FabSwingers.com forum: Voyeur or Exhibitionist?

By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Do you enjoy watching? Peeping? Viewing?

Or do you like to show off? Tease your audience? Show them what they're missing?

I'm an exhibitionist

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Neither really. Which is why clubs probably aren’t for me.

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Neither really. Which is why clubs probably aren’t for me. "

Fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exhibitionist love knowing people are watching

It’s even particularly better when ever the show is over you invite one off the addince to come join to start a new show

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By *allum29Man
over a year ago

Banbury

I quite enjoy putting on a show

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

Depending on my mood I'm either

Watching can kick-start my exhibitionist too

Cherry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer watching, then being watched with a good ending

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By *xxpineapplexxXCouple
over a year ago

Dorking

I'd say we both like to watch and be watched!

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By *ittle John LittleMan
over a year ago

Sunny Sunderland

"Do you enjoy watching? Peeping? Viewing?

Or do you like to show off? Tease your audience? Show them what they're missing?

I'm an exhibitionist

Really enjoy watching, but starting to enjoy been watched, but love risqué public/outdoor fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure to be honest. Watching does get me in the mood but it seems wasted if I have no one to be with. Being watched is fine when in the moment as I don't really pay attention but you can quickly feel a bit nervous and overthink.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Exhibitionist

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By *abonTedCouple
over a year ago

Midlands & Cheltenham

He likes to watch and she likes to be watched

We’re so well matched…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither really. Watching doesn’t do anything for me and being watched just feels a bit awkward, like I can’t fully relax and enjoy myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi Voyeur here love watching men and women

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I definitely like watching as long as someone is comfortable being watched. Exhibitionism-wise, I hate being the only show in town, I'm too self-conscious. But as part of a larger group scene I can get into it. Being watched by other people who are also actively participating is hot. Goldfish in a bowl, not so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One on one definitely a watcher, reactions are possibly my biggest kink. However, with the right encouragement and responses- being a bit of an exhibitionist is quite possible.

Have to be honest though when visiting clubs in the past I genuinely didn't know where to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I definitely like watching as long as someone is comfortable being watched. Exhibitionism-wise, I hate being the only show in town, I'm too self-conscious. But as part of a larger group scene I can get into it. Being watched by other people who are also actively participating is hot. Goldfish in a bowl, not so much.

This. I visited Chams years ago with a friend. I liked the fact in one of the rooms you could be watched but, you couldn't see who was watching. There was something quite hot about that

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I enjoy watching men wank, using sex toys and the like so I’d say I’m more of a Voyuer.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I'm a shocking exhibitionist.

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

Exhibitionist.. show what you got I say..

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By *allum29Man
over a year ago

Banbury

"I'm a shocking exhibitionist.

What makes you shocking?

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Love putting show on very exciting experience xx

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

I have quite an exhibitionist streak, but that’s on my terms. I like to show what I want and when I choose. Not coz someone asks.

But equally I like to watch. Again my terms are, watching. Not making someone cum. Watching someone cum who is ready to cum. Not endless wanking. I guess it’s akin to those who watch volcanos exploding on YouTube. Don’t sit and watching it rumbling dribbling it’s precum lava for days on end. It’s the explosive shot interests me.

As a side note fyi: if you send them to my inbox uninvited, I don’t watch them.

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By *reyeyesesMan
over a year ago

leics

We can be both right? I really, really enjoy being watched and also watching? It feels like the two shouldn't go together but both really float my boat! I especially love being photographed and filmed for the hubbsy pleasure.

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By *reyeyesesMan
over a year ago

leics

"I have quite an exhibitionist streak, but that’s on my terms. I like to show what I want and when I choose. Not coz someone asks.

As a side note fyi: if you send them to my inbox uninvited, I don’t watch them. "

Haha phew it seems I'm not alone, and it's not that rare

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Bit of both tbf

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
over a year ago

Derby

Probably both if I had the opportunity

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By *ove2lickMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Definitely enjoy watching

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Exhibitionist partner's drive me wild.

Just being a random observer is

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"I'm a shocking exhibitionist.

What makes you shocking?"

It's a turn of phrase.

I'm shocking as in, I really do enjoy showing off, lol.

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By *hocolate4uCouple
over a year ago

Burgess Hill

We like to be watched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to watch

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By *i_guy37Man
over a year ago

Oxford

I love both. Ideally watching to start with, followed by a group watching me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I post photos, so some might call that exhibitionist I guess. I don't get off on watching people, I'm just curious if that makes sense. I

I think I would enjoy a partner watching me with other men because of their pleasure. The thought of being paraded naked fills me with dread though.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Exhibitionist at heart but shy and terrified in mind.

So if I'm distracted...

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By *lex4660Man
over a year ago

Thame

Exhibitionist .. I get VERY turned on being watched, the more people the better. Even hornier if I'm the only one naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably more of an exhibitionist but then I do also like to watch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an exhibitionist first and foremost but also enjoy watching, so both.

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Mr voyeur mrs exhibitionist so works out pretty well for us

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I'm quite voyeuristic, so would be happy to watch. To begin with, at least...

Ms isn't an exhibitionist as such, but not a voyeur either. She's just greedy and wants to be in on any action that's going

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

I like being a watching

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By *dventurousSexplorersCouple
over a year ago

Fantasy Land

We’re both… definitely exhibitionists though

nothing like knowing you’re being watched putting on a show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Times can be exhibitionist

Sometimes can be viewer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’re both… definitely exhibitionists though

nothing like knowing you’re being watched putting on a show"

Would love to have a ticket to the show

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By *hoenix_1Man
over a year ago

richmond

Love watching couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exhibitionist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither to be honest

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Guess

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

cumallover

I'm a bit of both but much more of an exhibitionist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Voyeur defo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people think that there is an element of exhibitionism in everyone who posts any kind of 'sexy' picture on here..? I mean if you're happy to get any of your 'bits' out doesn't that qualify you as an exhibitionist?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Both x

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By *ornym66Man
over a year ago

Col /ips

Same here love to fo both

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We’re definitely voyeurs, but are probably even bigger exhibitionists. One of our favourite scenarios is to watch others then become the centre of attention ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like watching, especially of I'm watching my partner with someone then it's super hot and I get to claim him afterwards

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By *arleycplCouple
over a year ago

Leyburn

We love being watches and I love watching Andy as a guy or girl plays eith me

Marie

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

I’m more of a voyeur.

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place

"Do you enjoy watching? Peeping? Viewing?

Or do you like to show off? Tease your audience? Show them what they're missing?

I'm an exhibitionist

Is it ok to be a bit of both?

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Do you enjoy watching? Peeping? Viewing?

Or do you like to show off? Tease your audience? Show them what they're missing?

I'm an exhibitionist

Is it ok to be a bit of both?

Of course

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Realised my first time in a club dungeon I very much enjoy an audience! Plus a bit of audience participation under Mr's watchful eye

Mrs TMN x

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place

"Do you enjoy watching? Peeping? Viewing?

Or do you like to show off? Tease your audience? Show them what they're missing?

I'm an exhibitionist

Is it ok to be a bit of both?

Of course "

Phew.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Exhibitionist, I once walked around 200 metres down a busy street to a fetish club dressed in latex rubber, because the bus in front of my taxi had broken down.

My other half was squirming with embarrassment.....me?, I didn't give a shit who saw me

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By *atchusplay1000Couple
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

A dedicates exhibitionist here.

It's fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute voyeur here, always trying to find people to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people think that there is an element of exhibitionism in everyone who posts any kind of 'sexy' picture on here..? I mean if you're happy to get any of your 'bits' out doesn't that qualify you as an exhibitionist? "

I post "sexy" photos. I feel quite removed from them & don't consider myself an exhibitionist. I like taking photos, I like the validation, it makes me feel better about myself. It means I may attract someone I'd like to spend time with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only thing I enjoy watching is netflix.

And I don't like people even glancing in my direction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't keen on using "sexy" but couldn't think of another word... I think the validation point is really positive and a great way of looking at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't keen on using "sexy" but couldn't think of another word... I think the validation point is really positive and a great way of looking at it. "

I don't know that using photos to validate myself is entirely healthy, but I'm hardly the only one.

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I'm neither, I prefer a more private setting with a bit more intimacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Voyeur. I like to join the wanking train.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

100% exhibitionist with a hint of voyeur sprinkled on top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love playing in the more public areas of Chams or any other club I go to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr is an exhibitionist which is why he is also a photographic model.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't keen on using "sexy" but couldn't think of another word... I think the validation point is really positive and a great way of looking at it.

I don't know that using photos to validate myself is entirely healthy, but I'm hardly the only one.

Hey if it works for you then don't worry

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

I’d say I’m more an exhibitionist but would happily watch too

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