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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Turned up for a meet last night and the Lady was very d*unk ! I'm not interested in meeting people who are d*unk so made my excuses and left.

I received some nasty verbals as I was leaving which was unexpected.

Has anyone else experienced similar ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thankfully not, however have gotten tipsy with a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you.

Worst we saw was a lady pissed out her head at a dogging site. She was all over the place. She was with a guy but I thought it was very dangerous....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh,.met a couple for a social,.she was off her face, went to a pub, she got abusive,.we left. Got abuse from her, apologies from him. She gotba mouthfull back.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We wouldnt play with anyone who had been hitting the booze too much.

A drink or two to be sociable and calm the nerves is fine, but someone who needs to get d*unk to be able to play is not someone we would play with.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Turned up for a meet last night and the Lady was very d*unk ! I'm not interested in meeting people who are d*unk so made my excuses and left.

I received some nasty verbals as I was leaving which was unexpected.

Has anyone else experienced similar ?"

Good for you!

Thankfully it's never happened to me, I certainly wouldn't hang around if a meet turned up d*unk.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

sod that. I would have done exactly the same as you

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Yuk! how horrible,I can't think of anything worse than meeting up with someone to find they've hit the bottle before the meet

After maybe to get over the shock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being d*unk and trying to be sexy is not attractive!

I remember being out with hubby one night, got rather tipsy, came home and a giggly me decided I wanted some new pics taking! When I looked at them the next day, oh good lord!! Each and every one got deleted

- another rule to add to my lengthy list

I also saw a very d*unk friend of mine, trying to be seductive in a club

- I quickly frogmarched her out of there and home for coffee and sandwiches, vowing never to mirror her shenanigans - my good deed for the day

Thankfully I don't do d*unken meets, never have, never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been on a meet where someone was trashed !!

Have met people where we've had a drink or two before (and occasionally during) fun, and one or two where we've had more afterwards with some banter and a giggle! Have seen pissed people in clubs and avoided like the plague - and have been to parties where people have had a few too many but if its as much of a social as a play party then I've no problem chatting to a happy d*unk. It's when people are beyond control it's time to avoid/leave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how very ladylike!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, as I normally meet at places where the gent would need to drive to get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So nobody likes d*unk porn then?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would walk away, and wouldnt play.

I dont like the smell of booze on someone breath though - i find it a huge turn off. Plus if you've got to be trolley'd or off your face on disco biscuits to play, you're not for me, but good luck to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you.

That meet could have all too easily led to accusations of indecent assault or even worse - rape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So nobody likes d*unk porn then?!!"

Is there such a thing? And if there is, call me a prudey prude, but ewwwwwwwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good for you.

That meet could have all too easily led to accusations of indecent assault or even worse - rape. "

This is the worry for both parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was at a club a few weeks back and a single woman was off her face. Needless to say, no one wanted to entertain her....

That's the last time Iam.taking the wife...LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So nobody likes d*unk porn then?!!

Is there such a thing? And if there is, call me a prudey prude, but ewwwwwwwwwwww

Correct. Dont look it is eeew

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Was at a club a few weeks back and a single woman was off her face. Needless to say, no one wanted to entertain her....

That's the last time Iam.taking the wife...LOL

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married to an alcoholic, so would just walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of drinks is fine But wouldn't dream of getting d*unk x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like d*unk women I won't even talk to Mrs liddy if she's had too much to drink

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

letting a stranger into your home when you are heavily under the influence, beggars belief...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK...we had an experience with a d*unk 2 years ago we'd like to relate too here..longer than the usual posts yes...I wrote this for another site soon after the event...enjoy! or not

Firstly have to set the scene as to how this came about...We were going on a short holiday to the south coast. We had trawled the more popular swinging sites for likely meets from the area we were visiting...as this was a bit of a swinging blackspot i.e we spotted very few couples that we felt would suit our more adventurous natures...Being a known retirement area..most seemed to be a in their 60's...pictures of sagging body parts, trusses, surgical stockings & flourescent dentures didn't really float our boat. A lot of the couples we spotted seemed to be pretty high brow seeking similar..oh lets do luncheon..and then come to our beautiful home etc etc..Mrs Kinky & I are just a coupla of skint working class down to earth quite ordinary people..rented house, crap car and fuckall in the fridge

Anyway from all our searching through ads like "farming couple seeking tractor owning couples for sheep shearing and ploughing fun...please send pics of tractor" we finally came across a couple that looked right up our street, down to earth, both up for a laugh etc we talked on the phone, seemed great fun so arranged to meet on day 2 in a pub near where they lived..so the scene is set...

We duly turned up and in they walked as promised.result!! sure enough we all got on like a house on fire immediately, the guy was tall slim and attractive, she was petite, blonde and really bubbly, really sexy looking! she had on a little short black number and stockings, could see from when she sat opposite me....so no warning bells on first impressions.. the only thing that did seem odd in that first half hour...the general conversation was sexual & flirty in nature, the beer garden was quite full, and they didn't seem bothered that people nearby must have heard what we were talking about..plus she laughed like a drain and seemed overly boisterous. It was suggested early on by the guy that we shouldn't waste anymore time and go back to theirs for some hot sex for the afternoon, we were really up for that the way the conversation was going! talking about frothy coffee blowjobs and baby oil reverse massages prompted some commotion in the underwear department for all

As we left we both noticed that the while walking the short distance to their nearby flat..the lady was staggering a little..we just put it down to the "shag me" shoes she was wearing at the time..So, into the flat, a drink or two more, we all swiftly got naked bar the girls, they kept the stockings and shoes on just the way I like it

Lots of picture taking and fondling ensued all round, did some doubling up all together then the guy started getting it on with mrs K and the girl dragged me off to the kitchen for a bit of table top sex had a hard on the size of KC stadium (Hull city!)...now dear readers... at this point you must be thinking "how can it get better than that??" erm...well..... it didn't, from that point, things went downhill faster than riding a metal roller skate nailed to a small plank of wood down Staxton Hill (Yorkshire reference)

She seemed really up for stuff at first, chewing my earlobes while i was stood up with her planted on the table legs wrapped around my back..then all of a sudden she started saying "no no no we shouldn't be doing this!" pushed me away.. me being a laid back non pushy soul..I backed off ..she then came onto me again..pushed me away..bloody hell didn't know wether i was coming or going...she was staggering all over the room and at this point I realised how pissed she actually was..legless in fact..we both had noticed earlier that she was pissed but just enjoying herself so we went with it, plus she was constantly drinking since we got back to their flat.

Next she dragged me into the front room to go play with Mrs K and her guy..she went over to Mrs K to do some girl on girl stuff...but she started getting a bit to rough..hair pulling biting lips, Mrs K being a sensuous soul is just not into heavy handed play..but just put it down to just getting a bit carried away..she then came back over to me, got rough with me, scratched the fuck out of me..bit my lips..at this point I was getting a little uncomfortable with the whole thing..even her guy looked a tad worried and was apologising for her behaviour. She seemed to calm down a bit and started giving me a blow job..I let her...argh!! bad move she grabbed the base of my balls and tried to yank my tackle clean off my body! dug her nails in...shit I yelped..she would not let go, had hold of my precious tackle in both hands wriving it around...was the most bizarre thing! everyone else in the room was mortified..she really hurt me! She stormed off and promptly dropped into a d*unken stupor in their bedroom. Her guy promptly disappeared apologising profusely for her behaviour and went off to see what the problem was..while they were out of the room we made our escape, enough was enough...

So later back at the hotel...shellshocked...lying naked on the bed together..my tackle sore and totally out of action looking like the last barbeque chicken leg at the butchers...wondering why we do what we do? But...its who we are, we by and large enjoy our liberating adventurous lifestyle and have an enormous love and trust with each other and not bogged down by lifes petty jealousies. Meeting someone like that is really rare, we are normally better at judging situations, but hey we aren't perfect...in future we'll just stick with the people we already know..plus any new people..softly slowly catchy monkey

postscript: on our return to Hull the guy of the couple contacted us through the swinging site where we found them they asking us to verify them as "genuine" so that others would contact them..he did apologise, shame really, he was a really nice guy and we liked him... he had told us at some point on our meet that she did like the old drink a little too much...we just looked at each other and said at exactly the same time "Nooooo fucking way!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ.... Sounds like a swingers freaking nightmare...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

When I was out dogging once I met a couple and as the conversation went back and forth she continued to drink. I think she must have reached the tipping point between being a happy drinker to being a nasty aggressive d*unk. She started to look for trouble in everything people said, no matter how innocuous, her poor husband tried to calm her down, but he had the look on his face of someone who really wished he was now elsewhere. There had been quite a few guys there at one point, but as she insulted most of them and the rest realised that she was hard work, people soon left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did meet a couple off here not so long ago, the guy must had been out his face and got quite aggresive you me, in fact i was a little bit scared tbh, i tried to make my excuses but they or he should i say wasn't having any of it, anyway i waited till he dropped off to sleep. or dozed then slid out the backdoor lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once, at a party, had a lovely young blonde lady straddle me, thin, young and with breasts that would make the Pope sit up and pay attention.

She looked at me and said 'Im horny and I want to fuck'.

Sadly, she was off her face - she proceeded to belch in my face and then fart on my crotch. Not a lady-fart, the kind of fart that sets off car alarms in the surrounding street.

Tragically, it went no further. Once I've had my pubic hair blown dry and parted down the middle by Ladyfarts even Jesus couldn't have rustled me up a miracle hard-on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once, at a party, had a lovely young blonde lady straddle me, thin, young and with breasts that would make the Pope sit up and pay attention.

She looked at me and said 'Im horny and I want to fuck'.

Sadly, she was off her face - she proceeded to belch in my face and then fart on my crotch. Not a lady-fart, the kind of fart that sets off car alarms in the surrounding street.

Tragically, it went no further. Once I've had my pubic hair blown dry and parted down the middle by Ladyfarts even Jesus couldn't have rustled me up a miracle hard-on!"

, you got a way with words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once, at a party, had a lovely young blonde lady straddle me, thin, young and with breasts that would make the Pope sit up and pay attention.

She looked at me and said 'Im horny and I want to fuck'.

Sadly, she was off her face - she proceeded to belch in my face and then fart on my crotch. Not a lady-fart, the kind of fart that sets off car alarms in the surrounding street.

Tragically, it went no further. Once I've had my pubic hair blown dry and parted down the middle by Ladyfarts even Jesus couldn't have rustled me up a miracle hard-on!

, you got a way with words

Well, I always like to think of myself as a cunning linguist!

Badum-Tish!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Once, at a party, had a lovely young blonde lady straddle me, thin, young and with breasts that would make the Pope sit up and pay attention.

She looked at me and said 'Im horny and I want to fuck'.

Sadly, she was off her face - she proceeded to belch in my face and then fart on my crotch. Not a lady-fart, the kind of fart that sets off car alarms in the surrounding street.

Tragically, it went no further. Once I've had my pubic hair blown dry and parted down the middle by Ladyfarts even Jesus couldn't have rustled me up a miracle hard-on!

, you got a way with words

Hasn't he just! I've been giggling at his posts all day.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

"Good for you.

That meet could have all too easily led to accusations of indecent assault or even worse - rape. "

This..

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Defintootly gotta get a shag somehow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turned up for a meet last night and the Lady was very d*unk ! I'm not interested in meeting people who are d*unk so made my excuses and left.

I received some nasty verbals as I was leaving which was unexpected.

Has anyone else experienced similar ?"

You did the right thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never met a d*unk person but i did meet a guy once for a drink and he drank that much he was pisses by the time we left, i didnt play with him and i told him why, i did meet him again and he didnt get d*unk and we did play, i would never play with a d*unk person

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York

In my experience, there are loads of people who are pissed out their heads especially at clubs, and to be honest it is normally the women! I never drink when we have a swinging meet, I like to be in control and know what s going on and keep my wife safe.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The clips of d*unk people being shown on Graham Norton right now just show why it's not a good idea.

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By *tu and ChezCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

when we first started swinging i would have a few drinks for dutch courage so to speak, I've now found the whole experience is so much better without the drink! i do like one or two still but no more than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word no as I had an ex partner that was more d*unk than sober and was abusive when d*unk. I am not a drinker so turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the flip side we have attended and hosted a few house parties that we all got rather merry together and shagged each others brains out, no issues, no grief, no strife .......;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a word no as I had an ex partner that was more d*unk than sober and was abusive when d*unk. I am not a drinker so turn off for me. "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us drink and we would not expect anyone we met to be d*unk. We simply would do the same as you OP.

I have however seen many people d*unk at clubs and there's no need for it. Alcohol loosens inhibitions but if people have too much it can lead to aggression, a problem understanding the word no, and maybe not being so rigid with safe sex.

Even if its a social held at a swinging club, I think alcohol should be limited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely drink (last drink being my bday in October)

Having a drink during a meet fair enough but to the point of having no self control, sorry but I'd rather not thanks.

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By *ite manMan
over a year ago

Manchester

was it in oldham. lol two now for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few d*unken one night stands, most were great. One was terrible... Fell asleep!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never d*unk on a meet though do have social drink sometimes. I have however been absolutely paraletic at a fab social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never d*unk on a meet though do have social drink sometimes. I have however been absolutely paraletic at a fab social!"

Was the social held at a swinging club and why did you get this d*unk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was married to an alcoholic, so would just walk away"

I was with one for 8 yrs . Total car crash. Took me yrs to walk away but I did in the end

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

i wouldn't a) it'll be crap sex, b) my safety

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never turned up to a meet d*unk, but have had plenty of meets in pubs some of which have been just a couple, others pretty messy. To a degree it's about what is appropriate, if we've chatted with the other couple and they clearly also enjoy a drink what does it matter? If they don't drink then respect that and don't drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never turned up to a meet d*unk, but have had plenty of meets in pubs some of which have been just a couple, others pretty messy. To a degree it's about what is appropriate, if we've chatted with the other couple and they clearly also enjoy a drink what does it matter? If they don't drink then respect that and don't drink.

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