking to improve myself"

Try not to overthink it...just be yourself. And as someone else has commented- is there someone who you think is feminine that you could use as inspiration?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look very feminine in your photos.

I think if you can grow your own hair/get extensions or a real hair wig it would make you feel and look more feminine

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"You look very feminine in your photos.

I think if you can grow your own hair/get extensions or a real hair wig it would make you feel and look more feminine "

Aww thank you! I'm actually looking into a breast plate? They are quite expensive though

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"To all the ladies out there, what would the one bit of advice you would give to someone like me looking to be as feminine as possible?

What do you feel you're struggling with? Your pics are great, by the way

Mrs

Aww thank you! Maybe mannerisms? I'm working on the makeup side of things? I'm always looking to improve myself

Try not to overthink it...just be yourself. And as someone else has commented- is there someone who you think is feminine that you could use as inspiration?

Mrs"

Thank you! Maybe Rachel Reilly from countdown lol

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"That's a really difficult question to answer because it depends on what you think femininity looks like.

Can you think of anyone famous who looks feminine to you?

That's a good point! I suppose like Rachel Reilly from countdown lol

I just googled her. Yes, to me that I perceive as feminine. Clothes that flatter the figure without being overly sexual, not too revealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely pics OP! You look fantastic

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"Lovely pics OP! You look fantastic "

Thank you so much! I was told I'm just a dude in dress lately so it got me thinking on how I could improve?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all the ladies out there, what would the one bit of advice you would give to someone like me looking to be as feminine as possible?

What do you feel you're struggling with? Your pics are great, by the way

Mrs

Aww thank you! Maybe mannerisms? I'm working on the makeup side of things? I'm always looking to improve myself

Try not to overthink it...just be yourself. And as someone else has commented- is there someone who you think is feminine that you could use as inspiration?

Mrs

Thank you! Maybe Rachel Reilly from countdown lol"

Oh I think she's so hot

Well, there's a start for you - watch videos of her and see if any of her behaviours and mannerisms come easily to you. With make up, spam yourself with tutorials on Insta, FB etc and practice and experiment with different looks

Mrs

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You look very feminine in your last photo with long hair. I would think you was a woman

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"You look very feminine in your last photo with long hair. I would think you was a woman"

You are too kind!

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

Feedback is greatly appreciated girls!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

You look good

Just keep doing what you're doing, keep practicing with the make up (that's the biggest one to help sell the image)

Good eyebrows go a long way as does a good wig.

I know you're using FaceApp, but you have a feminine face and a nice smile.

Everything will come together in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are more feminine than I am OP!You put more effort in than I do.

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"You are more feminine than I am OP!You put more effort in than I do.

Thank you means so much but you dont even need to try you look amazing

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"You look good

Just keep doing what you're doing, keep practicing with the make up (that's the biggest one to help sell the image)

Good eyebrows go a long way as does a good wig.

I know you're using FaceApp, but you have a feminine face and a nice smile.

Everything will come together in time

Great advise thank you hunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You look good

Just keep doing what you're doing, keep practicing with the make up (that's the biggest one to help sell the image)

Good eyebrows go a long way as does a good wig.

I know you're using FaceApp, but you have a feminine face and a nice smile.

Everything will come together in time

I'd say agree eye makeup is a big thing. Blending tutorials are great for that OP

Also express on nails have come a long way in recent years. Primark do sets that are really inexpensive, look good and are easily taken back off. Just opt for the sticky type vs glue

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"You look good

Just keep doing what you're doing, keep practicing with the make up (that's the biggest one to help sell the image)

Good eyebrows go a long way as does a good wig.

I know you're using FaceApp, but you have a feminine face and a nice smile.

Everything will come together in time

I'd say agree eye makeup is a big thing. Blending tutorials are great for that OP

Also express on nails have come a long way in recent years. Primark do sets that are really inexpensive, look good and are easily taken back off. Just opt for the sticky type vs glue "

What about fake lashes?thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find makeup really helps alot when done subtly! Plus, choice of clothing can also play a big part in how your body looks. Also don't forget to neglect accessories! I find that when I wear glasses for example it makes me pull off the andro look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meant to say dont forgot to NOT neglect accessories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You look good

Just keep doing what you're doing, keep practicing with the make up (that's the biggest one to help sell the image)

Good eyebrows go a long way as does a good wig.

I know you're using FaceApp, but you have a feminine face and a nice smile.

Everything will come together in time

I'd say agree eye makeup is a big thing. Blending tutorials are great for that OP

Also express on nails have come a long way in recent years. Primark do sets that are really inexpensive, look good and are easily taken back off. Just opt for the sticky type vs glue

What about fake lashes?thoughts?"

Again there's lots of options for the party lashes that come off easily. As for brows if you don't feel confident going to a brow bar, most Turkish barbers offer threading now. My daughters boyfriend gets his done at the barbers

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's good you are asking women, because lot of TVs and CD's especially go for an idea of 'feminity' that (imo) you actually don't really see around that much these days. Single colour get-ups with accessories same, heels for school, certain poses, it's not particularly 'feminity' to a lot of women imo. It's almost Carry-On stuff sometimes, and it was meant to be deliberately exaggerated back then. Brassy music would play when those 'glamorous' women walked by.

Your last pic (with your lovely face) looks the most feminine to me, because you look the most relaxed in it.

'Femininity' for me is just most women being comfortable with the body and personality they have. It's a comparative thing with masculinity, and yes there is crossover. And some men are obviously more naturally feminine than others (who aren't at all) - it's just the way it is.

'Putting it on' is the hardest thing. It's why Eddy Izzard for me will never be 'feminine' - because he doesn't naturally have it. To me he really is just a guy who puts on a dress sometimes, some lippy (always the red lippy) and (unfortunately otherwise I wouldn't care less) expect to use women's loos off the back of that (and his status no doubt). To me he's just a spoilt celeb who has no idea what some CDs - ie guys - actually behave like in this area. (A lot are quite perverted 'role players' tbh). Izzard wouldn't even attempt it wearing his 'male' clothes.

But it really is just about clothing. Why *should* women wear any particular type of clothing? Clothing is designed for body types for sure, but why should your clothing make you a woman?

But I do admit that there are guys out there (if guys are your thing) who very much like the 'exaggerated look'. I get criticised sometimes because I "don't make an effort" - typically meaning loads of dolly make up with all the frillies. But I just say, "why should women make that kind of effort??"

The key in that case would be to ask them what they like.

Also most women are great with colour coordination, and those who aren't look for some kind of help or guide - it's there in abundance for them. They don't just throw 'female clothes' together, like a lot of the CD's do on Fabguys. (Yes ladies, they are mostly married men - so they don't even buy it for themselves!) ----pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could help more, but I’m definitely not feminine haha!

I do feel more “girly” when I’ve got a dress on and some lovely perfume, D & G The only one is my new go to. A lovely handbag can also help.

Mrs

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"I wish I could help more, but I’m definitely not feminine haha!

I do feel more “girly” when I’ve got a dress on and some lovely perfume, D & G The only one is my new go to. A lovely handbag can also help.

Mrs"

If you think you are not feminine then I have no hope lol...you have a terrific figure and style. Alot of women here like yourself dont need to try and they still look amazing.

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By *tar80sWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Take some ballet classes!

Very beautiful btw.

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"Take some ballet classes!

Very beautiful btw.

Never thought of that! Good ideas thank you

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Deportment makes people seem more feminine.

Relax your shoulders and move your arms from your elbows, with relaxed, soft hands.

Walk putting each foot nearer to the centre of your body, until you feel comfortable and are not overdoing it.

Femininity is grace.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Take some ballet classes!

Very beautiful btw.

Never thought of that! Good ideas thank you

You'll have tight glutes too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get your colours done.

Everyone is a season (spring, summer etc) and everyone has a natural body shape (hourglass, strawberry, rectangle etc). Once you find out what season and shape you are and start buying clothes to suit you’ll be amazed at the difference it makes!

I’m a spring hourglass so I can wear bright colours but pastels, grey and black aren’t so good. If you were a summer or a winter you’d look awesome in pastels or greys and blacks.

As an hourglass I can wear all over patterns but if you were a straw for example you’d want patterns on the bottom half and plain on top to balance your shape out. There’s a lot of info online about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get your colours done.

I’m a spring hourglass so I can wear bright colours but pastels, grey and black aren’t so good. If you were a summer or a winter you’d look awesome in pastels or greys and blacks.

That should say strawberry

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

You look very feminine already, in my opinion.

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"Get your colours done.

I’m a spring hourglass so I can wear bright colours but pastels, grey and black aren’t so good. If you were a summer or a winter you’d look awesome in pastels or greys and blacks.

Thank you! Advice like this I cant get anywhere else! Thank you!

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Get your colours done.

I’m a spring hourglass so I can wear bright colours but pastels, grey and black aren’t so good. If you were a summer or a winter you’d look awesome in pastels or greys and blacks.

I'd recommend this too. I had my colours done and I'm a winter so very different from this person. I wear darks and brights. No pastels and no browns. It's bloody transformed what I wear and how I wear it. They are definitely open minded about helping everyone. House of Colour if you want to look OP. Its not cheap, but it is good.

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"Deportment makes people seem more feminine.

Relax your shoulders and move your arms from your elbows, with relaxed, soft hands.

Walk putting each foot nearer to the centre of your body, until you feel comfortable and are not overdoing it.

Femininity is grace.

Its things like this that I overlook thank you will definitely work on this and sigh up for ballet lessons

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By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

"Get your colours done.

I’m a spring hourglass so I can wear bright colours but pastels, grey and black aren’t so good. If you were a summer or a winter you’d look awesome in pastels or greys and blacks.

Why am I only finding out about this now lol will definitely look into this if I can pluck up the courage

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