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"I’d like to tell certain someone enough of the talk, let’s fuck! " I’d love to! | |||
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"I’d like to tell certain someone enough of the talk, let’s fuck! " OK....let's get it on! | |||
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"Can I just say I'd really like sex RIGHT NOW, but not to anyone specifically. " Can I just say that my own idea just became irrelevant after reading yours? | |||
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"I’d like to tell certain someone enough of the talk, let’s fuck! I’d love to! " | |||
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"I want to fuck them. I've dropped many hunts but they aren't interested. Hey ho,it happens. Next! " *Hints I meant | |||
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"I want to fuck them. I've dropped many hunts but they aren't interested. Hey ho,it happens. Next! " Look, I've already said I'm bad at hints. Sorry. | |||
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"Can I just say I'd really like sex with LFG RIGHT NOW. " Corrected that minor typo | |||
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"To the forumers who need to hear this: Just fuck already! You both know you want to! Jeez …" It takes quite a lot of frustration to make me use exclamation marks. | |||
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"To the forumers who need to hear this: Just fuck already! You both know you want to! Jeez …" I'm waiting..... | |||
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"To the forumers who need to hear this: Just fuck already! You both know you want to! Jeez …" I'm trying!! | |||
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"To the forumers who need to hear this: Just fuck already! You both know you want to! Jeez … I'm trying!!" I never received the memo... | |||
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"I did put your number in my phone and I do wonder what your voice sounds like but I haven't the balls to call.... been disappointed way too much on here." Awww - do it | |||
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"I want to fuck them. I've dropped many hunts but they aren't interested. Hey ho,it happens. Next! " Same here lol | |||
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"I am never sending a face pic ever ever again. J" You have a very lovely face indeed. Perhaps you have corresponded with a silly person. They exist, I understand. | |||
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"I am never sending a face pic ever ever again. J" Oh I hope this wasn't because of me!!! | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!!" Awwww, just DM me! | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!! Awwww, just DM me! " I'm shy | |||
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"I'm waiting..... " That wasn’t addressed to myself. But now you mention it … | |||
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"I am never sending a face pic ever ever again. J" I'm going to thoroughly enjoy the squirming | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!!" Just tell them! Actually, tell either or both of them | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!! Just tell them! Actually, tell either or both of them" You should know that I would never actually do that! | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!! Just tell them! Actually, tell either or both of them You should know that I would never actually do that! " Yeah I do. I was just trying to get you to message me | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!! Just tell them! Actually, tell either or both of them You should know that I would never actually do that! " What about the next Secret Service?? Be brave! | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!! Just tell them! Actually, tell either or both of them You should know that I would never actually do that! Yeah I do. I was just trying to get you to message me " I tried as well, ffs! | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!!" You spelt Posh wrong | |||
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"I really fancy and like someone in the forums but when I told her she said I was taking the piss because I never mentioned her in those stupid I fancy you threads...and now she doesn't message at all x" I liked those threads until someone used one to be mean to my forum bestie. I'm not playing anymore. J | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!! Just tell them! Actually, tell either or both of them You should know that I would never actually do that! What about the next Secret Service?? Be brave!" • It's been a while since we saw the official Secret Service/Cervix thread. Often imitated; rarely bettered. | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!! You spelt Posh wrong " • shoP? | |||
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"I really fancy and like someone in the forums but when I told her she said I was taking the piss because I never mentioned her in those stupid I fancy you threads...and now she doesn't message at all x I liked those threads until someone used one to be mean to my forum bestie. I'm not playing anymore. J" This all just makes me sad. They are not supposed to be like that | |||
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"I really fancy and like someone in the forums but when I told her she said I was taking the piss because I never mentioned her in those stupid I fancy you threads...and now she doesn't message at all x I liked those threads until someone used one to be mean to my forum bestie. I'm not playing anymore. J" How horrible! Why on Earth? | |||
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"I really fancy and like someone in the forums but when I told her she said I was taking the piss because I never mentioned her in those stupid I fancy you threads...and now she doesn't message at all x I liked those threads until someone used one to be mean to my forum bestie. I'm not playing anymore. J" They just seem a vehicle for all the most popular people to get more attention. So I've never joined one. I know, I know, it's just a bit of fun but I think they're only fun for some. | |||
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"I want to kiss you so very much " Thank you....oh not me? Whoops carry on lol x | |||
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"I really fancy and like someone in the forums but when I told her she said I was taking the piss because I never mentioned her in those stupid I fancy you threads...and now she doesn't message at all x I liked those threads until someone used one to be mean to my forum bestie. I'm not playing anymore. J They just seem a vehicle for all the most popular people to get more attention. So I've never joined one. I know, I know, it's just a bit of fun but I think they're only fun for some." Why I don't bother with them anymore either | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!! You spelt Posh wrong • shoP? " I like Poshhing! And shopping! J | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!! You spelt Posh wrong • shoP? I like Poshhing! And shopping! J" ° Clit n' Collect? | |||
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"I really fancy and like someone in the forums but when I told her she said I was taking the piss because I never mentioned her in those stupid I fancy you threads...and now she doesn't message at all x I liked those threads until someone used one to be mean to my forum bestie. I'm not playing anymore. J They just seem a vehicle for all the most popular people to get more attention. So I've never joined one. I know, I know, it's just a bit of fun but I think they're only fun for some. Why I don't bother with them anymore either " I know they're not intended to exclude, it's just the nature of any Fora. | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!! You spelt Posh wrong • shoP? I like Poshhing! And shopping! J ° Clit n' Collect?" Oh, you have to say that's magnificent. | |||
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"I really fancy and like someone in the forums but when I told her she said I was taking the piss because I never mentioned her in those stupid I fancy you threads...and now she doesn't message at all x I liked those threads until someone used one to be mean to my forum bestie. I'm not playing anymore. J" That’s shameful behaviour! I’ve also stopped participating in the ‘my mate fancies you’ threads (but for my own reasons). | |||
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"I really fancy and like someone in the forums but when I told her she said I was taking the piss because I never mentioned her in those stupid I fancy you threads...and now she doesn't message at all x I liked those threads until someone used one to be mean to my forum bestie. I'm not playing anymore. J They just seem a vehicle for all the most popular people to get more attention. So I've never joined one. I know, I know, it's just a bit of fun but I think they're only fun for some." I'm glad it's not just me who notices that. I stay well away from those threads. If I like someone I'll tell them in private without having people know my business. | |||
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"I really fancy and like someone in the forums but when I told her she said I was taking the piss because I never mentioned her in those stupid I fancy you threads...and now she doesn't message at all x I liked those threads until someone used one to be mean to my forum bestie. I'm not playing anymore. J They just seem a vehicle for all the most popular people to get more attention. So I've never joined one. I know, I know, it's just a bit of fun but I think they're only fun for some. I'm glad it's not just me who notices that. I stay well away from those threads. If I like someone I'll tell them in private without having people know my business. " Not the only one who stays away from them threads. | |||
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"No point moaning about these type of thread topics, it couldn't be easier to join or start another." • Nobody is moaning. You have been misinformed, petal. | |||
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"No point moaning about these type of thread topics, it couldn't be easier to join or start another. • Nobody is moaning. You have been misinformed, petal. " ---A couple of people above just complained. Thanks for being weirdly patronising though lol. ----pt | |||
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"When the rest of my world is falling to pieces, this place is my safe haven " | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!!" Knew I’d made your minge twitch lately. The mr | |||
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"No point moaning about these type of thread topics, it couldn't be easier to join or start another. • Nobody is moaning. You have been misinformed, petal. " | |||
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"Is this a safe place? " Only if you wear a condom. | |||
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"Is this a safe place? Only if you wear a condom." I come in here as I am. | |||
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"There’s a girl who may never know how much I want to kiss her. " Why do I now have Sebastian from Little Mermaid in my head | |||
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"There’s a girl who may never know how much I want to kiss her. Why do I now have Sebastian from Little Mermaid in my head " Now I’m thinking of Peter Andre?? *anyone who’s a Disney nerd will know. | |||
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"There’s a girl who may never know how much I want to kiss her. Why do I now have Sebastian from Little Mermaid in my head Now I’m thinking of Peter Andre?? *anyone who’s a Disney nerd will know. " Sebastian did it better!! | |||
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"There’s a girl who may never know how much I want to kiss her. Why do I now have Sebastian from Little Mermaid in my head Now I’m thinking of Peter Andre?? *anyone who’s a Disney nerd will know. Sebastian did it better!! " Yes. Yes he did. | |||
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"I am never sending a face pic ever ever again. J" I have recently done exactly the same | |||
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"I am never sending a face pic ever ever again. J I have recently done exactly the same " J | |||
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"I really miss hearing your voice " Julie took her videos down again didn't she - she's selfish like that | |||
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"I really miss hearing your voice Julie took her videos down again didn't she - she's selfish like that " J | |||
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"I really miss hearing your voice Julie took her videos down again didn't she - she's selfish like that J" | |||
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"I really miss hearing your voice Julie took her videos down again didn't she - she's selfish like that " I know!! I've been struggling to cope with the loss. | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet " This one is interesting. We naturally try and express the very best image of ourselves in public as we possibly can and then battle with our anxieties that we can't live up to that image. I do love a well staged and artistic photo but I appreciate the picture not the person in those contexts. My favourite images of people are Eu Naturel - no make up, no fancy back ground just twinkling eyes and a massive cheesy smile. My very favourite view is that utterly trusting depth of the soul nose to nose eye gaze | |||
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"I am never sending a face pic ever ever again. J I have recently done exactly the same " I’ve said this before …. If I ever meet up with anyone from fab, I will meet them sitting facing a wall, they will have instructions to sit behind me, and that’s how we will talk. | |||
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"Yes, there ae some people I would genuinly like to get to know on here. Yes, I do dispaly myself to be an arsehole on the forums 90% of the time but, I do as a way of deflecting the fact that I doubt I will ever meet any of the people I would like to. Yes, I do feel like I sit in the corner by myself but, I'm ok with that as I'm a singma male and enjoy my own comany. Yes, there are a couple of people on here who I would like to know off the site, some I talk to others I don't. I do know I'm a lazy speller as well but, realy don't care. Yes, I have very strange life philosphies and beliefs and I do take after my parents and I'm a bit of a hippy. I will alays be a parent first. Yes, I fucking love cheesecake and that is my only vice. " I like cheesecake. | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet " I think we all feel like that, don’t we? I know I do. | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet I think we all feel like that, don’t we? I know I do." Yup x | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet " Oh, that’s me too. Unfortunately this is more common than people think but really shouldn’t. | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet I think we all feel like that, don’t we? I know I do." Always | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet I think we all feel like that, don’t we? I know I do." Always | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet I think we all feel like that, don’t we? I know I do." Yep, same here. Mrs | |||
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"I'm glad it's not just me but sad at the same time that all of you feel the same thing Em x" Maybe society has gaslit itself into mistaking confidence for arrogance? | |||
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"Yes, there ae some people I would genuinly like to get to know on here. Yes, I do dispaly myself to be an arsehole on the forums 90% of the time but, I do as a way of deflecting the fact that I doubt I will ever meet any of the people I would like to. Yes, I do feel like I sit in the corner by myself but, I'm ok with that as I'm a singma male and enjoy my own comany. Yes, there are a couple of people on here who I would like to know off the site, some I talk to others I don't. I do know I'm a lazy speller as well but, realy don't care. Yes, I have very strange life philosphies and beliefs and I do take after my parents and I'm a bit of a hippy. I will alays be a parent first. Yes, I fucking love cheesecake and that is my only vice. I like cheesecake." | |||
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"There's a guy I'm a tad in love with on the forums!!" Then Lucky guy. Go and see if its worth it. You deserve to find you Ryan and what is the worst that can happen, you will be in the same position but know if someone likes you and I hope he has a giant boil on his bum. | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet " This very much me as well. | |||
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"I'm glad it's not just me but sad at the same time that all of you feel the same thing Em x Maybe society has gaslit itself into mistaking confidence for arrogance?" How do you mean? | |||
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"When the rest of my world is falling to pieces, this place is my safe haven " And having that place is a blessind and you will get that one thing you want, just live for now and it will come. | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet " this is exactly how I feel right about now | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet " I think the problem when we meet people with whom we’ve connected online, is that our brain has to fill in a lot of gaps. Inevitably the reality will differ. Sometimes it’s a positive experience, sometimes not. It’s no one’s fault but can lead to disappointment, although that is more about the difference in the gap than the actual appearance of the person we meet. In other words - it’s not what you look like, it’s what you look like compared to what we imagined. Stoopid brains! | |||
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"I'm glad it's not just me but sad at the same time that all of you feel the same thing Em x" We should hug it out and tell each other we’re awesome. That’s the best solution. | |||
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"I'm glad it's not just me but sad at the same time that all of you feel the same thing Em x We should hug it out and tell each other we’re awesome. That’s the best solution. " | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet This very much me as well. " This is why I make sure people’s views of me are as low as they can be. | |||
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"I'm glad it's not just me but sad at the same time that all of you feel the same thing Em x We should hug it out and tell each other we’re awesome. That’s the best solution. " | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet This very much me as well. This is why I make sure people’s views of me are as low as they can be. " True. My views of you couldn’t get any lower to be fair | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet This very much me as well. This is why I make sure people’s views of me are as low as they can be. " I designed my profile to reflect exactly that. Works great | |||
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"I'm glad it's not just me but sad at the same time that all of you feel the same thing Em x We should hug it out and tell each other we’re awesome. That’s the best solution. " Can I be there to witness this 'hug' Asking for a friend | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet I think the problem when we meet people with whom we’ve connected online, is that our brain has to fill in a lot of gaps. Inevitably the reality will differ. Sometimes it’s a positive experience, sometimes not. It’s no one’s fault but can lead to disappointment, although that is more about the difference in the gap than the actual appearance of the person we meet. In other words - it’s not what you look like, it’s what you look like compared to what we imagined. Stoopid brains!" This actually makes a lot of sense | |||
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"I'm glad it's not just me but sad at the same time that all of you feel the same thing Em x We should hug it out and tell each other we’re awesome. That’s the best solution. Can I be there to witness this 'hug' Asking for a friend " Tell your friend they can also join the group hug | |||
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"I'm glad it's not just me but sad at the same time that all of you feel the same thing Em x We should hug it out and tell each other we’re awesome. That’s the best solution. Can I be there to witness this 'hug' Asking for a friend Tell your friend they can also join the group hug " Exactly - if near the hug you must partake in the hug!! Unless you don't like them of course | |||
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"I'm glad it's not just me but sad at the same time that all of you feel the same thing Em x We should hug it out and tell each other we’re awesome. That’s the best solution. Can I be there to witness this 'hug' Asking for a friend Tell your friend they can also join the group hug Exactly - if near the hug you must partake in the hug!! Unless you don't like them of course " No you MUST partake in the group hug! | |||
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"I worry that you'll be disappointed or I won't live up to the image you've built up of me when we eventually get to meet I think the problem when we meet people with whom we’ve connected online, is that our brain has to fill in a lot of gaps. Inevitably the reality will differ. Sometimes it’s a positive experience, sometimes not. It’s no one’s fault but can lead to disappointment, although that is more about the difference in the gap than the actual appearance of the person we meet. In other words - it’s not what you look like, it’s what you look like compared to what we imagined. Stoopid brains! This actually makes a lot of sense" Blimey! That’s going in my Fab mid-year review | |||
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"Distance sucks... that's the personal one. The general one.....we just feel invisible at times or misunderstood. Such is the nature of the beast of the forums Tinder " You feel how you feel regardless of what anyone else say's but I do notice ye. Sometimes I just have no input on the topic so say nothing at all but I'm sure I'm not the only one, People are noticed but sometimes that's just silently | |||
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"I'm glad it's not just me but sad at the same time that all of you feel the same thing Em x Maybe society has gaslit itself into mistaking confidence for arrogance? How do you mean?" We have made ourselves so afraid to be confident and display it that it's gotten to the point that a large percentage of people now completely doubt and second guess everything about themselves. The enormity of media that our brains are streamed with and how many opinions we are lambasted with telling us what to think most of it with an agenda to sell something. | |||
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