FabSwingers.com forum: Verries

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do crude verries put you off a potential meet?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not really, it’s the “keep him for myself” type that put me off.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Verrie much so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not really, it’s the “keep him for myself” type that put me off. "

I agree those type of verries put me off to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Verrie much so."

I'm glad I'm not the only one

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Yes, more so if they've left them for others. You can't help what people write about you but I am a little

when people choose to publish them.

But that's just me. There are probably fabbers who love it so everyone should just do what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not at all it’s fab after all

It’s to be expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had or written anything that could be considered graphic until recently. I was actually quite nervous about displaying them for us both.

Equally though if people read them and judge harshly then they wouldn't be the sort of person I would want to get to know anyway.

I also think people shouldn't read them and assume you are something you are not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan. Gives me the ‘ick’.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We will only give one if asked but not interested in receiving them, don't think we have had a veri from our last 3 meets.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"I've never had or written anything that could be considered graphic until recently. I was actually quite nervous about displaying them for us both.

Equally though if people read them and judge harshly then they wouldn't be the sort of person I would want to get to know anyway.

I also think people shouldn't read them and assume you are something you are not "

Obviously I had to go nosey

That was more erotic than graphic. Maybe it's crude I dislike more than graphic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind them that much. It’s the ones that go into great detail to describe the meet from start to finish that I don’t particularly like, it doesn’t put me off it’s just unnecessary I think. We have one that we wouldn’t publish because of how descriptive it is.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Mine are shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After I’m done laying the smack down on some candy arse I give snack cupboard ratings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I'm fussed about veris to be honest. I prefer to make up my own mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verrie much so."

Top Saturday punning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s why we don’t publish ours tbh x so many veris are crude and tasteless, my first ever veri made me sound like a hand puppet and I cried when I read it lol x I’ve toughened up since but I rarely read veris for that reason x tells you more about the writer than the subject

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yep. A bit. I just think, maybe we're not that compatible. Sometimes I'll ignore them and say fuck it.

I'm more likely to be put off by the ones that make it very clear that someone's really into someone - I just think, nah, there's no point. And move it to a friendship.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I find crude explicit verifications a bit of a turn off but, not as much as really soppy lovey-dovey ones

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I find them helpful actually as it can tell me if I am likely to be sexually compatible with them - or indeed should give them a wide berth

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"I find them helpful actually as it can tell me if I am likely to be sexually compatible with them - or indeed should give them a wide berth"

This

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By *he LsCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

We don't mind them, it would more likely put us off the person who wrote them than the person who shows them though xx

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Really crude ones I just think, maybe they’re not my kinda person. Some things are private and best kept that way. The extent of someone’s bj skills or how wet someone got is not really what I need to know.

Ones where there is clear there is some personal joke between the two, I like. It shows there is more connection than just a fuck, I’m way past just being a fuck.

Loved up ones, or those that show a deeper connection, I’m wary of treading on toes, possibly spoiling something or upsetting someone, so I’ll probably back off

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

"I've never had or written anything that could be considered graphic until recently. I was actually quite nervous about displaying them for us both.

Equally though if people read them and judge harshly then they wouldn't be the sort of person I would want to get to know anyway.

I also think people shouldn't read them and assume you are something you are not "

Sorry, but I had to go look. That sort doesn't put me off at all, both left me doing that weird warm smile when you can feel the happiness in something. They're both well written descriptions of both feelings and lust with no feeling of the crude side, it's when that slips in that I tend to stop reading or switch off.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I used to worry about this sort of thing, but I’ve relaxed these days.

I reckon it’s best just to publish whatever feels right for you. That’s honest. And if you want to attract people who actually like you, not some imaginary version of you, then you have to be honest.

The people leaving you veris have already made their side of the decision - they’ve sent you it because they’re happy for it to be seen. So the choice is yours, every time. Publish or don’t. Go with what feels right.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

Really crude detailed veris are a total ick for me

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I dont read them so its irrelevant to me

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

No, they say more about the person leaving the veri than the person they have left them for.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Loved up ones, or those that show a deeper connection, I’m wary of treading on toes, possibly spoiling something or upsetting someone, so I’ll probably back off "

Yep, that's exactly it for me. Even if it's just leaving people to enjoy the honeymoon stage in peace.

I couldn't think of anything worse than meeting someone and they a) spend the time talking about someone else or b) thinking about someone else. It's my idea of hell. So I try and minimise the likelihood of that happening.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Not for me either i would sooner know about the person rather than what you did

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I wonder how people feel then when their verification is hidden

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I have had people complain when I left their veri hidden. I mean … if you’re not even gonna bother to spellcheck it, what do you expect?

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Do crude verries put you off a potential meet?"

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All veris put me off. I don't want to see any on profiles.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Do crude verries put you off a potential meet?"

Yes all things Crude are off putting.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Yep...i don't like veri's at all, crude or not. Especially romanticised ones from a cheating husband or wife

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

As long as they are not about me...I enjoy reading them, they are funny

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes

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By *issingdelightWoman
over a year ago

midlands

I personally like the club and party Veris. I find some people are just veri "collectors" and if someone has veris after veris I find that off putting. Just my personal preference

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Enticing and erotically suggestive verifications are fine. I don't mind those at all.

However, I have less appreciation of verifications that are outwardly vulgar, uncouth and those that describe how each other's genitalia were unappealingly used and abused.

Perhaps that is a "my problem/issue" because it ruins the profound mystique that I had for that person.

Lastly, the type that truly puts me off is where the verification narrative comes across as "divide and conquer" or "territorial", conveying a 'keep-off-she's-mine' message to the reader.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'd look at them before deciding to reply. It's not as much what they've said - it's the people the guy has chosen to meet. Unlikely to be my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The variety, age and content of people's verifications are a doorway to the kind of person that they are content to associate with themselves. For whatever reason most people seem to believe it's some sort of rating feedback and future grooming system which isn't actually what it's meant to be rather an endorsement that the profile is accurate and they behave within the bounds of the community rule set.

We choose to display our most recent veri just to show that we are still knocking around and interested in playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do but also not just because they’re graphic

they’re also incredibly boring and repetitive! No one puts any thought into them. It’s all ‘sucks like a Dyson’, ‘made me squirt all night’, ‘made me cum so many times’.

Why not mix it up a bit and tell everyone how daves cock is thicker than your wrist and Sharon’s boobs are like squeezing water balloons? I wanna hear how Barbara’s love tunnel is like entering a welcoming warm and dark den of secrets and how Colin’s thrust action took you to heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and I don't see why they would.

As long as they were from a genuine profile from a genuine meeting.

What would put me off is lots of social verifications as it looks like they are only interested in the fantasy.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Why not mix it up a bit and tell everyone how daves cock is thicker than your wrist and Sharon’s boobs are like squeezing water balloons? I wanna hear how Barbara’s love tunnel is like entering a welcoming warm and dark den of secrets and how Colin’s thrust action took you to heaven

I reckon the secret there is to meet people who can string a decent sentence together …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t mind them that much. It’s the ones that go into great detail to describe the meet from start to finish that I don’t particularly like, it doesn’t put me off it’s just unnecessary I think. We have one that we wouldn’t publish because of how descriptive it is. "

Well now it's almost like I have to know

why would you put this here and not publish it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon the secret there is to meet people who can string a decent sentence together …"

I mean, I do try

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

I do ask people to leave me generic veris without explicit details but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon the secret there is to meet people who can string a decent sentence together …"

The ones that can't will get the browsers back button all excited

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Do crude verries put you off a potential meet?"

No, I judge ppl on how I find them not how somebody else found them to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have questions about veris…. Can I jump in on your thread to ask?

Do people actually write bad veris?

If someone wrote you a bad veri would you publish it?

And do people chat between themselves after a meet to discuss the type of veri they are going to leave each other ?

I suppose I could start another thread but wasn’t sure if it would be relevant here

P.s crude doesn’t put me off… sometimes fantasising about others meets is hot

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"They do but also not just because they’re graphic

they’re also incredibly boring and repetitive! No one puts any thought into them. It’s all ‘sucks like a Dyson’, ‘made me squirt all night’, ‘made me cum so many times’.

Fluffy, you missed out about Anna_Bananas ability to suck out a tree root

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"I have questions about veris…. Can I jump in on your thread to ask?

Do people actually write bad veris?

If someone wrote you a bad veri would you publish it?

And do people chat between themselves after a meet to discuss the type of veri they are going to leave each other ?

I suppose I could start another thread but wasn’t sure if it would be relevant here

P.s crude doesn’t put me off… sometimes fantasising about others meets is hot "

I wouldn’t write a bad one unless it was something really dodgy or safety concerns for other members. If it was just a case of I didn’t enjoy it no becuase thats just my experience we all have different likes

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I have questions about veris…. Can I jump in on your thread to ask?

Do people actually write bad veris?

If someone wrote you a bad veri would you publish it?

And do people chat between themselves after a meet to discuss the type of veri they are going to leave each other ?

I suppose I could start another thread but wasn’t sure if it would be relevant here

P.s crude doesn’t put me off… sometimes fantasising about others meets is hot

Would they display it though, I doubt it

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The full on graphic ones tend to put me off, I don't care what size wet patch was left or if she sucked him dry.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to like the graphic ones. Sometimes they seem disrespectful and misogynistic. They would not be the kind of thing I share with mates, so why share it with all and sundry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'nice' ones put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 'nice' ones put me off"

Nice is such a lazy description haha :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have questions about veris…. Can I jump in on your thread to ask?

Do people actually write bad veris?

If someone wrote you a bad veri would you publish it?

And do people chat between themselves after a meet to discuss the type of veri they are going to leave each other ?

I suppose I could start another thread but wasn’t sure if it would be relevant here

P.s crude doesn’t put me off… sometimes fantasising about others meets is hot

That’s fair… but are the good ones only your experience too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have questions about veris…. Can I jump in on your thread to ask?

Do people actually write bad veris?

If someone wrote you a bad veri would you publish it?

And do people chat between themselves after a meet to discuss the type of veri they are going to leave each other ?

I suppose I could start another thread but wasn’t sure if it would be relevant here

P.s crude doesn’t put me off… sometimes fantasising about others meets is hot

Would they display it though, I doubt it "

Doubt it….

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"I have questions about veris…. Can I jump in on your thread to ask?

Do people actually write bad veris?

If someone wrote you a bad veri would you publish it?

And do people chat between themselves after a meet to discuss the type of veri they are going to leave each other ?

I suppose I could start another thread but wasn’t sure if it would be relevant here

P.s crude doesn’t put me off… sometimes fantasising about others meets is hot

Would they display it though, I doubt it "

Exactly its pointless really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 'nice' ones put me off

Nice is such a lazy description haha :p"

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude. "

I'd call detailed descriptions of what was done with what crude - "he licked my missus's pussy dry".

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude. "

I have no issues with veris no matter what type they are ..

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude.

I'd call detailed descriptions of what was done with what crude - "he licked my missus's pussy dry". "

In that case, I think it's hot... I love a good pussy licking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude.

I'd call detailed descriptions of what was done with what crude - "he licked my missus's pussy dry".

In that case, I think it's hot... I love a good pussy licking. "

I don't. And I don't want to read about it in a veri. Which is fine - there's something for everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude.

I'd call detailed descriptions of what was done with what crude - "he licked my missus's pussy dry". "

Well that would put us off - he's fucking doing it sooooo very wrong if he licked it dry, pussies are meant to get wetter when you lick them not dryer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude.

I'd call detailed descriptions of what was done with what crude - "he licked my missus's pussy dry".

Well that would put us off - he's fucking doing it sooooo very wrong if he licked it dry, pussies are meant to get wetter when you lick them not dryer

Mine usually gets drier. What do I know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is crude? Its a sex site- I don't comprehend what applies as crude.

I'd call detailed descriptions of what was done with what crude - "he licked my missus's pussy dry".

Well that would put us off - he's fucking doing it sooooo very wrong if he licked it dry, pussies are meant to get wetter when you lick them not dryer

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