FabSwingers.com forum: Anal confession

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What was your first experience like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hurt like a motherfucker

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hurt like a motherfucker"

Ouch. What won you over?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hurt like hell.

I hated it to begin with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My confession is I recently farted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as with meny people wasn’t good at all

Guy was rough didn’t take it easy put me off it for a little while

tryed again was pretty much the same

Wasn’t till the 3rd guy who took it easy to start with and worked up to the rough stuff and didn’t try to ram it home straight off the bat before I started to injoy

4th guy was back to not injoying again trying to ram it home right from the get go

Lesson learned

Now alway pre prepared before meets ie butt plug in or 5 to minutes with dildo

That way I am all ready pre worked up just incase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hurt like a motherfucker

Ouch. What won you over? "

A more experienced and gentle lover some time later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hurt like a motherfucker"

Same here

But love it now

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

So feckin painful that I didn't try it again for over 25 years

Now I wonder why the hell I wasted all that time

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"So feckin painful that I didn't try it again for over 25 years

Now I wonder why the hell I wasted all that time "

Oh yummy (I had a little twitch then)

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’m still waiting for my first anal experience

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

It hurt for 4 days after. He was very rough. Wasn’t pleasant at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoyed.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"I’m still waiting for my first anal experience

I'm on my way over with my strap on

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Horrendous. It was an unintentional slippery bathtub error!

Mrs TMN x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I’m still waiting for my first anal experience

I'm on my way over with my strap on

my balloon knot is very very tight

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"What was your first experience like? "

In the bum

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

My arse is a virgin and staying that way

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It was wonderful. I was already shaking and weak from the previous couple of hours of sex, totally relaxed, and he was wonderful with his fingers at the same time. So gentle... and fuck me I loved it.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"My arse is a virgin and staying that way "

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"My arse is a virgin and staying that way "

We all have to start somewhere

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

Unbearably painful. Since then a lot of men have said “they didn’t do it right, I know how to do so you will like it” and of course left me bleeding for weeks after. Now I just say no, full stop. Him having a great 10 minutes isn’t worth me having months of broken-glass like pain after

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"Unbearably painful. Since then a lot of men have said “they didn’t do it right, I know how to do so you will like it” and of course left me bleeding for weeks after. Now I just say no, full stop. Him having a great 10 minutes isn’t worth me having months of broken-glass like pain after "

Bet you I can

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

I have had the same on my first experience. It was awful the pain is insane! Completly understandable why you dont anymore

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Bet you I can

Seriously? She said she says no and that's your answer?

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

You barricade that thing up with pieces of wood crookedly nailed across your cheeks!

And maybe a sign saying guard dogs patrol this anus…

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Really painful put me off for years until I was with someone who was gentle.

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By *ooleyMan
over a year ago

preston

Wrote about mine here!

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1358617

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Traumatic

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Transcendent! Had a brilliant night in a hotel with a manager at work I'd fancied for ages. Warmed me up beautifully then had me lying flat on my front while he hooked his ankles round mine and though it was a littke painful at first, I soon relaxed and it took my mind elsewhere!

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By *an NewcastleMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I’m still waiting for my first anal experience

I'm on my way over with my strap on

Brace yourself

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By *he-ProfessorMan
over a year ago

cheltenham

"I’m still waiting for my first anal experience

I'm on my way over with my strap on

I'm more than happy to send you an address, something I'd love to have happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loved every minute of it.Cant beat giving yourself away every now and again

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By *ibi_curiousCouple
over a year ago

Shepperton

Bert loved it after the initial penetration

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It was OK, some pain and some pleasure. I'd planned by starting small. The 3rd guy was massive and it was sheer bliss and got fucked senseless. I think starting too small was short-sighted. I've not looked back since

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Painful physically and emotionally, due to my twat ex

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Bloody sore!

I think it's invariably sore the first time.

We stopped. He was disappointed. I was sore.

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By *ohnny3333Man
over a year ago

fleetwood

Hurt bad

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By *adbunniMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

"I’m still waiting for my first anal experience

I'm on my way over with my strap on

I’d let you fuck with with a strap on

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By *ullyMan
over a year ago

Near Clacton

What was your first experience like?

I was dead lucky, I was y0ung supple and desperately wanting to to get a dick in me, My best friends gay brother obliged, he was about 4 years older than me and experienced, so it was not to painful and what pain there was very soon turned to pleasure. This was in his flat over his shop literally overlooking Eros in Piccadilly London, I was looking out of the window as he worked his way in and I was looking into the eyes of Eros, I swear that bloody statue winked at me. That was my first and only time with him. I later had a fling with a nice guy who liked sex to be more like making love than a rough shag so I was well pleased.

Most important is plenty of lube and add more if if it feels a bit like burning. I prefer water based non perfumed moisturiser as it lasts longer and add a drop of water and it's well slippery.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It hurt like hell.

I hated it to begin with. "

And now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Painful physically and emotionally, due to my twat ex"

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

Maybe I’ll stick to small strapon !! Maybe not !! Hard to decide

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I kept asking him if he'd finished, as all I wanted to do was shit him out

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"I kept asking him if he'd finished, as all I wanted to do was shit him out

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"What was your first experience like? "

Surprising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was horrible. He was rough, didn’t do anything to get me ready so it hurt.

Put me off for ages, until I ditched him and tried with a new person, I love it now

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"It was horrible. He was rough, didn’t do anything to get me ready so it hurt.

Put me off for ages, until I ditched him and tried with a new person, I love it now

Amazing how this seems to be a common theme

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Only done it twice. First time was t girl I used to see with her friend in a threesome. Her friend had a thinner cock and managed to get it in a fuck me for a bit until I had to say stop. Second time was with the other t girl with a much fatter cock and we had tried a few times before and this time got it in. Still a bit uncomfortable and haven’t done it again as haven’t found the right time or been asked again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receiving, not great but thankfully I learnt that it can actually be great and very intense.

Giving, I'm still not entirely sure what I made of it the first time. It's one of those things that in my mind, with the right person could actually be very sensual, erotic and unbelievably sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like being stabbed in the asshole repeatedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hurt. Took me another 25 years to start enjoying it and not feel ashamed for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It hurt. Took me another 25 years to start enjoying it and not feel ashamed for that. "

So happy for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Receiving, not great but thankfully I learnt that it can actually be great and very intense.

Giving, I'm still not entirely sure what I made of it the first time. It's one of those things that in my mind, with the right person could actually be very sensual, erotic and unbelievably sexy.

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Bet you I can

Stupid comment of the day winner. Horrific answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially, definitely painful and put me off for a while. But then several years later tried with a different person and had a much more enjoyable experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tight and enjoyable

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Judging by all the comments it seems like a pain in the ass...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Initially, definitely painful and put me off for a while. But then several years later tried with a different person and had a much more enjoyable experience

Vaginal or anal sex?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I enjoyed it, I tend to ask people before any sex happens if the rear entrance is open for entry or not.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Giving - was fine, nothing special.

Taking - It was mostly uncomfortable and surprisingly tiring

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

If she enjoys it, then it can be hot.

First time was great, a gf at uni said she wanted to try it and it just kind of naturally emerged one night. She was a happy bunny and so was I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hurt. Tried it several times. Not for me. Won’t do it again.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I enjoyed it, I tend to ask people before any sex happens if the rear entrance is open for entry or not. "

Please tell me that's actually what you say...

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"My confession is I recently farted"

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I enjoyed it, I tend to ask people before any sex happens if the rear entrance is open for entry or not.

Please tell me that's actually what you say..."

I usually ask if they're no holes barred, I'm not joking either

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I enjoyed it, I tend to ask people before any sex happens if the rear entrance is open for entry or not.

Please tell me that's actually what you say...

I usually ask if they're no holes barred, I'm not joking either

You're my favourite

(This status is subject to change when I remember you won't do me anyway

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I enjoyed it, I tend to ask people before any sex happens if the rear entrance is open for entry or not.

Please tell me that's actually what you say...

I usually ask if they're no holes barred, I'm not joking either

You're my favourite

(This status is subject to change when I remember you won't do me anyway

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It's good to know before

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By *omersetsmithyMan
over a year ago

Horfield

My only 2 times were good . I explained I was tight so play with my arse and used my toys . And a enjoyable time I had

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

I don't really remember much, it was a long time ago before I'd had vaginal sex! We took our time and did it a few times so can't have been too bad!

Lots and lots of lube and being in full control to start with is how I like it, it's only the faffing about with preparation that prevents us from doing it more!

Cherry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know iv never had the opportunity but it always been a fantasy.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

There was shit on my nob. I didn’t like it

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

It was really painless actually as he wasn’t very well endowed and I mean he was below average. It was enough to start my love for it

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By *aura987Couple
over a year ago

Brampton

"What was your first experience like? "

Really enjoyable once I relaxed enough for Andy to get balls deep

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

Extremely painful and left me bleeding,put me right off for a while. It got easier each time though.The orgasms are intense

Em x

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I know I made light of this up above with a jokey answer, but in reality I was very lucky. The first time I tried anal (giving, before you ask) was really gentle, really easy, and really enjoyable for both of us, despite being completely unplanned. We enjoyed it enough to do it again. And again. And again. The girl was a writer and there’s a beautiful blog post out there somewhere immortalising that first night.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

My first time was completely unplanned, totally unprepared and we didn't have lube...

I was young (legal age of consent I'm sure) and he was some years older than me, I'm not sure if it was a genuine 'whoops I didn't mean to do that' or not... But I bloody loved it...

I'm a little bit of an anal slut and I think it was always going to be on the cards cause it turns out my butt is greedy, I very rarely, if ever need lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bet you I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guy promised me a grand time , was crap , I suppose he enjoyed himself which was seemingly his sole intention .

Since then I've had 1/2 pleasurable encounters that included anal (discussed beforehand)

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Not great.

He'd gone on about how he couldn't believe I'd never had it, because I was over 40, and he sounded experienced.

In truth, he didn't know what he was doing and stopped after he went in a couple of inches.

He didn't try to warm me up beforehand either.

We never tried it again.

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By *allum29Man
over a year ago

Banbury

I've never had any pleasure from playing with my ass

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By *oublethefun78Couple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Male here. My 1st time was an extreme experience as 1st guy it was tight and hurt but after 2nd guy I was relaxed and bloody loved it and once all finished I was totally ruined and but totally hooked. Partner loves using our big strapon on me when we can and actively looking for multi men to fuck me as she watches

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"What was your first experience like? "

Absolutely brilliant, but I had a great teacher.

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

cumallover

The first time I received anal I was being pegged. Once it slipped in I enjoyed it, luckily the dildo wasn't too girthy. I came very quickly. The first time with a guy was the following morning and it was her boyfriend who fucked me. Again, his dick wasn't overly girthy so it slid in nicely.

The next time wasn't so pleasant, the guy was very girthy and it hurt. Over 20 years later and I still struggle with a girthy cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried it recently with a FWB for both of our first times, she cums much harder this way than with regular sex.

Does anyone else find this?

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By *allum29Man
over a year ago

Banbury

"Tried it recently with a FWB for both of our first times, she cums much harder this way than with regular sex.

Does anyone else find this?"

Yes an ex used to be the same

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By *he-ProfessorMan
over a year ago

cheltenham

I must admit that I really love giving anal and the few ladies I have had the pleasure to give anal to have cum extremely hard, one said it was the best orgasm of her life.

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By *unCycleGymRepeatMan
over a year ago

Greater London

First time was awesome for both of us. It was done as a surprise from her.

Walked into the house and she was wearing a bath robe and took me upstairs. Started kissing and before too long pushed the robe off her shoulders to the floor.

She climbed on to the bed on all fours and once I had undressed managed to have normal sex with her until I finished.

After this she pulled me out and pushed me into her ass which was difficult to get into but very slowly started going in. We both managed to relax into it and ended up finishing in her ass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time receiving was being pegged and it was great actually. With my partner at the time, lots of foreplay and build up. Then I was restrained, lubed and fucked. I enjoyed it that much that I ended up being a bit of a power bottom and asking for it harder and deeper as we continued on. Just thinking back to it gets me hard and throbbing

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

I was ready for something I'd wanted for a long time. It was really a nice feeling, satisfying somebody who'd really been wanting to fuck me. Left me reeling, wanting more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not great.

He'd gone on about how he couldn't believe I'd never had it, because I was over 40, and he sounded experienced.

In truth, he didn't know what he was doing and stopped after he went in a couple of inches.

He didn't try to warm me up beforehand either.

We never tried it again. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I enjoyed it, I tend to ask people before any sex happens if the rear entrance is open for entry or not.

Please tell me that's actually what you say..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The strap on was neither good nor bad really just different. The last time I did it was A woman's fist which is still quite a large item to accommodate, so my eyes watered a little and performing daily ablutions the next day or so wasn't the most comfortable experience ever.

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

mine was amazing he really was gentle and we took our time, bonus is I now have amazing anal orgasms and love the feeling of being full as much as possible xx

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

My first time was with a very experienced patient older well hung married guy with original popr's. Loved it and the orgasms from it ever since, although being pegged by a busty female with her hard nipples burrowing into my back is a very special feeling indeed. Mx

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

Was to be honest amazing..my partner blindfolded me and tied me..i was scared as hell but all i cud say it was it us amazing..bow just scared as her bough huge ones.

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By *he-ProfessorMan
over a year ago

cheltenham

Would love to be pegged I have to say

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