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By *inkyropecouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

carluke

Are there many Shibari fans on here?

it’s something we really enjoy and like to photograph to share with others, not really come across many profiles where there’s a strong Shibari vibe though

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

It looks amazing, would love to experience it but really difficult to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge fan as a bunny

No opportunity for a long time though.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

*waves*

There are a few string flingers on here, not all into shibari, other forms of ropework are as valid

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By *inkyropecouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

carluke


"*waves*

There are a few string flingers on here, not all into shibari, other forms of ropework are as valid "

*waves back*

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By *inkyropecouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

carluke


"Huge fan as a bunny

No opportunity for a long time though. "

That’s a shame - you’ll need to get back on the ropes

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By *es_salopesCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Love a bit of shibari.

Not particularly skilled in it, really need to practice it more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Huge fan as a bunny

No opportunity for a long time though.

That’s a shame - you’ll need to get back on the ropes "

It's a matter of finding someone I connect with who is also keen

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I would love to be tied properly by someone experienced

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

In kink everyone can self identify their activity.

However, sorry to be part of the Shibari police, but if you mean the Japanese erotic sadomasochistic rope practice, then, yes, I love it.

If you mean either tying pretty patterns with rope on a person, or so called "Western Rope" then no.

I have very few decent rope pictures on Fab for three reasons.

Firstly, stopping and taking pictures mid-scene breaks the connection. For me shibari is all about connection. Only occaisionally has it been right to stop and take a picture. There is one nice connected picture on my profile taken by a third party.

Secondly, I don't do rope just for a picture, although I have done rope for friends who want pictures in rope.

Third, as a single man you have to be in the picture. The last few pictures I posted were rejected by Fab because there was not enough of me in the picture. Rope pictures should (in my view) be about the model not the rigger.

I do have some pictures from kink/rope scenes on my FL profile.

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By *inkyropecouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

carluke


"Huge fan as a bunny

No opportunity for a long time though.

That’s a shame - you’ll need to get back on the ropes

It's a matter of finding someone I connect with who is also keen"

Very true, a connection and trust is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most fans are tied up at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just going to slide in here for F to join in later

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"I would love to be tied properly by someone experienced "

Have to agree there connection and an experienced person is definitely a must

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Are there many Shibari fans on here?

it’s something we really enjoy and like to photograph to share with others, not really come across many profiles where there’s a strong Shibari vibe though "

I love to throw some rope and knots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to be tied properly by someone experienced "

It's wonderful- I hope you get the chance, Cede.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Wouldn't be for me if im honest...but I can watch.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Something I’d love to explore when the right opportunity arises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but there are much better places for rope than here

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MOROCCO Wherever I lay my hat

It's beautiful and very erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but there are much better places for rope than here "

Love the photos on FL. But as said above, sometimes I feel that it's more about "pretty" than connection. I have a few photos, but I think you need to be a certain body type to look good. I just want the connection, the feelings, the sensual slide of it. The after effects.

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

We adore it, we used to run a rope event in Yorkshire until covid hit. Have lost connection a little with rope but that's mainly due to time and life getting in the way, but love to get back in to it and maybe restart our peer event.

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By *inkyropecouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

carluke


"In kink everyone can self identify their activity.

However, sorry to be part of the Shibari police, but if you mean the Japanese erotic sadomasochistic rope practice, then, yes, I love it.

If you mean either tying pretty patterns with rope on a person, or so called "Western Rope" then no.

I have very few decent rope pictures on Fab for three reasons.

Firstly, stopping and taking pictures mid-scene breaks the connection. For me shibari is all about connection. Only occaisionally has it been right to stop and take a picture. There is one nice connected picture on my profile taken by a third party.

Secondly, I don't do rope just for a picture, although I have done rope for friends who want pictures in rope.

Third, as a single man you have to be in the picture. The last few pictures I posted were rejected by Fab because there was not enough of me in the picture. Rope pictures should (in my view) be about the model not the rigger.

I do have some pictures from kink/rope scenes on my FL profile.

"

Interesting take on it. As you say everyone can self identify their own activity. For us taking photos is a big part of it, it doesn’t break the connection and actually adds to the connection for us as we both really love the aesthetics as well as the process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In kink everyone can self identify their activity.

However, sorry to be part of the Shibari police, but if you mean the Japanese erotic sadomasochistic rope practice, then, yes, I love it.

If you mean either tying pretty patterns with rope on a person, or so called "Western Rope" then no.

I have very few decent rope pictures on Fab for three reasons.

Firstly, stopping and taking pictures mid-scene breaks the connection. For me shibari is all about connection. Only occaisionally has it been right to stop and take a picture. There is one nice connected picture on my profile taken by a third party.

Secondly, I don't do rope just for a picture, although I have done rope for friends who want pictures in rope.

Third, as a single man you have to be in the picture. The last few pictures I posted were rejected by Fab because there was not enough of me in the picture. Rope pictures should (in my view) be about the model not the rigger.

I do have some pictures from kink/rope scenes on my FL profile.

Interesting take on it. As you say everyone can self identify their own activity. For us taking photos is a big part of it, it doesn’t break the connection and actually adds to the connection for us as we both really love the aesthetics as well as the process"

Do you think as a couple it's a different dynamic than a single person with a play partner?

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By *inkyropecouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

carluke


"In kink everyone can self identify their activity.

However, sorry to be part of the Shibari police, but if you mean the Japanese erotic sadomasochistic rope practice, then, yes, I love it.

If you mean either tying pretty patterns with rope on a person, or so called "Western Rope" then no.

I have very few decent rope pictures on Fab for three reasons.

Firstly, stopping and taking pictures mid-scene breaks the connection. For me shibari is all about connection. Only occaisionally has it been right to stop and take a picture. There is one nice connected picture on my profile taken by a third party.

Secondly, I don't do rope just for a picture, although I have done rope for friends who want pictures in rope.

Third, as a single man you have to be in the picture. The last few pictures I posted were rejected by Fab because there was not enough of me in the picture. Rope pictures should (in my view) be about the model not the rigger.

I do have some pictures from kink/rope scenes on my FL profile.

Interesting take on it. As you say everyone can self identify their own activity. For us taking photos is a big part of it, it doesn’t break the connection and actually adds to the connection for us as we both really love the aesthetics as well as the process

Do you think as a couple it's a different dynamic than a single person with a play partner? "

I would have to say yes, the connection is there before and after any playtime. Also on the comment about body shape - I would say that comes down to how the ropes are used

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"I would love to be tied properly by someone experienced

It's wonderful- I hope you get the chance, Cede. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but there are much better places for rope than here

Love the photos on FL. But as said above, sometimes I feel that it's more about "pretty" than connection. I have a few photos, but I think you need to be a certain body type to look good. I just want the connection, the feelings, the sensual slide of it. The after effects. "

I was talking about the new place

I go to rope jams in the area and have several rope friends.

For me rope is heavily trust based so I don’t play from here as nothing, for me, had ever been more than short term play. I need that deep trust and connection for suspension and extensive rope play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but there are much better places for rope than here

Love the photos on FL. But as said above, sometimes I feel that it's more about "pretty" than connection. I have a few photos, but I think you need to be a certain body type to look good. I just want the connection, the feelings, the sensual slide of it. The after effects.

I was talking about the new place

I go to rope jams in the area and have several rope friends.

For me rope is heavily trust based so I don’t play from here as nothing, for me, had ever been more than short term play. I need that deep trust and connection for suspension and extensive rope play."

Ooh - give me a hint?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but there are much better places for rope than here

Love the photos on FL. But as said above, sometimes I feel that it's more about "pretty" than connection. I have a few photos, but I think you need to be a certain body type to look good. I just want the connection, the feelings, the sensual slide of it. The after effects.

I was talking about the new place

I go to rope jams in the area and have several rope friends.

For me rope is heavily trust based so I don’t play from here as nothing, for me, had ever been more than short term play. I need that deep trust and connection for suspension and extensive rope play.

Ooh - give me a hint? "

Oh hell no, I Submit, to the powers that be on here, I’m a .GG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me

Still pretty new, been to a few rope jams and practise regularly with my partner still learning new stuff all the time.

Hoping to find a more regular class/jam near me x

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"Yes but there are much better places for rope than here

Love the photos on FL. But as said above, sometimes I feel that it's more about "pretty" than connection. I have a few photos, but I think you need to be a certain body type to look good. I just want the connection, the feelings, the sensual slide of it. The after effects.

I was talking about the new place

I go to rope jams in the area and have several rope friends.

For me rope is heavily trust based so I don’t play from here as nothing, for me, had ever been more than short term play. I need that deep trust and connection for suspension and extensive rope play."

The new place?

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"In kink everyone can self identify their activity.

However, sorry to be part of the Shibari police, but if you mean the Japanese erotic sadomasochistic rope practice, then, yes, I love it.

If you mean either tying pretty patterns with rope on a person, or so called "Western Rope" then no.

I have very few decent rope pictures on Fab for three reasons.

Firstly, stopping and taking pictures mid-scene breaks the connection. For me shibari is all about connection. Only occaisionally has it been right to stop and take a picture. There is one nice connected picture on my profile taken by a third party.

Secondly, I don't do rope just for a picture, although I have done rope for friends who want pictures in rope.

Third, as a single man you have to be in the picture. The last few pictures I posted were rejected by Fab because there was not enough of me in the picture. Rope pictures should (in my view) be about the model not the rigger.

I do have some pictures from kink/rope scenes on my FL profile.

Interesting take on it. As you say everyone can self identify their own activity. For us taking photos is a big part of it, it doesn’t break the connection and actually adds to the connection for us as we both really love the aesthetics as well as the process

Do you think as a couple it's a different dynamic than a single person with a play partner? "

When I explain it to someone who's never experienced it, I describe as, "bring like that celebrity dance show on TV where everyone ends up getting it on with their dance partner.

It's incredibly erotic with a partner.

If you look on FL, you'll find regular workshops nationwide.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"In kink everyone can self identify their activity.

However, sorry to be part of the Shibari police, but if you mean the Japanese erotic sadomasochistic rope practice, then, yes, I love it.

If you mean either tying pretty patterns with rope on a person, or so called "Western Rope" then no.

I have very few decent rope pictures on Fab for three reasons.

Firstly, stopping and taking pictures mid-scene breaks the connection. For me shibari is all about connection. Only occaisionally has it been right to stop and take a picture. There is one nice connected picture on my profile taken by a third party.

Secondly, I don't do rope just for a picture, although I have done rope for friends who want pictures in rope.

Third, as a single man you have to be in the picture. The last few pictures I posted were rejected by Fab because there was not enough of me in the picture. Rope pictures should (in my view) be about the model not the rigger.

I do have some pictures from kink/rope scenes on my FL profile.

Interesting take on it. As you say everyone can self identify their own activity. For us taking photos is a big part of it, it doesn’t break the connection and actually adds to the connection for us as we both really love the aesthetics as well as the process

Do you think as a couple it's a different dynamic than a single person with a play partner? "

For us it isn't. When we're doing anything moderately kinky, we are completely focused on the scene in front of us. Photos or anything else is not on the agenda. For us that is our time and we shut the door to the world outside. Which is why there aren't any kinky photos on our profile, only ones that hint and imply it.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"For us it isn't. When we're doing anything moderately kinky, we are completely focused on the scene in front of us. Photos or anything else is not on the agenda. For us that is our time and we shut the door to the world outside. Which is why there aren't any kinky photos on our profile, only ones that hint and imply it. "

This is our problem. We are talking about building a kinky four poster bed with a million cameras in it so we can focus on the fun and hope we get some good personal porn in the mean time

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

My rope work is more practical then pretty. It comes from martial arts and restraint training as opposed to Shibari artistry.

I know it’s each to their own kink but I just don’t get it - why spend literally hours making beautiful patterned rope work? Are you trying to attain some kind of sexual release by doing it or having it done? I would find it a lot more pleasurable watching a lady do her hair and make up and dress in lingerie.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"My rope work is more practical then pretty. It comes from martial arts and restraint training as opposed to Shibari artistry.

I know it’s each to their own kink but I just don’t get it - why spend literally hours making beautiful patterned rope work? Are you trying to attain some kind of sexual release by doing it or having it done? I would find it a lot more pleasurable watching a lady do her hair and make up and dress in lingerie. "

For me it looks nice and why not look nice

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I love seeing people's photos it's something I want to give a try myself one day, just need to find the time to practice.

Mrs

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"For us it isn't. When we're doing anything moderately kinky, we are completely focused on the scene in front of us. Photos or anything else is not on the agenda. For us that is our time and we shut the door to the world outside. Which is why there aren't any kinky photos on our profile, only ones that hint and imply it.

This is our problem. We are talking about building a kinky four poster bed with a million cameras in it so we can focus on the fun and hope we get some good personal porn in the mean time "

I like your thinking

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I love seeing people's photos it's something I want to give a try myself one day, just need to find the time to practice.

Mrs "

There's some amazing groups in Leeds teaching! Will show you the right tensions, where to lay rope on the body to avoid doing any damage, to avoid nerve clusters etc. If your on FL, they are all on there.

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By *lltheboostCouple
over a year ago

Shefford

We love rope bondage although shibari isn’t really the style he likes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but there are much better places for rope than here

Love the photos on FL. But as said above, sometimes I feel that it's more about "pretty" than connection. I have a few photos, but I think you need to be a certain body type to look good. I just want the connection, the feelings, the sensual slide of it. The after effects.

I was talking about the new place

I go to rope jams in the area and have several rope friends.

For me rope is heavily trust based so I don’t play from here as nothing, for me, had ever been more than short term play. I need that deep trust and connection for suspension and extensive rope play.

Ooh - give me a hint?

Oh hell no, I Submit, to the powers that be on here, I’m a .GG"

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I love seeing people's photos it's something I want to give a try myself one day, just need to find the time to practice.

Mrs

There's some amazing groups in Leeds teaching! Will show you the right tensions, where to lay rope on the body to avoid doing any damage, to avoid nerve clusters etc. If your on FL, they are all on there. "

Ah we deleted FL after a few issues with members not taking a no thank you very well, it's not somewhere I'll be joining again in a hurry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but there are much better places for rope than here

Love the photos on FL. But as said above, sometimes I feel that it's more about "pretty" than connection. I have a few photos, but I think you need to be a certain body type to look good. I just want the connection, the feelings, the sensual slide of it. The after effects.

I was talking about the new place

I go to rope jams in the area and have several rope friends.

For me rope is heavily trust based so I don’t play from here as nothing, for me, had ever been more than short term play. I need that deep trust and connection for suspension and extensive rope play.

The new place?"

I wanna know too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love seeing people's photos it's something I want to give a try myself one day, just need to find the time to practice.

Mrs

There's some amazing groups in Leeds teaching! Will show you the right tensions, where to lay rope on the body to avoid doing any damage, to avoid nerve clusters etc. If your on FL, they are all on there.

Ah we deleted FL after a few issues with members not taking a no thank you very well, it's not somewhere I'll be joining again in a hurry x"

I don't know when you were on there, but the privacy settings are MUCH improved these days. Can choose that only friends can message or people have to request and you can reject without even chatting with them. If that helps.

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I love seeing people's photos it's something I want to give a try myself one day, just need to find the time to practice.

Mrs

There's some amazing groups in Leeds teaching! Will show you the right tensions, where to lay rope on the body to avoid doing any damage, to avoid nerve clusters etc. If your on FL, they are all on there.

Ah we deleted FL after a few issues with members not taking a no thank you very well, it's not somewhere I'll be joining again in a hurry x"

We have had similar issues in the past so can get that! How about setting up a blank profile? At least you can still use the event calendar then

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"My rope work is more practical then pretty. It comes from martial arts and restraint training as opposed to Shibari artistry.

I know it’s each to their own kink but I just don’t get it - why spend literally hours making beautiful patterned rope work? Are you trying to attain some kind of sexual release by doing it or having it done? I would find it a lot more pleasurable watching a lady do her hair and make up and dress in lingerie. "

To me this is part of the fundamental misunderstanding. If we talk about Shibari as the erotic sadomasochistic practice, then for me it is like any other kink. The pleasure is in doing something to someone with consent that enjoys it. It is not for everyone, but some people love the applying of restraint and the untying and the connection in that process. Shibari starts before the first rope goes on and finishes after the last rope comes off. It is about the process not the destination. It involves (like any kink) helping the person to release a particular desire in a safe and consensual away. I do one rope tying, job done in 10 minutes. I can do multi-rope tying and I give a minimum of 2 hours as when done right the time flies. I agree if it is done just to take a picture I would find it painful, and so that is not my style.

These days the word "Shibari" is applied to all kinds of practices. Tantric Shibari, Mindful Shibari, Performance Shibari. The central part is doing something to someone with rope. Whereas "Western Bondage: and "Damsel in Distress" bondage is either about restraint, or restraint whilst an implement is used, or to look pretty.

Pretty rope is not my thing, but I have seen it applied well and it can create an effect on the model being in rope and looking good.

But at the end of the day a clear discussion about the style of rope to occur is required and consent on both sides. But you either get it or you don't.

I would add in regard to another comment, the UK rope community is trying to attract all shapes and all genders and preferences. All Peer Rope events should be open and inclusive,most are. Sex does not occur at them they teach the basics and are a space to learn, explore and apply rope. There has been a huge increase in women tying. All shapes are capable of tying and being tied and looking good in rope.

Seriously it is not difficult unless you want to do the flash stuff and be really good. Also bedroom bondage is fairly straightforward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's my comment about body size you picked up on. I don't care about "looking good in rope" because it's not why it interests me. I don't care for photos being taken of me either.

I don't find my flesh bulging out of rope attractive. I don't see why anyone would want to see that publicly or in a photo. But that's my own insecurity, not trying to bodyshame anyone else. I think the way rope is mostly shown on a site like FL flatters slimmer bodies in the same way that some fashion is made that way. A lot of nymph styling/poses etc. That's changing and of course what I see is very biased as it depends who you follow. And I don't currently attend peer rope or anything similar although I see photos from events regularly. But I own my bias.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"[Removed by poster at 03/05/23 15:20:43]"
My last comment for the day. I agree with you there is a bias of showing standard model figures naked in rope. That is why I don’t go on K&P on FL. In my book most unbiased riggers tie all shapes and genders. It is a frequent complaint from women riggers there are not enough pictures of men in rope.

I have a load of pictures and videos of curvy Japanese women tied and being tied, the ropework is lovely. It is in the eye of the beholder, but it also comes down to the skill and interest of the rigger.

In all things life is personal and your view is valid. But I do find the rope world opens up when people get away from the concept of Shibari as pictures. My idea of a great scene is not a lovely picture or video,but my partner blissed out totally relaxed on the floor.

There is a great performance video floating around on the internet called something like "Ichinawa Esinem and Ilka Noir" which is more true to Japanese rope bondage.

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I think many styles of rope play look amazing but I don't have the patience for it! I attend the local rope social as a quieter munch and haven't even considered going to the local classes. I admire people with the determination to learn the skill and enhance their play. Surprised by the folk who said FL involved hassle- it's much more of a community feel for me, I find Fab far worse for unwanted advances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve just started learning it, but I don’t feature it on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 03/05/23 15:20:43]My last comment for the day. I agree with you there is a bias of showing standard model figures naked in rope. That is why I don’t go on K&P on FL. In my book most unbiased riggers tie all shapes and genders. It is a frequent complaint from women riggers there are not enough pictures of men in rope.

I have a load of pictures and videos of curvy Japanese women tied and being tied, the ropework is lovely. It is in the eye of the beholder, but it also comes down to the skill and interest of the rigger.

In all things life is personal and your view is valid. But I do find the rope world opens up when people get away from the concept of Shibari as pictures. My idea of a great scene is not a lovely picture or video,but my partner blissed out totally relaxed on the floor.

There is a great performance video floating around on the internet called something like "Ichinawa Esinem and Ilka Noir" which is more true to Japanese rope bondage."

I do follow some riggers who tie Japanese women and curvier models and men! Got sick of seeing the same look. I usually prefer to see someone tying and interacting - that's what I'm drawn to - that energy between them. I avoid K&P too I have been looking for a partner where I live, but haven't found anyone I'd feel happy with as yet.

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By *ARKblondeCouple
over a year ago

london


"Are there many Shibari fans on here?

it’s something we really enjoy and like to photograph to share with others, not really come across many profiles where there’s a strong Shibari vibe though "

We like to fanny about with it occasionally

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"My rope work is more practical then pretty. It comes from martial arts and restraint training as opposed to Shibari artistry.

I know it’s each to their own kink but I just don’t get it - why spend literally hours making beautiful patterned rope work? Are you trying to attain some kind of sexual release by doing it or having it done? I would find it a lot more pleasurable watching a lady do her hair and make up and dress in lingerie. "

There are so many directions to go with rope.

I've shown some aesthetic pics on my profile because it looks nice, it would hopefully show that I spend a bit of time and effort learning the skills and I don't have a bunny round every night of the week, so I can practise on my mannequin whenever I'm in the mood.

For play, "free roping" is my preferred choice but this can't be portrayed well just with photos, or even on videos.

You have to watch a couple in a relantionship practise it to fully get the feeling of it

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By *issJo555Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

It's something I'm interested in but don't have a rigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love shibari, the art of it is amazing. I can't wait until we have the time and I can teach Mr as I'd like him to work the rope on me

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I enjoy it. However I only have experience self tying or practicing on a pillow

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By *annabarberaCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

Rope bunny in the making here

Miss P x

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"My rope work is more practical then pretty. It comes from martial arts and restraint training as opposed to Shibari artistry.

I know it’s each to their own kink but I just don’t get it - why spend literally hours making beautiful patterned rope work? Are you trying to attain some kind of sexual release by doing it or having it done? I would find it a lot more pleasurable watching a lady do her hair and make up and dress in lingerie.

There are so many directions to go with rope.

I've shown some aesthetic pics on my profile because it looks nice, it would hopefully show that I spend a bit of time and effort learning the skills and I don't have a bunny round every night of the week, so I can practise on my mannequin whenever I'm in the mood.

For play, "free roping" is my preferred choice but this can't be portrayed well just with photos, or even on videos.

You have to watch a couple in a relantionship practise it to fully get the feeling of it"

I must be missing something, it looks like MACRAME with no clothes. You could make a wicked looking plant pot holder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My rope work is more practical then pretty. It comes from martial arts and restraint training as opposed to Shibari artistry.

I know it’s each to their own kink but I just don’t get it - why spend literally hours making beautiful patterned rope work? Are you trying to attain some kind of sexual release by doing it or having it done? I would find it a lot more pleasurable watching a lady do her hair and make up and dress in lingerie.

There are so many directions to go with rope.

I've shown some aesthetic pics on my profile because it looks nice, it would hopefully show that I spend a bit of time and effort learning the skills and I don't have a bunny round every night of the week, so I can practise on my mannequin whenever I'm in the mood.

For play, "free roping" is my preferred choice but this can't be portrayed well just with photos, or even on videos.

You have to watch a couple in a relantionship practise it to fully get the feeling of it

I must be missing something, it looks like MACRAME with no clothes. You could make a wicked looking plant pot holder. "

Some people like macrame, so yes I think you're missing something

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"My rope work is more practical then pretty. It comes from martial arts and restraint training as opposed to Shibari artistry.

I know it’s each to their own kink but I just don’t get it - why spend literally hours making beautiful patterned rope work? Are you trying to attain some kind of sexual release by doing it or having it done? I would find it a lot more pleasurable watching a lady do her hair and make up and dress in lingerie.

There are so many directions to go with rope.

I've shown some aesthetic pics on my profile because it looks nice, it would hopefully show that I spend a bit of time and effort learning the skills and I don't have a bunny round every night of the week, so I can practise on my mannequin whenever I'm in the mood.

For play, "free roping" is my preferred choice but this can't be portrayed well just with photos, or even on videos.

You have to watch a couple in a relantionship practise it to fully get the feeling of it

I must be missing something, it looks like MACRAME with no clothes. You could make a wicked looking plant pot holder.

Some people like macrame, so yes I think you're missing something "

You should see how hot my potted crocuses look when they're bent over in an HwG Paris Marquise hip harness!

Phwoar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My rope work is more practical then pretty. It comes from martial arts and restraint training as opposed to Shibari artistry.

I know it’s each to their own kink but I just don’t get it - why spend literally hours making beautiful patterned rope work? Are you trying to attain some kind of sexual release by doing it or having it done? I would find it a lot more pleasurable watching a lady do her hair and make up and dress in lingerie.

There are so many directions to go with rope.

I've shown some aesthetic pics on my profile because it looks nice, it would hopefully show that I spend a bit of time and effort learning the skills and I don't have a bunny round every night of the week, so I can practise on my mannequin whenever I'm in the mood.

For play, "free roping" is my preferred choice but this can't be portrayed well just with photos, or even on videos.

You have to watch a couple in a relantionship practise it to fully get the feeling of it

I must be missing something, it looks like MACRAME with no clothes. You could make a wicked looking plant pot holder.

Some people like macrame, so yes I think you're missing something

You should see how hot my potted crocuses look when they're bent over in an HwG Paris Marquise hip harness!

Phwoar!"

I can only imagine how beautiful they look!

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"My rope work is more practical then pretty. It comes from martial arts and restraint training as opposed to Shibari artistry.

I know it’s each to their own kink but I just don’t get it - why spend literally hours making beautiful patterned rope work? Are you trying to attain some kind of sexual release by doing it or having it done? I would find it a lot more pleasurable watching a lady do her hair and make up and dress in lingerie.

There are so many directions to go with rope.

I've shown some aesthetic pics on my profile because it looks nice, it would hopefully show that I spend a bit of time and effort learning the skills and I don't have a bunny round every night of the week, so I can practise on my mannequin whenever I'm in the mood.

For play, "free roping" is my preferred choice but this can't be portrayed well just with photos, or even on videos.

You have to watch a couple in a relantionship practise it to fully get the feeling of it

I must be missing something, it looks like MACRAME with no clothes. You could make a wicked looking plant pot holder.

Some people like macrame, so yes I think you're missing something

You should see how hot my potted crocuses look when they're bent over in an HwG Paris Marquise hip harness!

Phwoar!"

Excellent!!! Thanks. Made me laugh.

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By *ornynottsbicplCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

We have been experimenting/learning with some rope play, really enjoying it.

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