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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

He’s a good sort, always there for a chat and a pint.

The value of friends is immeasurable I’d much rather be somebody’s friend than shag them.

But can you combine the two.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"He’s a good sort, always there for a chat and a pint.

The value of friends is immeasurable I’d much rather be somebody’s friend than shag them.

But can you combine the two. "

I feel you can but its not for everyone. As long as theres good communication and boundaries then why cant it

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Perhaps at weekends after a drink or two. I wouldn't know but so I hear

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"He’s a good sort, always there for a chat and a pint.

The value of friends is immeasurable I’d much rather be somebody’s friend than shag them.

But can you combine the two. "

I should say this is talking about just male mates getting at it but friends in general.

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By *ullyMan
over a year ago

Near Clacton

A friend with benefits, yes. I had a lovely 23 year relationship with a guy, ( alas killed in a R T A ) we were good friends helping each other out and always being a reliable shoulder, but when the urge came upon us we had really good sex, full on. I miss him, but do realise the likelihood of a new F W B is

is scarce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve stopped shagging mates. Gets awkward.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sure it's possible long as both understand it's not leading anywhere else. It's just that type of chemistry some people have whereas you have feeling for them but not in a way for a relationship but happy to enjoy everything else like it was with no attachment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He’s a good sort, always there for a chat and a pint.

The value of friends is immeasurable I’d much rather be somebody’s friend than shag them.

But can you combine the two. "

No

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You can combine the two. My best friend is Mr N

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"You can combine the two. My best friend is Mr N"

That’s brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God damm thought this was going to be one off these me and my mate are sat here horny threads

Was about to say on way the two off you can spit roast me and take turns each all night then pap me in a taxi once’s finshed useing me

Ha ha yes I am back

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You can combine the two. My best friend is Mr N

That’s brilliant. "

It's true of most long term relationships I should think of an I being ridiculously optimistic not to say naive?

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"God damm thought this was going to be one off these me and my mate are sat here horny threads

Was about to say on way the two off you can spit roast me and take turns each all night then pap me in a taxi once’s finshed useing me

Ha ha yes I am back "

I think we can do that though.

Welcome back x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You can combine the two. My best friend is Mr N

That’s brilliant.

It's true of most long term relationships I should think of an I being ridiculously optimistic not to say naive?"

Most happy long term relationships

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"He’s a good sort, always there for a chat and a pint.

The value of friends is immeasurable I’d much rather be somebody’s friend than shag them.

But can you combine the two. "

Absolutely yes imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God damm thought this was going to be one off these me and my mate are sat here horny threads

Was about to say on way the two off you can spit roast me and take turns each all night then pap me in a taxi once’s finshed useing me

Ha ha yes I am back

I think we can do that though.

Welcome back x"

Perfect deal and thanks x

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"He’s a good sort, always there for a chat and a pint.

The value of friends is immeasurable I’d much rather be somebody’s friend than shag them.

But can you combine the two.

Absolutely yes imo "

Fancy a shag?

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"God damm thought this was going to be one off these me and my mate are sat here horny threads

Was about to say on way the two off you can spit roast me and take turns each all night then pap me in a taxi once’s finshed useing me

Ha ha yes I am back

I think we can do that though.

Welcome back x

Perfect deal and thanks x"

Don't you need to ask who the mate is first Natalie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best friends who cant keep their hands off each other is the dream combination

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath


"I’ve stopped shagging mates. Gets awkward. "

This...

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Yes I only have sex with friends or more intimate relationships.

Sex can change things but good communication can usually deal with that.

Even so, I have a couple of friendships I value that much: I wouldn't risk ruining them.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary


"You can combine the two. My best friend is Mr N

That’s brilliant.

It's true of most long term relationships I should think of an I being ridiculously optimistic not to say naive?"

Nope absolutely not , P is also my best friend

Em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God damm thought this was going to be one off these me and my mate are sat here horny threads

Was about to say on way the two off you can spit roast me and take turns each all night then pap me in a taxi once’s finshed useing me

Ha ha yes I am back

I think we can do that though.

Welcome back x

Perfect deal and thanks x

Don't you need to ask who the mate is first Natalie "

Maybe maybe not but it is just mindless fun after all

So not really matter they use me I use them win win

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

No

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"He’s a good sort, always there for a chat and a pint.

The value of friends is immeasurable I’d much rather be somebody’s friend than shag them.

But can you combine the two.

Absolutely yes imo

Fancy a shag? "

As its you

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think there's a difference between couples that are in a romantic relationship and who are best friends and other friends who end up having sex.

I think it is possible to introduce sex to the friends dynamic, but as already been said, clear communication is needed. The risk is that one party develops romantic feelings and if communication is not clear they could get hurt.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"You can combine the two. My best friend is Mr N"

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Awww.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

With a rare few yes. Too many times they are a good friend up front, but an absolute cock behind closed doors

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